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Bi-Women = Fakers?!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi Folks,
We joined the site recently and have had 2 meets with very nice people. But that was after talking with what seemed to be dozens of bi-fems (some genuine ones do exist) on here and via kik.
To our suprise, so many appeared to be liers and fake profiles! And even a no show. Is this a regular theme on the site? We're starting to learn a few tips as to spot them. But can anyone else give us feedback on sieveing them out at a faster rate?
Thanks in advance  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi Folks,
We joined the site recently and have had 2 meets with very nice people. But that was after talking with what seemed to be dozens of bi-fems (some genuine ones do exist) on here and via kik.
To our suprise, so many appeared to be liers and fake profiles! And even a no show. Is this a regular theme on the site? We're starting to learn a few tips as to spot them. But can anyone else give us feedback on sieveing them out at a faster rate?
Thanks in advance "
Verifications. Are they verified by well known profiles ie party planners, m&g social organisers etc. Follow the verification trail for them. Personally don't think much of photo verification but that's just us. Go with your gut as well. Are they too good to be true.
Not fool proof but its a good start |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Apologies if this has been covered or if I'm thinking too much into it! But is it just me or is there dozens of profiles with the same intro and profile text etc;
"I'm a __ year old woman (I imagine there's male profiles too) and I'm looking to meet men/women/couples"
They're all verified too. Usually on the day they've signed up. Am I imagining it or is that just the standard profile these days? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Seems there are a few very pretty fake new females in Galway at mo. Just sayin.....
Oh. And Ash! Two years. ...wowser. You def qualify for the Wise Elder Badge!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Apologies if this has been covered or if I'm thinking too much into it! But is it just me or is there dozens of profiles with the same intro and profile text etc;
"I'm a __ year old woman (I imagine there's male profiles too) and I'm looking to meet men/women/couples"
They're all verified too. Usually on the day they've signed up. Am I imagining it or is that just the standard profile these days?"
The profile text your talking about is the auto complete that the site gives you the option of doing when you sign up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Apologies if this has been covered or if I'm thinking too much into it! But is it just me or is there dozens of profiles with the same intro and profile text etc;
"I'm a __ year old woman (I imagine there's male profiles too) and I'm looking to meet men/women/couples"
They're all verified too. Usually on the day they've signed up. Am I imagining it or is that just the standard profile these days?
The profile text your talking about is the auto complete that the site gives you the option of doing when you sign up "
Ah right, never saw that. Maybe it's just me but seeing multiple profiles all the same rings alarm bells. |
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I know there's lots of fakes but u get that on every site even pay sites . There's lots of bi fems that r real n up for lots of fun . I know ladies r usually afraid to meet couples on their own . Maybe ask them to meet lady to lady on ur own n then they might join d couple . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi Folks,
We joined the site recently and have had 2 meets with very nice people. But that was after talking with what seemed to be dozens of bi-fems (some genuine ones do exist) on here and via kik.
To our suprise, so many appeared to be liers and fake profiles! And even a no show. Is this a regular theme on the site? We're starting to learn a few tips as to spot them. But can anyone else give us feedback on sieveing them out at a faster rate?
Thanks in advance
Verifications. Are they verified by well known profiles ie party planners, m&g social organisers etc. Follow the verification trail for them. Personally don't think much of photo verification but that's just us. Go with your gut as well. Are they too good to be true.
Not fool proof but its a good start "
So.unless a bi female has her verifications on her profile, is in with the in crowd and drags her butt to parties she can not be trusted to be real??
Funny, the number of times I have turned up to meet a so called bi wife of a couple and met with a jibbering wreck would astound you...
Verifications on this site or anyother for that matter mean feck all very often.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yeah the phone call works, like said above, once you say anything about a phone call these assholes usually disappear. That's where the private notes come in handy because twice we had the same people message us asking about a meeting. Once we see on our notes that the pissed of before we don't even bother writing back. Plus we find a lot of these fake profiles text on weekends, likely a few beers in them and just want something to wank to |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi Folks,
We joined the site recently and have had 2 meets with very nice people. But that was after talking with what seemed to be dozens of bi-fems (some genuine ones do exist) on here and via kik.
To our suprise, so many appeared to be liers and fake profiles! And even a no show. Is this a regular theme on the site? We're starting to learn a few tips as to spot them. But can anyone else give us feedback on sieveing them out at a faster rate?
Thanks in advance
Verifications. Are they verified by well known profiles ie party planners, m&g social organisers etc. Follow the verification trail for them. Personally don't think much of photo verification but that's just us. Go with your gut as well. Are they too good to be true.
