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why did u start swinging???
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Maybe it's been posted here before. But why did yous start to swing and which in a couple first mentioned it. For us I himself was thinking about it for maybe 18 months before I got the balls to say it to herself. I was very surprised when she fully agreed to it, for our reason for swinging is, years of marriage, bringing up a young family, busy working,not getting out together. Our sex life dropped a lot, maybe if lucky we had sex once a week and it was near as if we had to have sex for the sake of it because that's what marriage is for. So in short we were bored in our sex life. We needed more to spice it up. Since starting to swing we could have sex with each other 3-4 times a week now. We're like newlyweds again. Live to hear your side of the story...himself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All really began with Mr asking Did I like porn?? Developed from watching, drooling over girls, Mrs I may add lol, to wanting to try stuff, bi to start, then mmf, then progressed on x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"All really began with Mr asking Did I like porn?? Developed from watching, drooling over girls, Mrs I may add lol, to wanting to try stuff, bi to start, then mmf, then progressed on x "
I forgot vto add the porn bit also. I watched porn from time to time. Herself found out, went a bit mad. I asked her to watch it with me. Oh man, she got so turned on by watching mmf, mff and ff. So it kinda broke the ice when I asked about trying it out for real. |
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"Maybe it's been posted here before. But why did yous start to swing and which in a couple first mentioned it. For us I himself was thinking about it for maybe 18 months before I got the balls to say it to herself. I was very surprised when she fully agreed to it, for our reason for swinging is, years of marriage, bringing up a young family, busy working,not getting out together. Our sex life dropped a lot, maybe if lucky we had sex once a week and it was near as if we had to have sex for the sake of it because that's what marriage is for. So in short we were bored in our sex life. We needed more to spice it up. Since starting to swing we could have sex with each other 3-4 times a week now. We're like newlyweds again. Live to hear your side of the story...himself"
Fair play for your honest answer...Id assume it's the same for most couples on here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I bumped into an old work colleague in a supermarket in Spain (where I lived and worked at the time) around 2004/5. After exchanging pleasantries, he began to tell me how he'd resently talked his misses into a 3some, and after I had congratulated him he said "and we thought of you"
I was like "Ohhhhhh, that kind of threesome". I had met his misses before (smoking hot) and said something a long the lines of "Fuck yeah"
Became a regular met, where they'd introduce me to some of their friends and informed me what site to use. I haven't looked back since
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"Was all my idea cause I'm a horny bastard and enough is never enough!
exactly my reason too that's why we get on well  haha
I wish u would  get it on? Haha
Hell yeah  "
I think I could be good with that haha |
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"Was all my idea cause I'm a horny bastard and enough is never enough!
exactly my reason too that's why we get on well haha
I wish u would get it on? Haha
Hell yeah I think I could be good with that haha "
Anytime  |
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"Was all my idea cause I'm a horny bastard and enough is never enough!
exactly my reason too that's why we get on well haha
I wish u would get it on? Haha
Hell yeah I think I could be good with that haha
Anytime "
Xmas social should be a lot more fun now haha |
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"Was all my idea cause I'm a horny bastard and enough is never enough!
exactly my reason too that's why we get on well haha
I wish u would get it on? Haha
Hell yeah I think I could be good with that haha
Anytime Xmas social should be a lot more fun now haha"
I will be the shy one hiding in the corner  |
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"Was all my idea cause I'm a horny bastard and enough is never enough!
exactly my reason too that's why we get on well haha
I wish u would get it on? Haha
Hell yeah I think I could be good with that haha
Anytime Xmas social should be a lot more fun now haha
I will be the shy one hiding in the corner "
you where far from shy last year in cork in the smoking area hahaha |
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"Was all my idea cause I'm a horny bastard and enough is never enough!
exactly my reason too that's why we get on well haha
I wish u would get it on? Haha
Hell yeah I think I could be good with that haha
Anytime Xmas social should be a lot more fun now haha
I will be the shy one hiding in the corner you where far from shy last year in cork in the smoking area hahaha"
that was me being shy when I lose my nervousness the  cums outa me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well we both met here and decided to stay and explore more then the two of us already had.
