I have always fantasized about being bisexual, I recently had sex with a gay man and now I'm not sure anymore!!! I didn't really enjoy it and now I'm wondering can I really ever again claim to be "Straight" after this encounter? I don't think I am gay, anyone got any ideas for me, thanks |
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"I have always fantasized about being bisexual, I recently had sex with a gay man and now I'm not sure anymore!!! I didn't really enjoy it and now I'm wondering can I really ever again claim to be "Straight" after this encounter? I don't think I am gay, anyone got any ideas for me, thanks"
according to the veri you gave to a gay man you seemed happy.. |
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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago
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"yea, I was curious and I tried it. I'm still confused though as to why I didn't really enjoy it. I am more attracted to women though. and I hope I wouldn't be curious about men again."
Maybe you would enjoy the bi element more with a couple? |
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I did make plans to meet a couple. she was bi but apparently he doesn't join in,but I never went ahead with it. Not sure if its just sex with her I wanted or did I really want him as well. very confusing to b honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A great thread and such honesty and sincereity, a rare thing on here,Im guessing but If you were in a set up of regular sex with a woman that you liked and she was a filthy fucker in bed. Id say (a) you wouldn't be on fabs and (b)you probably wouldn't have bicurious thoughts at all .Its well known that sex starved people of both genders get such urges.But then again look at all the happily married couples on here that love the lifestyle .Next time youre in a sexual relationship with a woman ( a good one ) revisit youre thoughts , especially in bed, I think you might find the answer there, some morning as you lie on in bed, and she gets up first and goes to put on her clothes. best of luck old bean what ever way the ball hops. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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From your veri it seems you enjoyed yourself, however it may be that guilt sets in, like you enjoyed it but because it was a man...
Don't label yourself...
Move on...
See how you feel after your next encounter and don't dwell on it chin up don't dribble a drop....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just give yourself more time and don't get stuck up with terminology. 
Don't get hung up on labels, if you wanna try something try it "
Couldn't agree more |
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By (user no longer on site)
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..."best of luck old bean".....
..."don't dribble a drop".
It's refreshing to see thought, intelligence, empathy and humour in posts. Can be a scarce rarity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"yea, I was curious and I tried it. I'm still confused though as to why I didn't really enjoy it. I am more attracted to women though. and I hope I wouldn't be curious about men again."
Just because you did not enjoy this encounter, does not automaticaly rule out the fact that you are bisexual.
Many meets are not enjoyable for any number of reasons...
Just relax, do not stress over Am I or Am I Not...
If in the future you did feel you wanted to meet a guy again, so be it, unless you are in a relationship with a woman there should not be a problem.
However, if you are with someone, do open up to her, better to be honest than sorry later |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think there's another thread here about guys opening up to women. But seems there's a huge shortage of ladies into peggin!  "
What has using a sex toy got to do with opening up???
Aside from the obvious
Is it a seperate post?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have always fantasized about being bisexual, I recently had sex with a gay man and now I'm not sure anymore!!! I didn't really enjoy it and now I'm wondering can I really ever again claim to be "Straight" after this encounter? I don't think I am gay, anyone got any ideas for me, thanks"
I'd say a lot of people have these thoughts and urges but don't have the balls to folow through on it. So kudos to you on that.
One bi encounter doesn't make you bi. Sexuality is a variable scale and this is just another point you are at right now. No need to identify as ANYTHING and it's no-one else's business but yours regarding what you do and who with.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You might want to alter your opening sentence in your profile? The one in bold letters."
LOL God I didn't see that before I posted !! Guess he is bi, so !! |
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"I have always fantasized about being bisexual, I recently had sex with a gay man and now I'm not sure anymore!!! I didn't really enjoy it and now I'm wondering can I really ever again claim to be "Straight" after this encounter? I don't think I am gay, anyone got any ideas for me, thanks"
...and with 3 meet veris!! (or meat veris?? )  |
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