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over a year ago
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"If someone is attracted to you? Beause I can't 
And I've been told I'm hard to read too and they usually don't know if I like them or not..
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Eh who wouldn't b attracted to you  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It goes right over my head if someone is attracted to me. I just think they are being friendly."
I'm the same.. I literally have no idea until they tell me.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If someone is attracted to you? Beause I can't
And I've been told I'm hard to read too and they usually don't know if I like them or not..
Eh who wouldn't b attracted to you "
Oh plenty!! According to a lot I'm a bitch  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think you can tell with a combination of positive body language and the ease of conversation. "
Yea but I'm like that with everyone.. I mean like how can you tell that they want to jump your bones  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm very difficult to read too so I'm told. As for how to tell if someone is attracted to you? No idea. Hard cock?
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Sshhhh I'm trying to maintain eye contact |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm very difficult to read too so I'm told. As for how to tell if someone is attracted to you? No idea. Hard cock?
Sshhhh I'm trying to maintain eye contact "
Haha have a feel so whilst maintaining eye contact
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm very difficult to read too so I'm told. As for how to tell if someone is attracted to you? No idea. Hard cock?
Sshhhh I'm trying to maintain eye contact
Haha have a feel so whilst maintaining eye contact
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I can't do that until I'm sure.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A twinkle in the eye, a bulge in the pants "
But in my case it could just they are happy to be in my company (cause I'm so cool) rather than wanting to do me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think you can tell with a combination of positive body language and the ease of conversation.
Yea but I'm like that with everyone.. I mean like how can you tell that they want to jump your bones "
Innuendo. It's a good indicator  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am useless at it they nearly have to ask are we going for a shagging or did u bring ur knitting  "
Isn't that the most awkward part lol. Sounds a bit like me there CJ |
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"If someone is attracted to you? Beause I can't
And I've been told I'm hard to read too and they usually don't know if I like them or not..
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I have absolutely no idea, if also love to know the answer to this. I can spot attraction between other parties a mile away though, which is slightly annoying I'd much rather be able to tell if someone was attracted to me  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think body language, they way they look at you.
Someone has to make the first move to reassure what your both thinking."
I don't find that easy to read  |
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"I think body language, they way they look at you.
Someone has to make the first move to reassure what your both thinking.
I don't find that easy to read "
Make the first move.
All they can do is reject you.
You'll find that you were probably right . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think body language, they way they look at you.
Someone has to make the first move to reassure what your both thinking.
I don't find that easy to read "
I'm hopeless at reading people and never know if someone is attracted to me. Doesn't help I havnt a subtle bone in my body I need it laid out straight for me lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It goes right over my head if someone is attracted to me. I just think they are being friendly.
How'd you define chemistry then?"
I think chemistry starts after you've chatted for a while. If you're on about sexual chemistry - it happens right after they say 'Oi stupid, I really like you' You can have chemistry with anyone, its just another word for getting on well. doesn't have to be sexual. |
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"I'm awful at reading signals. I thought Ed wasn't into me when we first met  need it spelt out for me to cop on 
Jane x"
The best thing to do is get a copy of "Rules of the Road" and then print out the various signs...
Yield
Stop,
Speed Limit,
No Overtaking,
Right of Way,
Minimum Speed,
Maximum Speed
etc etc and then use them!!
then read the signals!
Helps with driving test too... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I tell a story. Once I was sitting on the gym jacuzzi. Chatting away to a girl. It was only me and her there. She brushed her leg against mine. Thought it was accidental. 2 minutes later it happened again. Only when I was laying in bed that night. Eureka! Fuck I could have got laid that night. If only. |
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"I tell a story. Once I was sitting on the gym jacuzzi. Chatting away to a girl. It was only me and her there. She brushed her leg against mine. Thought it was accidental. 2 minutes later it happened again. Only when I was laying in bed that night. Eureka! Fuck I could have got laid that night. If only."
Can imagine what she was thinking laying in bed that night... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I tell a story. Once I was sitting on the gym jacuzzi. Chatting away to a girl. It was only me and her there. She brushed her leg against mine. Thought it was accidental. 2 minutes later it happened again. Only when I was laying in bed that night. Eureka! Fuck I could have got laid that night. If only.
Can imagine what she was thinking laying in bed that night... "
She's thinking "He must be gay" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I guess if you can determine if they are "just looking for an excuse to be in your company" for as long and as often as possible....... See if you can catch them looking at you when they think you won't notice..... Eye contact us a big thing and if it is with guys you can be pretty sure they would want to jump your bones at least 90% of the time.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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what???..no way..i look everyone in the eyes when im chatting, i never notice whats going on around me, still cant tell...the only thing i try to guage is the laughs, genuine laughter is easy to spot and often, to me anyway indicates some sort of attraction..sorta..then again if your a funny fucker you think everyone fancies you... |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"I think body language, they way they look at you.
