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Why do people have to get nasty!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just had a guy send me a message with just c..t!!.....all because I didn't reply to his message!! I don't spend a great amount of time on the site,it's something I do,it's not who I am....I am guessing all single ladies on here have the same problem,everyday like 30/40 messages..how do you answer them all?? it's nice to be nice...and please don't take offence if ur messages aren't replied to..   |
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"Just had a guy send me a message with just c..t!!.....all because I didn't reply to his message!! I don't spend a great amount of time on the site,it's something I do,it's not who I am....I am guessing all single ladies on here have the same problem,everyday like 30/40 messages..how do you answer them all?? it's nice to be nice...and please don't take offence if ur messages aren't replied to.. "
I don't understand why lads get so nasty if someone not into there not going to text or meet no need to be nasty over it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some guys are just cunts...pay no attention to them...gives us all a bad name "
Well I tend to take everyone at face value....not tarring all guys with the one brush..just think guys need to be more aware |
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"Just had a guy send me a message with just c..t!!.....all because I didn't reply to his message!! I don't spend a great amount of time on the site,it's something I do,it's not who I am....I am guessing all single ladies on here have the same problem,everyday like 30/40 messages..how do you answer them all?? it's nice to be nice...and please don't take offence if ur messages aren't replied to.. "
We always think its an ego thing. Many would see this as a sex as oppose to a swingers site and are under the impression that its easy sex. Under that thinking if they can't pull on a sex site its a blow to the old ego and turn into keyboard warriors sending messages like what you've received. Block and move on. People like that don't bear giving a second thought to.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just had a guy send me a message with just c..t!!.....all because I didn't reply to his message!! I don't spend a great amount of time on the site,it's something I do,it's not who I am....I am guessing all single ladies on here have the same problem,everyday like 30/40 messages..how do you answer them all?? it's nice to be nice...and please don't take offence if ur messages aren't replied to..
We always think its an ego thing. Many would see this as a sex as oppose to a swingers site and are under the impression that its easy sex. Under that thinking if they can't pull on a sex site its a blow to the old ego and turn into keyboard warriors sending messages like what you've received. Block and move on. People like that don't bear giving a second thought to.
Tomcat"
Totally agree with the keyboard warriors. Some of them just don't know how to make conversation so just expect sex without a connection or conversation. If they can't at least provide that. Cya!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just had a guy send me a message with just c..t!!.....all because I didn't reply to his message!! I don't spend a great amount of time on the site,it's something I do,it's not who I am....I am guessing all single ladies on here have the same problem,everyday like 30/40 messages..how do you answer them all?? it's nice to be nice...and please don't take offence if ur messages aren't replied to.. "
Well I had two words "fat c**t" . Lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just had a guy send me a message with just c..t!!.....all because I didn't reply to his message!! I don't spend a great amount of time on the site,it's something I do,it's not who I am....I am guessing all single ladies on here have the same problem,everyday like 30/40 messages..how do you answer them all?? it's nice to be nice...and please don't take offence if ur messages aren't replied to..
We always think its an ego thing. Many would see this as a sex as oppose to a swingers site and are under the impression that its easy sex. Under that thinking if they can't pull on a sex site its a blow to the old ego and turn into keyboard warriors sending messages like what you've received. Block and move on. People like that don't bear giving a second thought to.
Tomcat
Totally agree with the keyboard warriors. Some of them just don't know how to make conversation so just expect sex without a connection or conversation. If they can't at least provide that. Cya!!!! "
True guys...as a rule I don't tend to reply to people with no pics and verifications anyway,that was the main reason I dismissed his text |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just had a guy send me a message with just c..t!!.....all because I didn't reply to his message!! I don't spend a great amount of time on the site,it's something I do,it's not who I am....I am guessing all single ladies on here have the same problem,everyday like 30/40 messages..how do you answer them all?? it's nice to be nice...and please don't take offence if ur messages aren't replied to..
Well I had two words "fat c**t" . Lol"
Who me or him!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's only a prick that would send that don't let a ignorant prick like that bother you
It gets frustrating messaging ppl nd never getting a reply but that's no cause to be offensive
Now 30 or 40 msgs a day I can only dream |
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I would take it as a sign that your bullshit/wanker detector is working properly. There was a reason you didn't reply to him. Be happy you didn't get involved any further.
