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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What is it about some people who join fab... u get chatting, share intimate details and pics all going great... then you go to message them and bam, all you see is 'User no longer on site'. Its so frustrating! Plus are these people just fishing for info or pics or what! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No I'm a gentleman I'll have you know  ...seriously though do people not have the decency to let ppl know they are deleting their account when you are mid chat and planning a meet... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Good thinking i know that happens to newbies god love them... and yea can see how it would be a knee jerk reaction but still. I was chatting with this person for a few weeks... going great then gone  |
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"Good thinking i know that happens to newbies god love them... and yea can see how it would be a knee jerk reaction but still. I was chatting with this person for a few weeks... going great then gone "
Potato potaato.... ye cant win them all. Id not let it dishearten me though,theres plenty more fisheys in the fab sea |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People just get freaked at first with the lovely single gentleman welcoming wagon I deleted my first account here years ago when I got 300 mails in about 4 hours.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Oh believe me _isdirtygirl i won't get disheartened... just hate wasting precious time. Those other fab fish you mention will get my undivided attention  |
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"Oh believe me _isdirtygirl i won't get disheartened... just hate wasting precious time. Those other fab fish you mention will get my undivided attention "
Ha  pick yerself up,dust yerself off and start all over again.... im singing that now! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I did the same sluttysnowwhite thus is my second... but not from receiving excessive messages like you personally if i message someone and i don't get a reply I'm mature enough to read between the lines. Wish everyone was like that! Make life on here so much more enjoyable for all ye fab girls  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ha pick yerself up,dust yerself off and start all over again.... im singing that now!"
Lets duet hun... bet we'd sound good
Thanks for your positive pick me up. |
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"Ha pick yerself up,dust yerself off and start all over again.... im singing that now!
Lets duet hun... bet we'd sound good
Thanks for your positive pick me up. "
Anytime..you can be Barry Gibb and ill be Barbra Streisand (only i shatter glass)... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Without my filters it is overwhelming. Would be good if you could have your friends messages in a different area."
Filters are great and necessary. Isn't it extreme or odd to just leave! Im not talking about ppl you just met but ppl you have clicked with and enjoying chatting. Guess im just expecting too much in the line of good manners from here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ha pick yerself up,dust yerself off and start all over again.... im singing that now!
Lets duet hun... bet we'd sound good
Thanks for your positive pick me up.
Anytime..you can be Barry Gibb and ill be Barbra Streisand (only i shatter glass)..."
Ha ha only one the glasses have been emptied ok... don't want to be wasting good booze  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Without my filters it is overwhelming. Would be good if you could have your friends messages in a different area.
Filters are great and necessary. Isn't it extreme or odd to just leave! Im not talking about ppl you just met but ppl you have clicked with and enjoying chatting. Guess im just expecting too much in the line of good manners from here. "
It might of been someone playing away, who was either recognised or simply chanced her mind or maybe just sick of fab. I have deleted my account a few times over the years. I wouldn't think too much of it and just chat to other people. |
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"What is it about some people who join fab... u get chatting, share intimate details and pics all going great... then you go to message them and bam, all you see is 'User no longer on site'. Its so frustrating! Plus are these people just fishing for info or pics or what!"
Yes it happens and some are only fishing.. but many are not!
I see a post where a newbie got 300 messages in no time! Account deleted! and no wonder!
Some come back, some stay and others leave.
For females or here and even couples they must get fed up with all the messages every day, let alone be ridiculed for not replying to them all.
So a guy takes time to compile a nice message etc etc, it is very understandable that he gets pissed off when he gets no reply BUT does the recipient have the time to read them all? Will the nice message even get read? They can't read them all! Nor be expected to!
Some females take the time to reply 'No, thank You!'.... only to get abuse! So they then stop altogether and who can blame them?
So, I send a nice message... I have to understand that it might be 1 of 200 and understand that the person might not even spot it! I have to accept, before I send it, that it might not even be read!!
Yes, some do just disappear suddenly, even if there has been some exchange or banter and messages... some just get fed up with the whole thing!
