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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In fairness its not always easy to breastfeed very discreetly esp if child or boobs are big. If he was turned on by that, thats his issue not hers. Im sure you werent sitting behind her with his tounge hanging out...or were you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well fair play to her I just can't understand people getting pissed about wemon breastfeeding it's natural.
Now the perv in me agrees with you OP I would love to suck some breast milk  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In fairness it's possible to breastfeed discreetly in public without flashing all and sundry.
I am actualy embarassed for you "
No need, I managed perfectly well with breastfeeding my three without having to flop my tits all over the shop - I just got on with it. Let's face it, in public there's always going to be some pervert about. Breasts are highly sexualised in western cultures, either someone is going to find it arousing or someone else is going to find it disgusting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In fairness it's possible to breastfeed discreetly in public without flashing all and sundry.
I am actualy embarassed for you
No need, I managed perfectly well with breastfeeding my three without having to flop my tits all over the shop - I just got on with it. Let's face it, in public there's always going to be some pervert about. Breasts are highly sexualised in western cultures, either someone is going to find it arousing or someone else is going to find it disgusting. "
Grand so, as I said embarrassing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In fairness it's possible to breastfeed discreetly in public without flashing all and sundry.
I am actualy embarassed for you
No need, I managed perfectly well with breastfeeding my three without having to flop my tits all over the shop - I just got on with it. Let's face it, in public there's always going to be some pervert about. Breasts are highly sexualised in western cultures, either someone is going to find it arousing or someone else is going to find it disgusting.
Grand so, as I said embarrassing "
I don't get your point, nor do I particularly care what it might have been |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow...i wonder how many ppl have actually seen a woman deliberately show her breasts while feedin and its not their own fear and imagination giving them that perception. Besides how can you tell it was deliberate and not accidental? Way to whore up a natural innocent occurance folks |
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By *milli OP Man
over a year ago
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She was reveling in it. She had great tits and fair play to her child or no child she wanted to get them out for all to see. She sat in the middle of the area even though there were more quite spots. She is confident and very comfortable with her situ. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Breastfeeding is completely natural,obviously there's the odd perv who love nothing more than to gawk at a boob like they've never seen one before,and I'd say OP from what I've seen of your posts the only real ones you'll see are the ones in Starbucks feeding their babies...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In fairness it's possible to breastfeed discreetly in public without flashing all and sundry.
I am actualy embarassed for you
No need, I managed perfectly well with breastfeeding my three without having to flop my tits all over the shop - I just got on with it. Let's face it, in public there's always going to be some pervert about. Breasts are highly sexualised in western cultures, either someone is going to find it arousing or someone else is going to find it disgusting.
Grand so, as I said embarrassing
I don't get your point, nor do I particularly care what it might have been"
If you did not care, why post then?
Pretty silly really IMO.
Much like your original judgemental post re the notion that women should feel it nessicary to hide their breasts whilst feeding their children in public.
Your trying to floss it with sexualization of breasts is pure nonsense! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im just throwing it out there thats all.
That's all she was doing after all..."
And from your comments were you in Starbucks too???
As you've seemed to assume she was throwing them about...
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"In fairness it's possible to breastfeed discreetly in public without flashing all and sundry."
My opinion. I think a lot who do it open and obviously are trying to make the statement about breastfeeding in public. No problem with it myself.
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By *on1980Man
over a year ago
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"Did you see the Irish fella giving out on the tube when a woman was breastfeeding? Disgraceful !"
That was a stunt to raise awareness. They were both actors. Maybe it's exactly what op is doing here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wow...i wonder how many ppl have actually seen a woman deliberately show her breasts while feedin and its not their own fear and imagination giving them that perception. Besides how can you tell it was deliberate and not accidental? Way to whore up a natural innocent occurance folks "
You are 110% spot on there!
The child was hungry, she fed the child end of.
Her breasts were probably massive because they are full of milk!
Fair play to her for being a mother to her child. |
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If she wants to use her breasts to feed her child, that's her business.
If she wants to wind her child and relieve it of discomfort before putting her breast away, that's her business.
If she wants to feed her child a drink in a coffee shop where others are also having a drink, that's her business.
If you see something sexual, or erotic, or exhibitionist about it, that's your business and not a nursing mothers problem. |
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"I was just in starbucks tallaght square, this woman started breastfeeding and her boobs were huge, im mean she found it hard to control them. I was strangely aroused yet somewhat felt akward"
Id feel awkward for you and a tad embarrassed that you stared long enough to notice they were huge and she found it hard to control them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If she wants to use her breasts to feed her child, that's her business.
If she wants to wind her child and relieve it of discomfort before putting her breast away, that's her business.
If she wants to feed her child a drink in a coffee shop where others are also having a drink, that's her business.
If you see something sexual, or erotic, or exhibitionist about it, that's your business and not a nursing mothers problem."
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By *milli OP Man
over a year ago
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She wanted people to notice, centre stage and and making a fuss.
Everyones got a chip on their shoulder where breastfeeding is concerned.
I never started this topic about breastfeeding. I saw something and a nice set of tits end of.
It seems no matter what you say people look at it differently  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She wanted people to notice, centre stage and and making a fuss.
