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over a year ago
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Is it wrong to be very fussy here? 2 women have ridiculed me because when we chatted and exchanged pics they just were not for me!got accused of been a fake! Better to be honest eh? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think once your honest they can take it. Not everybody is everyone's cup of tea. Doesn't have to be physical features either can be put off quicker by a bad personality |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I guess they thought because I'm a man I'd stick my dick in anything "
Least u have sense..
I have to say .. Purely based on the fact that I'm looking to fuck this person I would go on an attraction 
But I'm shallow lol
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I guess they thought because I'm a man I'd stick my dick in anything
Least u have sense..
I have to say .. Purely based on the fact that I'm looking to fuck this person I would go on an attraction
But I'm shallow lol
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I'd say we all need a physical attraction if been honest  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it wrong to be very fussy here? 2 women have ridiculed me because when we chatted and exchanged pics they just were not for me!got accused of been a fake! Better to be honest eh? "
I may be wrong here but it sounds to me you made this whole story up as a sort of "look at me ive standards approach" its a new approach for newbies but feck it your talking shite.lol. my bad if im wrong |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is it wrong to be very fussy here? 2 women have ridiculed me because when we chatted and exchanged pics they just were not for me!got accused of been a fake! Better to be honest eh?
I may be wrong here but it sounds to me you made this whole story up as a sort of "look at me ive standards approach" its a new approach for newbies but feck it your talking shite.lol. my bad if im wrong "
no it happened! Don't need look at me threads! U work your own magic on here |
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"Is it wrong to be very fussy here? 2 women have ridiculed me because when we chatted and exchanged pics they just were not for me!got accused of been a fake! Better to be honest eh?
I may be wrong here but it sounds to me you made this whole story up as a sort of "look at me ive standards approach" its a new approach for newbies but feck it your talking shite.lol. my bad if im wrong "
me thinks bet you wished you had thought of such an ingenious tact lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it wrong to be very fussy here? 2 women have ridiculed me because when we chatted and exchanged pics they just were not for me!got accused of been a fake! Better to be honest eh?
I may be wrong here but it sounds to me you made this whole story up as a sort of "look at me ive standards approach" its a new approach for newbies but feck it your talking shite.lol. my bad if im wrong no it happened! Don't need look at me threads! U work your own magic on here "
Hows that magic working out for you?lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a fussy bitch so I hear ya i need some bit of physical attraction "
Because we're on a swinging site doesn't necessarily mean we ALL wanna shag EVERYTHING that walks. Although there are some that do! Myself n himself wouldn't be into having sex/play with people we don't have an attraction to.
Your right to be fussy babe.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is it wrong to be very fussy here? 2 women have ridiculed me because when we chatted and exchanged pics they just were not for me!got accused of been a fake! Better to be honest eh?
I may be wrong here but it sounds to me you made this whole story up as a sort of "look at me ive standards approach" its a new approach for newbies but feck it your talking shite.lol. my bad if im wrong no it happened! Don't need look at me threads! U work your own magic on here
Hows that magic working out for you?lol"
excellent so far |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it wrong to be very fussy here? 2 women have ridiculed me because when we chatted and exchanged pics they just were not for me!got accused of been a fake! Better to be honest eh?
I may be wrong here but it sounds to me you made this whole story up as a sort of "look at me ive standards approach" its a new approach for newbies but feck it your talking shite.lol. my bad if im wrong no it happened! Don't need look at me threads! U work your own magic on here
Hows that magic working out for you?lolexcellent so far "
Feck your positive. Keep up the good work then.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it wrong to be very fussy here? 2 women have ridiculed me because when we chatted and exchanged pics they just were not for me!got accused of been a fake! Better to be honest eh? "
I wouldn't be able to say it straight because I would prefer somebody not to say it straight to me lol! I'd try phase it out and if asked to meet I would come up with some other excuse!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Men aren't allowed be fussy on here ya know. If one of the egos come looking you're meant to be sooo grateful that they've given you the time of day
Or something like that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it wrong to be very fussy here? 2 women have ridiculed me because when we chatted and exchanged pics they just were not for me!got accused of been a fake! Better to be honest eh?
