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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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During my time here I've met some good friends. Some I've met and played with, some I've met and never played woth.
And then there are some I would chat to online but won't meet because they just aren't for me and I've told them thanks but no thanks.. Now I've no problem chatting to people online that I genuinely get along with but I find they will play along pretending to just chat and then just try their luck again even after I've said no..
Should I just block them from messaging totally? I find it harsh as we do have good conversations but then it gets awkward again. They haven't been rude or pushy or anything but can they accept that no means no?
Am I just too soft? I enjoy the social side as much as the play side. Sometimes more depending on who I meet..  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I get a lot of the same. I don't block peple unless they are like crazy or rude though. "
That's exactly what's happening. They aren't rude or crazy at all. They are nice guys just not for me. But they just keep asking and it gets awkward saying no all the time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Can't blame them for trying a second time . Maybe they read signals wrong. Try a third time then a block might be ok"
No is pretty clear. And them replying saying ok no problem thanks for being honest is pretty clear too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah It does get a bit tedious. Then people are just like maybe a coffee meet. But I think the point of that is to see if you wanna have a play meet and I don't want to waste anyone time. |
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over a year ago
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"Yeah It does get a bit tedious. Then people are just like maybe a coffee meet. But I think the point of that is to see if you wanna have a play meet and I don't want to waste anyone time. "
I think they think they can change your mind in person. |
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I use my Will Smith voice and say "Back the f**k off dude!!"...  Or id use capital letters as shouty words they get the message, even if id say it in a nice way,they know theres a serious undertone to it. Ive not blocked anyone ive friended so far... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I point out to people like this that their utter lack of respect for my choices is exactly how I know I was right to refuse to meet them in the first place....
Then I block them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I use my Will Smith voice and say "Back the f**k off dude!!"... Or id use capital letters as shouty words they get the message, even if id say it in a nice way,they know theres a serious undertone to it. Ive not blocked anyone ive friended so far..."
Lol I won't get on your wrong side so I say it out straight no I don't want to meet, you're not my type, thanks but no thank all the usual..
I only block if someone is rude, aggressive or threatening. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I point out to people like this that their utter lack of respect for my choices is exactly how I know I was right to refuse to meet them in the first place....
Then I block them"
This ^^^
I mean, why should you be the one who feels awkward?
If they don't respect your boundaries or feelings then it's clear they're not respecting you!
Now how about a........
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I point out to people like this that their utter lack of respect for my choices is exactly how I know I was right to refuse to meet them in the first place....
Then I block them
This ^^^
I mean, why should you be the one who feels awkward?
If they don't respect your boundaries or feelings then it's clear they're not respecting you!
Now how about a........
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For the last time...NO!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I point out to people like this that their utter lack of respect for my choices is exactly how I know I was right to refuse to meet them in the first place....
Then I block them
This ^^^
I mean, why should you be the one who feels awkward?
If they don't respect your boundaries or feelings then it's clear they're not respecting you!
Now how about a........
For the last time...NO!!!!"
Does that mean........  |
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"During my time here I've met some good friends. Some I've met and played with, some I've met and never played woth.
And then there are some I would chat to online but won't meet because they just aren't for me and I've told them thanks but no thanks.. Now I've no problem chatting to people online that I genuinely get along with but I find they will play along pretending to just chat and then just try their luck again even after I've said no..
Should I just block them from messaging totally? I find it harsh as we do have good conversations but then it gets awkward again. They haven't been rude or pushy or anything but can they accept that no means no?
Am I just too soft? I enjoy the social side as much as the play side. Sometimes more depending on who I meet.. "
If they can't accept that it's just a bit of banter and that they might never meet then it is them with the problem!
I have 3 or 4 that do message in banter.. I banter back but we both know we're not going to meet!!
But we do share some laughs.... it's nice!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I use my Will Smith voice and say "Back the f**k off dude!!"... Or id use capital letters as shouty words they get the message, even if id say it in a nice way,they know theres a serious undertone to it. Ive not blocked anyone ive friended so far...
Lol I won't get on your wrong side so I say it out straight no I don't want to meet, you're not my type, thanks but no thank all the usual..
I only block if someone is rude, aggressive or threatening. "
Same here Snow but when they keep mailing asking about your weekend or what are you doing,or are ye flooded in with the weather...sur we've nothing better to do  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"During my time here I've met some good friends. Some I've met and played with, some I've met and never played woth.
And then there are some I would chat to online but won't meet because they just aren't for me and I've told them thanks but no thanks.. Now I've no problem chatting to people online that I genuinely get along with but I find they will play along pretending to just chat and then just try their luck again even after I've said no..
Should I just block them from messaging totally? I find it harsh as we do have good conversations but then it gets awkward again. They haven't been rude or pushy or anything but can they accept that no means no?
Am I just too soft? I enjoy the social side as much as the play side. Sometimes more depending on who I meet.. "
Why would u have continuous online chats with someone u never have an intention of meeting? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"During my time here I've met some good friends. Some I've met and played with, some I've met and never played woth.
