So you chat to someone for a few weeks. They give you lots of information about themselves, send you pics. You arrange to meet. They message you on the day to say they can't wait, even just a few hours before you're due to meet.
You get ready, drive to where you're supposed to meet. No sign. Try them on kik, 'you here yet?' No answer. Check out their FAB profile...
This profile is not available for you to view.
At best she's got cold feet, the decent thing would be to tell who you're due to meet that to save them a trip.
At worst, I'm the dick for falling for a fake or time waster.
I suppose the new people finding it hard on the site should take heart from the fact that even pretty experienced people get caught out. |
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"Dude, seriously??
There's nothing on her profile, what made you take a chance?  "
I'm confused. He only said he was blocked when he went to check it that time. I'm assuming he'd already checked the profile and he never mentioned the profile was empty.
Or did something go over my head?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So you chat to someone for a few weeks. They give you lots of information about themselves, send you pics. You arrange to meet. They message you on the day to say they can't wait, even just a few hours before you're due to meet.
You get ready, drive to where you're supposed to meet. No sign. Try them on kik, 'you here yet?' No answer. Check out their FAB profile...
This profile is not available for you to view.
At best she's got cold feet, the decent thing would be to tell who you're due to meet that to save them a trip.
At worst, I'm the dick for falling for a fake or time waster.
I suppose the new people finding it hard on the site should take heart from the fact that even pretty experienced people get caught out. "
That's out of order..... Better off with out her... She will come a cropper |
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"Dude, seriously??
There's nothing on her profile, what made you take a chance?
I'm confused. He only said he was blocked when he went to check it that time. I'm assuming he'd already checked the profile and he never mentioned the profile was empty.
Or did something go over my head? "
I thought the same  |
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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago
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"Dude, seriously??
There's nothing on her profile, what made you take a chance?
I'm confused. He only said he was blocked when he went to check it that time. I'm assuming he'd already checked the profile and he never mentioned the profile was empty.
Or did something go over my head? "
She is named in his status |
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It happens. Some of my best meets were with people who have very little on their profiles.  and I've been stood up by people who had full profiles and empty profiles. |
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"Dude, seriously??
There's nothing on her profile, what made you take a chance?
I'm confused. He only said he was blocked when he went to check it that time. I'm assuming he'd already checked the profile and he never mentioned the profile was empty.
Or did something go over my head?
She is named in his status"
I see that now. Yep. That's a profile that goes in my "nope" pile. There's nothing there at all. |
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You know the expression too good to be true.
Well this profile reminds me of the lesser famous one........
'Too shitty a profile to even comprehend wasting my time with'
Lol
Come on single men. Were better than this hahaha |
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"You know the expression too good to be true.
Well this profile reminds me of the lesser famous one........
'Too shitty a profile to even comprehend wasting my time with'
Lol
Come on single men. Were better than this hahaha "
And there's another expression,
'If you put your hand out to get slapped......'  |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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Tony, if you weren't an experienced swinger, I'd say typical beginners mistake, but in this case I'd say you were pushing your luck. Anyway it's not nice to be let down but surely you're not the type who gets dragged down by it! |
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"You know the expression too good to be true.
Well this profile reminds me of the lesser famous one........
'Too shitty a profile to even comprehend wasting my time with'
Lol
Come on single men. Were better than this hahaha
And there's another expression,
'If you put your hand out to get slapped......' "
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"Dude, seriously??
There's nothing on her profile, what made you take a chance?
I'm confused. He only said he was blocked when he went to check it that time. I'm assuming he'd already checked the profile and he never mentioned the profile was empty.
Or did something go over my head?
I thought the same "
Me to |
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I chatted a lot to this lady on kik for over a month. She had sent face pics, I know what she works at, roughly where she lives, family etc etc. If it was fake then someone went to not inconsiderable lengths to mess me about. If the face pics and information sent are real but being used by someone else I'm fairly sure that's illegal under the new UK 'revenge porn' laws.
If she was real and just lost her nerve then fair enough. It doesn't take much to say so.
