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So how much do u share pre-meet
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Maybe this is just me, and I am odd, which I am rather odd to be honest.
So started convo with lady. Share face pics. Mutual attraction shared. So I say lets meet for coffee, and i get response, 'Tell me a bit about yourself first' to which I answered 'What do u want to know?' And I get 'Anything you want to tell me'...really confused as to what info is needed..is it just me that doesn't want to give away more than I have to, at the pre-meet stage?  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Maybe this is just me, and I am odd, which I am rather odd to be honest.
So started convo with lady. Share face pics. Mutual attraction shared. So I say lets meet for coffee, and i get response, 'Tell me a bit about yourself first' to which I answered 'What do u want to know?' And I get 'Anything you want to tell me'...really confused as to what info is needed..is it just me that doesn't want to give away more than I have to, at the pre-meet stage? "
Nothing wrong with giving a little to get the pre meet flirting going maybe tell her what u like a woman to do to u |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well usually its small talk...(real) age, rough idea of job, likes, dislikes, relationship stuff, views on the looming threat of ISIS on the west's way of life as they attempt to destroy our existence or convert us to their medieval death cult...
...ya know, nothing heavy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe this is just me, and I am odd, which I am rather odd to be honest.
So started convo with lady. Share face pics. Mutual attraction shared. So I say lets meet for coffee, and i get response, 'Tell me a bit about yourself first' to which I answered 'What do u want to know?' And I get 'Anything you want to tell me'...really confused as to what info is needed..is it just me that doesn't want to give away more than I have to, at the pre-meet stage? "
I think she's a time waster. Probably just bi curious. Still unsure. |
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By *ale4U2Man
over a year ago
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"Maybe this is just me, and I am odd, which I am rather odd to be honest.
So started convo with lady. Share face pics. Mutual attraction shared. So I say lets meet for coffee, and i get response, 'Tell me a bit about yourself first' to which I answered 'What do u want to know?' And I get 'Anything you want to tell me'...really confused as to what info is needed..is it just me that doesn't want to give away more than I have to, at the pre-meet stage? "
Your paragraph on your profile seems comprehensive enough.
There's 2 scenarios I reckon
1. They genuinely want to get to know about you, and get a feel for your personality or
2. They are a total time waster who won't meet, just string u along and get some dirty chat
Just an opinion though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe this is just me, and I am odd, which I am rather odd to be honest.
So started convo with lady. Share face pics. Mutual attraction shared. So I say lets meet for coffee, and i get response, 'Tell me a bit about yourself first' to which I answered 'What do u want to know?' And I get 'Anything you want to tell me'...really confused as to what info is needed..is it just me that doesn't want to give away more than I have to, at the pre-meet stage?
Your paragraph on your profile seems comprehensive enough.
There's 2 scenarios I reckon
1. They genuinely want to get to know about you, and get a feel for your personality or
2. They are a total time waster who won't meet, just string u along and get some dirty chat
Just an opinion though "
Brilliant insight there. Bet you watched the Liverpool - United game thinking "either United or Liverpool will win, or it could be a draw"... |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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Funny thing about this is we all want to get a feel for the other person to help us assess are they genuine will they show up and if they do will we get on so a little info not nessarily personal still but general info
Yes it may be a time waster looking dirty chat but it may be the best meet of ur life |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think what threw me is when I asked what did she want to know, she said 'anything that u want to tell me'.. My gut feeling is time waster. I did reply to say my profile says it pretty much...so we'll see. Guess i am kinda odd
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Maybe this is just me, and I am odd, which I am rather odd to be honest.
So started convo with lady. Share face pics. Mutual attraction shared. So I say lets meet for coffee, and i get response, 'Tell me a bit about yourself first' to which I answered 'What do u want to know?' And I get 'Anything you want to tell me'...really confused as to what info is needed..is it just me that doesn't want to give away more than I have to, at the pre-meet stage?
I think she's a time waster. Probably just bi curious. Still unsure."