Not fool proof but its a good start
So.unless a bi female has her verifications on her profile, is in with the in crowd and drags her butt to parties she can not be trusted to be real??
Funny, the number of times I have turned up to meet a so called bi wife of a couple and met with a jibbering wreck would astound you...
Verifications on this site or anyother for that matter mean feck all very often.."
As I said its not fool proof but has worked for us. As your not displaying comment doesn't mean that the other person hasn't displayed it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have just one verification on my profile as this is a new profile was on here before but took a break had a few varies on last profile was at a meet and greet held by lollipop and laid and had meets with girls and couples am I a fake |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have just one verification on my profile as this is a new profile was on here before but took a break had a few varies on last profile was at a meet and greet held by lollipop and laid and had meets with girls and couples am I a fake "
Probably not....
But can I ask how can you have a 7month old veri and only have a 6 month old profile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi Folks,
We joined the site recently and have had 2 meets with very nice people. But that was after talking with what seemed to be dozens of bi-fems (some genuine ones do exist) on here and via kik.
To our suprise, so many appeared to be liers and fake profiles! And even a no show. Is this a regular theme on the site? We're starting to learn a few tips as to spot them. But can anyone else give us feedback on sieveing them out at a faster rate?
Thanks in advance
Verifications. Are they verified by well known profiles ie party planners, m&g social organisers etc. Follow the verification trail for them. Personally don't think much of photo verification but that's just us. Go with your gut as well. Are they too good to be true.
Not fool proof but its a good start
So.unless a bi female has her verifications on her profile, is in with the in crowd and drags her butt to parties she can not be trusted to be real??
Funny, the number of times I have turned up to meet a so called bi wife of a couple and met with a jibbering wreck would astound you...
Verifications on this site or anyother for that matter mean feck all very often..
As I said its not fool proof but has worked for us. As your not displaying comment doesn't mean that the other person hasn't displayed it "
Glad I saw that you had deleted original commennt which I was about to reply to, instead choosing the saracastic route...
Will spend my time explaining my reasoning to the OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah was a little harsh to be honest so got deleted. As I said our way isn't fool proof but does work for us. "
Yes and I appreciate that in your experience this works
However, as a bifemale I use the trusted method of telephone, camming and a coffee or drinks meet before any play..
It cuts out the time wasters, guys only interested in watching two women play, knowing their partner is not comfortable and fakes.
Behind the scenes of parties and social events, bi women are playing with women, couples and males, no need for validation by other verifieds ect..
I am due to meet a couple shortly, they told me that they were put off actualy meeting bi woman from.here because of her bragging in forums ect...
Some people like to play discretly.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi Folks,
We joined the site recently and have had 2 meets with very nice people. But that was after talking with what seemed to be dozens of bi-fems (some genuine ones do exist) on here and via kik.
To our suprise, so many appeared to be liers and fake profiles! And even a no show. Is this a regular theme on the site? We're starting to learn a few tips as to spot them. But can anyone else give us feedback on sieveing them out at a faster rate?
Thanks in advance
Verifications. Are they verified by well known profiles ie party planners, m&g social organisers etc. Follow the verification trail for them. Personally don't think much of photo verification but that's just us. Go with your gut as well. Are they too good to be true.
Not fool proof but its a good start
So.unless a bi female has her verifications on her profile, is in with the in crowd and drags her butt to parties she can not be trusted to be real??
Funny, the number of times I have turned up to meet a so called bi wife of a couple and met with a jibbering wreck would astound you...
Verifications on this site or anyother for that matter mean feck all very often.."
What do u mean by jibbering wreck!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi Folks,
We joined the site recently and have had 2 meets with very nice people. But that was after talking with what seemed to be dozens of bi-fems (some genuine ones do exist) on here and via kik.
To our suprise, so many appeared to be liers and fake profiles! And even a no show. Is this a regular theme on the site? We're starting to learn a few tips as to spot them. But can anyone else give us feedback on sieveing them out at a faster rate?
Thanks in advance
Verifications. Are they verified by well known profiles ie party planners, m&g social organisers etc. Follow the verification trail for them. Personally don't think much of photo verification but that's just us. Go with your gut as well. Are they too good to be true.
Not fool proof but its a good start
So.unless a bi female has her verifications on her profile, is in with the in crowd and drags her butt to parties she can not be trusted to be real??
Funny, the number of times I have turned up to meet a so called bi wife of a couple and met with a jibbering wreck would astound you...
Verifications on this site or anyother for that matter mean feck all very often..