Everyones got a chip on their shoulder where breastfeeding is concerned.
I never started this topic about breastfeeding. I saw something and a nice set of tits end of.
It seems no matter what you say people look at it differently "
She wanted people to.notice ????
I assume that you actualy slithered over to her and asked her directly.....
You remind me of mutley the dog  |
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"She wanted people to notice, centre stage and and making a fuss.
Everyones got a chip on their shoulder where breastfeeding is concerned.
I never started this topic about breastfeeding. I saw something and a nice set of tits end of.
It seems no matter what you say people look at it differently "
Ive no chip on my shoulder Op cos in my day it was a toilet or a bedroom to feed my children. Hard as you may find this to believe but when breasts are full, they become painful and if the pope himself was there id still get them out to feed my child.I sincerely doubt she was looking for attention or wanting to be centre stage as you said. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was just in starbucks tallaght square, this woman started breastfeeding and her boobs were huge, im mean she found it hard to control them. I was strangely aroused yet somewhat felt akward"
I'm sure she felt awkward when she felt you leering at her and getting a hard on |
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"Lol @ swingers getting offended at someone breastfeeding. "
Its not about someone breastfeeding,its the Ops slur on breastfeeding that ive an issue with. Maybe he likes lactating women i dunno but a breastfeeding woman is doing just that,feeding her child and not lobbing their tits out for sexual arousal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ahh I find things arousing that some other people wouldn't so I'm not gonna judge OP for that. As long as he keeps it in check and doesn't make her feel awkward then it's not doing any harm.
I have 3 kids who were breastfed and I would kd absolutely defend her right to feed as her child requires. If that happens to be in Starbucks then so be it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Brest feed in public.....awsome,ireland is moving into the 21 st centuary....thank the lord....."
You would not think so after reading some of the posts here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a difference between breastfeeding in public and lobbing your tits out while doing so. I've breastfed in public without putting anyone's eye out.
As usual, it's a question of consideration for others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair noone on the thread is saying that she did anything wrong. Its generally been a fairly mature response (with 1 fairly juvenile exception).. to be honest that is to be expected. If you want someone to blame its not really the guy perving over the feeding mum, its the general view in polite society that breasts are solely for sexual pleasure. Its hard to blame the guy who has been conditioned to think that seeing and touching boobs should be a primary aim in his life. Sad but true. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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I don't get the whole discussion here. There's something beautiful, natural and maybe even erotic in a woman breastfeeding, if someone pervs a bit, so what? No harm done. She obviously had no problems with otherwise she would have chosen a less exposed table. End of story! No wonder Ireland has the world's lowest rate for breastfeeding!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be fair noone on the thread is saying that she did anything wrong. Its generally been a fairly mature response (with 1 fairly juvenile exception).. to be honest that is to be expected. If you want someone to blame its not really the guy perving over the feeding mum, its the general view in polite society that breasts are solely for sexual pleasure. Its hard to blame the guy who has been conditioned to think that seeing and touching boobs should be a primary aim in his life. Sad but true."
I have been in many other European Countries, women openly sit in restaurants, parks and public places feeding their children.
Without feeling the need to cover themselves.
People do not feel the need to sit and stare, it is accepted as natural.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be fair noone on the thread is saying that she did anything wrong. Its generally been a fairly mature response (with 1 fairly juvenile exception).. to be honest that is to be expected. If you want someone to blame its not really the guy perving over the feeding mum, its the general view in polite society that breasts are solely for sexual pleasure. Its hard to blame the guy who has been conditioned to think that seeing and touching boobs should be a primary aim in his life. Sad but true.
I have been in many other European Countries, women openly sit in restaurants, parks and public places feeding their children.
Without feeling the need to cover themselves.
People do not feel the need to sit and stare, it is accepted as natural.."
I suspect men over there have exactly the same thoughts. And nobody is suggesting that anyone should (or did) sit and stare. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be fair noone on the thread is saying that she did anything wrong. Its generally been a fairly mature response (with 1 fairly juvenile exception).. to be honest that is to be expected. If you want someone to blame its not really the guy perving over the feeding mum, its the general view in polite society that breasts are solely for sexual pleasure. Its hard to blame the guy who has been conditioned to think that seeing and touching boobs should be a primary aim in his life. Sad but true.
I have been in many other European Countries, women openly sit in restaurants, parks and public places feeding their children.
Without feeling the need to cover themselves.
People do not feel the need to sit and stare, it is accepted as natural..
I suspect men over there have exactly the same thoughts. And nobody is suggesting that anyone should (or did) sit and stare. "
I was just in starbucks tallaght square, this woman started breastfeeding and her boobs were huge, im mean she found it hard to control them. I was strangely aroused yet somewhat felt akward
Above is his original.post, hardly pointts to a guy who did not sit and stare |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's a difference between breastfeeding in public and lobbing your tits out while doing so. I've breastfed in public without putting anyone's eye out.
As usual, it's a question of consideration for others."