Tomcat "
Did ye leave Fab for a while first then come back as a couple on Fab or did you go straight into setting up a couple profile....?  |
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"Was all my idea cause I'm a horny bastard and enough is never enough!
exactly my reason too that's why we get on well haha
I wish u would get it on? Haha
Hell yeah I think I could be good with that haha
Anytime Xmas social should be a lot more fun now haha
I will be the shy one hiding in the corner you where far from shy last year in cork in the smoking area hahaha
that was me being shy when I lose my nervousness the cums outa me"
won't be the only thing coming outta ya haha |
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"Was all my idea cause I'm a horny bastard and enough is never enough!
exactly my reason too that's why we get on well haha
I wish u would get it on? Haha
Hell yeah I think I could be good with that haha
Anytime Xmas social should be a lot more fun now haha
I will be the shy one hiding in the corner you where far from shy last year in cork in the smoking area hahaha
that was me being shy when I lose my nervousness the cums outa me won't be the only thing coming outta ya haha "
Lol you've no idea take a deep breath and hold on |
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By *ir1967Man
over a year ago
in da sticks, london, amsterdam, madrid |
I was always a libertine, as I grew up in a city with a very libertine mindset sexuality was never a theme for the pillow only. The hotwife who had a very active sex life before me wanted to try it out to push the boundaries so we did and she got hooked as well...so here we are |
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"Was all my idea cause I'm a horny bastard and enough is never enough!
exactly my reason too that's why we get on well haha
I wish u would get it on? Haha
Hell yeah I think I could be good with that haha
Anytime Xmas social should be a lot more fun now haha
I will be the shy one hiding in the corner you where far from shy last year in cork in the smoking area hahaha
that was me being shy when I lose my nervousness the cums outa me won't be the only thing coming outta ya haha
Lol you've no idea take a deep breath and hold on "
haha ur the one that's gonna need the deep breaths haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was all my idea cause I'm a horny bastard and enough is never enough!
exactly my reason too that's why we get on well haha
I wish u would get it on? Haha
Hell yeah I think I could be good with that haha
Anytime Xmas social should be a lot more fun now haha
I will be the shy one hiding in the corner you where far from shy last year in cork in the smoking area hahaha
that was me being shy when I lose my nervousness the cums outa me won't be the only thing coming outta ya haha
Lol you've no idea take a deep breath and hold on haha ur the one that's gonna need the deep breaths haha "
Jasus I'm not sure if you guys are warming up to fight or fuck  |
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"Was all my idea cause I'm a horny bastard and enough is never enough!
exactly my reason too that's why we get on well haha
I wish u would get it on? Haha
Hell yeah I think I could be good with that haha
Anytime Xmas social should be a lot more fun now haha
I will be the shy one hiding in the corner you where far from shy last year in cork in the smoking area hahaha
that was me being shy when I lose my nervousness the cums outa me won't be the only thing coming outta ya haha
Lol you've no idea take a deep breath and hold on haha ur the one that's gonna need the deep breaths haha
Jasus I'm not sure if you guys are warming up to fight or fuck "
Hahahaha wer just fiesty fuckers that's all |
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"Was all my idea cause I'm a horny bastard and enough is never enough!
exactly my reason too that's why we get on well haha
I wish u would get it on? Haha
Hell yeah I think I could be good with that haha
Anytime Xmas social should be a lot more fun now haha
I will be the shy one hiding in the corner you where far from shy last year in cork in the smoking area hahaha
that was me being shy when I lose my nervousness the cums outa me won't be the only thing coming outta ya haha
Lol you've no idea take a deep breath and hold on haha ur the one that's gonna need the deep breaths haha
Jasus I'm not sure if you guys are warming up to fight or fuck "
Hope its not a fight she'd destroy me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well we both met here and decided to stay and explore more then the two of us already had.
Tomcat
Did ye leave Fab for a while first then come back as a couple on Fab or did you go straight into setting up a couple profile....? "
Kept our single profiles and took a break. Came back as a couple then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was all my idea cause I'm a horny bastard and enough is never enough!
exactly my reason too that's why we get on well haha
I wish u would get it on? Haha
Hell yeah I think I could be good with that haha
Anytime Xmas social should be a lot more fun now haha
I will be the shy one hiding in the corner you where far from shy last year in cork in the smoking area hahaha
that was me being shy when I lose my nervousness the cums outa me won't be the only thing coming outta ya haha
Lol you've no idea take a deep breath and hold on haha ur the one that's gonna need the deep breaths haha
Jasus I'm not sure if you guys are warming up to fight or fuck
Hope its not a fight she'd destroy me "
I think that's what she has in mind anyway  |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
dublin |
I met a girl on a NSA site five years ago, she told me about a couple of threesomes she'd had. Group play had never occurred to me before. I was intrigued and she got me an invite to a party with about seventy people at it. I was hooked straight away. |
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"Was all my idea cause I'm a horny bastard and enough is never enough!
