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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What exactly does this mean? In our case it means that anyone invited to our home will be given hospitality: refreshments, a meal, convivial conversation. If everyone 'clicks' we play. If not, at least we will offer bed and breakfast. 
Are we the only ones with this interpretation?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We only accomdate during a meet no one gets too stay I don't mind refreshments and soft drinks tea coffee etc but never put people up for the night just not our thing |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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Accommodate means to me the person offers accommodation for the duration of the meet and not necessarily a bed to stay overnight.
I think terms and conditions have to be worked out and precisely phrased for each meet in order to avoid and confusion/assumption etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would take the term 'can accommodate' loosely to indicate that the person in question has a suitable place to play .....never a given as to a sleepover ...lol
Apples"
This ^^^
I can accommodate because I have my own place...
Stay, don't stay, all the same to me   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow! That's very accommodating indeed!
To me "can accommodate" means we can play at my place.
Terms and conditions would anyways have to be worked out of course.. But generally a stay over is never included (for us anyway  )
C |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always assume it's just a case that the person/persons have a free place for play only, i would never look for an overnight stay, even if it went into the early hours, unless they wanted an early morning encore, well then it's their call |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What about when it comes to hosting parties? We've always had our guests stay overnight.
Well they'd play throughout the night then sleep from dawn onwards.
I know I know I know. It sounds like we had vampires as party guests.
But they were always very nice.
Either way, because our house is so rural any playmates we have had over for non party meets were always welcome to stay over.
And shoot some pool too. You can't have guests over without playing pool. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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well, thanks for the input, folks. At last we realize that we've been playing by a somewhat different set of 'rules' to most on here. But it's fine. We'll just carry on the way we do... "Normal rules do not apply"... |
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"What about when it comes to hosting parties? We've always had our guests stay overnight.
Well they'd play throughout the night then sleep from dawn onwards.
I know I know I know. It sounds like we had vampires as party guests.
But they were always very nice.
Either way, because our house is so rural any playmates we have had over for non party meets were always welcome to stay over.
And shoot some pool too. You can't have guests over without playing pool. "
Damn, I really want to go to one of your parties! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can accomadate in my own place but an overnight is only offered to guys who travel to cork to me as I don't want them having the expense of a hotel after making the effort of coming to cork. Cork lads need to be going home.....that's just lazy lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can accomadate in my own place but an overnight is only offered to guys who travel to cork to me as I don't want them having the expense of a hotel after making the effort of coming to cork. Cork lads need to be going home.....that's just lazy lol"
God the next cork meet and greet you ll be running a hotel at yours
But it is nice when people can accomadate |
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Can accommodate for us means they can play at ours. We wouldn't have someone stay the night though and wouldn't expect it either.
If someone had made a long journey from Dublin, etc, we'd have to reconsider. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can accomadate in my own place but an overnight is only offered to guys who travel to cork to me as I don't want them having the expense of a hotel after making the effort of coming to cork. Cork lads need to be going home.....that's just lazy lol
God the next cork meet and greet you ll be running a hotel at yours
But it is nice when people can accomadate "
I really should have worded that better!! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can accomadate in my own place but an overnight is only offered to guys who travel to cork to me as I don't want them having the expense of a hotel after making the effort of coming to cork. Cork lads need to be going home.....that's just lazy lol
God the next cork meet and greet you ll be running a hotel at yours
But it is nice when people can accomadate
I really should have worded that better!! Lol"
I'll be ur bell boy if I get to stay  |
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By *arkedMan
over a year ago
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For me it means we can play here, and if you fancy staying the night then let's spoon and maybe start again in the morning, or if you prefer there's always the spare room, & you're obviously welcome to breakfast. |
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We would have the same understanding / approach as Bex & Shandy.
We accommodate for the "fun" part of the evening, prior to which we would have invited our guests for a bite to eat, chat & drinks. This is to facilitate good socialising, get to know our invited guests, all of which makes the "fun" even better as one is really connecting with guests.
As our guests would have travelled we always offer overnight accommodation & "brekkie". If some more fun happens it is a very welcome bonus.
We have made a number of real friends this way & repeatedly meet them. Fun is great in itself, fun with friends is fantastic & it always gets better with each encounter.
If someone doesn't wish to stay, that is OK. No pressure one-way or the other.
We love the friendships which we have established. It may not be what everyone wants but its what we enjoy & like about it all.  |
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]We would have the same understanding / approach as Bex & Shandy.
We accommodate for the "fun" part of the evening, prior to which we would have invited our guests for a bite to eat, chat & drinks. This is to facilitate good socialising, get to know our invited guests, all of which makes the "fun" even better as one is really connecting with guests.
As our guests would have travelled we always offer overnight accommodation & "brekkie". If some more fun happens it is a very welcome bonus.
We have made a number of real friends this way & repeatedly meet them. Fun is great in itself, fun with friends is fantastic & it always gets better with each encounter.
If someone doesn't wish to stay, that is OK. No pressure one-way or the other.
We love the friendships which we have established. It may not be what everyone wants but its what we enjoy & like about it all. :Well said in the true spirit of swinging would have the |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can accomadate in my own place but an overnight is only offered to guys who travel to cork to me as I don't want them having the expense of a hotel after making the effort of coming to cork. Cork lads need to be going home.....that's just lazy lol
God the next cork meet and greet you ll be running a hotel at yours
But it is nice when people can accomadate
I really should have worded that better!! Lol
I'll be ur bell boy if I get to stay "
Woohoo now there's something to think about |
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I don't accommodate. My home is home for my son too so the option is not there.
I do travel and love travelling so I'm happy to do that.
Not sure if I would feel comfortable in a person's home unless I had met them a few times before |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we have accommodated on more than one
occasion and the cpl would stay over
if they wanted too. but we have already met before so we have a good idea of who we are
allowing to stay. |
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Nobody,does accomodate better then you guys...D&B.
I felt like one of the family by the time I left....
And without any hint of exaggeration, your accommodation and your beautiful vale can only be described as magical.
The only way to improve upon it's perfection would be to heat the stream and pool...that passes through it.
That's not withstanding that you are two of the most interesting people on here...and anyone would be enriched to spend a day with you...
still a fan...
Olliepops...xx
ps. To my Apples,
hope you can accomodate tonight...
Daddy's home xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would take the term 'can accommodate' loosely to indicate that the person in question has a suitable place to play .....never a given as to a sleepover ...lol
Apples"
Spot on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Nobody,does accomodate better then you guys...D&B.
I felt like one of the family by the time I left....
xx "
Well, in fairness, Ollie we did know each other pretty well before we met, didn't we?  |
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"What about when it comes to hosting parties? We've always had our guests stay overnight.
Well they'd play throughout the night then sleep from dawn onwards.
I know I know I know. It sounds like we had vampires as party guests.
But they were always very nice.
Either way, because our house is so rural any playmates we have had over for non party meets were always welcome to stay over.
And shoot some pool too. You can't have guests over without playing pool. "
I would love to shoot some pool ?? with ye... ?? |
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