And then there are some I would chat to online but won't meet because they just aren't for me and I've told them thanks but no thanks.. Now I've no problem chatting to people online that I genuinely get along with but I find they will play along pretending to just chat and then just try their luck again even after I've said no..
Should I just block them from messaging totally? I find it harsh as we do have good conversations but then it gets awkward again. They haven't been rude or pushy or anything but can they accept that no means no?
Am I just too soft? I enjoy the social side as much as the play side. Sometimes more depending on who I meet.. Why would u have continuous online chats with someone u never have an intention of meeting?"
But you've been doing just that for the last cpl of years Snicks, and haven't met anyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I use my Will Smith voice and say "Back the f**k off dude!!"... Or id use capital letters as shouty words they get the message, even if id say it in a nice way,they know theres a serious undertone to it. Ive not blocked anyone ive friended so far...
Lol I won't get on your wrong side so I say it out straight no I don't want to meet, you're not my type, thanks but no thank all the usual..
I only block if someone is rude, aggressive or threatening.
Same here Snow but when they keep mailing asking about your weekend or what are you doing,or are ye flooded in with the weather...sur we've nothing better to do "
Jeez won't mail ye again then   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"During my time here I've met some good friends. Some I've met and played with, some I've met and never played woth.
And then there are some I would chat to online but won't meet because they just aren't for me and I've told them thanks but no thanks.. Now I've no problem chatting to people online that I genuinely get along with but I find they will play along pretending to just chat and then just try their luck again even after I've said no..
Should I just block them from messaging totally? I find it harsh as we do have good conversations but then it gets awkward again. They haven't been rude or pushy or anything but can they accept that no means no?
Am I just too soft? I enjoy the social side as much as the play side. Sometimes more depending on who I meet.. Why would u have continuous online chats with someone u never have an intention of meeting?"
Ever heard of conversation? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"During my time here I've met some good friends. Some I've met and played with, some I've met and never played woth.
And then there are some I would chat to online but won't meet because they just aren't for me and I've told them thanks but no thanks.. Now I've no problem chatting to people online that I genuinely get along with but I find they will play along pretending to just chat and then just try their luck again even after I've said no..
Should I just block them from messaging totally? I find it harsh as we do have good conversations but then it gets awkward again. They haven't been rude or pushy or anything but can they accept that no means no?
Am I just too soft? I enjoy the social side as much as the play side. Sometimes more depending on who I meet.. Why would u have continuous online chats with someone u never have an intention of meeting?"
What's wrong with it lol
I do it all the time , but they OP knows too .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"During my time here I've met some good friends. Some I've met and played with, some I've met and never played woth.
And then there are some I would chat to online but won't meet because they just aren't for me and I've told them thanks but no thanks.. Now I've no problem chatting to people online that I genuinely get along with but I find they will play along pretending to just chat and then just try their luck again even after I've said no..
Should I just block them from messaging totally? I find it harsh as we do have good conversations but then it gets awkward again. They haven't been rude or pushy or anything but can they accept that no means no?
Am I just too soft? I enjoy the social side as much as the play side. Sometimes more depending on who I meet.. Why would u have continuous online chats with someone u never have an intention of meeting?
But you've been doing just that for the last cpl of years Snicks, and haven't met anyone "
Hahaha.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"During my time here I've met some good friends. Some I've met and played with, some I've met and never played woth.
And then there are some I would chat to online but won't meet because they just aren't for me and I've told them thanks but no thanks.. Now I've no problem chatting to people online that I genuinely get along with but I find they will play along pretending to just chat and then just try their luck again even after I've said no..
Should I just block them from messaging totally? I find it harsh as we do have good conversations but then it gets awkward again. They haven't been rude or pushy or anything but can they accept that no means no?
Am I just too soft? I enjoy the social side as much as the play side. Sometimes more depending on who I meet.. Why would u have continuous online chats with someone u never have an intention of meeting?
Ever heard of conversation?"
absolutley! I try do it always with people in the street or people on here i would like to meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why would u have continuous online chats with someone u never have an intention of meeting?
Ever heard of conversation?"
IF it is Snickers, there's only point in communication if both parties are attracted to each other visually, he doesn't have to travel & a shag is definite. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"During my time here I've met some good friends. Some I've met and played with, some I've met and never played woth.
And then there are some I would chat to online but won't meet because they just aren't for me and I've told them thanks but no thanks.. Now I've no problem chatting to people online that I genuinely get along with but I find they will play along pretending to just chat and then just try their luck again even after I've said no..
Should I just block them from messaging totally? I find it harsh as we do have good conversations but then it gets awkward again. They haven't been rude or pushy or anything but can they accept that no means no?
Am I just too soft? I enjoy the social side as much as the play side. Sometimes more depending on who I meet.. Why would u have continuous online chats with someone u never have an intention of meeting?
Ever heard of conversation?absolutley! I try do it always with people in the street or people on here i would like to meet "
lol I wouldn't get any pleasure chatting to someone through a screen who has told me no |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"During my time here I've met some good friends. Some I've met and played with, some I've met and never played woth.