Not trying to stir..but why would consideration for others come into it.?.if others feel awkward that's not a nursing mothers problem..I've seen women walking down the street on the continent breastfeeding feeding..no one cares
When I was feeding. N I fed both my kids for someone 18 months the only person I considered was my baby |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be fair noone on the thread is saying that she did anything wrong. Its generally been a fairly mature response (with 1 fairly juvenile exception).. to be honest that is to be expected. If you want someone to blame its not really the guy perving over the feeding mum, its the general view in polite society that breasts are solely for sexual pleasure. Its hard to blame the guy who has been conditioned to think that seeing and touching boobs should be a primary aim in his life. Sad but true.
I have been in many other European Countries, women openly sit in restaurants, parks and public places feeding their children.
Without feeling the need to cover themselves.
People do not feel the need to sit and stare, it is accepted as natural..
I suspect men over there have exactly the same thoughts. And nobody is suggesting that anyone should (or did) sit and stare.
I was just in starbucks tallaght square, this woman started breastfeeding and her boobs were huge, im mean she found it hard to control them. I was strangely aroused yet somewhat felt akward
Above is his original.post, hardly pointts to a guy who did not sit and stare "
I think you need to go back and read that again .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's a difference between breastfeeding in public and lobbing your tits out while doing so. I've breastfed in public without putting anyone's eye out.
As usual, it's a question of consideration for others.
Not trying to stir..but why would consideration for others come into it.?.if others feel awkward that's not a nursing mothers problem..I've seen women walking down the street on the continent breastfeeding feeding..no one cares
When I was feeding. N I fed both my kids for someone 18 months the only person I considered was my baby"
I found it perfectly possible to consider my baby's needs and the sensibilites of others, it's not like it's a complicated issue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be fair noone on the thread is saying that she did anything wrong. Its generally been a fairly mature response (with 1 fairly juvenile exception).. to be honest that is to be expected. If you want someone to blame its not really the guy perving over the feeding mum, its the general view in polite society that breasts are solely for sexual pleasure. Its hard to blame the guy who has been conditioned to think that seeing and touching boobs should be a primary aim in his life. Sad but true.
I have been in many other European Countries, women openly sit in restaurants, parks and public places feeding their children.
Without feeling the need to cover themselves.
People do not feel the need to sit and stare, it is accepted as natural..
I suspect men over there have exactly the same thoughts. And nobody is suggesting that anyone should (or did) sit and stare.
I was just in starbucks tallaght square, this woman started breastfeeding and her boobs were huge, im mean she found it hard to control them. I was strangely aroused yet somewhat felt akward
Above is his original.post, hardly pointts to a guy who did not sit and stare
I think you need to go back and read that again .
- think Roy Orbison, not the Blues Brothers"
I get you.lol... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was just in starbucks tallaght square, this woman started breastfeeding and her boobs were huge, im mean she found it hard to control them. I was strangely aroused yet somewhat felt akward"
You should have been a gentleman and looked away,
breast feeding is perfectly natural and if she did have them on show, then so what!!
You don't know a thing about that lady so you shouldn't pass judgement!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's a difference between breastfeeding in public and lobbing your tits out while doing so. I've breastfed in public without putting anyone's eye out.
As usual, it's a question of consideration for others.
Not trying to stir..but why would consideration for others come into it.?.if others feel awkward that's not a nursing mothers problem..I've seen women walking down the street on the continent breastfeeding feeding..no one cares
When I was feeding. N I fed both my kids for someone 18 months the only person I considered was my baby
I found it perfectly possible to consider my baby's needs and the sensibilites of others, it's not like it's a complicated issue."
Maybe I'm a selfish mother then. I didn't consider anyone except my child including male family members. It actually helped normalise it.
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By *milli OP Man
over a year ago
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Glad to see such a natural and enpowering situation has stirred so much emotion in you.
Im a man and yes men like boobs!
I have no problem with breastfeeding either.
What I hate is that men, in general cant comment on what they see as arousing without some women taking offense to it in some shae or form.
If that woman knew we were all talking about her decision im sure she would be so proud of what she did.
If I offended anyone, my apologies, the fact she was breastfeeding is not my point. She had great boobs that was my point, I felt awkward because society says I shouldn't be turned on because she is feeding an infant, but great tits are great tits. Sorry for any offense. |
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"yea this happened to me twice last year
once in mc donnells in paris & my neighbors house ,& yeah its very embarrassing for a male i think."
Why should it be embarrassing for a guy? A mother feeding her baby even if she has her back turned to you is still lovely.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Id rather not see a woman breastfeed in public...please do it in private. Its really not that much to ask for.
What are you doing on here, when you can't deal with a bare breast in public?
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How are the two in any way related? We've had people earlier in the thread chastising men for sexualising the whole thing...cant help but think youre guilty of doing it too with that comment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Id rather not see a woman breastfeed in public...please do it in private. Its really not that much to ask for.
Are you for real "
And yes, i am for real |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Id rather not see a woman breastfeed in public...please do it in private. Its really not that much to ask for.
What are you doing on here, when you can't deal with a bare breast in public?
How are the two in any way related? We've had people earlier in the thread chastising men for sexualising the whole thing...cant help but think youre guilty of doing it too with that comment"
No, breastfeeding is one of the most natural things in the world so is sex. Without those two we both wouldn't be here. I've no problem if someone finds the image of a breastfeeding mother erotic because it's a beautiful sight. See my post further up. But I've a problem with narrow minded, provincial, prudish, ignorants thinking.