For us guys it is hard work, very hard work... and must be the same for the ladies and couples! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What is it about some people who join fab... u get chatting, share intimate details and pics all going great... then you go to message them and bam, all you see is 'User no longer on site'. Its so frustrating! Plus are these people just fishing for info or pics or what!
Yes it happens and some are only fishing.. but many are not!
I see a post where a newbie got 300 messages in no time! Account deleted! and no wonder!
Some come back, some stay and others leave.
For females or here and even couples they must get fed up with all the messages every day, let alone be ridiculed for not replying to them all.
So a guy takes time to compile a nice message etc etc, it is very understandable that he gets pissed off when he gets no reply BUT does the recipient have the time to read them all? Will the nice message even get read? They can't read them all! Nor be expected to!
Some females take the time to reply 'No, thank You!'.... only to get abuse! So they then stop altogether and who can blame them?
So, I send a nice message... I have to understand that it might be 1 of 200 and understand that the person might not even spot it! I have to accept, before I send it, that it might not even be read!!
Yes, some do just disappear suddenly, even if there has been some exchange or banter and messages... some just get fed up with the whole thing!
For us guys it is hard work, very hard work... and must be the same for the ladies and couples!"
Wow sub that's insightful and fair fecks to ya for taking the time to write it. Good points well told |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Without my filters it is overwhelming. Would be good if you could have your friends messages in a different area.
Filters are great and necessary. Isn't it extreme or odd to just leave! Im not talking about ppl you just met but ppl you have clicked with and enjoying chatting. Guess im just expecting too much in the line of good manners from here.
It might of been someone playing away, who was either recognised or simply chanced her mind or maybe just sick of fab. I have deleted my account a few times over the years. I wouldn't think too much of it and just chat to other people."
Ha yea I'm on to my second profile... all i miss from my old one are the verifications... somethings you can never get back but I'll always have the memories |
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By *on1980Man
over a year ago
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"What is it about some people who join fab... u get chatting, share intimate details and pics all going great... then you go to message them and bam, all you see is 'User no longer on site'. Its so frustrating! Plus are these people just fishing for info or pics or what!
Yes it happens and some are only fishing.. but many are not!
I see a post where a newbie got 300 messages in no time! Account deleted! and no wonder!
Some come back, some stay and others leave.
For females or here and even couples they must get fed up with all the messages every day, let alone be ridiculed for not replying to them all.
So a guy takes time to compile a nice message etc etc, it is very understandable that he gets pissed off when he gets no reply BUT does the recipient have the time to read them all? Will the nice message even get read? They can't read them all! Nor be expected to!
Some females take the time to reply 'No, thank You!'.... only to get abuse! So they then stop altogether and who can blame them?
So, I send a nice message... I have to understand that it might be 1 of 200 and understand that the person might not even spot it! I have to accept, before I send it, that it might not even be read!!
Yes, some do just disappear suddenly, even if there has been some exchange or banter and messages... some just get fed up with the whole thing!
For us guys it is hard work, very hard work... and must be the same for the ladies and couples!"
Out of curiosity is it wise to message people a second time even if they have not replied seeing as your original message may not even have been read? |
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"What is it about some people who join fab... u get chatting, share intimate details and pics all going great... then you go to message them and bam, all you see is 'User no longer on site'. Its so frustrating! Plus are these people just fishing for info or pics or what!
Yes it happens and some are only fishing.. but many are not!
I see a post where a newbie got 300 messages in no time! Account deleted! and no wonder!
Some come back, some stay and others leave.
For females or here and even couples they must get fed up with all the messages every day, let alone be ridiculed for not replying to them all.
So a guy takes time to compile a nice message etc etc, it is very understandable that he gets pissed off when he gets no reply BUT does the recipient have the time to read them all? Will the nice message even get read? They can't read them all! Nor be expected to!
Some females take the time to reply 'No, thank You!'.... only to get abuse! So they then stop altogether and who can blame them?
So, I send a nice message... I have to understand that it might be 1 of 200 and understand that the person might not even spot it! I have to accept, before I send it, that it might not even be read!!