What do u mean by jibbering wreck!!!! "
The poor women were scared witless at the idea of playing with other women!!
The hubby`s set the meets up, told me that they were fully experienced with other bi sexual women..
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah was a little harsh to be honest so got deleted. As I said our way isn't fool proof but does work for us.
Yes and I appreciate that in your experience this works
However, as a bifemale I use the trusted method of telephone, camming and a coffee or drinks meet before any play..
It cuts out the time wasters, guys only interested in watching two women play, knowing their partner is not comfortable and fakes.
Behind the scenes of parties and social events, bi women are playing with women, couples and males, no need for validation by other verifieds ect..
I am due to meet a couple shortly, they told me that they were put off actualy meeting bi woman from.here because of her bragging in forums ect...
Some people like to play discretly.."
That's nice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi Folks,
We joined the site recently and have had 2 meets with very nice people. But that was after talking with what seemed to be dozens of bi-fems (some genuine ones do exist) on here and via kik.
To our suprise, so many appeared to be liers and fake profiles! And even a no show. Is this a regular theme on the site? We're starting to learn a few tips as to spot them. But can anyone else give us feedback on sieveing them out at a faster rate?
Thanks in advance
Verifications. Are they verified by well known profiles ie party planners, m&g social organisers etc. Follow the verification trail for them. Personally don't think much of photo verification but that's just us. Go with your gut as well. Are they too good to be true.
Not fool proof but its a good start
So.unless a bi female has her verifications on her profile, is in with the in crowd and drags her butt to parties she can not be trusted to be real??
Funny, the number of times I have turned up to meet a so called bi wife of a couple and met with a jibbering wreck would astound you...
Verifications on this site or anyother for that matter mean feck all very often..
What do u mean by jibbering wreck!!!!
The poor women were scared witless at the idea of playing with other women!!
The hubby`s set the meets up, told me that they were fully experienced with other bi sexual women..
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I believe there are alot of violent males on this site  coercing women into threesomes and swinging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah was a little harsh to be honest so got deleted. As I said our way isn't fool proof but does work for us.
Yes and I appreciate that in your experience this works
However, as a bifemale I use the trusted method of telephone, camming and a coffee or drinks meet before any play..
It cuts out the time wasters, guys only interested in watching two women play, knowing their partner is not comfortable and fakes.
Behind the scenes of parties and social events, bi women are playing with women, couples and males, no need for validation by other verifieds ect..
I am due to meet a couple shortly, they told me that they were put off actualy meeting bi woman from.here because of her bragging in forums ect...
Some people like to play discretly.."
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By (user no longer on site)
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I am a bi female and for me if I meeting a couple, it needs to be because lady wants ffm. More often it is the guy wanting it, and that's fine as long as lady is wanting a bi experience. If lady hasn't been with lady before, I suggest a one to one meet with lady as why would u want ur first experience of bi fun be with a guy present. That normally ends the chat. I need to know lady is comfortable and a willing participant. Cos I not a performing monkey. Saying that all my ffms have been awesome, cos i insist on communicating with lady...good luck op...there are genuine bi females just find a strategy that works for u  |
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yes 100 percent agree wit lady abovethe fone chat is the deal breaker.in last 2 weeks,we have suggested a chat on fone,so far,we got herself is at work.i wont b seeing herself till weekend,herself has flu and in bed,herself will b back tmrw,and also the cat had kittens,herself is attending |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As a bi women on here I do not like having a chat on the phone as I can be very shy and don't like giving out my number. I much prefer to have a coffee meet first. Does this make me fake |
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"As a bi women on here I do not like having a chat on the phone as I can be very shy and don't like giving out my number. I much prefer to have a coffee meet first. Does this make me fake "
if ur very shy wudnt it b easier as a shy person to chat on fone then chat face face over coffee?as for the number part u can ring on private?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"if ur very shy wudnt it b easier as a shy person to chat on fone then chat face face over coffee?as for the number part u can ring on private?"
I find it easier to chat face to face than on the phone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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That's a fair point but I'm just saying for myself. I know that there is a lot of fakes here and I don't want to be counted as a fake because I won't speak on the phone |
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"That's a fair point but I'm just saying for myself. I know that there is a lot of fakes here and I don't want to be counted as a fake because I won't speak on the phone "
no but in ur defence u do offer a face to face meet.dats better .we cant even get a hello voice msg off people |
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As said previously follow the verifications.
Chatting to what seemed like a 'real' bi-fem, followed verifications and found a loop leading back to original... Also reverse image search is very useful to out same. |
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