And then there are some I would chat to online but won't meet because they just aren't for me and I've told them thanks but no thanks.. Now I've no problem chatting to people online that I genuinely get along with but I find they will play along pretending to just chat and then just try their luck again even after I've said no..
Should I just block them from messaging totally? I find it harsh as we do have good conversations but then it gets awkward again. They haven't been rude or pushy or anything but can they accept that no means no?
Am I just too soft? I enjoy the social side as much as the play side. Sometimes more depending on who I meet.. Why would u have continuous online chats with someone u never have an intention of meeting?
Ever heard of conversation?absolutley! I try do it always with people in the street or people on here i would like to meet lol I wouldn't get any pleasure chatting to someone through a screen who has told me no "
Ah, so it's an ego thing then.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"During my time here I've met some good friends. Some I've met and played with, some I've met and never played woth.
And then there are some I would chat to online but won't meet because they just aren't for me and I've told them thanks but no thanks.. Now I've no problem chatting to people online that I genuinely get along with but I find they will play along pretending to just chat and then just try their luck again even after I've said no..
Should I just block them from messaging totally? I find it harsh as we do have good conversations but then it gets awkward again. They haven't been rude or pushy or anything but can they accept that no means no?
Am I just too soft? I enjoy the social side as much as the play side. Sometimes more depending on who I meet.. Why would u have continuous online chats with someone u never have an intention of meeting?"
Online chats are not why people join fab for...its mixed messages...and it creates other problems...One which you're now raising. There are chat sites for that or the pub or Tescos fruit department. I'll continue to chat with someone whom I've on here but Iit'll not be through this site platform as this is a sex site and will continue to give mixed messages...remember they can read your messages, perv ur provocative pics ( always viewing you in more than friend basis.... I guess what I'mtrying to ssay is. ..would you meet and chat over coffee and slowly lover your cleavage to bee looked at and lift your skirt up to reveal your wet patch if it was just a friendly chat? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"During my time here I've met some good friends. Some I've met and played with, some I've met and never played woth.
And then there are some I would chat to online but won't meet because they just aren't for me and I've told them thanks but no thanks.. Now I've no problem chatting to people online that I genuinely get along with but I find they will play along pretending to just chat and then just try their luck again even after I've said no..
Should I just block them from messaging totally? I find it harsh as we do have good conversations but then it gets awkward again. They haven't been rude or pushy or anything but can they accept that no means no?
Am I just too soft? I enjoy the social side as much as the play side. Sometimes more depending on who I meet.. Why would u have continuous online chats with someone u never have an intention of meeting?
Ever heard of conversation?absolutley! I try do it always with people in the street or people on here i would like to meet lol I wouldn't get any pleasure chatting to someone through a screen who has told me no
Ah, so it's an ego thing then.."
lol why would I? I'm never going to meet them! I woukdnt call someone I regularly chat to through a screen, a friend |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"During my time here I've met some good friends. Some I've met and played with, some I've met and never played woth.
And then there are some I would chat to online but won't meet because they just aren't for me and I've told them thanks but no thanks.. Now I've no problem chatting to people online that I genuinely get along with but I find they will play along pretending to just chat and then just try their luck again even after I've said no..
Should I just block them from messaging totally? I find it harsh as we do have good conversations but then it gets awkward again. They haven't been rude or pushy or anything but can they accept that no means no?
Am I just too soft? I enjoy the social side as much as the play side. Sometimes more depending on who I meet.. Why would u have continuous online chats with someone u never have an intention of meeting?
Ever heard of conversation?absolutley! I try do it always with people in the street or people on here i would like to meet lol I wouldn't get any pleasure chatting to someone through a screen who has told me no
Ah, so it's an ego thing then..lol why would I? I'm never going to meet them! I woukdnt call someone I regularly chat to through a screen, a friend "
sorry I ment to add who I'm never gonna meet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I tried it with you, you said no and I accept that it doesn't mean I don't want to, but I understand your reasons and I respect that and I have a lot of self restraint and can contain myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"During my time here I've met some good friends. Some I've met and played with, some I've met and never played woth.
And then there are some I would chat to online but won't meet because they just aren't for me and I've told them thanks but no thanks.. Now I've no problem chatting to people online that I genuinely get along with but I find they will play along pretending to just chat and then just try their luck again even after I've said no..
Should I just block them from messaging totally? I find it harsh as we do have good conversations but then it gets awkward again. They haven't been rude or pushy or anything but can they accept that no means no?
Am I just too soft? I enjoy the social side as much as the play side. Sometimes more depending on who I meet.. Why would u have continuous online chats with someone u never have an intention of meeting?