You seem to have a problem when a mother displays her breast in public to breastfeed but you don't have a problem with looking at tits on here. It's the same breasts! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Id rather not see a woman breastfeed in public...please do it in private. Its really not that much to ask for.
What are you doing on here, when you can't deal with a bare breast in public?
How are the two in any way related? We've had people earlier in the thread chastising men for sexualising the whole thing...cant help but think youre guilty of doing it too with that comment
No, breastfeeding is one of the most natural things in the world so is sex. Without those two we both wouldn't be here. I've no problem if someone finds the image of a breastfeeding mother erotic because it's a beautiful sight. See my post further up. But I've a problem with narrow minded, provincial, prudish, ignorants thinking.
You seem to have a problem when a mother displays her breast in public to breastfeed but you don't have a problem with looking at tits on here. It's the same breasts! "
Same breasts, different context. I have no desire to sexualize the act, nor do i see it as any way etotic. Cant imagine many women agreeing with you there |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Have I missed something? Is this a post from the 1980's?"
I'd say even older. As I pointed out further up Ireland has the world's lowest rate in breastfeeding, nobody should wonder why if you read posts like this. The government spends only a 100'000 in promoting breastfeeding but spends a 12 to 15 million to treat infections in infants. Breastfeeding prevents such infections in the first place.
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Id rather not see a woman breastfeed in public...please do it in private. Its really not that much to ask for.
What are you doing on here, when you can't deal with a bare breast in public?
How are the two in any way related? We've had people earlier in the thread chastising men for sexualising the whole thing...cant help but think youre guilty of doing it too with that comment
No, breastfeeding is one of the most natural things in the world so is sex. Without those two we both wouldn't be here. I've no problem if someone finds the image of a breastfeeding mother erotic because it's a beautiful sight. See my post further up. But I've a problem with narrow minded, provincial, prudish, ignorants thinking.
You seem to have a problem when a mother displays her breast in public to breastfeed but you don't have a problem with looking at tits on here. It's the same breasts!
Same breasts, different context. I have no desire to sexualize the act, nor do i see it as any way etotic. Cant imagine many women agreeing with you there"
Btw I'm not sexualising the act of breastfeeding, it's simply a bare breast and the most natural act of nourishing a baby. It's you who puts the sexual component to it, when you can't bare the image of a breastfeeding mother in public. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Id rather not see a woman breastfeed in public...please do it in private. Its really not that much to ask for.
What are you doing on here, when you can't deal with a bare breast in public?
How are the two in any way related? We've had people earlier in the thread chastising men for sexualising the whole thing...cant help but think youre guilty of doing it too with that comment
No, breastfeeding is one of the most natural things in the world so is sex. Without those two we both wouldn't be here. I've no problem if someone finds the image of a breastfeeding mother erotic because it's a beautiful sight. See my post further up. But I've a problem with narrow minded, provincial, prudish, ignorants thinking.
You seem to have a problem when a mother displays her breast in public to breastfeed but you don't have a problem with looking at tits on here. It's the same breasts!
Same breasts, different context. I have no desire to sexualize the act, nor do i see it as any way etotic. Cant imagine many women agreeing with you there
Btw I'm not sexualising the act of breastfeeding, it's simply a bare breast and the most natural act of nourishing a baby. It's you who puts the sexual component to it, when you can't bare the image of a breastfeeding mother in public."
How have you linked me not wanting to see it with me putting a sexual component to it? Thats quite the leap there |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Id rather not see a woman breastfeed in public...please do it in private. Its really not that much to ask for.
What are you doing on here, when you can't deal with a bare breast in public?
How are the two in any way related? We've had people earlier in the thread chastising men for sexualising the whole thing...cant help but think youre guilty of doing it too with that comment
No, breastfeeding is one of the most natural things in the world so is sex. Without those two we both wouldn't be here. I've no problem if someone finds the image of a breastfeeding mother erotic because it's a beautiful sight. See my post further up. But I've a problem with narrow minded, provincial, prudish, ignorants thinking.
You seem to have a problem when a mother displays her breast in public to breastfeed but you don't have a problem with looking at tits on here. It's the same breasts!
Same breasts, different context. I have no desire to sexualize the act, nor do i see it as any way etotic. Cant imagine many women agreeing with you there
Btw I'm not sexualising the act of breastfeeding, it's simply a bare breast and the most natural act of nourishing a baby. It's you who puts the sexual component to it, when you can't bare the image of a breastfeeding mother in public.
How have you linked me not wanting to see it with me putting a sexual component to it? Thats quite the leap there"
Why would you have then a problem with it? |
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"Id rather not see a woman breastfeed in public...please do it in private. Its really not that much to ask for.
What are you doing on here, when you can't deal with a bare breast in public?
How are the two in any way related? We've had people earlier in the thread chastising men for sexualising the whole thing...cant help but think youre guilty of doing it too with that comment
No, breastfeeding is one of the most natural things in the world so is sex. Without those two we both wouldn't be here. I've no problem if someone finds the image of a breastfeeding mother erotic because it's a beautiful sight. See my post further up. But I've a problem with narrow minded, provincial, prudish, ignorants thinking.