Did I give u much info before we met..think we met for coffee before I give much away |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Funny thing about this is we all want to get a feel for the other person to help us assess are they genuine will they show up and if they do will we get on so a little info not nessarily personal still but general info
Yes it may be a time waster looking dirty chat but it may be the best meet of ur life "
Probably me being cynical |
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By *ale4U2Man
over a year ago
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"Maybe this is just me, and I am odd, which I am rather odd to be honest.
So started convo with lady. Share face pics. Mutual attraction shared. So I say lets meet for coffee, and i get response, 'Tell me a bit about yourself first' to which I answered 'What do u want to know?' And I get 'Anything you want to tell me'...really confused as to what info is needed..is it just me that doesn't want to give away more than I have to, at the pre-meet stage?
Your paragraph on your profile seems comprehensive enough.
There's 2 scenarios I reckon
1. They genuinely want to get to know about you, and get a feel for your personality or
2. They are a total time waster who won't meet, just string u along and get some dirty chat
Just an opinion though
Brilliant insight there. Bet you watched the Liverpool - United game thinking "either United or Liverpool will win, or it could be a draw"..."
Nah that's 3 scenarios.. I can only manage 2  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe this is just me, and I am odd, which I am rather odd to be honest.
So started convo with lady. Share face pics. Mutual attraction shared. So I say lets meet for coffee, and i get response, 'Tell me a bit about yourself first' to which I answered 'What do u want to know?' And I get 'Anything you want to tell me'...really confused as to what info is needed..is it just me that doesn't want to give away more than I have to, at the pre-meet stage?
I think she's a time waster. Probably just bi curious. Still unsure.
Did I give u much info before we met..think we met for coffee before I give much away"
Can't remember to be honest. I just wanted to get into your knickers. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Maybe this is just me, and I am odd, which I am rather odd to be honest.
So started convo with lady. Share face pics. Mutual attraction shared. So I say lets meet for coffee, and i get response, 'Tell me a bit about yourself first' to which I answered 'What do u want to know?' And I get 'Anything you want to tell me'...really confused as to what info is needed..is it just me that doesn't want to give away more than I have to, at the pre-meet stage?
I think she's a time waster. Probably just bi curious. Still unsure.
Did I give u much info before we met..think we met for coffee before I give much away
Can't remember to be honest. I just wanted to get into your knickers. "
True enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate that... I like a more natural progression rather than 'tell me about yourself' aka 'what you into'  "
I agree! 
It has the hallmark of a fantasist rather than a......... Do-ist?
(Realist)  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I hate that... I like a more natural progression rather than 'tell me about yourself' aka 'what you into'
Yup have to agree! Would much rather meet for a coffee and have a chat."
Exactly, meet me for coffee then see I am genuine, see what I am about, then make ur mind up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive had this a few times, used to not suss it..but now..yup..almost every time its someone who has one veri from a profile with...one veri...plenty of fish in the sea op...dip the rod back in the water.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ive had this a few times, used to not suss it..but now..yup..almost every time its someone who has one veri from a profile with...one veri...plenty of fish in the sea op...dip the rod back in the water...."
Thanks sexy ass  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ive had this a few times, used to not suss it..but now..yup..almost every time its someone who has one veri from a profile with...one veri...plenty of fish in the sea op...dip the rod back in the water....
Thanks sexy ass "
Yw... 
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.(takes one to know one...) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ive had this a few times, used to not suss it..but now..yup..almost every time its someone who has one veri from a profile with...one veri...plenty of fish in the sea op...dip the rod back in the water....
Thanks sexy ass
Yw...
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.(takes one to know one...)"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think what threw me is when I asked what did she want to know, she said 'anything that u want to tell me'.. My gut feeling is time waster. I did reply to say my profile says it pretty much...so we'll see. Guess i am kinda odd
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The gut never lies x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think what threw me is when I asked what did she want to know, she said 'anything that u want to tell me'.. My gut feeling is time waster. I did reply to say my profile says it pretty much...so we'll see. Guess i am kinda odd
The gut never lies x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Could be she's nervous and like yourself being over cautious Wanting to know something about a person before a meet isn't a bad thing as it helps to break down the awkwardness of a first meet. |
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