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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does anyone else think it's really rude when someone doesn't even read your message? I don't mind if someone doesn't reply - to me that's fine, you're not interested but at least you heard what I had to say.
I've sent a few people messages and they haven't even been read. It annoys me because there's no way they could know what I want to say to them - a lot aren't even asking to get to know them or for a meet etc, I have genuine questions for them.
I'm talking about people who are regularly online as well. I think it's just rude that someone won't even take the time to read what I have to say. It would take only a few seconds.
Am I not worth a few seconds of someone's time?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else think it's really rude when someone doesn't even read your message? I don't mind if someone doesn't reply - to me that's fine, you're not interested but at least you heard what I had to say.
I've sent a few people messages and they haven't even been read. It annoys me because there's no way they could know what I want to say to them - a lot aren't even asking to get to know them or for a meet etc, I have genuine questions for them.
I'm talking about people who are regularly online as well. I think it's just rude that someone won't even take the time to read what I have to say. It would take only a few seconds.
Am I not worth a few seconds of someone's time? "
i was just told today lad that women often come in here and bulk delete because of so many inbox messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Nope you're not worth it  100 males to one female, work your chances out. You either go at it hammer and tongs (like most men on here) and hope for a reply or a read OR just bide your time and don't take anything on here personally that way you'll feel happier and not just a piece of meat |
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I wouldn't over think it
I bulk delete as I get at least 2,009 messages a day lol
I guess it could just mean the person is judging a book by its cover and it doesn't look interesting enough to read  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't over think it
I bulk delete as I get at least 2,009 messages a day lol "
I don't understand this because I get none. Ever. I've been here a few weeks, I follow people's advice as much as I can. I'm polite, I never used text speak, always put effort into messages rather than one-liners and try to make subject lines appear different at the very least.
It doesn't exactly help my enthusiasm or already poor self esteem.  |
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"I wouldn't over think it
I bulk delete as I get at least 2,009 messages a day lol
I don't understand this because I get none. Ever. I've been here a few weeks, I follow people's advice as much as I can. I'm polite, I never used text speak, always put effort into messages rather than one-liners and try to make subject lines appear different at the very least.
It doesn't exactly help my enthusiasm or already poor self esteem.
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One thing I can offer and it's crucial on here. Don't take anything personally. I'm sure like most people whom have met you know you're a sound guy but on here 'Fabswingers' it's a different world. The ladies haven't a chance to read your one message amongst 100's. Just chill your beans and it'll be cool. I've seen advise to come on the forums and introduce yourself but with your low self esteem I'd consider giving it a miss as on here is even more brutal Just teasing lol Introduce yourself ond stop whining and it'll all be good  |
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I do have messages on here for over a week and don't read them just get a pain in me gee answering the same shite all the time then I just answer a load at once then go quite again couldn't give a rats Arse if people don't like it either |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn't over think it
I bulk delete as I get at least 2,009 messages a day lol
I don't understand this because I get none. Ever. I've been here a few weeks, I follow people's advice as much as I can. I'm polite, I never used text speak, always put effort into messages rather than one-liners and try to make subject lines appear different at the very least.
It doesn't exactly help my enthusiasm or already poor self esteem. "
Jaysus Jesse you need to grow a thicker skin lv! For us it's not alway me (Mrs) that's online. So if a message come through to us from a male Pat will leave it for me n vice versa. Having said that it has to be very frustrating for genuine males as they do get treated a bit unfairly (blame the idiot single men for scuppering your chances).
But honestly your not been here that long so give it time and it will happen
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" just get a pain in me gee answering the same shite all the time then I just answer a load at once then go quite again couldn't give a rats Arse if people don't like it either "
As I said, I don't mind if people don't reply, but I'd like if the message was at least opened? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn't over think it
I bulk delete as I get at least 2,009 messages a day lol
I don't understand this because I get none. Ever. I've been here a few weeks, I follow people's advice as much as I can. I'm polite, I never used text speak, always put effort into messages rather than one-liners and try to make subject lines appear different at the very least.
It doesn't exactly help my enthusiasm or already poor self esteem.