I may be wrong here but it sounds to me you made this whole story up as a sort of "look at me ive standards approach" its a new approach for newbies but feck it your talking shite.lol. my bad if im wrong "
Trust me apples he wouldn't need to  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone has their own standards off course and yes has to be an attraction, just be diplomatic when turning a lady down cause unless your Brad Pitt it may just bite you in the ass |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone has their own standards off course and yes has to be an attraction, just be diplomatic when turning a lady down cause unless your Brad Pitt it may just bite you in the ass "
Why would turning someone down potentially bite them in the ass? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Everyone has their own standards off course and yes has to be an attraction, just be diplomatic when turning a lady down cause unless your Brad Pitt it may just bite you in the ass "
I'm not gods gift but I'm not ugly lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it wrong to be very fussy here? 2 women have ridiculed me because when we chatted and exchanged pics they just were not for me!got accused of been a fake! Better to be honest eh?
I may be wrong here but it sounds to me you made this whole story up as a sort of "look at me ive standards approach" its a new approach for newbies but feck it your talking shite.lol. my bad if im wrong
Trust me apples he wouldn't need to "
Ive my own game down to a tee
But i must admit its a game changer tatic to get a meet.lol.
Whos going to be the lucky lady who will receive the " i had loads of offers but i chose you" line.
Fuck i really do wish i came up with it now.lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everyone has their own standards off course and yes has to be an attraction, just be diplomatic when turning a lady down cause unless your Brad Pitt it may just bite you in the ass
Why would turning someone down potentially bite them in the ass?"
What I said was do it in a nice manner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everyone has their own standards off course and yes has to be an attraction, just be diplomatic when turning a lady down cause unless your Brad Pitt it may just bite you in the ass I'm not gods gift but I'm not ugly lol "
Lol glad hear it  |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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As far as I know there's no obligation to meet someone nor is there an entitlement to get a meet, which applies to male, female and couples. The only rule I apply is to be polite and upfront when I'm not interested and so far that worked for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think once your honest they can take it. Not everybody is everyone's cup of tea. Doesn't have to be physical features either can be put off quicker by a bad personality "
Oh we totally agree. Class over crass anyday.
And quality over quantity is certainly a rule we swing by. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it wrong to be very fussy here? 2 women have ridiculed me because when we chatted and exchanged pics they just were not for me!got accused of been a fake! Better to be honest eh? "
Apologies for the smartass comments ifindoubt. Ill refrain in future |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it wrong to be very fussy here? 2 women have ridiculed me because when we chatted and exchanged pics they just were not for me!got accused of been a fake! Better to be honest eh? "
Not at all...stick with what you're looking for. Some won't like that some won't be nice about that but it's worth it in the end...when you find her or them then you'll have it more often rather than with someone you want not to return to.
Hang in there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I guess they thought because I'm a man I'd stick my dick in anything
Least u have sense..
I have to say .. Purely based on the fact that I'm looking to fuck this person I would go on an attraction
But I'm shallow lol
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Nothing wrong with that...but I need a brain engagement too. Each to their own and if it's just a quick fuck or one off....guess it works too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm very fussy, so despite the vast numbers of men vs women I still rarely find single guys I'd like to play with more than once.
Couples - very difficult to find where I'd like to play with both. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm very fussy, so despite the vast numbers of men vs women I still rarely find single guys I'd like to play with more than once.
Couples - very difficult to find where I'd like to play with both."
would you class yourself as very attractive? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm very fussy, so despite the vast numbers of men vs women I still rarely find single guys I'd like to play with more than once.
Couples - very difficult to find where I'd like to play with both.would you class yourself as very attractive?"
That's a rather subjective question....related to self esteem, others observations, experience, confidence and sometimes bloody minded arrogance lol...sometimes on the part of both involved. |
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"Is it wrong to be very fussy here? 2 women have ridiculed me because when we chatted and exchanged pics they just were not for me!got accused of been a fake! Better to be honest eh?
I may be wrong here but it sounds to me you made this whole story up as a sort of "look at me ive standards approach" its a new approach for newbies but feck it your talking shite.lol. my bad if im wrong me thinks bet you wished you had thought of such an ingenious tact lol
Apples"
When I left you you were supposed to be doing your homework. ..nawty, nawty girl....x
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"I'm very fussy, so despite the vast numbers of men vs women I still rarely find single guys I'd like to play with more than once.
Couples - very difficult to find where I'd like to play with both.would you class yourself as very attractive?"
When she's 8n that body suit we can confirm. ...jaw on the floor gorgeous !!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm very fussy, so despite the vast numbers of men vs women I still rarely find single guys I'd like to play with more than once.
