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Fab has ruined my friends for me.
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I was sitting a few nights ago with a group of my non- Fab friends. We were playing Cards Against Humanity, and I found my self thinking this conversation is not anywhere near kinky or dirty enough, I bet my fab friends would have done better.
I find this happening in so many situations.
I fuck my friends, or have in the past , and now think, I wish they could do better. Its ruining my friends for me. I want the sexy kinky fabness mixed in with the fun and inside jokes and nights of drinking too much vodka and having a laugh, then have amazing sex. I have two streams of friends in my life now.
I feel bad now.  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"I was sitting a few nights ago with a group of my non- Fab friends. We were playing Cards Against Humanity, and I found my self thinking this conversation is not anywhere near kinky or dirty enough, I bet my fab friends would have done better.
I find this happening in so many situations.
I fuck my friends, or have in the past , and now think, I wish they could do better. Its ruining my friends for me. I want the sexy kinky fabness mixed in with the fun and inside jokes and nights of drinking too much vodka and having a laugh, then have amazing sex. I have two streams of friends in my life now.
I feel bad now.
Get ur friends on here and we will corrupt them for u "
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over a year ago
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I have 2 circles of friends. Those who know what I get up to here and those who don't.. Guess which one I spend more time with? I feel with the ones who know I can completely be myself. The others I have to constantly bite my tongue..  |
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"I have 2 circles of friends. Those who know what I get up to here and those who don't.. Guess which one I spend more time with? I feel with the ones who know I can completely be myself. The others I have to constantly bite my tongue.. "
Yes it looks like that is where I am headed.
At least this weekend 4 of us that are on here are getting together for a night out. That should be better. BUT my poor old vanilla friends  |
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When I was living in Ireland it was the same. I hardly ever saw my vanilla friends as I spent almost all of my free time going to meets socials or parties. A couple of my vanilla friends knew (the most open minded of them) but fab was my social life for almost a year.
You just have to find a balance.
Cards against humanity though. I'm no holds barred playing that! |
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"When I was living in Ireland it was the same. I hardly ever saw my vanilla friends as I spent almost all of my free time going to meets socials or parties. A couple of my vanilla friends knew (the most open minded of them) but fab was my social life for almost a year.
You just have to find a balance.
Cards against humanity though. I'm no holds barred playing that!"
John when you are back in Ireland, we shall have a game then  |
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"op, the question you should ask yourself, if you ever need a true friend, who would you turn to."
yeh.. if I did ... definitely the guys Im talking about. I dont want to get rid of them, I still spend time with them and enjoy them in my life. I just think that sometime  |
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"When we're sitting with friends in the pub now we kind of looking at each other thinking this is sooooo boring! Lol"
Yeh and dont even get me started about my dating life.... same thing different story. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have 2 circles of friends. Those who know what I get up to here and those who don't.. Guess which one I spend more time with? I feel with the ones who know I can completely be myself. The others I have to constantly bite my tongue..
Yes it looks like that is where I am headed.
At least this weekend 4 of us that are on here are getting together for a night out. That should be better. BUT my poor old vanilla friends "
I suppose ya just have to make time for them and try keep yourself under control.. When I'm out with friends who know I can chat up guys, maybe find a hot one to have some fun with.. When with the others I can't do anything and it's so frustrating and not to mention difficult to control myself especially after a few  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was sitting a few nights ago with a group of my non- Fab friends. We were playing Cards Against Humanity, and I found my self thinking this conversation is not anywhere near kinky or dirty enough, I bet my fab friends would have done better.
I find this happening in so many situations.
I fuck my friends, or have in the past , and now think, I wish they could do better. Its ruining my friends for me. I want the sexy kinky fabness mixed in with the fun and inside jokes and nights of drinking too much vodka and having a laugh, then have amazing sex. I have two streams of friends in my life now.
I feel bad now. "
Twice in your post you refer to your fab "friends" as being 'better'.
I'd suggest you leave them be and let them be with friends who don't rank them second best.
To me, you don't come across as a very good friend. I'd be disgusted if I thought someone I counted as a friend thought so little of me.
I'll be probably be slated for saying that but just what I think about it |
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By *squaredCouple
over a year ago
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We have played that card game with fab/non-fab people and it really does depend on the mood of the group & you just normally need 1 person to kick it off being bold.
In Galway NYE party we brought and had several games some were quiet & fun others were noisy loud, brash, split your side open, it really depends on groups mood & venue on the day.
I talk as open with friends/family as I do with fabbers so I don't see much of a difference except for birthday parties in the venue versus any other location which just don't match up, even just downstairs venue beats regular birthday parties hands down.
Joandwex ye guys are stars P.S. my 30th is coming up HINT HINT |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love going out with my vanilla friends.
No-one knows I do this swing thing but know I have a filthy mind so we still have good craic.
Besides, it does take my mind off this crazy site which is inclined to take over your life sometimes. |
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"I was sitting a few nights ago with a group of my non- Fab friends. We were playing Cards Against Humanity, and I found my self thinking this conversation is not anywhere near kinky or dirty enough, I bet my fab friends would have done better.
I find this happening in so many situations.
Better as in .. I think the game would be better. Not that my friends are better.
CAH is a game of wit that is meant to be dirty... I think fab friends would be dirtier.
And ruining my friends for me.. meaning I have two compartments in my life and wish I could combine them.
Dont judge me , just re-read what I wrote.
I fuck my friends, or have in the past , and now think, I wish they could do better. Its ruining my friends for me. I want the sexy kinky fabness mixed in with the fun and inside jokes and nights of drinking too much vodka and having a laugh, then have amazing sex. I have two streams of friends in my life now.
I feel bad now.
Twice in your post you refer to your fab "friends" as being 'better'.
I'd suggest you leave them be and let them be with friends who don't rank them second best.
To me, you don't come across as a very good friend. I'd be disgusted if I thought someone I counted as a friend thought so little of me.
I'll be probably be slated for saying that but just what I think about it"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoy having 2 personas, my fab one and my non fab and value and enjoy the time I have with both, and when I spend time with them, they get my full attention. My non fab friends get me, my fab friends get lilredriding hood  |
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"I was sitting a few nights ago with a group of my non- Fab friends. We were playing Cards Against Humanity, and I found my self thinking this conversation is not anywhere near kinky or dirty enough, I bet my fab friends would have done better.
I find this happening in so many situations.
Better as in .. I think the game would be better. Not that my friends are better.
CAH is a game of wit that is meant to be dirty... I think fab friends would be dirtier.
And ruining my friends for me.. meaning I have two compartments in my life and wish I could combine them.
Dont judge me , just re-read what I wrote.
I fuck my friends, or have in the past , and now think, I wish they could do better. Its ruining my friends for me. I want the sexy kinky fabness mixed in with the fun and inside jokes and nights of drinking too much vodka and having a laugh, then have amazing sex. I have two streams of friends in my life now.
I feel bad now.
Twice in your post you refer to your fab "friends" as being 'better'.
I'd suggest you leave them be and let them be with friends who don't rank them second best.
To me, you don't come across as a very good friend. I'd be disgusted if I thought someone I counted as a friend thought so little of me.
I'll be probably be slated for saying that but just what I think about it"
Sorry my earlier post had my comments in the middle. Not sure how to delete it.
Better as in .. I think the game would be better. Not that my friends are better.
CAH is a game of wit that is meant to be dirty... I think fab friends would be dirtier.
And ruining my friends for me.. meaning I have two compartments in my life and wish I could combine them.
Dont judge me , just re-read what I wrote.
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