Someone has to make the first move to reassure what your both thinking.
I don't find that easy to read
I'm hopeless at reading people and never know if someone is attracted to me. Doesn't help I havnt a subtle bone in my body I need it laid out straight for me lol "
I think I'd be fairly straight for u |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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Think the school yard signals should return
Girl likes boy she hits him
Boy likes girl he pulls her hair
So at the next meet and greet if a woman hits u grab her by the hair and pull her to ur room |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Think the school yard signals should return
Girl likes boy she hits him
Boy likes girl he pulls her hair
So at the next meet and greet if a woman hits u grab her by the hair and pull her to ur room "
Man I punch him?? Interesting... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My eyes give me away every time... I think anyway. I think it's a good job we are here and can be straight with each other and say straight out let's fuck where as in real life that shit takes effort. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"My eyes give me away every time... I think anyway. I think it's a good job we are here and can be straight with each other and say straight out let's fuck where as in real life that shit takes effort."
They so do feck I had nearly forgotten that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My eyes give me away every time... I think anyway. I think it's a good job we are here and can be straight with each other and say straight out let's fuck where as in real life that shit takes effort.
They so do feck I had nearly forgotten that "
Wel u will know if I want to jump ur bones by the look in my eyes!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The problem happens when there is chemistry and the other doesn't sense it...happened this week...great chats and it flowed....humour, relaxed, personal, sexual, cheeky and fun. A meet had been agreed weeks back when we got chatting. She's over 2hrs drive away and as we're both free this weekend. ..I suggest the meet...she suddenly says she needs a social meet first to see if there's chemistry. Well i said ok...but I'm not driving all that way for just coffee. She unfriendly me and blocked. This is starting to sum up fab for me now.... |
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"The problem happens when there is chemistry and the other doesn't sense it...happened this week...great chats and it flowed....humour, relaxed, personal, sexual, cheeky and fun. A meet had been agreed weeks back when we got chatting. She's over 2hrs drive away and as we're both free this weekend. ..I suggest the meet...she suddenly says she needs a social meet first to see if there's chemistry. Well i said ok...but I'm not driving all that way for just coffee. She unfriendly me and blocked. This is starting to sum up fab for me now.... "
I would have blocked you too. Always a social meet first. And she should have met you halfway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My eyes give me away every time... I think anyway. I think it's a good job we are here and can be straight with each other and say straight out let's fuck where as in real life that shit takes effort.
They so do feck I had nearly forgotten that
Wel u will know if I want to jump ur bones by the look in my eyes!!! "
The 6 second rule? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No idea it's fine when chatting but when actually meet I'd nearly have to ask them... Then there's some that leave no doubt that they're interested I don't know which I prefer |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"The problem happens when there is chemistry and the other doesn't sense it...happened this week...great chats and it flowed....humour, relaxed, personal, sexual, cheeky and fun. A meet had been agreed weeks back when we got chatting. She's over 2hrs drive away and as we're both free this weekend. ..I suggest the meet...she suddenly says she needs a social meet first to see if there's chemistry. Well i said ok...but I'm not driving all that way for just coffee. She unfriendly me and blocked. This is starting to sum up fab for me now....
I would have blocked you too. Always a social meet first. And she should have met you halfway. "
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"The problem happens when there is chemistry and the other doesn't sense it...happened this week...great chats and it flowed....humour, relaxed, personal, sexual, cheeky and fun. A meet had been agreed weeks back when we got chatting. She's over 2hrs drive away and as we're both free this weekend. ..I suggest the meet...she suddenly says she needs a social meet first to see if there's chemistry. Well i said ok...but I'm not driving all that way for just coffee. She unfriendly me and blocked. This is starting to sum up fab for me now....
I would have blocked you too. Always a social meet first. And she should have met you halfway.
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Who's to say the social doesn't end up in a play meet it happens nothing ventured nothing gained |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The problem happens when there is chemistry and the other doesn't sense it...happened this week...great chats and it flowed....humour, relaxed, personal, sexual, cheeky and fun. A meet had been agreed weeks back when we got chatting. She's over 2hrs drive away and as we're both free this weekend. ..I suggest the meet...she suddenly says she needs a social meet first to see if there's chemistry. Well i said ok...but I'm not driving all that way for just coffee. She unfriendly me and blocked. This is starting to sum up fab for me now....