One thing I can offer and it's crucial on here. Don't take anything personally. I'm sure like most people whom have met you know you're a sound guy but on here 'Fabswingers' it's a different world. The ladies haven't a chance to read your one message amongst 100's. Just chill your beans and it'll be cool. I've seen advise to come on the forums and introduce yourself but with your low self esteem I'd consider giving it a miss as on here is even more brutal Just teasing lol Introduce yourself ond stop whining and it'll all be good "
Agree with the stop whining lol. It's never a good look |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn't over think it
I bulk delete as I get at least 2,009 messages a day lol
I don't understand this because I get none. Ever. I've been here a few weeks, I follow people's advice as much as I can. I'm polite, I never used text speak, always put effort into messages rather than one-liners and try to make subject lines appear different at the very least.
It doesn't exactly help my enthusiasm or already poor self esteem.
One thing I can offer and it's crucial on here. Don't take anything personally. I'm sure like most people whom have met you know you're a sound guy but on here 'Fabswingers' it's a different world. The ladies haven't a chance to read your one message amongst 100's. Just chill your beans and it'll be cool. I've seen advise to come on the forums and introduce yourself but with your low self esteem I'd consider giving it a miss as on here is even more brutal Just teasing lol Introduce yourself ond stop whining and it'll all be good
Agree with the stop whining lol. It's never a good look "
So you agree about the stop whining!! What about the rest of my advise hey!
That's great you give advise and people only take one point, what about the rest of it. I hate when you give loads of advise and no one takes it or appreciates it, I'm off to send a 100 messages..........Maybe I'll get lucky |
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Does anyone else think it's really rude when someone doesn't even read your message? I don't mind if someone doesn't reply - to me that's fine, you're not interested but at least you heard what I had to say.
I've sent a few people messages and they haven't even been read. It annoys me because there's no way they could know what I want to say to them - a lot aren't even asking to get to know them or for a meet etc, I have genuine questions for them.
I'm talking about people who are regularly online as well. I think it's just rude that someone won't even take the time to read what I have to say. It would take only a few seconds.
Am I not worth a few seconds of someone's time?
"What I had to say" "What I want to say" "I have genuine questions for them" "Am I not worth.." Jeez it's all about you, you & you. Nobody on this site is obligated to do anything, yes manners would be nice but it's def not rude to not reply or even open a message.
I will answer why I don't open some mail tho, firstly you can already see a preview of contents of a message so if it's v short or rude il delete, secondly il know they haven't read my profile depending on what they've put in the subject bar. Also I can click into their profile without opening their message so if I don't like what I see I won't even bother opening message and finally from the preview of message I can see if their verif by ppl or photo & if not il delete. So there's lots of reasons why I delete but on a last note, this is my account & my choice.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone else think it's really rude when someone doesn't even read your message? I don't mind if someone doesn't reply - to me that's fine, you're not interested but at least you heard what I had to say.
I've sent a few people messages and they haven't even been read. It annoys me because there's no way they could know what I want to say to them - a lot aren't even asking to get to know them or for a meet etc, I have genuine questions for them.
I'm talking about people who are regularly online as well. I think it's just rude that someone won't even take the time to read what I have to say. It would take only a few seconds.
Am I not worth a few seconds of someone's time?
"What I had to say" "What I want to say" "I have genuine questions for them" "Am I not worth.." Jeez it's all about you, you & you. Nobody on this site is obligated to do anything, yes manners would be nice but it's def not rude to not reply or even open a message.
I will answer why I don't open some mail tho, firstly you can already see a preview of contents of a message so if it's v short or rude il delete, secondly il know they haven't read my profile depending on what they've put in the subject bar. Also I can click into their profile without opening their message so if I don't like what I see I won't even bother opening message and finally from the preview of message I can see if their verif by ppl or photo & if not il delete. So there's lots of reasons why I delete but on a last note, this is my account & my choice.
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To be honest, and it's just my opinion, I wouldn't expect a reply from you from reading your profile or just reading your response on this thread.. Cuckadoodledoo in the subject line. In fact I'd be surprised you ever got a message from anyone sane. Just my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone else think it's really rude when someone doesn't even read your message? I don't mind if someone doesn't reply - to me that's fine, you're not interested but at least you heard what I had to say.
I've sent a few people messages and they haven't even been read. It annoys me because there's no way they could know what I want to say to them - a lot aren't even asking to get to know them or for a meet etc, I have genuine questions for them.