He wouldn't know what to do with a real woman if he actually got his hands on one! |
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I get called a fu*king slut if I dont reply!! I mean DUH as if I didnt know I was a slut already. It just goes to show some guys dont read profiles because if they did it would'nt take an unreplied message for them to figure out that I'm a slut  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just had a guy send me a message with just c..t!!.....all because I didn't reply to his message!! I don't spend a great amount of time on the site,it's something I do,it's not who I am....I am guessing all single ladies on here have the same problem,everyday like 30/40 messages..how do you answer them all?? it's nice to be nice...and please don't take offence if ur messages aren't replied to..
Well I had two words "fat c**t" . Lol
Who me or him!! "
Neither...it was me was the fat c**t.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Block and move on. Simples!
Oh it's done,posted it here because it's an ongoing thing....wish people wouldn't take no reply as a personal insult"
Give them the middle finger salute next time you're blocking!   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just had a guy send me a message with just c..t!!.....all because I didn't reply to his message!! I don't spend a great amount of time on the site,it's something I do,it's not who I am....I am guessing all single ladies on here have the same problem,everyday like 30/40 messages..how do you answer them all?? it's nice to be nice...and please don't take offence if ur messages aren't replied to..
Well I had two words "fat c**t" . Lol
Who me or him!!
Neither...it was me was the fat c**t.. "
Ah stop,that's worse.....lol...I am sorry to hear that!!from what I can see in your pics,u are yum! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Block and move on. Simples!
Oh it's done,posted it here because it's an ongoing thing....wish people wouldn't take no reply as a personal insult
Give them the middle finger salute next time you're blocking! "
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"Block and move on. Simples!
Oh it's done,posted it here because it's an ongoing thing....wish people wouldn't take no reply as a personal insult
Give them the middle finger salute next time you're blocking!
thank you"
You can set Filters, only allow verified guys or whatever which can cut down on idiots like this.
Bravery on Internet is one thing... bet he'd get a smack across the face if he had the guts to say something like that to your face!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Block and move on. Simples!
Oh it's done,posted it here because it's an ongoing thing....wish people wouldn't take no reply as a personal insult
Give them the middle finger salute next time you're blocking!
thank you
You can set Filters, only allow verified guys or whatever which can cut down on idiots like this.
Bravery on Internet is one thing... bet he'd get a smack across the face if he had the guts to say something like that to your face!!
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Damn right he would!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Block and move on. Simples!
Oh it's done,posted it here because it's an ongoing thing....wish people wouldn't take no reply as a personal insult
Give them the middle finger salute next time you're blocking!
thank you
You can set Filters, only allow verified guys or whatever which can cut down on idiots like this.
Bravery on Internet is one thing... bet he'd get a smack across the face if he had the guts to say something like that to your face!!
Damn right he would!! "
Don't let the bastards get you down!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are asses and then there are asses. C**t is my favourite most severe swear word. But it's for friends or enemies only. When your mate sticks ice down your shirt or up your bum when your not expecting it. They are a c**t
If a person fucks me over they are a f**king c**t.
How ever if a woman doesn't respond to my message she's probably got good taste. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Block and move on. Simples!
Oh it's done,posted it here because it's an ongoing thing....wish people wouldn't take no reply as a personal insult
Give them the middle finger salute next time you're blocking!
thank you
You can set Filters, only allow verified guys or whatever which can cut down on idiots like this.
Bravery on Internet is one thing... bet he'd get a smack across the face if he had the guts to say something like that to your face!!
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Yes this! Usually find its sad little men who are brave on the internet insulting people when they don't get their own way. Luckily many see them for what they are and don't meet them leaving all the more chance for the genuine ones.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have the same problem I can totally understand where your coming from, it's just impossible to read through every msg and reply to them all, then when I don't reply or have forgotten to the usual nasty "you massive cocked prick" comes  like I haven't heard that before a million times!