My general point in posting was in response to the threads where people, especially new profiles, express how hard they find it on the site with fakes and time wasters. Being messed about can happen to anyone, long term swinger or absolute beginner.
Given a good lot of the responses I can see how foolish I've been in trying to at least see some good in everyone and giving someone new a chance. I promise to be a lot more cynical in future.
Anyway, best be off to arrange something for this weekend. Meet verified only need apply.  |
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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago
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"I chatted a lot to this lady on kik for over a month. She had sent face pics, I know what she works at, roughly where she lives, family etc etc. If it was fake then someone went to not inconsiderable lengths to mess me about. If the face pics and information sent are real but being used by someone else I'm fairly sure that's illegal under the new UK 'revenge porn' laws.
If she was real and just lost her nerve then fair enough. It doesn't take much to say so.
My general point in posting was in response to the threads where people, especially new profiles, express how hard they find it on the site with fakes and time wasters. Being messed about can happen to anyone, long term swinger or absolute beginner.
Given a good lot of the responses I can see how foolish I've been in trying to at least see some good in everyone and giving someone new a chance. I promise to be a lot more cynical in future.
Anyway, best be off to arrange something for this weekend. Meet verified only need apply. "
Got stung myself a few weeks ago trying to give an unverified guy a chance. Will never meet a non meet verified guy again. (Not saying the verified guys are 100% reliable but a little less risk involved) |
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"I chatted a lot to this lady on kik for over a month. She had sent face pics, I know what she works at, roughly where she lives, family etc etc. If it was fake then someone went to not inconsiderable lengths to mess me about. If the face pics and information sent are real but being used by someone else I'm fairly sure that's illegal under the new UK 'revenge porn' laws.
If she was real and just lost her nerve then fair enough. It doesn't take much to say so.
My general point in posting was in response to the threads where people, especially new profiles, express how hard they find it on the site with fakes and time wasters. Being messed about can happen to anyone, long term swinger or absolute beginner.
Given a good lot of the responses I can see how foolish I've been in trying to at least see some good in everyone and giving someone new a chance. I promise to be a lot more cynical in future.
Anyway, best be off to arrange something for this weekend. Meet verified only need apply. "
Was she married or in a relationship?
Perhaps the other half found out she was here and she she could not meet or contact you.. |
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I have flicked through a few responses. To the OP, it's a shit one. Being stood up is never nice. Personally I think it is very rude and inconsiderate. My only advice is to just forget about it. Put this one down to experience. I have a few rules that I adhere to on fab. Maybe it would benefit you to employ some too. Having looked at the profile of the fabette in question. It's one that I would steer clear of.
Enjoy your future meets, wish the fabette well and move on.  |
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The same thing happened with us two week's ago . We had been chatting for quite a while no here and kik and then swapped numbers and chatting on whatsapp. Its really bad manners to mess people around like that . We do have a life and family off fab so had to arrange a sitter the week before and book a hotel. We where still getting texts up untill about an hour before the meet . Then nothing and the messages we sent had been read . Then we get a message on the way be there in 30min this was three hours after when we where to meet . Needless to say she never arrived. So we made the most of the night and had fun just the two of us |
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"I chatted a lot to this lady on kik for over a month. She had sent face pics, I know what she works at, roughly where she lives, family etc etc. If it was fake then someone went to not inconsiderable lengths to mess me about. If the face pics and information sent are real but being used by someone else I'm fairly sure that's illegal under the new UK 'revenge porn' laws.
If she was real and just lost her nerve then fair enough. It doesn't take much to say so.
My general point in posting was in response to the threads where people, especially new profiles, express how hard they find it on the site with fakes and time wasters. Being messed about can happen to anyone, long term swinger or absolute beginner.
Given a good lot of the responses I can see how foolish I've been in trying to at least see some good in everyone and giving someone new a chance. I promise to be a lot more cynical in future.
Anyway, best be off to arrange something for this weekend. Meet verified only need apply. "
Did ya chat on the phone or on cam? |
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