I'm talking about people who are regularly online as well. I think it's just rude that someone won't even take the time to read what I have to say. It would take only a few seconds.
Am I not worth a few seconds of someone's time?
"What I had to say" "What I want to say" "I have genuine questions for them" "Am I not worth.." Jeez it's all about you, you & you. Nobody on this site is obligated to do anything, yes manners would be nice but it's def not rude to not reply or even open a message.
I will answer why I don't open some mail tho, firstly you can already see a preview of contents of a message so if it's v short or rude il delete, secondly il know they haven't read my profile depending on what they've put in the subject bar. Also I can click into their profile without opening their message so if I don't like what I see I won't even bother opening message and finally from the preview of message I can see if their verif by ppl or photo & if not il delete. So there's lots of reasons why I delete but on a last note, this is my account & my choice.
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Totally agree with this. Can't quite get my head around the idea that someone owes you something. Surely nobody Is obligated to respond to you. Even less so than they are in the outside world. People are of course free to respond to whomever they please |
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Your absolutely entitled to your opinion Your..Secret..Desire but I don't really care about it as I was responding to the OP post.
As for been surprised that I'd even get a message from Fabbers, well uv read my profile (dont think iv ever eaten a bar called 'Cockadoodledoo') so u can see by my 50+meet verifs that I obviously get the odd message or 2, so I'm doing alright, Hows Fab treating you? does seem a tad bit slow for ya, just 1meet in near enough same time frame as when I joined. Id give my opinion on why but I couldn't be arsed, will just leave it to facts & figures. I hope you continue with your success on here, happy Fabbing. |
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"Your absolutely entitled to your opinion Your..Secret..Desire but I don't really care about it as I was responding to the OP post.
As for been surprised that I'd even get a message from Fabbers, well uv read my profile (dont think iv ever eaten a bar called 'Cockadoodledoo') so u can see by my 50+meet verifs that I obviously get the odd message or 2, so I'm doing alright, Hows Fab treating you? does seem a tad bit slow for ya, just 1meet in near enough same time frame as when I joined. Id give my opinion on why but I couldn't be arsed, will just leave it to facts & figures. I hope you continue with your success on here, happy Fabbing. "
Guess what? I bet you don't care but Thanks for not firing in with all cylinders straight away  It makes no odds with your 50+ veris or showing off about them, the OP was asking how he doesn't get a reply to his messages or deleted without reading and 'we' both replied with our opinions, to me I gave advise, I saw you just copy and paste your profile, i'll put cockadoodledoo in the hope you read this response BTW just to let you know I'm not in a rush but thanks for your concern and I thought you didn't care |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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These type of topics never end well for the guys bitching an moaning. Its tough for us all just keep plugging away you'll get what your looking for eventually or you'll give up like so many others before!! Nothing comes easy on here  |
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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago
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"How do u know op there not read we can still read mail but sumtimes easier show it not read "
Yeah, was just gonna say this. We can mark mail as unread after reading it. Stops the 'why have you not replied to my message, I know you have read it' whingefest. Well, I don't get mail anymore thankfully, but used to happen a lot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do have messages on here for over a week and don't read them just get a pain in me gee answering the same shite all the time then I just answer a load at once then go quite again couldn't give a rats Arse if people don't like it either "
This!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dint meet men who haven't been verified, ive clearly stated this in my profile so when I get messages from these men they are deleted without being read...I don't think it's rude when they obviously haven't done me the same courtesy in reading my profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dint meet men who haven't been verified, ive clearly stated this in my profile so when I get messages from these men they are deleted without being read...I don't think it's rude when they obviously haven't done me the same courtesy in reading my profile. "
I agree, It's all about where the problem started, not when you noticed... |
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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago
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"I dint meet men who haven't been verified, ive clearly stated this in my profile so when I get messages from these men they are deleted without being read...I don't think it's rude when they obviously haven't done me the same courtesy in reading my profile. "
You know you can filter out mails from unverifieds? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dint meet men who haven't been verified, ive clearly stated this in my profile so when I get messages from these men they are deleted without being read...I don't think it's rude when they obviously haven't done me the same courtesy in reading my profile.
I agree, It's all about where the problem started, not when you noticed..."
