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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you pick a guy to go with it could cause problems like jealousy.i know its a swinging social/party but that's blokes for ye.I'm going on the 12th alone butbi have people iv talked to that I'm meeting before hand for a drink so its grand. |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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go on your on. and if you are bringing someone it doesn't matter if you went with a different guy each time no body cares iv accompanied a few different women to socials because they didn't want to attend alone some times there are pre drinks for newbies and not so newbies and that helps if you are alone because you end up getting to know a gang before you head in |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"go on your on. and if you are bringing someone it doesn't matter if you went with a different guy each time no body cares iv accompanied a few different women to socials because they didn't want to attend alone some times there are pre drinks for newbies and not so newbies and that helps if you are alone because you end up getting to know a gang before you head in "
Great reply 
Didn't realise that's the way it went .. Good to know  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If you pick a guy to go with it could cause problems like jealousy.i know its a swinging social/party but that's blokes for ye.I'm going on the 12th alone butbi have people iv talked to that I'm meeting before hand for a drink so its grand."
This is what I'm experiencing tbh ..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you pick a guy to go with it could cause problems like jealousy.i know its a swinging social/party but that's blokes for ye.I'm going on the 12th alone butbi have people iv talked to that I'm meeting before hand for a drink so its grand.
This is what I'm experiencing tbh .. "
Went to my first social as a newbie and on my own...as a single woman...you wont be left by yourself for long  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have gone to socials on my own many a time....... I have survived lol!!! Don't have a problem at all, always someone you know at socials when you've gone to at least 2/3!!! |
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I'm attending my first 1 in Limerick on the 5th. Going on my own but am nervously excited. Hoping that maybe a few people might be having a pre social drink. That I can get to know people before it starts |
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Just go on your own.
I would always attend on my own, it's less complicated. No one has any ideas about you being their "date" and you can go flirt n chat to everyone without a care.
I went to my first swing party alone too! Scary, but very exciting!
You're doing this for you.. So do as you please and ignore the neh neh 'ers |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think you're giving it too much though. .goung alone or with someone male or female. .who cares..just go enjoy. If theres a person who gets the hump coz ya didn't go with them...my opinion is they don't belong on this site. .regards;-) |
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How do you pic a social partner (to attend with) or can you go with different men each time or does it even matter ?!?!?
I have female friends I can attend with 