I would have blocked you too. Always a social meet first. And she should have met you halfway.
Who's to say the social doesn't end up in a play meet it happens nothing ventured nothing gained "
Exactly.. But when you're told 'I'm not driving all that way for coffee' it's a huge turn off. Might be a sex site but no one likes to feel used. That's how I'd feel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It goes right over my head if someone is attracted to me. I just think they are being friendly."
How do you or any woman on here let a man know your attracted to them ?
Some men can be attracted but dont want to ruin it by being seen as overly pushy or coming on too strong |
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Chemistry has to work both ways. I've found a girl here that seems to be as interested in me as I am in her. We just need to find the right time that suits us both to see what happens when we do meet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Chemistry has to work both ways. I've found a girl here that seems to be as interested in me as I am in her. We just need to find the right time that suits us both to see what happens when we do meet "
Yes...... But how do you know? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It goes right over my head if someone is attracted to me. I just think they are being friendly.
How do you or any woman on here let a man know your attracted to them ?
Some men can be attracted but dont want to ruin it by being seen as overly pushy or coming on too strong "
Apparently we don't.. We don't know how to |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The problem happens when there is chemistry and the other doesn't sense it...happened this week...great chats and it flowed....humour, relaxed, personal, sexual, cheeky and fun. A meet had been agreed weeks back when we got chatting. She's over 2hrs drive away and as we're both free this weekend. ..I suggest the meet...she suddenly says she needs a social meet first to see if there's chemistry. Well i said ok...but I'm not driving all that way for just coffee. She unfriendly me and blocked. This is starting to sum up fab for me now....
I would have blocked you too. Always a social meet first. And she should have met you halfway. "
she didn'toffer that at all. And if you say it's a coffee meet its a coffee meet in my mind. When I say social that's what it is...A play meet is later. I guess this is where confusion happens.
And to add ...she was going to meet about 2 weeks ago at a hotel but had to cancel last minute because of mother nature. I lost my deposit. I didnt mind but she didn't say anything about that. So maybe it was best. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You just do... I've two very good friends on here who both knew after just chatting a few times. Both met me without any coffee meets....One even came in blindfolded as she had that as a fantasy. (Read veris) With one we still keep joking that we need that coffee. The other we had a coffee driving around Strangford lough last week.....windows kept steaming up. Mind you our dignity was maintained a few times. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The problem happens when there is chemistry and the other doesn't sense it...happened this week...great chats and it flowed....humour, relaxed, personal, sexual, cheeky and fun. A meet had been agreed weeks back when we got chatting. She's over 2hrs drive away and as we're both free this weekend. ..I suggest the meet...she suddenly says she needs a social meet first to see if there's chemistry. Well i said ok...but I'm not driving all that way for just coffee. She unfriendly me and blocked. This is starting to sum up fab for me now....
I would have blocked you too. Always a social meet first. And she should have met you halfway.
she didn'toffer that at all. And if you say it's a coffee meet its a coffee meet in my mind. When I say social that's what it is...A play meet is later. I guess this is where confusion happens.
And to add ...she was going to meet about 2 weeks ago at a hotel but had to cancel last minute because of mother nature. I lost my deposit. I didnt mind but she didn't say anything about that. So maybe it was best."
I wouldn't expect or ask someone to drive 2hrs to meet me for coffee. Sounds like she just got cold feet. Onwards and upwards my dear |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If someone is attracted to you? Beause I can't
And I've been told I'm hard to read too and they usually don't know if I like them or not..
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Stand closer to him... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Never can tell always feel like there just being nice to me
Me too.. Or taking pity on me  "
Don't think that for one second looking at your pics. Very attractive and seem quite nice on forums....we'll most of the time |
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"Never can tell always feel like there just being nice to me
Me too.. Or taking pity on me
Don't think that for one second looking at your pics. Very attractive and seem quite nice on forums....we'll most of the time "
I think you have me confused with someone else... I'm always nice |
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"If someone is attracted to you? Beause I can't
And I've been told I'm hard to read too and they usually don't know if I like them or not..
Stand closer to him..."
I'm going try grinding on his leg next time.. That might work |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Never can tell always feel like there just being nice to me
Me too.. Or taking pity on me
The sympathy shag is not to be sneezed at. Many's the Friday night was rescued by this old classic. "
Ha I don't do sympathy shags.. You either want to or you don't |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Never can tell always feel like there just being nice to me
Me too.. Or taking pity on me
The sympathy shag is not to be sneezed at. Many's the Friday night was rescued by this old classic.
Ha I don't do sympathy shags.. You either want to or you don't "
you know you do..... now where is that chemistry gone! |
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