Yes, some do just disappear suddenly, even if there has been some exchange or banter and messages... some just get fed up with the whole thing!
For us guys it is hard work, very hard work... and must be the same for the ladies and couples!
Out of curiosity is it wise to message people a second time even if they have not replied seeing as your original message may not even have been read? "
Personally I don't! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What is it about some people who join fab... u get chatting, share intimate details and pics all going great... then you go to message them and bam, all you see is 'User no longer on site'. Its so frustrating! Plus are these people just fishing for info or pics or what!
Yes it happens and some are only fishing.. but many are not!
I see a post where a newbie got 300 messages in no time! Account deleted! and no wonder!
Some come back, some stay and others leave.
For females or here and even couples they must get fed up with all the messages every day, let alone be ridiculed for not replying to them all.
So a guy takes time to compile a nice message etc etc, it is very understandable that he gets pissed off when he gets no reply BUT does the recipient have the time to read them all? Will the nice message even get read? They can't read them all! Nor be expected to!
Some females take the time to reply 'No, thank You!'.... only to get abuse! So they then stop altogether and who can blame them?
So, I send a nice message... I have to understand that it might be 1 of 200 and understand that the person might not even spot it! I have to accept, before I send it, that it might not even be read!!
Yes, some do just disappear suddenly, even if there has been some exchange or banter and messages... some just get fed up with the whole thing!
For us guys it is hard work, very hard work... and must be the same for the ladies and couples!
Out of curiosity is it wise to message people a second time even if they have not replied seeing as your original message may not even have been read? "
Now their's a good point... and here was i not wanting to be pissing anyone off and never thought like that. Yea some probably have to just bulk delete! |
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By *on1980Man
over a year ago
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"What is it about some people who join fab... u get chatting, share intimate details and pics all going great... then you go to message them and bam, all you see is 'User no longer on site'. Its so frustrating! Plus are these people just fishing for info or pics or what!
Yes it happens and some are only fishing.. but many are not!
I see a post where a newbie got 300 messages in no time! Account deleted! and no wonder!
Some come back, some stay and others leave.
For females or here and even couples they must get fed up with all the messages every day, let alone be ridiculed for not replying to them all.
So a guy takes time to compile a nice message etc etc, it is very understandable that he gets pissed off when he gets no reply BUT does the recipient have the time to read them all? Will the nice message even get read? They can't read them all! Nor be expected to!
Some females take the time to reply 'No, thank You!'.... only to get abuse! So they then stop altogether and who can blame them?
So, I send a nice message... I have to understand that it might be 1 of 200 and understand that the person might not even spot it! I have to accept, before I send it, that it might not even be read!!
Yes, some do just disappear suddenly, even if there has been some exchange or banter and messages... some just get fed up with the whole thing!
For us guys it is hard work, very hard work... and must be the same for the ladies and couples!
Out of curiosity is it wise to message people a second time even if they have not replied seeing as your original message may not even have been read?
Now their's a good point... and here was i not wanting to be pissing anyone off and never thought like that. Yea some probably have to just bulk delete!"
I'd like to hear a female or couple's perspective as I'm sure most men would |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
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"What is it about some people who join fab... u get chatting, share intimate details and pics all going great... then you go to message them and bam, all you see is 'User no longer on site'. Its so frustrating! Plus are these people just fishing for info or pics or what!
Yes it happens and some are only fishing.. but many are not!
I see a post where a newbie got 300 messages in no time! Account deleted! and no wonder!
Some come back, some stay and others leave.
For females or here and even couples they must get fed up with all the messages every day, let alone be ridiculed for not replying to them all.
So a guy takes time to compile a nice message etc etc, it is very understandable that he gets pissed off when he gets no reply BUT does the recipient have the time to read them all? Will the nice message even get read? They can't read them all! Nor be expected to!
Some females take the time to reply 'No, thank You!'.... only to get abuse! So they then stop altogether and who can blame them?
So, I send a nice message... I have to understand that it might be 1 of 200 and understand that the person might not even spot it! I have to accept, before I send it, that it might not even be read!!