Ever heard of conversation?absolutley! I try do it always with people in the street or people on here i would like to meet lol I wouldn't get any pleasure chatting to someone through a screen who has told me no
Ah, so it's an ego thing then..lol why would I? I'm never going to meet them! I woukdnt call someone I regularly chat to through a screen, a friend sorry I ment to add who I'm never gonna meet "
Why not? An online friendship can be every bit as good as offline. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I tried it with you, you said no and I accept that it doesn't mean I don't want to, but I understand your reasons and I respect that and I have a lot of self restraint and can contain myself "
It's a good reason and yes you are one of the respectful ones |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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Well try to suss them out a bit longer before you accept friend invites (I only do every moon eclipse). Then do friend list spring cleans now qnd then anouncing it in status (sorry guys...have to tidy up). That signals to those that are of the list that you won't meet them or have an interest chatting to them any further. It works for me and I think it's a fair enough process without fuss over why.
The small remainder who won't understand and keep on messaging get a message starting: there's no point.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"During my time here I've met some good friends. Some I've met and played with, some I've met and never played woth.
And then there are some I would chat to online but won't meet because they just aren't for me and I've told them thanks but no thanks.. Now I've no problem chatting to people online that I genuinely get along with but I find they will play along pretending to just chat and then just try their luck again even after I've said no..
Should I just block them from messaging totally? I find it harsh as we do have good conversations but then it gets awkward again. They haven't been rude or pushy or anything but can they accept that no means no?
Am I just too soft? I enjoy the social side as much as the play side. Sometimes more depending on who I meet.. Why would u have continuous online chats with someone u never have an intention of meeting?
Ever heard of conversation?absolutley! I try do it always with people in the street or people on here i would like to meet lol I wouldn't get any pleasure chatting to someone through a screen who has told me no
Ah, so it's an ego thing then..lol why would I? I'm never going to meet them! I woukdnt call someone I regularly chat to through a screen, a friend sorry I ment to add who I'm never gonna meet
Why not? An online friendship can be every bit as good as offline."
He's not looking for a friendship just someone to fuck I think |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well try to suss them out a bit longer before you accept friend invites (I only do every moon eclipse). Then do friend list spring cleans now qnd then anouncing it in status (sorry guys...have to tidy up). That signals to those that are of the list that you won't meet them or have an interest chatting to them any further. It works for me and I think it's a fair enough process without fuss over why.
The small remainder who won't understand and keep on messaging get a message starting: there's no point...."
Ah balls!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well try to suss them out a bit longer before you accept friend invites (I only do every moon eclipse). Then do friend list spring cleans now qnd then anouncing it in status (sorry guys...have to tidy up). That signals to those that are of the list that you won't meet them or have an interest chatting to them any further. It works for me and I think it's a fair enough process without fuss over why.
The small remainder who won't understand and keep on messaging get a message starting: there's no point...."
I didn't really mean people on my friends lists I just meant regular people I'd chat to. I don't pay much attention to my friends list tbh |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"During my time here I've met some good friends. Some I've met and played with, some I've met and never played woth.
And then there are some I would chat to online but won't meet because they just aren't for me and I've told them thanks but no thanks.. Now I've no problem chatting to people online that I genuinely get along with but I find they will play along pretending to just chat and then just try their luck again even after I've said no..
Should I just block them from messaging totally? I find it harsh as we do have good conversations but then it gets awkward again. They haven't been rude or pushy or anything but can they accept that no means no?
Am I just too soft? I enjoy the social side as much as the play side. Sometimes more depending on who I meet.. Why would u have continuous online chats with someone u never have an intention of meeting?
Online chats are not why people join fab for...its mixed messages...and it creates other problems...One which you're now raising. There are chat sites for that or the pub or Tescos fruit department. I'll continue to chat with someone whom I've on here but Iit'll not be through this site platform as this is a sex site and will continue to give mixed messages...remember they can read your messages, perv ur provocative pics ( always viewing you in more than friend basis.... I guess what I'mtrying to ssay is. ..would you meet and chat over coffee and slowly lover your cleavage to bee looked at and lift your skirt up to reveal your wet patch if it was just a friendly chat? "
I don't see the problem with online chats.. Isn't that what the chatrooms are for? I've learned a lot of stuff from people I've chatted to online but not met. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Well try to suss them out a bit longer before you accept friend invites (I only do every moon eclipse). Then do friend list spring cleans now qnd then anouncing it in status (sorry guys...have to tidy up). That signals to those that are of the list that you won't meet them or have an interest chatting to them any further. It works for me and I think it's a fair enough process without fuss over why.
The small remainder who won't understand and keep on messaging get a message starting: there's no point....
I didn't really mean people on my friends lists I just meant regular people I'd chat to. I don't pay much attention to my friends list tbh "
Ok, misread/interpreted the thread title so, for me fab friends are those on my friends list |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well try to suss them out a bit longer before you accept friend invites (I only do every moon eclipse). Then do friend list spring cleans now qnd then anouncing it in status (sorry guys...have to tidy up). That signals to those that are of the list that you won't meet them or have an interest chatting to them any further. It works for me and I think it's a fair enough process without fuss over why.
The small remainder who won't understand and keep on messaging get a message starting: there's no point....