You seem to have a problem when a mother displays her breast in public to breastfeed but you don't have a problem with looking at tits on here. It's the same breasts!
Same breasts, different context. I have no desire to sexualize the act, nor do i see it as any way etotic. Cant imagine many women agreeing with you there
Btw I'm not sexualising the act of breastfeeding, it's simply a bare breast and the most natural act of nourishing a baby. It's you who puts the sexual component to it, when you can't bare the image of a breastfeeding mother in public.
How have you linked me not wanting to see it with me putting a sexual component to it? Thats quite the leap there
Why would you have then a problem with it? "
Because i believe it to be a private act that should be done in private |
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By *oghunter33Woman
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"Id rather not see a woman breastfeed in public...please do it in private. Its really not that much to ask for.
What are you doing on here, when you can't deal with a bare breast in public?
How are the two in any way related? We've had people earlier in the thread chastising men for sexualising the whole thing...cant help but think youre guilty of doing it too with that comment
No, breastfeeding is one of the most natural things in the world so is sex. Without those two we both wouldn't be here. I've no problem if someone finds the image of a breastfeeding mother erotic because it's a beautiful sight. See my post further up. But I've a problem with narrow minded, provincial, prudish, ignorants thinking.
You seem to have a problem when a mother displays her breast in public to breastfeed but you don't have a problem with looking at tits on here. It's the same breasts!
Same breasts, different context. I have no desire to sexualize the act, nor do i see it as any way etotic. Cant imagine many women agreeing with you there
Btw I'm not sexualising the act of breastfeeding, it's simply a bare breast and the most natural act of nourishing a baby. It's you who puts the sexual component to it, when you can't bare the image of a breastfeeding mother in public.
How have you linked me not wanting to see it with me putting a sexual component to it? Thats quite the leap there
Why would you have then a problem with it?
Because i believe it to be a private act that should be done in private"
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"Id rather not see a woman breastfeed in public...please do it in private. Its really not that much to ask for.
What are you doing on here, when you can't deal with a bare breast in public?
How are the two in any way related? We've had people earlier in the thread chastising men for sexualising the whole thing...cant help but think youre guilty of doing it too with that comment
No, breastfeeding is one of the most natural things in the world so is sex. Without those two we both wouldn't be here. I've no problem if someone finds the image of a breastfeeding mother erotic because it's a beautiful sight. See my post further up. But I've a problem with narrow minded, provincial, prudish, ignorants thinking.
You seem to have a problem when a mother displays her breast in public to breastfeed but you don't have a problem with looking at tits on here. It's the same breasts!
Same breasts, different context. I have no desire to sexualize the act, nor do i see it as any way etotic. Cant imagine many women agreeing with you there
Btw I'm not sexualising the act of breastfeeding, it's simply a bare breast and the most natural act of nourishing a baby. It's you who puts the sexual component to it, when you can't bare the image of a breastfeeding mother in public.
How have you linked me not wanting to see it with me putting a sexual component to it? Thats quite the leap there
Why would you have then a problem with it?
Because i believe it to be a private act that should be done in private
If you think so you should be consequent and only eat at home."
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over a year ago
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Breastfeeding is normal natural and acceptable in public, its the way its viewed by people that complicates it.
Breasts are beautiful no matter what way they are seen.
I think what I was doing was trying to justify why I felt guilty looking at that woman and feeling slightly turned on. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Id rather not see a woman breastfeed in public...please do it in private. Its really not that much to ask for.
What are you doing on here, when you can't deal with a bare breast in public?
How are the two in any way related? We've had people earlier in the thread chastising men for sexualising the whole thing...cant help but think youre guilty of doing it too with that comment
No, breastfeeding is one of the most natural things in the world so is sex. Without those two we both wouldn't be here. I've no problem if someone finds the image of a breastfeeding mother erotic because it's a beautiful sight. See my post further up. But I've a problem with narrow minded, provincial, prudish, ignorants thinking.
You seem to have a problem when a mother displays her breast in public to breastfeed but you don't have a problem with looking at tits on here. It's the same breasts!
Same breasts, different context. I have no desire to sexualize the act, nor do i see it as any way etotic. Cant imagine many women agreeing with you there
Btw I'm not sexualising the act of breastfeeding, it's simply a bare breast and the most natural act of nourishing a baby. It's you who puts the sexual component to it, when you can't bare the image of a breastfeeding mother in public.
How have you linked me not wanting to see it with me putting a sexual component to it? Thats quite the leap there
Why would you have then a problem with it?
Because i believe it to be a private act that should be done in private
If you think so you should be consequent and only eat at home.
What?"
damn do i really have to spell it out??? the baby is eating and you think eating is a private act that should be done in private |
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"Id rather not see a woman breastfeed in public...please do it in private. Its really not that much to ask for.
What are you doing on here, when you can't deal with a bare breast in public?