But on a more realistic note, there are guys on here who can't take rejection in the slightest and I think it's the most unattractive and creepiest thing about a person, and what gets me even more is why throw an insult when you could meet the same person at a meet and greet or elsewhere and them find you totally attractive lol cwazy cwazy fools
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just had a guy send me a message with just c..t!!.....all because I didn't reply to his message!! I don't spend a great amount of time on the site,it's something I do,it's not who I am....I am guessing all single ladies on here have the same problem,everyday like 30/40 messages..how do you answer them all?? it's nice to be nice...and please don't take offence if ur messages aren't replied to.. "
I just laugh and congratulate myself on another good call. |
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By *-ManMan
over a year ago
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"Just had a guy send me a message with just c..t!!.....all because I didn't reply to his message!! I don't spend a great amount of time on the site,it's something I do,it's not who I am....I am guessing all single ladies on here have the same problem,everyday like 30/40 messages..how do you answer them all?? it's nice to be nice...and please don't take offence if ur messages aren't replied to.. "
He's what we call a munt, a man cunt  |
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By *-ManMan
over a year ago
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"Just had a guy send me a message with just c..t!!.....all because I didn't reply to his message!! I don't spend a great amount of time on the site,it's something I do,it's not who I am....I am guessing all single ladies on here have the same problem,everyday like 30/40 messages..how do you answer them all?? it's nice to be nice...and please don't take offence if ur messages aren't replied to..
We always think its an ego thing. Many would see this as a sex as oppose to a swingers site and are under the impression that its easy sex. Under that thinking if they can't pull on a sex site its a blow to the old ego and turn into keyboard warriors sending messages like what you've received. Block and move on. People like that don't bear giving a second thought to.
Tomcat"
Ego, that's 100% where it's coming from, wise words as usual Tomcat! |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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The amount of messages will decline as longer you're on here. I get maybe 3 to 4 non friend messages a day.
However you also have to set your filters tighter, you can block unverified ones, newbies and those with no profile pics. You can always ease your filters are a latter stage.
Maybe reconsider even your age filters, I've to say since I pushed the age limit up I got no more abuse. Not saying all younger lads are "c**ts", I know there are loads very decent ones, but this kinda abusive language and hurt ego stuff seems to diminish with age and maturity... |
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"Just comes down to basic manners
Treat others the way you de like to be treated on here.
Simple in 1 word
Respectfully.
As above. ...would be nice if everyone did. ...as for the rest ,block and move on
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Block and move on. Simples!
Oh it's done,posted it here because it's an ongoing thing....wish people wouldn't take no reply as a personal insult
Give them the middle finger salute next time you're blocking!
thank you
You can set Filters, only allow verified guys or whatever which can cut down on idiots like this.
Bravery on Internet is one thing... bet he'd get a smack across the face if he had the guts to say something like that to your face!!
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Not all unverified guys are arseholes though. I like newbies but only if they fit my profile. I too get abuse and threats from guys whom I've deleted. If only they read profiles fully then they would see they don't match what I or others are looking for. Then they wouldn't of wasted their time in the first place. The ones who claim aren't time wasters but proceed to message or wink etc profiles they don't match, clearly are time wasters! Lol. It's be_ildering why those guys proceed to send abusive messages. FAB rules clearly state all should accept and respect deleted messages as your answer, which is no thank you! Everyone has preferences on here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The amount of messages will decline as longer you're on here. I get maybe 3 to 4 non friend messages a day.
However you also have to set your filters tighter, you can block unverified ones, newbies and those with no profile pics. You can always ease your filters are a latter stage.
Maybe reconsider even your age filters, I've to say since I pushed the age limit up I got no more abuse. Not saying all younger lads are "c**ts", I know there are loads very decent ones, but this kinda abusive language and hurt ego stuff seems to diminish with age and maturity..."
It really doesn't unfortunately. The threat of rape etc I received and most other abuse came from the over 35's. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It doesn't really matter which swing site you are on. Sadly the world of swinging attracts the weirdos of the world, both male and female. It's part and parcel of the lifestyle. You need to care a little less about the negatives and then you'll enjoy more of the positives. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"These Muppets give all single guys a bad reputation. Fuckwits. No lady here should have to receive messages like that. Stuff can't be unseen. "
I don't think they give all single guys a bad name just themselves. Most people here see them for what they are and avoid them. And if they don't well makes the genuine guys look all the better
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By *eedycplCouple
over a year ago
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Lol good topic we have stated on our profile that if we don't get back to ur first message not to be put off texting again tho a fella aged 39 sent us a saying " hi I see that we are only half a mile apart can I come to urs and fuck the Mrs in her ass then watch the hubby suck my cum from ur hole " now wot da feck when we deleted it he wrote to us saying we r total wasters and only on here to mess ppl around lol #blockbuttonpushed |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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When I send unsolicited mail (don't do it too often and only if I think I match their preferences) I get responses in about 10% or so. It's not nice when you don't even get a response but you have to just accept it and move on. Disrespectful keyboard warriers need to man up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I try to reply to anyone that's listened to what I've asked for on my profile - if they attach a decent face shot, I'll reply one way or another, if they haven't, I'll ignore.
