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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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"is cuckold really a subdom scenario"
Always has a hint of sub dom or humiliation IMO
I never played sub dom specifically when in cuck relationship but if you are finding a hotter fitter bigger guy to fuck your gal which sges loving its kind of humiliating. In the best pissible way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our cuckold sessions are not subdom. My husband gets a kick out of seeing me be done by other men, whether he is present or gets photos sent or listens in. I would not consider him being submissive. We do not do humiliation though. |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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"its strange in this cuckold lifestyle that his wife will seek much younger guys with more stamina"
What's strange about it? If you give women complete control its more than likely they will go for younger hotter guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i guess humiliation will go hand in hand with subdom"
Humiliation doesn't always go hand in hand with a bdsm femdom session in my experience,you can adore your partner in the form of goddess worship,nothing humiliating in that,maybe a lowering of your own personal emotional defenses,opening up erotically with someone whom you feel safe with and is understanding of the depth of feeling.
It's rare as a hens tooth,a guy being sub is a massive turn off for many girls,they seem to think that is about beating, verbal abuse and aggression,almost like the girl acting as the male,for some this may be the case but for me it's heightened femininity,allure and intensity.Luckily some of the more enlightened women get a great kick out of it when the scenario has been discussed in detail and is an ongoing thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i guess humiliation will go hand in hand with subdom
Humiliation doesn't always go hand in hand with a bdsm femdom session in my experience,you can adore your partner in the form of goddess worship,nothing humiliating in that,maybe a lowering of your own personal emotional defenses,opening up erotically with someone whom you feel safe with and is understanding of the depth of feeling.
It's rare as a hens tooth,a guy being sub is a massive turn off for many girls,they seem to think that is about beating, verbal abuse and aggression,almost like the girl acting as the male,for some this may be the case but for me it's heightened femininity,allure and intensity.Luckily some of the more enlightened women get a great kick out of it when the scenario has been discussed in detail and is an ongoing thing. "
 spot on . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i also think and i mayb wrong but for the bull or the dom and in my wifes case she only wants black yes for him it must be a turn on to see his prize dominate and control her sub again not in an aggressive way but firmly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love the thoughts of a partner being with someone else whilst still in a relationship with me. Would change this personality trait if I could as it's hard to explain to some women that it's nothing wrong with them but a sexual turn on. Have Had relationship problems because of it . One partner couldn't understand that she wasn't enough |
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