Couples - very difficult to find where I'd like to play with both.would you class yourself as very attractive?"
YOLO is a ride |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your a single male on a swingers site. If your fussy you'll get ridiculed if you stick your dick in anything that moves you'll be ridiculed. OP do what works for you at the end of the day. You'll end up regretting things you have done otherwise.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm very fussy, so despite the vast numbers of men vs women I still rarely find single guys I'd like to play with more than once.
Couples - very difficult to find where I'd like to play with both.would you class yourself as very attractive?"
Ollie and Yosser I'm blushing  and flattered
As for the question, I can't see it myself, but I think others do because I'm open, honest, broadminded, non judgemental and when it comes to Fabs fun I'll try anything once - well almost hehe |
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"I'm very fussy, so despite the vast numbers of men vs women I still rarely find single guys I'd like to play with more than once.
Couples - very difficult to find where I'd like to play with both."
Ahhh we always have sexy play |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm very fussy, so despite the vast numbers of men vs women I still rarely find single guys I'd like to play with more than once.
Couples - very difficult to find where I'd like to play with both.
Ahhh we always have sexy play "
Now there's a very attractive pair of peeps XXXXXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been in situation were 1 partner better looking than other and J's keen n im not , i need 2 actually fancy the person or i'll b making excuses 2 go so yes id say im fussy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We rarely do one on one meets for that reason. It's much easier at parties where you can all play together but not necessarily with each others partners.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What I should have said is do u think u can only been extremely fussy if ur extremely attractive yourself? "
Of course not!!!!
Each to their own.
I'm fussy because I know what I want out of this site and my time is very limited so I'll only meet if I'm almost certain of good quality fun. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What I should have said is do u think u can only been extremely fussy if ur extremely attractive yourself?
Of course not!!!!
Each to their own.
I'm fussy because I know what I want out of this site and my time is very limited so I'll only meet if I'm almost certain of good quality fun."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We rarely do one on one meets for that reason. It's much easier at parties where you can all play together but not necessarily with each others partners.
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think we're go a have 2 make a point of getting 2 more parties |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yolo and miss car are both gorgeous ladies and just our type! We like the whole package fun good looking and dirty! I agree yolo we have limited time too so we need to know the people are in the same wavelength as us which in your case yes yes yes |
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By *itty14Couple
over a year ago
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While attractiveness is definitely a must for play..we also feel there has personality attraction as well ..we like to be able to enjoy a few drinks and a laugh with the people we meet as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm very fussy, so despite the vast numbers of men vs women I still rarely find single guys I'd like to play with more than once.
Couples - very difficult to find where I'd like to play with both.would you class yourself as very attractive?
Ollie and Yosser I'm blushing and flattered
As for the question, I can't see it myself, but I think others do because I'm open, honest, broadminded, non judgemental and when it comes to Fabs fun I'll try anything once - well almost hehe"
Once!! lol
Tongue firmly in cheek there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I wouldn't meet anyone of this that I didn't fancy.
If some women say they want a hung,fit,hot guy.
Then some lads should be able to say the same and not get ridiculous statements saying that they are shallow for wanting a skinny,busy, hot girl.
Just saying...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I wouldn't meet anyone of this that I didn't fancy.
If some women say they want a hung,fit,hot guy.
Then some lads should be able to say the same and not get ridiculous statements saying that they are shallow for wanting a skinny,busy, hot girl.
Just saying...
Haters gunna hate "
very good point |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn't meet anyone of this that I didn't fancy.
If some women say they want a hung,fit,hot guy.
Then some lads should be able to say the same and not get ridiculous statements saying that they are shallow for wanting a skinny,busy, hot girl.
Just saying...
Haters gunna hate very good point "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think once your honest they can take it. Not everybody is everyone's cup of tea. Doesn't have to be physical features either can be put off quicker by a bad personality "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends what you find attractive I suppose
We're looking for the whole package not just a certain stereotype"
SPOT ON. Not many...If any actually fit so one makes do. No different on here than real life. One looks at what's available. ..many possibles have filters to stop you too so that also reduces it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it wrong to be very fussy here? 2 women have ridiculed me because when we chatted and exchanged pics they just were not for me!got accused of been a fake! Better to be honest eh? "
When you say accused of being a fake,do you mean they thought you were a woman pretending to be a man? |
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