Recently responded to a message to basically say thank you but I don't see any attraction, response I received back said "Thank you for the unnecessary reply. I'm not attracted to you either. You seem quite pretentious and very fat."
I pissed laughing and sent a screen shot of it to my best mate. Life's too short! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't reply to everyone. Sometimes I'm just logging in for few mins so don't have time. But yes some can reply with nastiness. Some just send nasty messages in first message  I have a fat ass and should go on a diet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's because lads think that the site is a mail and fuck as you go site. And they can't see that a no reply means either buzy with mail or just not interested. Its all about the patience game with mailing on here. Either ya get on or not and common sense and respect to others seems to go out the window here. Would ya call a lady a c**t to her face? I doubt it otherwise your just showing your true colours  there are decent folk here op |
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Never understood the nasty replies. Don't really see what they are trying to accomplish with it??
You send messages,
Don't get a reply, move on!
Get a reply and its negative I always thank them for getting back to me and move on.
This site is suppose to be a bit of craic and fun |
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Apples often turns to me with a big cheesy grin and with eyes that say, only she could love me...particularly when I've said something sarcastic or smart... ..and utters just that magic word that says so much...
" you're such a cunt"...lol  |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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"Apples often turns to me with a big cheesy grin and with eyes that say, only she could love me...particularly when I've said something sarcastic or smart... ..and utters just that magic word that says so much...
" you're such a cunt"...lol "
You are though  |
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"I don't reply to everyone. Sometimes I'm just logging in for few mins so don't have time. But yes some can reply with nastiness. Some just send nasty messages in first message I have a fat ass and should go on a diet "
That proves he's clinically insane.
Your ass is amazing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Never understood the nasty replies. Don't really see what they are trying to accomplish with it??
You send messages,
Don't get a reply, move on!
Get a reply and its negative I always thank them for getting back to me and move on.
This site is suppose to be a bit of craic and fun"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't reply to everyone. Sometimes I'm just logging in for few mins so don't have time. But yes some can reply with nastiness. Some just send nasty messages in first message I have a fat ass and should go on a diet "
You've a body worth worshipping. I'm sure most guys would agree. As in 99.9% |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Apples often turns to me with a big cheesy grin and with eyes that say, only she could love me...particularly when I've said something sarcastic or smart... ..and utters just that magic word that says so much...
" you're such a cunt"...lol "
She sounds bang on cool. Girls with attitude rock |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't reply to everyone. Sometimes I'm just logging in for few mins so don't have time. But yes some can reply with nastiness. Some just send nasty messages in first message I have a fat ass and should go on a diet "
That is utterly insane. Your ass is scrumptious.
I understand the frustration - the majority of people don't even read my messages. But I don't see the point in getting nasty? If I wanted an argument, I'd look to my day to day life. There's enough drama there. It's the complete opposite opposite of what I want from Fab. |
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By *ierycrackWoman
over a year ago
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Some people just can't help themselves on here and they have nothing to gain by being nasty.
They have nothing else to do with their sad lives and they really should crawl back under the stone that they came from.
Complete and utter douche bags. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just had a guy send me a message with just c..t!!.....all because I didn't reply to his message!! I don't spend a great amount of time on the site,it's something I do,it's not who I am....I am guessing all single ladies on here have the same problem,everyday like 30/40 messages..how do you answer them all?? it's nice to be nice...and please don't take offence if ur messages aren't replied to.. "
I'm truly sorry you had that grief. I can not understand why some people have to be so rude. But basic respect is sadly missing from society and seriously missing from this site.. I will stress that there are really nice genuine people here, its just about ing out the asses from the decent... |
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