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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My own personal experience is that whenever I appear to be in a relationship ship, I get more attention from girls. Why is that?
I'm not in a relationship at the moment, but I do have a regular play-partner, whom I also happen to be good friends with. Whenever we're out together, we do look like a proper couple, but we've both agreed that we're not as we wish to take different paths in life and neither of us wish to get too emotionally attached to the other. She knows I'm on here, and she knows I'm not exclusive to her, same as she's not exclusive to me.
After a social (non-swingers) gathering we both attended, she told me that all her female friends asked (quote) who is that hot guy (end quote). I'm also getting much more attention from the girls at work, and in pubs even though I'm not with her there.
Why is this? I don't get this kind of attention when I don't have anyone.  Do girls/ladies have a sixth sense telling them that a guy is taken, and as such is a forbidden fruit that they must (but can not) have?
I believe it is in human nature to crave what you can not have, but since I'm not in what I'd call a relationship (at least not a traditional one), I'm available for fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Folks who are innately happy in themselves [with their Life in general] tend to have more self-confidence, portray themselves better and will attract more attention.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My own personal experience is that whenever I appear to be in a relationship ship, I get more attention from girls. Why is that?
I'm not in a relationship at the moment, but I do have a regular play-partner, whom I also happen to be good friends with. Whenever we're out together, we do look like a proper couple, but we've both agreed that we're not as we wish to take different paths in life and neither of us wish to get too emotionally attached to the other. She knows I'm on here, and she knows I'm not exclusive to her, same as she's not exclusive to me.
After a social (non-swingers) gathering we both attended, she told me that all her female friends asked (quote) who is that hot guy (end quote). I'm also getting much more attention from the girls at work, and in pubs even though I'm not with her there.
Why is this? I don't get this kind of attention when I don't have anyone. Do girls/ladies have a sixth sense telling them that a guy is taken, and as such is a forbidden fruit that they must (but can not) have?
I believe it is in human nature to crave what you can not have, but since I'm not in what I'd call a relationship (at least not a traditional one), I'm available for fun."
Ladies may like to be attracted to attached men by their primal as such men signalised that these man can commit and commitment is attractive, not every woman may admit that though |
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I've had that.
Couldn't buy a ride (figuratively :D ) when I was single years ago. Got into a relationship for a while and never had so much interest from the opposite sex. Ended up single a good while later and most of the interest waned.
Us humans are an odd bunch |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hmm all I'm getting from this thread is that u are mad about ur regular FB.. Ur too confident n can't understand y she won't commit !!
Just what I can read.. But hey .. Shit happens |
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