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anyone else getting bored on here of time waisters
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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I know what you mean....some are here to chat and that's fine...we find if you suggest form early in the conversation that meeting for a coffee is the best way for us it kinda solves things...just what works for us |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
otherside of nowhere |
"someone who chats but never meets up wha about u x
Someone who doesn't show up for meets as arranged. "
Agree
That is the only type I would consider a timewaster....some ppl just like to chat..no harm in it really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"someone who chats but never meets up wha about u x
Someone who doesn't show up for meets as arranged.
Agree
That is the only type I would consider a timewaster....some ppl just like to chat..no harm in it really "
Lots of them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"someone who chats but never meets up wha about u x
Someone who doesn't show up for meets as arranged.
Agree
That is the only type I would consider a timewaster....some ppl just like to chat..no harm in it really "
people use the site as they please. To call them timewasters for just wanting to chat is a bit harsh
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By *eth TVTV/TS
over a year ago
Mid Meath |
"alot of people on here just like to chat ... i dont want a penpal im ere for one thing lol
Maybe theyre put off by the four socket extension cable that seems to be hanging from your knob ? : ) " . ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"someone who chats but never meets up wha about u x
Someone who doesn't show up for meets as arranged.
Agree
That is the only type I would consider a timewaster....some ppl just like to chat..no harm in it really " no harm of course but should let u know at beginning they have no indication of meeting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't see anything wrong with people who are just here to chat if they state it on their profiles or from the get go in conversations. I'm only here for chat and forums at this time. If you message someone who says they are not meeting then it's you who is wasting your own time and not them. Just my opinion |
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I dont see the issue with chatting. For me,i like to get a sense of the person im chatting to and that cant happen after one or two messages.If i decide not to meet ive saved myself time and the other persons time too. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"alot of people on here just like to chat ... i dont want a penpal im ere for one thing lol
Maybe theyre put off by the four socket extension cable that seems to be hanging from your knob ? : ) "
Or the sky remote and measuring tape guess what he was doing when he got snap happy ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people are just here to chat, and whats wrong with that? Quite often they make that clear from the start.
A timewaster to me is someone who does not show up for a date, or constantly cancels dates at the last minute. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only use this site to keep in touch with people I've met in clubs. So by your definition OP I'm a time waster. I'll remember that next time I'm being spit roasted. May even send you a message to tell you how much fun it was. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think a time waster is someone who says they will meet and don't turn up. If costs money for hotels. Or even people who orginise partys and people say they will come and don't turn up. I know some things happen at the last min. But you got to let people know. Am I wrong?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't see anything wrong with people who are just here to chat if they state it on their profiles or from the get go in conversations. I'm only here for chat and forums at this time. If you message someone who says they are not meeting then it's you who is wasting your own time and not them. Just my opinion "
Exactly this ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think a time waster is someone who says they will meet and don't turn up. If costs money for hotels. Or even people who orginise partys and people say they will come and don't turn up. I know some things happen at the last min. But you got to let people know. Am I wrong?? |
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"alot of people on here just like to chat ... i dont want a penpal im ere for one thing lol " . I don't think there is any need to worry about time wasters . They have no impact on other members . All you have to worry about is how you market yourself on fab.
In any event fakes or so called time wasters stand out like a sore thumb.
I just assume that poorly written profiles or those that are less than fifteen lines are not interested in meeting . . |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
otherside of nowhere |
"I think a time waster is someone who says they will meet and don't turn up. If costs money for hotels. Or even people who orginise partys and people say they will come and don't turn up. I know some things happen at the last min. But you got to let people know. Am I wrong?? "
No your not wrong...how ppl can do that I will never know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Surprised there not alot more then this writting on this topic
Think sometimes there are very few gen people left on this site....
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Not at all. Ive been on and off a while and it just fets boring commenting on same topics after a while is all. There always has been and will be timewasters, fakes and so on on here. just like in vanilla life. Just cut the ones that dont matter and keep going ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everybody get their fair share of timewasters its all part of experience. It be next to near impossible to totally eliminate them, after a while you develop
Ways to spot them and than minimizes the annoyance of it all. |
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