Exactly!! Im so sick shit of men getting the hump on here or getting nasty when if they had just read the profile they'd know I wasn't for them lol such a waste of time for both parties |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Be a lot less drama and people stomping around indignantly and 'how very dare they' gnashing of teeth if people simply used filters more. "
Ah here Elfie, they'd have nothing to moan about then... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have sent many a message still prob have not been read
You have to have a thick skin on this site and sometimes give as good as you get. Im photo verified but not meet verified yet, still waiting on someone to ask me out for coffee or drink (me thinks I will be waiting a while  ) But you do know the saying "everything comes to those who wait"
Yes it is frustrating but you have to realise as a male your chances are a lot slimmer.
Put the boot on the other foot and if you had 100s of messages to get through a day would you read them all ?
Not having a go at anyone just my opinion |
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"I have sent many a message still prob have not been read
You have to have a thick skin on this site and sometimes give as good as you get. Im photo verified but not meet verified yet, still waiting on someone to ask me out for coffee or drink (me thinks I will be waiting a while ) But you do know the saying "everything comes to those who wait"
Yes it is frustrating but you have to realise as a male your chances are a lot slimmer.
Put the boot on the other foot and if you had 100s of messages to get through a day would you read them all ?
Not having a go at anyone just my opinion "
barsi I just wonder would you have that many messages if you had proper filters in place? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just mail every single female from irelamd on site who your allowed to and also couples and eventually you'll get lucky "
Ah now, you might have to repeat several times as moods change from day to day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just mail every single female from irelamd on site who your allowed to and also couples and eventually you'll get lucky
Ah now, you might have to repeat several times as moods change from day to day."
females eh  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't over think it
I bulk delete as I get at least 2,009 messages a day lol
I don't understand this because I get none. Ever. I've been here a few weeks, I follow people's advice as much as I can. I'm polite, I never used text speak, always put effort into messages rather than one-liners and try to make subject lines appear different at the very least.
It doesn't exactly help my enthusiasm or already poor self esteem. "
You're here 3 weeks,quit the whinging Ffs |
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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago
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"Just mail every single female from irelamd on site who your allowed to and also couples and eventually you'll get lucky
Ah now, you might have to repeat several times as moods change from day to day."
from hour to hour more like |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just mail every single female from irelamd on site who your allowed to and also couples and eventually you'll get lucky
Ah now, you might have to repeat several times as moods change from day to day.
from hour to hour more like "
*whispers
I just didn't want to be the one who typed it... |
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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago
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"Just mail every single female from irelamd on site who your allowed to and also couples and eventually you'll get lucky
Ah now, you might have to repeat several times as moods change from day to day.
from hour to hour more like
*whispers
I just didn't want to be the one who typed it..."
Dammit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Patience is a virtue. I wouldn't get worked up about unread messages after 3 weeks on fab! Moaning about it won't help either."
The amount of guys complaining and looking for attention theses days on the forum is becoming tedious..
You are not helping yourselves at all!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your absolutely entitled to your opinion Your..Secret..Desire but I don't really care about it as I was responding to the OP post.
As for been surprised that I'd even get a message from Fabbers, well uv read my profile (dont think iv ever eaten a bar called 'Cockadoodledoo') so u can see by my 50+meet verifs that I obviously get the odd message or 2, so I'm doing alright, Hows Fab treating you? does seem a tad bit slow for ya, just 1meet in near enough same time frame as when I joined. Id give my opinion on why but I couldn't be arsed, will just leave it to facts & figures. I hope you continue with your success on here, happy Fabbing. "
Ooooh! Your Secret Desire just got owned. Great pics by the way Choc. Really sexy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have sent many a message still prob have not been read
You have to have a thick skin on this site and sometimes give as good as you get. Im photo verified but not meet verified yet, still waiting on someone to ask me out for coffee or drink (me thinks I will be waiting a while ) But you do know the saying "everything comes to those who wait"
Yes it is frustrating but you have to realise as a male your chances are a lot slimmer.
Put the boot on the other foot and if you had 100s of messages to get through a day would you read them all ?
Not having a go at anyone just my opinion barsi I just wonder would you have that many messages if you had proper filters in place?"
I wish I could get 10 messages let alone 100 but yes thats what filters should be used for alright |
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Same old crap every day!!