I didn't really mean people on my friends lists I just meant regular people I'd chat to. I don't pay much attention to my friends list tbh
Ok, misread/interpreted the thread title so, for me fab friends are those on my friends list "
Yea sorry my fault  I don't pay much attention to that section so I may have worded it wrong |
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"During my time here I've met some good friends. Some I've met and played with, some I've met and never played woth.
And then there are some I would chat to online but won't meet because they just aren't for me and I've told them thanks but no thanks.. Now I've no problem chatting to people online that I genuinely get along with but I find they will play along pretending to just chat and then just try their luck again even after I've said no..
Should I just block them from messaging totally? I find it harsh as we do have good conversations but then it gets awkward again. They haven't been rude or pushy or anything but can they accept that no means no?
Am I just too soft? I enjoy the social side as much as the play side. Sometimes more depending on who I meet.. Why would u have continuous online chats with someone u never have an intention of meeting?
Ever heard of conversation?absolutley! I try do it always with people in the street or people on here i would like to meet lol I wouldn't get any pleasure chatting to someone through a screen who has told me no
Ah, so it's an ego thing then..lol why would I? I'm never going to meet them! I woukdnt call someone I regularly chat to through a screen, a friend sorry I ment to add who I'm never gonna meet
Why not? An online friendship can be every bit as good as offline.
He's not looking for a friendship just someone to fuck I think "
lol I have no interest in a friendship through a screen! That's like something I did on bebo when I was a teenager |
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"During my time here I've met some good friends. Some I've met and played with, some I've met and never played woth.
And then there are some I would chat to online but won't meet because they just aren't for me and I've told them thanks but no thanks.. Now I've no problem chatting to people online that I genuinely get along with but I find they will play along pretending to just chat and then just try their luck again even after I've said no..
Should I just block them from messaging totally? I find it harsh as we do have good conversations but then it gets awkward again. They haven't been rude or pushy or anything but can they accept that no means no?
Am I just too soft? I enjoy the social side as much as the play side. Sometimes more depending on who I meet.. Why would u have continuous online chats with someone u never have an intention of meeting?
Ever heard of conversation?absolutley! I try do it always with people in the street or people on here i would like to meet lol I wouldn't get any pleasure chatting to someone through a screen who has told me no
Ah, so it's an ego thing then..lol why would I? I'm never going to meet them! I woukdnt call someone I regularly chat to through a screen, a friend sorry I ment to add who I'm never gonna meet
Why not? An online friendship can be every bit as good as offline.
He's not looking for a friendship just someone to fuck I think lol I have no interest in a friendship through a screen! That's like something I did on bebo when I was a teenager "
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I met so many amazing people many times think about delete my acount but they kept me here,I have to say most people I met here are amazing but becareful u can meet some nasty ones who pretend they your friends then stab you in back just because they jeoulos of you. This is a fun site everyone should have fun and leave the drama at home we here for a good time not a long time.Enjoy fabs sexy horny people |
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"During my time here I've met some good friends. Some I've met and played with, some I've met and never played woth.
And then there are some I would chat to online but won't meet because they just aren't for me and I've told them thanks but no thanks.. Now I've no problem chatting to people online that I genuinely get along with but I find they will play along pretending to just chat and then just try their luck again even after I've said no..
Should I just block them from messaging totally? I find it harsh as we do have good conversations but then it gets awkward again. They haven't been rude or pushy or anything but can they accept that no means no?
Am I just too soft? I enjoy the social side as much as the play side. Sometimes more depending on who I meet.. Why would u have continuous online chats with someone u never have an intention of meeting?
Ever heard of conversation?absolutley! I try do it always with people in the street or people on here i would like to meet lol I wouldn't get any pleasure chatting to someone through a screen who has told me no
Ah, so it's an ego thing then..lol why would I? I'm never going to meet them! I woukdnt call someone I regularly chat to through a screen, a friend sorry I ment to add who I'm never gonna meet
Why not? An online friendship can be every bit as good as offline.
He's not looking for a friendship just someone to fuck I think lol I have no interest in a friendship through a screen! That's like something I did on bebo when I was a teenager
You may want to reopen that account "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I met so many amazing people many times think about delete my acount but they kept me here,I have to say most people I met here are amazing but becareful u can meet some nasty ones who pretend they your friends then stab you in back just because they jeoulos of you. This is a fun site everyone should have fun and leave the drama at home we here for a good time not a long time.Enjoy fabs sexy horny people "
I totally agree.. I'm not meeting for a little bit as I'm focusing of finishing college until May but I couldn't delete my account. I have some laugh here with people and I'd miss it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"During my time here I've met some good friends. Some I've met and played with, some I've met and never played woth.
And then there are some I would chat to online but won't meet because they just aren't for me and I've told them thanks but no thanks.. Now I've no problem chatting to people online that I genuinely get along with but I find they will play along pretending to just chat and then just try their luck again even after I've said no..
Should I just block them from messaging totally? I find it harsh as we do have good conversations but then it gets awkward again. They haven't been rude or pushy or anything but can they accept that no means no?
