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"Straight" but curious guys
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...wouldnt be homophobic or any such like but its just like a phobia for me,couldnt be in the same room as a naked man "
And that ladies & gentlemen is exactly what a contradiction is...SMH. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...wouldnt be homophobic or any such like but its just like a phobia for me,couldnt be in the same room as a naked man
And that ladies & gentlemen is exactly what a contradiction is...SMH."
Took the words right out of my mouth lol  |
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No, I'll admit I'm curious like. But majority of people mailing me are "straight" males (who are obviously secretly bi or curious after chatting them). Was just wondering if this is the case for most guys on here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are any number of different types of guys in our experience and in this lifestyle we find its better to avoid labels as there are so many infinite choices and tastes. Alan is 100% straight but is very comfortable around other men, but we have met other straight guys, who find it very hard to perform around guys. There are also many guys who hide their bisexuality because they know some couples won't meet them. Our preference is not to meet bi men, but I am sure we have met some that we didn't know were bi. We say live and let live but prefer people we meet to be honest at the very least! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nail on the head. No reason why Sexuality cant be quite fluid. I've had a guy licking his wife as I fucked her, you have to be fairly comfortable in such circumstances  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"...wouldnt be homophobic or any such like but its just like a phobia for me,couldnt be in the same room as a naked man
And that ladies & gentlemen is exactly what a contradiction is...SMH.
Took the words right out of my mouth lol "
So playing in a group scenario or mmf is out of bounds. So really you are only interested in ladies, would a dating website not be more apt for your tastes then?
Baffles us as to why you are on a swinging site  O  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...wouldnt be homophobic or any such like but its just like a phobia for me,couldnt be in the same room as a naked man
And that ladies & gentlemen is exactly what a contradiction is...SMH.
Took the words right out of my mouth lol
So playing in a group scenario or mmf is out of bounds. So really you are only interested in ladies, would a dating website not be more apt for your tastes then?
Baffles us as to why you are on a swinging site O "
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"There are any number of different types of guys in our experience and in this lifestyle we find its better to avoid labels as there are so many infinite choices and tastes. Alan is 100% straight but is very comfortable around other men, but we have met other straight guys, who find it very hard to perform around guys. There are also many guys who hide their bisexuality because they know some couples won't meet them. Our preference is not to meet bi men, but I am sure we have met some that we didn't know were bi. We say live and let live but prefer people we meet to be honest at the very least!"
This is the best outlook |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Baffles us as to why you are on a swinging site O
That's a bit much. There's probably half the members here who feel similar, both male and female. What happened to each to their own? "
Do you really think half of fab members or even a high percentage, don't feel comfortable being naked in the same room with the same sex?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lots of guys here are bibor bi curious.i wouldn't say most!simply do not put it on their profile as not to alienate themselves.wether its right or wrong that's how it is and probably how it will stay |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me or are most irish guys secretly bisexual or at least curious? (Myself included)"
SOME guys prefer to keep their true sexual identity a secret, either through choice or necessity.
Your assumption that most guys are bi or bicurious is what it is, an assumption.
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"Lots of guys here are bibor bi curious.i wouldn't say most!simply do not put it on their profile as not to alienate themselves.wether its right or wrong that's how it is and probably how it will stay"
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"Is it just me or are most irish guys secretly bisexual or at least curious? (Myself included)"
I read somewhere a while back that a very high per cent of men, fantasise about what it would be like to suck another man's cock.so if it's true,then that makes a high per cent of Irish men bi curious. |
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Baffles us as to why you are on a swinging site O
That's a bit much. There's probably half the members here who feel similar, both male and female. What happened to each to their own?
Do you really think half of fab members or even a high percentage, don't feel comfortable being naked in the same room with the same sex?
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Yes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Baffles us as to why you are on a swinging site O
That's a bit much. There's probably half the members here who feel similar, both male and female. What happened to each to their own?
Do you really think half of fab members or even a high percentage, don't feel comfortable being naked in the same room with the same sex?
Yes. "
That's crazy you think that..but that's your opinion. I can't see it myself.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Baffles us as to why you are on a swinging site O
That's a bit much. There's probably half the members here who feel similar, both male and female. What happened to each to their own?
Do you really think half of fab members or even a high percentage, don't feel comfortable being naked in the same room with the same sex?