IF and I say IF guys just chilled and stopped sending messages then fems/couples would have time to look at profiles etc.
The idiots sending stupid 1 liners etc fuck it up for themselves and everyone incl those who send nice messages! Simple!!
None of my messages have been unread, deleted or not replied to... WHY? I don't send any!
GO TO SOCIALS ETC!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Same old crap every day!!
IF and I say IF guys just chilled and stopped sending messages then fems/couples would have time to look at profiles etc.
The idiots sending stupid 1 liners etc fuck it up for themselves and everyone incl those who send nice messages! Simple!!
None of my messages have been unread, deleted or not replied to... WHY? I don't send any!
GO TO SOCIALS ETC!!"
I agree but in fairness it is hard to go to socials because people are not meet verified as I myself have tried a few socials only to be shut down and told "sorry its only for meet verified people". Im still trying . Its a lengthy process but stick with it |
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What does a coffee meet actually prove other than there is a real person behind the profile? Unless artificial intelligence has been created, I can't see the point.
The same as social meet verifications. It's a verification that someone turned up at a social event and nothing more.
Neither of these verifications really mean anything to us when looking to meet someone to have sex and/or party with.
Now a party verification or a meet verification where the member had sex with another member is what should really matter.
If a member has only coffee and M&G attendance veris then we would pass over. These veris dont inspire a lot of confidence by themselves. |
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"What does a coffee meet actually prove other than there is a real person behind the profile? Unless artificial intelligence has been created, I can't see the point.
The same as social meet verifications. It's a verification that someone turned up at a social event and nothing more.
Neither of these verifications really mean anything to us when looking to meet someone to have sex and/or party with.
Now a party verification or a meet verification where the member had sex with another member is what should really matter.
If a member has only coffee and M&G attendance veris then we would pass over. These veris dont inspire a lot of confidence by themselves. "
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"What does a coffee meet actually prove other than there is a real person behind the profile? Unless artificial intelligence has been created, I can't see the point.
The same as social meet verifications. It's a verification that someone turned up at a social event and nothing more.
Neither of these verifications really mean anything to us when looking to meet someone to have sex and/or party with.
Now a party verification or a meet verification where the member had sex with another member is what should really matter.
If a member has only coffee and M&G attendance veris then we would pass over. These veris dont inspire a lot of confidence by themselves. "
I agree... but it is a step in the right direction in that age etc is as per profile etc! and only a step!!
Certainly better than nothing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Be a lot less drama and people stomping around indignantly and 'how very dare they' gnashing of teeth if people simply used filters more. "
I have my filters set to I don't want unverified people to mail me but if those none "meet" verified are "photo" verified they can still mail me.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Be a lot less drama and people stomping around indignantly and 'how very dare they' gnashing of teeth if people simply used filters more.
I have my filters set to I don't want unverified people to mail me but if those none "meet" verified are "photo" verified they can still mail me. "
This has been asked for loads on the feedback section of the forums, to separately filter meet and photo verified. Admin have paid no heed so far |
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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago
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"Be a lot less drama and people stomping around indignantly and 'how very dare they' gnashing of teeth if people simply used filters more.
I have my filters set to I don't want unverified people to mail me but if those none "meet" verified are "photo" verified they can still mail me. "
Ah yeah, get ya Roxie. They should definitely be separate entities. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Be a lot less drama and people stomping around indignantly and 'how very dare they' gnashing of teeth if people simply used filters more.
I have my filters set to I don't want unverified people to mail me but if those none "meet" verified are "photo" verified they can still mail me.
Ah yeah, get ya Roxie. They should definitely be separate entities."
So its basically a waste of time _lfie!!!! I try but just cannot succeed! this place withers me sometimes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Be a lot less drama and people stomping around indignantly and 'how very dare they' gnashing of teeth if people simply used filters more.
I have my filters set to I don't want unverified people to mail me but if those none "meet" verified are "photo" verified they can still mail me. "
just block all single guys, mail the ones you like, then they be no need for whinging or moaning on here, |
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I didn't read the rest of the thread OP only your post so I can only answer honestly as to why I don't bother replying anymore to people I'm not interested in...