Am I just too soft? I enjoy the social side as much as the play side. Sometimes more depending on who I meet.. Why would u have continuous online chats with someone u never have an intention of meeting?
Ever heard of conversation?absolutley! I try do it always with people in the street or people on here i would like to meet lol I wouldn't get any pleasure chatting to someone through a screen who has told me no
Ah, so it's an ego thing then..lol why would I? I'm never going to meet them! I woukdnt call someone I regularly chat to through a screen, a friend sorry I ment to add who I'm never gonna meet
Why not? An online friendship can be every bit as good as offline.
He's not looking for a friendship just someone to fuck I think lol I have no interest in a friendship through a screen! That's like something I did on bebo when I was a teenager "
I'm talking about genuine friendships, not 'look at my 1200 Facebook friends". |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I tried it with you, you said no and I accept that it doesn't mean I don't want to, but I understand your reasons and I respect that and I have a lot of self restraint and can contain myself
It's a good reason and yes you are one of the respectful ones "
And do are you, do you want to be friends? lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"During my time here I've met some good friends. Some I've met and played with, some I've met and never played woth.
And then there are some I would chat to online but won't meet because they just aren't for me and I've told them thanks but no thanks.. Now I've no problem chatting to people online that I genuinely get along with but I find they will play along pretending to just chat and then just try their luck again even after I've said no..
Should I just block them from messaging totally? I find it harsh as we do have good conversations but then it gets awkward again. They haven't been rude or pushy or anything but can they accept that no means no?
Am I just too soft? I enjoy the social side as much as the play side. Sometimes more depending on who I meet.. Why would u have continuous online chats with someone u never have an intention of meeting?
Ever heard of conversation?absolutley! I try do it always with people in the street or people on here i would like to meet lol I wouldn't get any pleasure chatting to someone through a screen who has told me no
Ah, so it's an ego thing then..lol why would I? I'm never going to meet them! I woukdnt call someone I regularly chat to through a screen, a friend sorry I ment to add who I'm never gonna meet
Why not? An online friendship can be every bit as good as offline.
He's not looking for a friendship just someone to fuck I think lol I have no interest in a friendship through a screen! That's like something I did on bebo when I was a teenager
You may want to reopen that account "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"During my time here I've met some good friends. Some I've met and played with, some I've met and never played woth.
And then there are some I would chat to online but won't meet because they just aren't for me and I've told them thanks but no thanks.. Now I've no problem chatting to people online that I genuinely get along with but I find they will play along pretending to just chat and then just try their luck again even after I've said no..
Should I just block them from messaging totally? I find it harsh as we do have good conversations but then it gets awkward again. They haven't been rude or pushy or anything but can they accept that no means no?
Am I just too soft? I enjoy the social side as much as the play side. Sometimes more depending on who I meet.. Why would u have continuous online chats with someone u never have an intention of meeting?
Ever heard of conversation?absolutley! I try do it always with people in the street or people on here i would like to meet lol I wouldn't get any pleasure chatting to someone through a screen who has told me no
Ah, so it's an ego thing then..lol why would I? I'm never going to meet them! I woukdnt call someone I regularly chat to through a screen, a friend sorry I ment to add who I'm never gonna meet
Why not? An online friendship can be every bit as good as offline.
He's not looking for a friendship just someone to fuck I think lol I have no interest in a friendship through a screen! That's like something I did on bebo when I was a teenager
I'm talking about genuine friendships, not 'look at my 1200 Facebook friends"."
a genuine friendship to me is not one through a screen that's all! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"During my time here I've met some good friends. Some I've met and played with, some I've met and never played woth.
And then there are some I would chat to online but won't meet because they just aren't for me and I've told them thanks but no thanks.. Now I've no problem chatting to people online that I genuinely get along with but I find they will play along pretending to just chat and then just try their luck again even after I've said no..
Should I just block them from messaging totally? I find it harsh as we do have good conversations but then it gets awkward again. They haven't been rude or pushy or anything but can they accept that no means no?
Am I just too soft? I enjoy the social side as much as the play side. Sometimes more depending on who I meet.. Why would u have continuous online chats with someone u never have an intention of meeting?
Ever heard of conversation?absolutley! I try do it always with people in the street or people on here i would like to meet lol I wouldn't get any pleasure chatting to someone through a screen who has told me no
Ah, so it's an ego thing then..lol why would I? I'm never going to meet them! I woukdnt call someone I regularly chat to through a screen, a friend sorry I ment to add who I'm never gonna meet
Why not? An online friendship can be every bit as good as offline.
He's not looking for a friendship just someone to fuck I think lol I have no interest in a friendship through a screen! That's like something I did on bebo when I was a teenager
I'm talking about genuine friendships, not 'look at my 1200 Facebook friends".a genuine friendship to me is not one through a screen that's all! "
A genuine friendship has nothing to do with location or how you met or the means by which you communicate |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"During my time here I've met some good friends. Some I've met and played with, some I've met and never played woth.