Yes. "
Remember what the councillor said, you don't HAVE to touch them Michael. Looking is OK though.  |
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Baffles us as to why you are on a swinging site O
That's a bit much. There's probably half the members here who feel similar, both male and female. What happened to each to their own?
Do you really think half of fab members or even a high percentage, don't feel comfortable being naked in the same room with the same sex?
Yes.
Remember what the councillor said, you don't HAVE to touch them Michael. Looking is OK though. "
Aaarrgh! My eyes! They burn! They burn! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't like these labels, cause sexual orientation is so much more.
I myself, I consider myself straight but with a twist of curiosity. I can't see myself in a one-on-one setting with another man. I would not do another man. I'm ok with touching and a bit of play in a MMF-scenario, orgy or gang-bang, as long as the lady is the main-focus. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me or are most irish guys secretly bisexual or at least curious? (Myself included)
If i have sex with myself am i bisexual ?? "
No, you'd be asexual |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me or are most irish guys secretly bisexual or at least curious? (Myself included)
If i have sex with myself am i bisexual ??
No, you'd be asexual "
Or a lucky guy... |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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Baffles us as to why you are on a swinging site O
That's a bit much. There's probably half the members here who feel similar, both male and female. What happened to each to their own?
Do you really think half of fab members or even a high percentage, don't feel comfortable being naked in the same room with the same sex?
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Shhh lads don't listen to him, it's wrong being naked in a mixed group of people. It's not a huge buzz, you'll in fact be asked to do lots of filthy stuff with lads, your opinion or orientation will not be taken into consideration (I hope they fell for my cunning ruse...  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Baffles us as to why you are on a swinging site O
That's a bit much. There's probably half the members here who feel similar, both male and female. What happened to each to their own?
Do you really think half of fab members or even a high percentage, don't feel comfortable being naked in the same room with the same sex?
Shhh lads don't listen to him, it's wrong being naked in a mixed group of people. It's not a huge buzz, you'll in fact be asked to do lots of filthy stuff with lads, your opinion or orientation will not be taken into consideration (I hope they fell for my cunning ruse... )"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Straight guys do not do a bit of play and touching with other guys.... Just saying "
Which is why I said I don't like these labels as sexual orientation is so much more. |
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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago
Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun |
"I still wish fab had the "Hete exible" option.
"Bi" kind of gives the impression that it's half and half. For me, it's about 90:10. "
It seems the r o f l in that word automatically turns into . It's not a spelling error, people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think anyone should feel obliged to say what their sexuality is...
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Is that a joke?? If my ex husband had said what his sexuality is I wouldn't be dealing with this shit I have on my plate now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have to agree I find bi males playing in the group a turn off ( no offence guys) so for us organising a group we wouldn't intentionally add bi guys. And yes we prefer honesty! However of course curious can unintentionally become more. Sorry for your situation though 
Sam |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That is very common on here! Some guys will say what they think you want to hear, but dishonesty is almost as bad as having a small cock in my book lol"
So honesty and small cock is okay?
I'm back in the game!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That is very common on here! Some guys will say what they think you want to hear, but dishonesty is almost as bad as having a small cock in my book lol
So honesty and small cock is okay?
I'm back in the game!! "
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By *ymguylMan
over a year ago
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well the problem is when you go to gym' swimming pool' on holidays or play sport ' it natural to look' male or female' if you not able to get naked at group mets or 3sum' you just have to do one on one' labels are not barriers but boundries |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think most people of any sex must wonder what their sex organs feel to the opposite sex. I think this is why I'm bi curious. Never been with a man but would love to feel a hard cock just to feel it without being felt if you follow. Now I can lust after a male physique but I think it's the same as women who lust after the a perfect physical body. We're all sexual beings so I think in any scenario where sex is happening we can , if we're open, accommodate any sexuality. I think this was obvious when we voted gay marriage in. Google youporn or redtubes favoured searches for each sexes and allowing for most straight porn aimed at men where the cock is foremost , gay or bi sex is very prevalent. Sorry for the long rep |
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"Majority of my mails on this are from "straight" males. I'm not complaining, just find it interesting."
Get some from "straight" males just saying 'Hi', or a Wink.
I just delete them in same way women/females would delete similar.
They are straight and say nothing so what sort of response do they want from a Hi or a Wink??
Women/couples just delete these too!! |
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love it lol 