It has been my experience over the last few months on here that when I politely say "thanks but no thanks" in a reply back to a mail that's been sent to me I get abuse returned for in it the form of childish mails saying things like "your loss fatso" etc etc
My take on it is that it states CLEARLY on my profile that I'm a fatty so why mail me in the first place lol go figure
So I don't intend on being rude when I don't reply, it's just that I'm sick of childish arseholes
Have a fabulous hump day pervs
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"Girls....block all males..just mail the ones you like then...simples.. "
Or just carry on ignoring the ones we aren't interested in - works for us and we do state clearly in our profile that we won't reply if not interested..... |
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There's another button that's used a lot too it allows you to read the message and then mark it as unread so maybe it has been heard just not replied to or bulk deleted. It's hard to get a person at the right moment in the right frame of mind anyway all can say is keep sending them |
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"I didn't read the rest of the thread OP only your post so I can only answer honestly as to why I don't bother replying anymore to people I'm not interested in...
It has been my experience over the last few months on here that when I politely say "thanks but no thanks" in a reply back to a mail that's been sent to me I get abuse returned for in it the form of childish mails saying things like "your loss fatso" etc etc
My take on it is that it states CLEARLY on my profile that I'm a fatty so why mail me in the first place lol go figure
So I don't intend on being rude when I don't reply, it's just that I'm sick of childish arseholes
Have a fabulous hump day pervs
Mmmmmwahhhhhh
X X X X X "
Your profile is hidden though |
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"I didn't read the rest of the thread OP only your post so I can only answer honestly as to why I don't bother replying anymore to people I'm not interested in...
It has been my experience over the last few months on here that when I politely say "thanks but no thanks" in a reply back to a mail that's been sent to me I get abuse returned for in it the form of childish mails saying things like "your loss fatso" etc etc
My take on it is that it states CLEARLY on my profile that I'm a fatty so why mail me in the first place lol go figure
So I don't intend on being rude when I don't reply, it's just that I'm sick of childish arseholes
Have a fabulous hump day pervs
Mmmmmwahhhhhh
X X X X X
Your profile is hidden though "
I totally agree with you. learned lesson the hard way here if u txt bk at all they think they're in there n keep msging u
if u don't txt bk I think it's just easier
plus if ure a girl on here u get loads of messages well at the start lol
shur u can't be answering them all
I pop in n out of here for 5 or ten mins
I genuinely wouldn't have the time or patience to be answering everybody!!
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"There's another button that's used a lot too it allows you to read the message and then mark it as unread so maybe it has been heard just not replied to or bulk deleted. It's hard to get a person at the right moment in the right frame of mind anyway all can say is keep sending them"
This is very true, sometimes you can send a message while theyre off line, they will no doubt get a few messages in between the time youve sent yours and when theyre back online. Best advice for getting a reply is to wait for them to be online, make sure your original in your approach and ask a question in your first message, that way if your lucky enough to get a reply you wont get the "hi" message returned. Its all a numbers game. Feck i shouldnt be telling tricks of the trade  |
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"I didn't read the rest of the thread OP only your post so I can only answer honestly as to why I don't bother replying anymore to people I'm not interested in...
It has been my experience over the last few months on here that when I politely say "thanks but no thanks" in a reply back to a mail that's been sent to me I get abuse returned for in it the form of childish mails saying things like "your loss fatso" etc etc
My take on it is that it states CLEARLY on my profile that I'm a fatty so why mail me in the first place lol go figure
So I don't intend on being rude when I don't reply, it's just that I'm sick of childish arseholes
Have a fabulous hump day pervs
Mmmmmwahhhhhh
X X X X X
Your profile is hidden though
I totally agree with you. learned lesson the hard way here if u txt bk at all they think they're in there n keep msging u
if u don't txt bk I think it's just easier
plus if ure a girl on here u get loads of messages well at the start lol
shur u can't be answering them all
I pop in n out of here for 5 or ten mins
I genuinely wouldn't have the time or patience to be answering everybody!!