And then there are some I would chat to online but won't meet because they just aren't for me and I've told them thanks but no thanks.. Now I've no problem chatting to people online that I genuinely get along with but I find they will play along pretending to just chat and then just try their luck again even after I've said no..
Should I just block them from messaging totally? I find it harsh as we do have good conversations but then it gets awkward again. They haven't been rude or pushy or anything but can they accept that no means no?
Am I just too soft? I enjoy the social side as much as the play side. Sometimes more depending on who I meet.. Why would u have continuous online chats with someone u never have an intention of meeting?
Ever heard of conversation?absolutley! I try do it always with people in the street or people on here i would like to meet lol I wouldn't get any pleasure chatting to someone through a screen who has told me no
Ah, so it's an ego thing then..lol why would I? I'm never going to meet them! I woukdnt call someone I regularly chat to through a screen, a friend sorry I ment to add who I'm never gonna meet
Why not? An online friendship can be every bit as good as offline.
He's not looking for a friendship just someone to fuck I think lol I have no interest in a friendship through a screen! That's like something I did on bebo when I was a teenager
I'm talking about genuine friendships, not 'look at my 1200 Facebook friends".a genuine friendship to me is not one through a screen that's all!
A genuine friendship has nothing to do with location or how you met or the means by which you communicate"
so u know as much about a person through a screen the same as a person ur friends with, in person? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"During my time here I've met some good friends. Some I've met and played with, some I've met and never played woth.
And then there are some I would chat to online but won't meet because they just aren't for me and I've told them thanks but no thanks.. Now I've no problem chatting to people online that I genuinely get along with but I find they will play along pretending to just chat and then just try their luck again even after I've said no..
Should I just block them from messaging totally? I find it harsh as we do have good conversations but then it gets awkward again. They haven't been rude or pushy or anything but can they accept that no means no?
Am I just too soft? I enjoy the social side as much as the play side. Sometimes more depending on who I meet.. Why would u have continuous online chats with someone u never have an intention of meeting?
Ever heard of conversation?absolutley! I try do it always with people in the street or people on here i would like to meet lol I wouldn't get any pleasure chatting to someone through a screen who has told me no
Ah, so it's an ego thing then..lol why would I? I'm never going to meet them! I woukdnt call someone I regularly chat to through a screen, a friend sorry I ment to add who I'm never gonna meet
Why not? An online friendship can be every bit as good as offline.
He's not looking for a friendship just someone to fuck I think lol I have no interest in a friendship through a screen! That's like something I did on bebo when I was a teenager
I'm talking about genuine friendships, not 'look at my 1200 Facebook friends".a genuine friendship to me is not one through a screen that's all!
A genuine friendship has nothing to do with location or how you met or the means by which you communicateso u know as much about a person through a screen the same as a person ur friends with, in person? "
You only know as much about anyone as they choose to reveal and even then judgement on your own part is required - that is true of anyone you meet - on or off a screen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"During my time here I've met some good friends. Some I've met and played with, some I've met and never played woth.
And then there are some I would chat to online but won't meet because they just aren't for me and I've told them thanks but no thanks.. Now I've no problem chatting to people online that I genuinely get along with but I find they will play along pretending to just chat and then just try their luck again even after I've said no..
Should I just block them from messaging totally? I find it harsh as we do have good conversations but then it gets awkward again. They haven't been rude or pushy or anything but can they accept that no means no?
Am I just too soft? I enjoy the social side as much as the play side. Sometimes more depending on who I meet.. Why would u have continuous online chats with someone u never have an intention of meeting?
Ever heard of conversation?absolutley! I try do it always with people in the street or people on here i would like to meet lol I wouldn't get any pleasure chatting to someone through a screen who has told me no
Ah, so it's an ego thing then..lol why would I? I'm never going to meet them! I woukdnt call someone I regularly chat to through a screen, a friend sorry I ment to add who I'm never gonna meet
Why not? An online friendship can be every bit as good as offline.
He's not looking for a friendship just someone to fuck I think lol I have no interest in a friendship through a screen! That's like something I did on bebo when I was a teenager
I'm talking about genuine friendships, not 'look at my 1200 Facebook friends".a genuine friendship to me is not one through a screen that's all!
A genuine friendship has nothing to do with location or how you met or the means by which you communicateso u know as much about a person through a screen the same as a person ur friends with, in person?
You only know as much about anyone as they choose to reveal and even then judgement on your own part is required - that is true of anyone you meet - on or off a screen."
Imo you get a much better interpretation of someone in person! Someone I chat to through a screen who I will never meet I wouldn't class a friend! Just my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"During my time here I've met some good friends. Some I've met and played with, some I've met and never played woth.
And then there are some I would chat to online but won't meet because they just aren't for me and I've told them thanks but no thanks.. Now I've no problem chatting to people online that I genuinely get along with but I find they will play along pretending to just chat and then just try their luck again even after I've said no..
Should I just block them from messaging totally? I find it harsh as we do have good conversations but then it gets awkward again. They haven't been rude or pushy or anything but can they accept that no means no?