How are the two in any way related? We've had people earlier in the thread chastising men for sexualising the whole thing...cant help but think youre guilty of doing it too with that comment
No, breastfeeding is one of the most natural things in the world so is sex. Without those two we both wouldn't be here. I've no problem if someone finds the image of a breastfeeding mother erotic because it's a beautiful sight. See my post further up. But I've a problem with narrow minded, provincial, prudish, ignorants thinking.
You seem to have a problem when a mother displays her breast in public to breastfeed but you don't have a problem with looking at tits on here. It's the same breasts!
Same breasts, different context. I have no desire to sexualize the act, nor do i see it as any way etotic. Cant imagine many women agreeing with you there
Btw I'm not sexualising the act of breastfeeding, it's simply a bare breast and the most natural act of nourishing a baby. It's you who puts the sexual component to it, when you can't bare the image of a breastfeeding mother in public.
How have you linked me not wanting to see it with me putting a sexual component to it? Thats quite the leap there
Why would you have then a problem with it?
Because i believe it to be a private act that should be done in private"
The conception should be a private act as well but I bet you would watch that lol |
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"Id rather not see a woman breastfeed in public...please do it in private. Its really not that much to ask for.
What are you doing on here, when you can't deal with a bare breast in public?
How are the two in any way related? We've had people earlier in the thread chastising men for sexualising the whole thing...cant help but think youre guilty of doing it too with that comment
No, breastfeeding is one of the most natural things in the world so is sex. Without those two we both wouldn't be here. I've no problem if someone finds the image of a breastfeeding mother erotic because it's a beautiful sight. See my post further up. But I've a problem with narrow minded, provincial, prudish, ignorants thinking.
You seem to have a problem when a mother displays her breast in public to breastfeed but you don't have a problem with looking at tits on here. It's the same breasts!
Same breasts, different context. I have no desire to sexualize the act, nor do i see it as any way etotic. Cant imagine many women agreeing with you there
Btw I'm not sexualising the act of breastfeeding, it's simply a bare breast and the most natural act of nourishing a baby. It's you who puts the sexual component to it, when you can't bare the image of a breastfeeding mother in public.
How have you linked me not wanting to see it with me putting a sexual component to it? Thats quite the leap there
Why would you have then a problem with it?
Because i believe it to be a private act that should be done in private
The conception should be a private act as well but I bet you would watch that lol"
We have a right to eat were we like so why shouldnt a breastfeed baby have the right to get feed in starbucks without getting gawked at. |
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"Id rather not see a woman breastfeed in public...please do it in private. Its really not that much to ask for.
What are you doing on here, when you can't deal with a bare breast in public?
How are the two in any way related? We've had people earlier in the thread chastising men for sexualising the whole thing...cant help but think youre guilty of doing it too with that comment
No, breastfeeding is one of the most natural things in the world so is sex. Without those two we both wouldn't be here. I've no problem if someone finds the image of a breastfeeding mother erotic because it's a beautiful sight. See my post further up. But I've a problem with narrow minded, provincial, prudish, ignorants thinking.
You seem to have a problem when a mother displays her breast in public to breastfeed but you don't have a problem with looking at tits on here. It's the same breasts!
Same breasts, different context. I have no desire to sexualize the act, nor do i see it as any way etotic. Cant imagine many women agreeing with you there
Btw I'm not sexualising the act of breastfeeding, it's simply a bare breast and the most natural act of nourishing a baby. It's you who puts the sexual component to it, when you can't bare the image of a breastfeeding mother in public.
How have you linked me not wanting to see it with me putting a sexual component to it? Thats quite the leap there
Why would you have then a problem with it?
Because i believe it to be a private act that should be done in private"
She's feeding her baby you moron. So she should stay at home or perhaps sprint home when the baby needs fed? Or you advocating she go into a toilet and hide it like it's shameful. I'm sorry but your sensibilities are neither here nor there. This oh I'd rather not see it stuff is a Croc of shit. It's a fleeting moment in your day. I'm you don't stay upset at the sight for that long, if you do you should really see a shrink an db talk threw those issues son |
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"Id rather not see a woman breastfeed in public...please do it in private. Its really not that much to ask for.
What are you doing on here, when you can't deal with a bare breast in public?
How are the two in any way related? We've had people earlier in the thread chastising men for sexualising the whole thing...cant help but think youre guilty of doing it too with that comment
No, breastfeeding is one of the most natural things in the world so is sex. Without those two we both wouldn't be here. I've no problem if someone finds the image of a breastfeeding mother erotic because it's a beautiful sight. See my post further up. But I've a problem with narrow minded, provincial, prudish, ignorants thinking.
You seem to have a problem when a mother displays her breast in public to breastfeed but you don't have a problem with looking at tits on here. It's the same breasts!
Same breasts, different context. I have no desire to sexualize the act, nor do i see it as any way etotic. Cant imagine many women agreeing with you there
Btw I'm not sexualising the act of breastfeeding, it's simply a bare breast and the most natural act of nourishing a baby. It's you who puts the sexual component to it, when you can't bare the image of a breastfeeding mother in public.
How have you linked me not wanting to see it with me putting a sexual component to it? Thats quite the leap there
Why would you have then a problem with it?