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That's it exactly
This is meant to be a nice fun distraction for grown ups so we need to strip it back (pardon the pun) lol and make it fun again
Me mammy always said if ya can't say anything nice then keep yer big gob shut
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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Be a lot less drama and people stomping around indignantly and 'how very dare they' gnashing of teeth if people simply used filters more. "
But if they're busy stomping around they're not busy sending me shite messages! So thanks to all those that dont always use filters! |
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We've often read a message, liked what we read but didn't have time to reply there and then so we mark it as unread for when we log in the next time just in case we forget etc. |
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"We've often read a message, liked what we read but didn't have time to reply there and then so we mark it as unread for when we log in the next time just in case we forget etc. "
Yep and I like your point about the type of verification but I know a lot try hide the fact they've played in case they annoy other prospective meets lol lots of game playing goes on. But because of filters it's important to a lot to get verified one way or another to mail people. Only proves they're who they say they are |
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"What does a coffee meet actually prove other than there is a real person behind the profile? Unless artificial intelligence has been created, I can't see the point.
The same as social meet verifications. It's a verification that someone turned up at a social event and nothing more.
Neither of these verifications really mean anything to us when looking to meet someone to have sex and/or party with.
Now a party verification or a meet verification where the member had sex with another member is what should really matter.
If a member has only coffee and M&G attendance veris then we would pass over. These veris dont inspire a lot of confidence by themselves. "
What about people who want their veris to look like social ones for discretion reasons?
Most of my veris look like social ones.... Doesnt mean they are.... |
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By *-ManMan
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else think it's really rude when someone doesn't even read your message? I don't mind if someone doesn't reply - to me that's fine, you're not interested but at least you heard what I had to say.
I've sent a few people messages and they haven't even been read. It annoys me because there's no way they could know what I want to say to them - a lot aren't even asking to get to know them or for a meet etc, I have genuine questions for them.
I'm talking about people who are regularly online as well. I think it's just rude that someone won't even take the time to read what I have to say. It would take only a few seconds.
Am I not worth a few seconds of someone's time? "
Quite frankly no, it's not rude, they owes you nothing, not even the few seconds it takes to read your message.
Man-o to man-o, I'm not being a dick here, I'm being honest, so here's my best bit of advice, stop being needy, stop seeking validation from others, make yourself the centre of your world, a fucking super-dooper world of fun and positive energy and others will message you wanting to get in on the act, and at that point the ones that don't reply won't matter, cause you'll have options.
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"Does anyone else think it's really rude when someone doesn't even read your message? I don't mind if someone doesn't reply - to me that's fine, you're not interested but at least you heard what I had to say.
I've sent a few people messages and they haven't even been read. It annoys me because there's no way they could know what I want to say to them - a lot aren't even asking to get to know them or for a meet etc, I have genuine questions for them.
I'm talking about people who are regularly online as well. I think it's just rude that someone won't even take the time to read what I have to say. It would take only a few seconds.
Am I not worth a few seconds of someone's time? "
Grow up. People will answer you if the want and as others have said sometimes you look at the profile before the message. |
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"Does anyone else think it's really rude when someone doesn't even read your message? I don't mind if someone doesn't reply - to me that's fine, you're not interested but at least you heard what I had to say.
I've sent a few people messages and they haven't even been read. It annoys me because there's no way they could know what I want to say to them - a lot aren't even asking to get to know them or for a meet etc, I have genuine questions for them.
I'm talking about people who are regularly online as well. I think it's just rude that someone won't even take the time to read what I have to say. It would take only a few seconds.
Am I not worth a few seconds of someone's time?
Quite frankly no, it's not rude, they owes you nothing, not even the few seconds it takes to read your message.
Man-o to man-o, I'm not being a dick here, I'm being honest, so here's my best bit of advice, stop being needy, stop seeking validation from others, make yourself the centre of your world, a fucking super-dooper world of fun and positive energy and others will message you wanting to get in on the act, and at that point the ones that don't reply won't matter, cause you'll have options.
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"Does anyone else think it's really rude when someone doesn't even read your message? I don't mind if someone doesn't reply - to me that's fine, you're not interested but at least you heard what I had to say.
I've sent a few people messages and they haven't even been read. It annoys me because there's no way they could know what I want to say to them - a lot aren't even asking to get to know them or for a meet etc, I have genuine questions for them.
I'm talking about people who are regularly online as well. I think it's just rude that someone won't even take the time to read what I have to say. It would take only a few seconds.
Am I not worth a few seconds of someone's time?
Quite frankly no, it's not rude, they owes you nothing, not even the few seconds it takes to read your message.
