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By *happy79x OP Man
over a year ago
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Ok to keep it brief. Have 2 friends .1male other female. The male separated with two kids and still in love with the ex . Female lost without the other half and and thinks nobody will want them ever again but more to the point they want noone else but there ex s.
Trying my best to keep there spirits up but I m running outta energy fast. There two lovely salt of the earth people but iys tough going. Exhausted all the old phrases and sayings. Advice gladly accepted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Look out for the f'n kids , Christ too many people creating life and thinking about it afterwards. There mistake deal with it ,and with as little impact on the kids. A swingers website may not be the morally best place to plead their case |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Look out for the f'n kids , Christ too many people creating life and thinking about it afterwards. There mistake deal with it ,and with as little impact on the kids. A swingers website may not be the morally best place to plead their case"
Why? 
Seems as good a place as any to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Look out for the f'n kids , Christ too many people creating life and thinking about it afterwards. There mistake deal with it ,and with as little impact on the kids. A swingers website may not be the morally best place to plead their case"
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By *happy79x OP Man
over a year ago
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Hey totally agree about posting it on here but honestly grasping at straws here. The male has kids and in fairness has sucked up all the shit. Not saying he s been an angel but in fairness he s sucked up more than was fair because of the two (awesome) kids.
The female is just heartbroken from , my opinion, a total asshole who used her.
Both self-esteem and self worth are in the gutter.
I know what its like to be there so I don't
want to give up on them just need ideas hints tips etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Female needs to get distance and time from the relationship. Male needs to separate "himself and his ex" from" himself and the kids". No emotion if possible from this early stage if she is a heartless bitch she will use kids against him . Time with dad money etc. Tell him to keep himself together home , money , money to her/kids etc. All used in court . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've all been there Chappy, all I can say is stay true and keep being a valued friend to both, it may be hard for them to see it now but they will appreciate you being there for them mate  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Look out for the f'n kids , Christ too many people creating life and thinking about it afterwards. There mistake deal with it ,and with as little impact on the kids. A swingers website may not be the morally best place to plead their case"
Abit harsh,,,, I don't think majority of people go create life then think about it afterwards. Things sometimes don't work out between couples for whatever reason,,, though don't think their kids that they had while in their relationship are an after thought and am sure regardless of what the adults are going through the kids will always be more than an after thought..
Hope your friends work things out in their own lives OP,,, might take awhile but things always work out in the end,, the way their supposed to even if it doesn't feel like that at the moment.  |
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By *happy79x OP Man
over a year ago
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I m a big beliver that , all will be ok in the end. Amd if its not ok its not the end. But from listening to some of the horror stories its pushing my beliefs to there limits.
I just find it hard watching good people get shit on. It truly wrecks my head. I know life is not fair and its survival of the fittest but fuck this horror show.
I guess being the time of year it is it just makes things harder. And I just need to vent a little  . |
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By *happy79x OP Man
over a year ago
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"Its a very tough thing to witness as a friend and believe me just by being there for them to support them in whatever way you can, means so much.
They are both very lucky to count you as a fiend. "
Thanks for the kind words.
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