Because i believe it to be a private act that should be done in private
She's feeding her baby you moron. So she should stay at home or perhaps sprint home when the baby needs fed? Or you advocating she go into a toilet and hide it like it's shameful. I'm sorry but your sensibilities are neither here nor there. This oh I'd rather not see it stuff is a Croc of shit. It's a fleeting moment in your day. I'm you don't stay upset at the sight for that long, if you do you should really see a shrink an db talk threw those issues son "
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It's actually a very good thread to read the for an against! Imo most on here have no problem,but you also have the few that prob don't have a problem either but are just going against others to get a rise outta them. Which is the funny part an amusing in someway to read!
Btw iv no problem of mothers breastfeeding anywhere I've done it myself. The same way iv no probs with men scratching there balls in public or fixing there tackle to the left or right lol!! It's just a natural thing IMO.
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"Id rather not see a woman breastfeed in public...please do it in private. Its really not that much to ask for."
Unfortunately it's opinions like this that stops some ladies breastfeeding. I have friends that told me the only reason why they didn't is because they would be embarrassed feeding in front of people. My ex husband was more a "leg" man . He never said women shouldn't get their legs out in public places. Breasts function is feeding babies. If it's private then bottle feeding mothers shouldn't be feeding in public either because the act is the same..feeding a hungry baby. N it's not even moving with the times. It's how it's been since time began. |
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"Id rather not see a woman breastfeed in public...please do it in private. Its really not that much to ask for."
I assume you would be easily upset on a beach at the numbers of women sun bathing topless??
Should they also sun bathe in private, lest you are offended by a breast??..
Breast feeding is as old as time itself, long before formula milk , nursing mothers happily fed their children without ridicule for doing so.. |
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"Wow im amazed at the reactions to my post. Im never going to go to starbucks in the square again. Lol "
Actualy it is a decent thread, initaly I thought you were a pervert.
However you were simply admitting to being turned on by the sight of her nursing her child..
Though my disgust at other posters is justified IMO, especialy the terminology used.yukkkkkk |
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By *milli OP Man
over a year ago
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"Wow im amazed at the reactions to my post. Im never going to go to starbucks in the square again. Lol
Actualy it is a decent thread, initaly I thought you were a pervert.
However you were simply admitting to being turned on by the sight of her nursing her child..
Though my disgust at other posters is justified IMO, especialy the terminology used.yukkkkkk"
Thks, that was my take. Everyone is entitled to thier opinion. |
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I'm actually not surprised at one user's comments  I think this user sits at home and writes down things to say that will wind people up the most. Tis all a bit sad and pathetic |
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"I'm actually not surprised at one user's comments I think this user sits at home and writes down things to say that will wind people up the most. Tis all a bit sad and pathetic "
You noticed too?  |
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thers a video going round on facebook,an irish man on tube in england.who kicks off bout a lady breast feeding.was ashamed watchin it.then another video surrficed off the same guy caling women sluts for way they dressed.HE GOT BOTTLED |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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Very famous painters such as Picasso, Gaugain, da Vinci -just to mention a few - painted breastfeeding women, they all must be perverts and the women slutty whores displaying their goods in public  |
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I've flicked over some of the comments on this thread. Not all. Here is my tuppence worth.....
Breast feeding is a natural process. If it is required while out and about so be it. While I'd admit pregnant women have a certain glow about them, which is very attractive. A breast feeding women doesn't get me thinking filth. It actually makes me marvel at the wonder of life. It's an amazing thing. That's just me.
We have all been brought up differently in life and had an infinite amount of influences that have shaped who we are and our opinions. Some will think it not good etiquette to breast feed in public places, some don't see a problem with it. Thing is, if we didn't have our own and differing opinions. We would live in boring world. Our opinions on the whole, do not bring any malice with them. I personally don't think differently of a person for their thoughts, if they differ to mine. They just differ. It's an inevitable thing in life. If there was more tolerance and acceptance of others in this world, then happier it would be. Embrace the differences in the world.  |
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"thers a video going round on facebook,an irish man on tube in england.who kicks off bout a lady breast feeding.was ashamed watchin it.then another video surrficed off the same guy caling women sluts for way they dressed.HE GOT BOTTLED"
That was a set up. All actors for a project to see how many would step in to confront him for insulting her. From the article I saw no one other than the actors got involved. That said I think glassing someone is a bit over the top for a verbal tiff.
As for bananaman. I'm just wondering, I was out in dundrum with my sister not so long ago and we grabbed some food the small cafe in the main centre. A very open and public place. Now she wasn't flaunting herself but she was obviously on show. She often joked about giving some guys an eyeful even though it wasn't her intention.
Bananaman would you ask your sister to cover up out of shame. Would you have the balls to ask any feeding child's mother to cover up or would you sit there like a Catholic priest tutting playing with your beads under the table. I think not.I don't think this Is a generational thing, just arrogance, a half shot of narrow mindedness with a slice of troll.
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"I'm actually not surprised at one user's comments I think this user sits at home and writes down things to say that will wind people up the most. Tis all a bit sad and pathetic
You noticed too? "
Yes. Knobhead comes to mind |
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"I'm actually not surprised at one user's comments I think this user sits at home and writes down things to say that will wind people up the most. Tis all a bit sad and pathetic
You noticed too?