Yes, some do just disappear suddenly, even if there has been some exchange or banter and messages... some just get fed up with the whole thing!
For us guys it is hard work, very hard work... and must be the same for the ladies and couples!
Out of curiosity is it wise to message people a second time even if they have not replied seeing as your original message may not even have been read?
Now their's a good point... and here was i not wanting to be pissing anyone off and never thought like that. Yea some probably have to just bulk delete!
I'd like to hear a female or couple's perspective as I'm sure most men would "
Personally we wouldnt send another mail, if ur first mail us not replied to the chances of ur second mail been replied to are slim, as regards op post people leave for loads of reasons, maybe if was a guy u were chatting to , maybe they deleted there profile to stop talking to u , maybe they got caught out, it's there personal choice and all u can do is move on
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yea Crazy-cpl i hear you... and we all do move on very quickly on here sometimes it might not even have sny thing to do with you why they leave but i guess I'm just a bit too caring in that sense and take it a bit more to heart. Just enjoy good social fun as well on here is all |
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"Yea Crazy-cpl i hear you... and we all do move on very quickly on here sometimes it might not even have sny thing to do with you why they leave but i guess I'm just a bit too caring in that sense and take it a bit more to heart. Just enjoy good social fun as well on here is all"
Yes we are often left wondering... but goodness knows why they just disappeared!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yea Crazy-cpl i hear you... and we all do move on very quickly on here sometimes it might not even have sny thing to do with you why they leave but i guess I'm just a bit too caring in that sense and take it a bit more to heart. Just enjoy good social fun as well on here is all
Yes we are often left wondering... but goodness knows why they just disappeared!!"
I know it's no strings and all that but that should not mean no connection with people or having to accept poor behaviour for that matter... too many on here leave there manners at the log in screen  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yea Crazy-cpl i hear you... and we all do move on very quickly on here sometimes it might not even have sny thing to do with you why they leave but i guess I'm just a bit too caring in that sense and take it a bit more to heart. Just enjoy good social fun as well on here is all
Yes we are often left wondering... but goodness knows why they just disappeared!!
I know it's no strings and all that but that should not mean no connection with people or having to accept poor behaviour for that matter... too many on here leave there manners at the log in screen "
manners are left at the bedroom door when u take her inside and fuck her roughly and brutally |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"manners are left at the bedroom door when u take her inside and fuck her roughly and brutally "
Well i think while we all have our various tastes and likes...respect should never be questioned no matter what we do with each other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"manners are left at the bedroom door when u take her inside and fuck her roughly and brutally
Well i think while we all have our various tastes and likes...respect should never be questioned no matter what we do with each other."
i agree |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"manners are left at the bedroom door when u take her inside and fuck her roughly and brutally
Well i think while we all have our various tastes and likes...respect should never be questioned no matter what we do with each other.i agree "
Ha ha well recovered there ifindoubt you may have just redeemed yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"manners are left at the bedroom door when u take her inside and fuck her roughly and brutally
Well i think while we all have our various tastes and likes...respect should never be questioned no matter what we do with each other.i agree
Ha ha well recovered there ifindoubt you may have just redeemed yourself "
Some stuff here is said in joking circumstances |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"manners are left at the bedroom door when u take her inside and fuck her roughly and brutally
Well i think while we all have our various tastes and likes...respect should never be questioned no matter what we do with each other.i agree
Ha ha well recovered there ifindoubt you may have just redeemed yourself Some stuff here is said in joking circumstances "
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"What is it about some people who join fab... u get chatting, share intimate details and pics all going great... then you go to message them and bam, all you see is 'User no longer on site'. Its so frustrating! Plus are these people just fishing for info or pics or what!"
Mock junior cert exams are approaching. His ma is probably making him study more  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What is it about some people who join fab... u get chatting, share intimate details and pics all going great... then you go to message them and bam, all you see is 'User no longer on site'. Its so frustrating! Plus are these people just fishing for info or pics or what!
Mock junior cert exams are approaching. His ma is probably making him study more "
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