So you get a mail from some guy..,
You read it, go look at his profile and see you've left yourself a note.. Which reads, mailed me in Jan, I replied not interested.. Mailed again Feb, March, June.
So.. Do you just go block or politely mail not interested again?
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"So you get a mail from some guy..,
You read it, go look at his profile and see you've left yourself a note.. Which reads, mailed me in Jan, I replied not interested.. Mailed again Feb, March, June.
So.. Do you just go block or politely mail not interested again?
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U surely changed ur mind by now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sure he thinks it's worth a try ginger. Sure who wouldn't keep trying  "
Who wouldn't keep trying is right, I looked at your profile a good while back and you don't meet smokers and I respect that so I never mailed, as for the other I would just block him!
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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago
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"So you get a mail from some guy..,
You read it, go look at his profile and see you've left yourself a note.. Which reads, mailed me in Jan, I replied not interested.. Mailed again Feb, March, June.
So.. Do you just go block or politely mail not interested again?
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Apologies for all those mails...Don't know what got into me.  |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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With those notorious rewriters I normally use a bit more clear language if needed, still polite but clearly pointing out that there's no point in contacting again. The block button is an item I use rarely, but not shy using it when everything else fails. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"No CJ... He's still not what I'm interested in. If he looked at my profile he'd see that. "
But he must see that hence the mails as mentioned stronger reply or hit the button, I just love those notes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So you get a mail from some guy..,
You read it, go look at his profile and see you've left yourself a note.. Which reads, mailed me in Jan, I replied not interested.. Mailed again Feb, March, June.
So.. Do you just go block or politely mail not interested again?
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This is something I don't get. The repeat mailers unless replied to are given a warning so to speak that the person they are about to mail hasn't replied to their last mail so why bother sending another mail 
Id just tell them you aren't interested ginger and if that doesn't work just block them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So you get a mail from some guy..,
You read it, go look at his profile and see you've left yourself a note.. Which reads, mailed me in Jan, I replied not interested.. Mailed again Feb, March, June.
So.. Do you just go block or politely mail not interested again?
This is something I don't get. The repeat mailers unless replied to are given a warning so to speak that the person they are about to mail hasn't replied to their last mail so why bother sending another mail
Id just tell them you aren't interested ginger and if that doesn't work just block them.
Tomcat "
I wondered about this... does the warning specifically pop up if the other person hasn't responded to the LAST message or if they have never responded? I used to send back a polite "no thanks" to those I wasn't interested in, but then got the same message from them again and again I have a feeling that if you ever responded to them, the warning doesn't pop up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes brown eyed girl , I think if you have ever responded to them the warning doesn't show . I was always reluctant to use the block button , but recently have got more into the swing of it , same , repeat mailers who I have politely told I'm not interested , some of them who've got hostile and abusive . Once a guy mailed me , I read his mail and then went to pour myself a drink and go to the loo , when I got back , like 7 minutes later , he'd messaged me back calling me an ignorant fat cunt , cos I'd read his message and not answered ( in 7 minutes. ). . Jasus , like could he not see I was fat the first time he looked at my profile , lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This has happened to me several times Ginger. I dont think non site supporters can see that they've messaged before.
I take similar notes so after a few times of replying with polite 'no thanks' I end up reminding them of such and saying 'dont take offense but it'll save time for both of us if I just block'.
And that's it, polite but problem solved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This has happened to me several times Ginger. I dont think non site supporters can see that they've messaged before.
I take similar notes so after a few times of replying with polite 'no thanks' I end up reminding them of such and saying 'dont take offense but it'll save time for both of us if I just block'.
And that's it, polite but problem solved."
I'm with Yolo on this ...polite, to the point and problem solved. |
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