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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you can only be blackmailed if you are doing something wrong. so most of us are ok its only those cheating that have to worry. "
Ehmm..good lad an all laid...but kinda disgusted with this comment, very judgemental..i was married when I started on here...but dont think anyone would want their fab antics made public, be they 'doing nothing wrong', or not.perhaps they coach underage football teams and wouldnt want the stigma, perhaps they are professional and it wouldn't sit well with a professional body, perhaps they work in a position of public notoriety...i actually cant think of anyone actually that would be happy for all their postings and fab shenanigans to go public...
Agree with the op..be careful folks.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Don't have to be cheating to be blackmailed. Happened to someone I know who got chatted up on Facebook. Things moved to Skype and suddenly there's a recording uploaded on Facebook with a suggestion that the person was behaving inappropriately in front of a young child. Nasty stuff.
At the very least, remove the ability for any random person to tag you on Facebook and also remove the ability for just anyone to write on your wall. Better to be safe than sorry  |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
by a lake with my rod out |
"you can only be blackmailed if you are doing something wrong. so most of us are ok its only those cheating that have to worry.
Ehmm..good lad an all laid...but kinda disgusted with this comment, very judgemental..i was married when I started on here...but dont think anyone would want their fab antics made public, be they 'doing nothing wrong', or not.perhaps they coach underage football teams and wouldnt want the stigma, perhaps they are professional and it wouldn't sit well with a professional body, perhaps they work in a position of public notoriety...i actually cant think of anyone actually that would be happy for all their postings and fab shenanigans to go public...
Agree with the op..be careful folks.."
firstly everyone's judgemental. If picked up a woman in a bar and she recorded it how could she blackmail me with a sex tape? im part of a few professional bodies and I run a football club but its only sex. I doubt it would be front page news. and I stand by what I said |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"you can only be blackmailed if you are doing something wrong. so most of us are ok its only those cheating that have to worry.
Ehmm..good lad an all laid...but kinda disgusted with this comment, very judgemental..i was married when I started on here...but dont think anyone would want their fab antics made public, be they 'doing nothing wrong', or not.perhaps they coach underage football teams and wouldnt want the stigma, perhaps they are professional and it wouldn't sit well with a professional body, perhaps they work in a position of public notoriety...i actually cant think of anyone actually that would be happy for all their postings and fab shenanigans to go public...
Agree with the op..be careful folks..
firstly everyone's judgemental. If picked up a woman in a bar and she recorded it how could she blackmail me with a sex tape? im part of a few professional bodies and I run a football club but its only sex. I doubt it would be front page news. and I stand by what I said "
You can stand by what you said but you're so so far wrong it's hard to believe how you do and not see how wrong you are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Laid is right for been single on here . All my family friends know im a swinger believe it or not most think its far safer then 1 ngt stands . As laid said its sex so what most ppl pick up strangers in bars every wkend
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By *ncognito4nowWoman
over a year ago
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"you can only be blackmailed if you are doing something wrong. so most of us are ok its only those cheating that have to worry.
Ehmm..good lad an all laid...but kinda disgusted with this comment, very judgemental..i was married when I started on here...but dont think anyone would want their fab antics made public, be they 'doing nothing wrong', or not.perhaps they coach underage football teams and wouldnt want the stigma, perhaps they are professional and it wouldn't sit well with a professional body, perhaps they work in a position of public notoriety...i actually cant think of anyone actually that would be happy for all their postings and fab shenanigans to go public...
Agree with the op..be careful folks.."
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Keep your details safe, never give facebook, phone or any accounts where they can access personal details, friends lists etc etc
Lock down your FB accounts etc so everything is private between you and friends only.
If they cannot identify you or anyone to blackmail you against or share your images then you should be safe. But people willing to cam with others etc is where the danger lies
Having been a victim a few years ago when I got complacent and gave a regular email address for a MSN Messenger chat, I dropped my guard and got snared by Romanian scammers.
Chat seemed quite normal, girl claiming to be called Emma from Leeds
Good lookin woman on other end of cam so you think all is good, we all know how things can progress there...few minutes later she says, here, take a look at this. Uploaded to various fileshare sites, you tube etc etc is a video of me in all my glory so to speak.. Next they're showing screenshots of all my friends on facebook with them sending those weblinks of the video to each and every used, demanding money for them to stop. As the news reports say to be paid via Western Union. And tagged along with those videos are words no man ( or woman ) ever want to be associated with.
So whilst you are not and have done no wrong....these scammers will twist it and really could fuck up someones life and reputation.
It's all very well the police saying things can be done, the videos can be removed. They can upload and share them far far faster than they'll ever be removed.
In my case they were shared literally within 2-3 minutes.
There was a Horizon or some documentary a few weeks ago that highlighted a problem were some Arabs had been targeting children/young teenagers with a very similar scam, and this caused a few to take their own lives. The perpetrators didnt even seem to be wanting money, they just enjoyed the torture.
There are some very sick and devious people out there, be safe. If you're going to cam or swap photos...find a way to do it anonymously. Dont use a personal email that in any way links to your normal life, dont wear clothing visible in any photos that may me traceable to work etc
In some ways I was lucky, it cost me a few hundred quid and it did go away. Some people on my friends list did receive the messages but luckily the video had been removed by that stage but one person did query what it was about. And it was a work colleague.
Closing the account after they already have your details, at least in my case made no difference as they already had my friends list saved, that's all they needed, a way to share the video.
A slightly more humorous take on cyber security/internet privacy to lighten the mood, Troy's Cyber Hijack.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d5agwL6RBXU |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"you can only be blackmailed if you are doing something wrong. so most of us are ok its only those cheating that have to worry. "
Please tell me what this poor young boy did "wrong" then??
http://www.irishtimes.com/news/crime-and-law/ni-teen-who-took-his-life-being-blackmailed-parents-say-1.2251295 |
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