I enjoy Fab, the socials, my meets but especially the fabulous ppl.
In regards to the online fabbing experience, there's the forums which I love reading for the banter & general fun. I have noticed the negative that runs thru it, whether it's trolls trying to stir things up or ppl airing their dirty (not naughty)laundry or just ppl complaining of the way they get ignored/ not getting meets & blaming it on not getting a chance or wondering what their doing wrong. Then there's private messages, the majority of mine are negative ones.
So I'm gonna try for a wee while to change my approach to online fabbing. Il redo my profile later to a more positive one, will try to have less do's & dont's & see what happens. A positive output can only bring good things yeah?? We'll see.
Happy Fabbing everyone, be good, be nice & behave (suppose that's ironic for a swinging site where we want naughtiness).
You live only once so love life xoxo
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By *-ManMan
over a year ago
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Love this, I've knocked around forums on and off for years and there's always an undercurrent of negativity about most, so I view forums as a tool, and if you use them correctly they can add, in a positive way, to your life. |
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Agree op...that is..you should rewrite..lol..
..i often read profiles and wonder what possessed ppl writing them...then again..my own us far from a literary masterpiece.. 
..but negativity gets everywhere...stamp it out at source..  |
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Constructive positive criticism... It needs a rewrite...it reads as me me me, I want I want I want plus the use of text speak is lazy.
You have some nice pics  |
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"Constructive positive criticism... It needs a rewrite...it reads as me me me, I want I want I want plus the use of text speak is lazy.
You have some nice pics "
I will take that as positive criticism but will defend myself as it is MY profile so if it was 'me me me & I want want want' then so be it as I respect others want & needs on their profile. Thanks for compliment tho. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I enjoy Fab, the socials, my meets but especially the fabulous ppl.
In regards to the online fabbing experience, there's the forums which I love reading for the banter & general fun. I have noticed the negative that runs thru it, whether it's trolls trying to stir things up or ppl airing their dirty (not naughty)laundry or just ppl complaining of the way they get ignored/ not getting meets & blaming it on not getting a chance or wondering what their doing wrong. Then there's private messages, the majority of mine are negative ones.
So I'm gonna try for a wee while to change my approach to online fabbing. Il redo my profile later to a more positive one, will try to have less do's & dont's & see what happens. A positive output can only bring good things yeah?? We'll see.
Happy Fabbing everyone, be good, be nice & behave (suppose that's ironic for a swinging site where we want naughtiness).
You live only once so love life xoxo
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More constructive criticism...it's better but still reads as a list of rules and assumes everyone wants to meet you.
Why not say who you are, what you like and are about, who you want to meet and importantly what do you have to offer. |
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"More constructive criticism...it's better but still reads as a list of rules and assumes everyone wants to meet you.
Why not say who you are, what you like and are about, who you want to meet and importantly what do you have to offer. "
*I'm assuming ppl contact ME as their
interest in meeting (is a swingers site
after all)
*'who I am' My description is on my
details, height, age, description etc
*'what I like' Also on my profile under
'interests'.
*'who I like to meet' Also in my profile
under 'looking to meet'.
*'what I have to offer' again if ppl
contact me, they like what they see
& read & we'll go from there.
Anything else does be discussed when conversations are flowing.
Your new constructive (you left out positive this time)criticism is hypercritical of your previous post where you accused me of a 'me me me & I want I want' attitude. Plus I never actually asked for opinions.
Please bear in mind 2 constructive criticisms has the negative vibe that this post highlighted & is avoiding. |
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"More constructive criticism...it's better but still reads as a list of rules and assumes everyone wants to meet you.
Why not say who you are, what you like and are about, who you want to meet and importantly what do you have to offer.
*I'm assuming ppl contact ME as their
interest in meeting (is a swingers site
after all)
*'who I am' My description is on my
details, height, age, description etc
*'what I like' Also on my profile under
'interests'.
*'who I like to meet' Also in my profile
under 'looking to meet'.
*'what I have to offer' again if ppl
contact me, they like what they see
& read & we'll go from there.
Anything else does be discussed when conversations are flowing.
Your new constructive (you left out positive this time)criticism is hypercritical of your previous post where you accused me of a 'me me me & I want I want' attitude. Plus I never actually asked for opinions.
Please bear in mind 2 constructive criticisms has the negative vibe that this post highlighted & is avoiding. "
No negative intent sorry if it seemed that way. Just my 2 cents
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"I enjoy Fab, the socials, my meets but especially the fabulous ppl.
In regards to the online fabbing experience, there's the forums which I love reading for the banter & general fun. I have noticed the negative that runs thru it, whether it's trolls trying to stir things up or ppl airing their dirty (not naughty)laundry or just ppl complaining of the way they get ignored/ not getting meets & blaming it on not getting a chance or wondering what their doing wrong. Then there's private messages, the majority of mine are negative ones.
So I'm gonna try for a wee while to change my approach to online fabbing. Il redo my profile later to a more positive one, will try to have less do's & dont's & see what happens. A positive output can only bring good things yeah?? We'll see.
Happy Fabbing everyone, be good, be nice & behave (suppose that's ironic for a swinging site where we want naughtiness).
You live only once so love life xoxo
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what a breath of fresh air , well said ?? |
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