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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just a comment.... I've read a few posts on here about (mostly) single guys not getting anywhere on here, and expressing discontent as a result. I've been on here a few months, no verifications, but I've chatted to quite a few people. I met up with one person, but she chose to leave the site soon afterwards as it was not really what she wanted. All I can say it, that it's not been too bad, I don't expect women to leap off the page and want to jump into bed just because I sent a message. But all I can say, is that patience is a virtue, and sometimes 'delayed gratification' is far sweeter than a 'what...is it over already'... So for me.. it's all been positive...so far. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a comment.... I've read a few posts on here about (mostly) single guys not getting anywhere on here, and expressing discontent as a result. I've been on here a few months, no verifications, but I've chatted to quite a few people. I met up with one person, but she chose to leave the site soon afterwards as it was not really what she wanted. All I can say it, that it's not been too bad, I don't expect women to leap off the page and want to jump into bed just because I sent a message. But all I can say, is that patience is a virtue, and sometimes 'delayed gratification' is far sweeter than a 'what...is it over already'... So for me.. it's all been positive...so far."
A realistic and positive outlook to say the least. Nice to see
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just a comment.... I've read a few posts on here about (mostly) single guys not getting anywhere on here, and expressing discontent as a result. I've been on here a few months, no verifications, but I've chatted to quite a few people. I met up with one person, but she chose to leave the site soon afterwards as it was not really what she wanted. All I can say it, that it's not been too bad, I don't expect women to leap off the page and want to jump into bed just because I sent a message. But all I can say, is that patience is a virtue, and sometimes 'delayed gratification' is far sweeter than a 'what...is it over already'... So for me.. it's all been positive...so far."
Nicely said!! 
Waiting does pay off!! It's not enough just to dip your toes in, send couple messages and then give out to the world how unfair it its!!
Have some patience lads  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm on it quite awhile and finding it hard to meet some 1 I'm a good looking guy as normal as they come I was thinking it's cause I haven been verified or I'm doing some thing wrong on most other site s I'm flying but here I'm finding it hard any tips any. 1 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the replies...HeHe... what ! you mean with old age comes common sense...I wonder."
Oh said nothing about old age, but I think a lot of people on here will agree that the over 35 males are less trigger happy in general and patience pays off for them.
Of course there are exceptions at any age, but the more mature male is more likely to be more successful here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well said OP, I was on fab quite a long time before any real interest but ur right. Meet a few decent people opens invites from other decent fabbers.
Quite a few of my meets are with people I have chatted to on and off for sometime.
Some very impatient folk on here who get tetchy when a meet doesn't happen instantly. Its these ones I don't meet....not on here for grief
Good luck sir on table  |
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" the over 35 males are less trigger happy in general and patience pays off for them.
Of course there are exceptions at any age, but the more mature male is more likely to be more successful here.
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Take note ladies....   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well said OP, I was on fab quite a long time before any real interest but ur right. Meet a few decent people opens invites from other decent fabbers.
Quite a few of my meets are with people I have chatted to on and off for sometime.
Some very impatient folk on here who get tetchy when a meet doesn't happen instantly. Its these ones I don't meet....not on here for grief
Good luck sir on table "
On fab not table lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stick at it OP, have been on here for about a year on and off myself and I haven't exactly had a load of meets but what happened so far has been good. Spend a wee bit of time in chat the last while and it's been good craic and entertaining. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Agree with this. It's my second time round but first time felt very welcome.
Also came with no expectations of women hopping into my bed
Maybe too many newbies think that's what it will be like and have unrealistic expectations |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have to say I've been chatting to the OP and he is really sound.. Great attitude and has the right outlook!
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Still hasnt got him a meet though has it... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have to say I've been chatting to the OP and he is really sound.. Great attitude and has the right outlook!
Still hasnt got him a meet though has it..."
I'm surprised you get them to be honest...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have to say I've been chatting to the OP and he is really sound.. Great attitude and has the right outlook!
Still hasnt got him a meet though has it...
I'm surprised you get them to be honest... "
Goes to show what you know about fab so doesnt it... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have to say I've been chatting to the OP and he is really sound.. Great attitude and has the right outlook!
Still hasnt got him a meet though has it...
I'm surprised you get them to be honest...
Goes to show what you know about fab so doesnt it..."
Now now let's not turn this thread into a bitch fest....it was all going so well!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have to say I've been chatting to the OP and he is really sound.. Great attitude and has the right outlook!
Still hasnt got him a meet though has it...
I'm surprised you get them to be honest...
Goes to show what you know about fab so doesnt it...
Now now let's not turn this thread into a bitch fest....it was all going so well!! "
Couldn't agree with you more...
The OP started a great thread...
Pity the nasties couldn't stay away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have to say I've been chatting to the OP and he is really sound.. Great attitude and has the right outlook!
Still hasnt got him a meet though has it...
I'm surprised you get them to be honest...
Goes to show what you know about fab so doesnt it...
Now now let's not turn this thread into a bitch fest....it was all going so well!!
Couldn't agree with you more...
The OP started a great thread...
Pity the nasties couldn't stay away."
I couldnt agree more...shame you had to begin with your nasty little dig at me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have to say I've been chatting to the OP and he is really sound.. Great attitude and has the right outlook!
Still hasnt got him a meet though has it...
I'm surprised you get them to be honest...
Goes to show what you know about fab so doesnt it...
Now now let's not turn this thread into a bitch fest....it was all going so well!!
Couldn't agree with you more...
The OP started a great thread...
Pity the nasties couldn't stay away.
I couldnt agree more...shame you had to begin with your nasty little dig at me"
And Let's just leave it there you two... Jaysus it'll be handbags at dawn next!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Have to say I've been chatting to the OP and he is really sound.. Great attitude and has the right outlook!
Still hasnt got him a meet though has it..."
Maybe you should read the post again |
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