Yes. Knobhead comes to mind "
I don't think that word's even strong enough for said user! |
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"I'm actually not surprised at one user's comments I think this user sits at home and writes down things to say that will wind people up the most. Tis all a bit sad and pathetic
You noticed too?
Yes. Knobhead comes to mind
I don't think that word's even strong enough for said user! "
Nor do I !! |
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"I have to say that ive missed bananamans argumentative posts all we need now is nosafe to come back and copy and paste from articles and then the old gang will be back "
And yer man from leitrim to have a chat with himself as yer wan from leitrim
Id imgine Sligo should be dropping in soon too |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"I have to say that ive missed bananamans argumentative posts all we need now is nosafe to come back and copy and paste from articles and then the old gang will be back
And yer man from leitrim to have a chat with himself as yer wan from leitrim
Id imgine Sligo should be dropping in soon too "
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Jesus I can't get my head round this thread. I fed my child when she needed to be fed. I did it for the well being of my child. And if any one looked and had a problem with it . Than quite frankly they had the problem not me. |
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"I have to say that ive missed bananamans argumentative posts all we need now is nosafe to come back and copy and paste from articles and then the old gang will be back "
I've not missed him......
Or nosafe and their infantile ways! |
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I'm only 22 and I know for sure when I have a child I'd prefer the Mrs breastfeed.
I see so many girls that bottle feed their baby from day one (granted it's their choice)
But if I see a woman breastfeeding I think it's good.
just dont stare because it's a bonding thing for them. |
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"I'm only 22 and I know for sure when I have a child I'd prefer the Mrs breastfeed.
I see so many girls that bottle feed their baby from day one (granted it's their choice)
But if I see a woman breastfeeding I think it's good.
just dont stare because it's a bonding thing for them."
Ah...bless 22....
Your not long off the teeeth yer self then...  |
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"I'm only 22 and I know for sure when I have a child I'd prefer the Mrs breastfeed.
I see so many girls that bottle feed their baby from day one (granted it's their choice)
But if I see a woman breastfeeding I think it's good.
just dont stare because it's a bonding thing for them."
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"I'm only 22 and I know for sure when I have a child I'd prefer the Mrs breastfeed.
I see so many girls that bottle feed their baby from day one (granted it's their choice)
But if I see a woman breastfeeding I think it's good.
just dont stare because it's a bonding thing for them.
Ah...bless 22....
Your not long off the teeeth yer self then... "
OH.... are you sure? |
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"I'm only 22 and I know for sure when I have a child I'd prefer the Mrs breastfeed.
I see so many girls that bottle feed their baby from day one (granted it's their choice)
But if I see a woman breastfeeding I think it's good.
just dont stare because it's a bonding thing for them.
Ah...bless 22....
Your not long off the teeeth yer self then... "
down with that sort of thing.
I am open to replacements |
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"I'm only 22 and I know for sure when I have a child I'd prefer the Mrs breastfeed.
I see so many girls that bottle feed their baby from day one (granted it's their choice)
But if I see a woman breastfeeding I think it's good.
just dont stare because it's a bonding thing for them.
Ah...bless 22....
Your not long off the teeeth yer self then...
down with that sort of thing.
I am open to replacements "
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"I'm only 22 and I know for sure when I have a child I'd prefer the Mrs breastfeed.
I see so many girls that bottle feed their baby from day one (granted it's their choice)
But if I see a woman breastfeeding I think it's good.
just dont stare because it's a bonding thing for them.
Ah...bless 22....
Your not long off the teeeth yer self then...
down with that sort of thing.
I am open to replacements
Cummere little fella "
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Lets be honest here. Every man would look and check her out while she is breast feeding. Thats a fact. But not everyone would make a big deal out of it. Its not something that happens everyday, but i have seen it several times and have definately taken a peek myself. |
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"Lets be honest here. Every man would look and check her out while she is breast feeding. Thats a fact. But not everyone would make a big deal out of it. Its not something that happens everyday, but i have seen it several times and have definately taken a peek myself. "
True. But after the first look I wouldn't gawk lol not saying you do. Just in general.
Probably because it's rare now. |
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Ya you did make a big deal of it.. If ya didn't you wouldn't be posting it here, I've seen many women breastfeed In public but don't feel the need to post it here, |
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"Ya you did make a big deal of it.. If ya didn't you wouldn't be posting it here, I've seen many women breastfeed In public but don't feel the need to post it here, "
plus being aroused by it, I guess! |
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"Ya you did make a big deal of it.. If ya didn't you wouldn't be posting it here, I've seen many women breastfeed In public but don't feel the need to post it here,
plus being aroused by it, I guess!"
Yep and wishing he was the kid, which would mean he wants to suck his mammie tits |
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"Lets be honest here. Every man would look and check her out while she is breast feeding. Thats a fact. But not everyone would make a big deal out of it. Its not something that happens everyday, but i have seen it several times and have definately taken a peek myself. "
To be honest I would make a point of not staring or having a peek at a breastfeeding new mother,it is an intimate moment for mother and child and she is free to do it where she pleases without being ogled or sexualised for doing so. |
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