exactly my reason too that's why we get on well haha
I wish u would get it on? Haha
Hell yeah I think I could be good with that haha
Anytime Xmas social should be a lot more fun now haha
I will be the shy one hiding in the corner you where far from shy last year in cork in the smoking area hahaha
that was me being shy when I lose my nervousness the cums outa me won't be the only thing coming outta ya haha
Lol you've no idea take a deep breath and hold on haha ur the one that's gonna need the deep breaths haha
Jasus I'm not sure if you guys are warming up to fight or fuck
Hope its not a fight she'd destroy me
I think that's what she has in mind anyway "
I can hold my own in that department |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ages ago I was on a "dating" site and someone off there told me about s4i. Eventually heard about fab through that and said id have a look. Funny enough ive ran into a couple people off that same dating site that I talked to oh so many years ago. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well we both met here and decided to stay and explore more then the two of us already had.
Tomcat
Did ye leave Fab for a while first then come back as a couple on Fab or did you go straight into setting up a couple profile....?
Kept our single profiles and took a break. Came back as a couple then. "
That's really cool!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I find the mystery and anticipation that's involved with talking to someone online about sex, and getting butterflies before meeting to be a massive thrill. I love the tension around it all, its a real buzz. Fab just happens to be the best place to find genuine people...
Also, because group sex is fucking awesome! |
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I told my ex hubby id have an affair, the sex became pointless and mundane and watching relentless amounts of porn wasnt for me when i wanted to be the porn star!!.My boat wasnt floating so he took me on a hedonistic holiday and the rest as they say is history |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Started with an ex as was a compromise between my bdsm interests and his swinging. Found I enjoyed it a lot and stuck around as a single. Now dragging my other half into all the debauchery |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just wanted raw passionate kinky fun
guilt free nsa
got a whole load more too and I love every minute of this weird n wacky addiction
wouldn't change a minute of the whole thing
we're on a roller coaster so may as well just enjoy the ride lol |
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By *ceryMan
over a year ago
Malahide & Waterford |
Been a horny hot blooded male I need to feel the warmth of bodies in this cold weather.....
Well the first part is correct, the second would help too, but it's the excitement of meeting people in a way that others may only dream of. First experienced it in the US a number of years ago.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mrs macmully here. I had gotten a crush at work on a fella who I worked closely in the same area. It got really bad that everyone knew even he did. I came home crying one day from work nd we had a great chat about it. Brendan was fine about it but I wasn't. It got us chatting about the lack of experience and we both said about swinging. He came home one day and I had out account opened and he didn't know as it there for a week before I told him. The rest is history that was just over 6 years ago now. And still loving it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Mrs macmully here. I had gotten a crush at work on a fella who I worked closely in the same area. It got really bad that everyone knew even he did. I came home crying one day from work nd we had a great chat about it. Brendan was fine about it but I wasn't. It got us chatting about the lack of experience and we both said about swinging. He came home one day and I had out account opened and he didn't know as it there for a week before I told him. The rest is history that was just over 6 years ago now. And still loving it "
What about the fella at work, did u manage to get ur way with him |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mrs macmully here. I had gotten a crush at work on a fella who I worked closely in the same area. It got really bad that everyone knew even he did. I came home crying one day from work nd we had a great chat about it. Brendan was fine about it but I wasn't. It got us chatting about the lack of experience and we both said about swinging. He came home one day and I had out account opened and he didn't know as it there for a week before I told him. The rest is history that was just over 6 years ago now. And still loving it
What about the fella at work, did u manage to get ur way with him"
No wish I did. I still see him ofter and had loads of time on our own to try but for some reason the childish feeling comes back and I can't do it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A workmate told me about a club called Entropy in Dublin that he had attended. So I said "You gotta come over to our apartment and tell my girlfriend (now my wife) about this place".
He did, we drank some wine, had a threesome that evening and then he passed our details to the party organiser and we attended the next party. That was 2001 |
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"Personally I find the mystery and anticipation that's involved with talking to someone online about sex, and getting butterflies before meeting to be a massive thrill. I love the tension around it all, its a real buzz. Fab just happens to be the best place to find genuine people...
Also, because group sex is fucking awesome!"
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By *m158Couple
over a year ago
Cork |
We often fantasised about having sex with other people but never taught it would happen. We went on holiday himself took me out and had a meet arranged i didnt even know fab existed we met a couple for drinks hit it off and the following night we did more than hit it off .... |
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