Am I just too soft? I enjoy the social side as much as the play side. Sometimes more depending on who I meet.. Why would u have continuous online chats with someone u never have an intention of meeting?
Ever heard of conversation?absolutley! I try do it always with people in the street or people on here i would like to meet lol I wouldn't get any pleasure chatting to someone through a screen who has told me no
Ah, so it's an ego thing then..lol why would I? I'm never going to meet them! I woukdnt call someone I regularly chat to through a screen, a friend sorry I ment to add who I'm never gonna meet
Why not? An online friendship can be every bit as good as offline.
He's not looking for a friendship just someone to fuck I think lol I have no interest in a friendship through a screen! That's like something I did on bebo when I was a teenager
I'm talking about genuine friendships, not 'look at my 1200 Facebook friends".a genuine friendship to me is not one through a screen that's all!
A genuine friendship has nothing to do with location or how you met or the means by which you communicateso u know as much about a person through a screen the same as a person ur friends with, in person?
You only know as much about anyone as they choose to reveal and even then judgement on your own part is required - that is true of anyone you meet - on or off a screen.Imo you get a much better interpretation of someone in person! Someone I chat to through a screen who I will never meet I wouldn't class a friend! Just my opinion "
Then we have different opinions. |
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"During my time here I've met some good friends. Some I've met and played with, some I've met and never played woth.
And then there are some I would chat to online but won't meet because they just aren't for me and I've told them thanks but no thanks.. Now I've no problem chatting to people online that I genuinely get along with but I find they will play along pretending to just chat and then just try their luck again even after I've said no..
Should I just block them from messaging totally? I find it harsh as we do have good conversations but then it gets awkward again. They haven't been rude or pushy or anything but can they accept that no means no?
Am I just too soft? I enjoy the social side as much as the play side. Sometimes more depending on who I meet.. Why would u have continuous online chats with someone u never have an intention of meeting?
Ever heard of conversation?absolutley! I try do it always with people in the street or people on here i would like to meet lol I wouldn't get any pleasure chatting to someone through a screen who has told me no
Ah, so it's an ego thing then..lol why would I? I'm never going to meet them! I woukdnt call someone I regularly chat to through a screen, a friend sorry I ment to add who I'm never gonna meet
Why not? An online friendship can be every bit as good as offline.
He's not looking for a friendship just someone to fuck I think lol I have no interest in a friendship through a screen! That's like something I did on bebo when I was a teenager
I'm talking about genuine friendships, not 'look at my 1200 Facebook friends".a genuine friendship to me is not one through a screen that's all!
A genuine friendship has nothing to do with location or how you met or the means by which you communicateso u know as much about a person through a screen the same as a person ur friends with, in person?
You only know as much about anyone as they choose to reveal and even then judgement on your own part is required - that is true of anyone you meet - on or off a screen.Imo you get a much better interpretation of someone in person! Someone I chat to through a screen who I will never meet I wouldn't class a friend! Just my opinion
Then we have different opinions. "
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"It would be very boring if we all had the same views
As is the constant telling us of your views that quite honestly are the antithesis of swinging."
i could say something to that but I won't remember there is couples and singles on this website! Singles can play with singles which I would class as pure casual sex where as when couples come into play it's more a swinging element |
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"It would be very boring if we all had the same views
As is the constant telling us of your views that quite honestly are the antithesis of swinging.
i could say something to that but I won't remember there is couples and singles on this website! Singles can play with singles which I would class as pure casual sex where as when couples come into play it's more a swinging element "
So obviously you're in the former camp but sound as though you find the latter a little distasteful Snickers? |
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"It would be very boring if we all had the same views
As is the constant telling us of your views that quite honestly are the antithesis of swinging.
i could say something to that but I won't remember there is couples and singles on this website! Singles can play with singles which I would class as pure casual sex where as when couples come into play it's more a swinging element
So obviously you're in the former camp but sound as though you find the latter a little distasteful Snickers?"
snickers? Ud be right that I'm more in line to meet singles
i don't know could I do the 3sum thing with hubby involved |
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"Whoever is first to meet me will see how nice I am "
Are you STILL waiting on that first meet? You know what they say about people who keep repeating the same steps and expect a different result don't you? |
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"Whoever is first to meet me will see how nice I am
Are you STILL waiting on that first meet? You know what they say about people who keep repeating the same steps and expect a different result don't you?"
Oh I'm not waiting I have meets in the pipeline! No worry with me |
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"Whoever is first to meet me will see how nice I am
Are you STILL waiting on that first meet? You know what they say about people who keep repeating the same steps and expect a different result don't you?Oh I'm not waiting I have meets in the pipeline! No worry with me "
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"Whoever is first to meet me will see how nice I am
Are you STILL waiting on that first meet? You know what they say about people who keep repeating the same steps and expect a different result don't you?Oh I'm not waiting I have meets in the pipeline! No worry with me
Don't be too mean to them eh? "
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Some of my best meets have come from a second time round mail. It just maybe the moment but its always nice to get a second chance......repeated annoying mail is a different story do. |
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