Man-o to man-o, I'm not being a dick here, I'm being honest, so here's my best bit of advice, stop being needy, stop seeking validation from others, make yourself the centre of your world, a fucking super-dooper world of fun and positive energy and others will message you wanting to get in on the act, and at that point the ones that don't reply won't matter, cause you'll have options.
Hear, hear. There's nothing more repellent than desperation"
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"Just emailing.. wear them down till they give that's the key!
And keep the email a short one-liner!"
...and send it fifty times just in case there's a blockage in the system. Your persistence will impress them. Sure the wimmin love men with stamina! |
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over a year ago
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"Does anyone else think it's really rude when someone doesn't even read your message? I don't mind if someone doesn't reply - to me that's fine, you're not interested but at least you heard what I had to say.
I've sent a few people messages and they haven't even been read. It annoys me because there's no way they could know what I want to say to them - a lot aren't even asking to get to know them or for a meet etc, I have genuine questions for them.
I'm talking about people who are regularly online as well. I think it's just rude that someone won't even take the time to read what I have to say. It would take only a few seconds.
Am I not worth a few seconds of someone's time?
Quite frankly no, it's not rude, they owes you nothing, not even the few seconds it takes to read your message.
Man-o to man-o, I'm not being a dick here, I'm being honest, so here's my best bit of advice, stop being needy, stop seeking validation from others, make yourself the centre of your world, a fucking super-dooper world of fun and positive energy and others will message you wanting to get in on the act, and at that point the ones that don't reply won't matter, cause you'll have options.
Hear, hear. There's nothing more repellent than desperation
It can be fierce attractive in a woman though "
But it's on the clock tho, that shit get old fast |
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"Does anyone else think it's really rude when someone doesn't even read your message? I don't mind if someone doesn't reply - to me that's fine, you're not interested but at least you heard what I had to say.
I've sent a few people messages and they haven't even been read. It annoys me because there's no way they could know what I want to say to them - a lot aren't even asking to get to know them or for a meet etc, I have genuine questions for them.
I'm talking about people who are regularly online as well. I think it's just rude that someone won't even take the time to read what I have to say. It would take only a few seconds.
Am I not worth a few seconds of someone's time?
Quite frankly no, it's not rude, they owes you nothing, not even the few seconds it takes to read your message.
Man-o to man-o, I'm not being a dick here, I'm being honest, so here's my best bit of advice, stop being needy, stop seeking validation from others, make yourself the centre of your world, a fucking super-dooper world of fun and positive energy and others will message you wanting to get in on the act, and at that point the ones that don't reply won't matter, cause you'll have options.
Hear, hear. There's nothing more repellent than desperation
It can be fierce attractive in a woman though
But it's on the clock tho, that shit get old fast"
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"Does anyone else think it's really rude when someone doesn't even read your message? I don't mind if someone doesn't reply - to me that's fine, you're not interested but at least you heard what I had to say.
I've sent a few people messages and they haven't even been read. It annoys me because there's no way they could know what I want to say to them - a lot aren't even asking to get to know them or for a meet etc, I have genuine questions for them.
I'm talking about people who are regularly online as well. I think it's just rude that someone won't even take the time to read what I have to say. It would take only a few seconds.
Am I not worth a few seconds of someone's time?
Quite frankly no, it's not rude, they owes you nothing, not even the few seconds it takes to read your message.
Man-o to man-o, I'm not being a dick here, I'm being honest, so here's my best bit of advice, stop being needy, stop seeking validation from others, make yourself the centre of your world, a fucking super-dooper world of fun and positive energy and others will message you wanting to get in on the act, and at that point the ones that don't reply won't matter, cause you'll have options.
Hear, hear. There's nothing more repellent than desperation
It can be fierce attractive in a woman though
But it's on the clock tho, that shit get old fast
http://www.overlyattachedgirlfriend.com/"
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"Just emailing.. wear them down till they give that's the key!
And keep the email a short one-liner!
...and send it fifty times just in case there's a blockage in the system. Your persistence will impress them. Sure the wimmin love men with stamina! "
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"Just emailing.. wear them down till they give that's the key!
And keep the email a short one-liner!
...and send it fifty times just in case there's a blockage in the system. Your persistence will impress them. Sure the wimmin love men with stamina!
If in doubt send a cock pic... women love cock!"
How could you fail? |
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