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A little rant ...There are a lot of women giving out and rightly to about abusive messages they get and it's terrible, but there are genuine men here that take the time write and are respectful towards the fairer sex...A little reply is all it takes I know you get tons of mail ladies not saying reply straight away but manners cost nothing...and for all the genuine men keep faith!! |
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"Hi guys and girls,
A little rant ...There are a lot of women giving out and rightly to about abusive messages they get and it's terrible, but there are genuine men here that take the time write and are respectful towards the fairer sex...A little reply is all it takes I know you get tons of mail ladies not saying reply straight away but manners cost nothing...and for all the genuine men keep faith!!"
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That's your opinion chief and never said I was owed ...but it's nice to be nice it's called conversation..that's the problem here if we didn't write to the lovely ladies you would be reading about it ... |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"That's your opinion chief and never said I was owed ...but it's nice to be nice it's called conversation..that's the problem here if we didn't write to the lovely ladies you would be reading about it ..."
I get ur point but from previous experience once a lady replied with a no thanks it can lead to abusive msgs so a no reply no interest is the best way to go |
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"That's your opinion chief and never said I was owed ...but it's nice to be nice it's called conversation..that's the problem here if we didn't write to the lovely ladies you would be reading about it ..."
You'll soon learn there's no point in wasting time sending nice messages!! |
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over a year ago
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Yea I get all those rude emails too.. women just sending pics of Boobs! I'm like I got a brain and feelings
Just can't reply to them all so just don't reply to the ones I'm not interested in. Tough but fair.... I'm only human |
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"Hi guys and girls,
A little rant ...There are a lot of women giving out and rightly to about abusive messages they get and it's terrible, but there are genuine men here that take the time write and are respectful towards the fairer sex...A little reply is all it takes I know you get tons of mail ladies not saying reply straight away but manners cost nothing...and for all the genuine men keep faith!!"
Ok we shall it this way. Most women and couples have mails in the 100s on here. Do you think that most have the time to reply to all of them? And some replies to mails no matter how polite end up getting abuse in return. Sorry but people here have lives to get on with. If you don't get a reply just move on. Dwelling on it will get you no where. Just our two cents
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yea I get all those rude emails too.. women just sending pics of Boobs! I'm like I got a brain and feelings
Just can't reply to them all so just don't reply to the ones I'm not interested in. Tough but fair.... I'm only human "
Kaizer is the exact same, treated like a piece of beautiful meat!
"Wanna Eff?"
"How many inches?"
"Here is my fanjita!"
It's not easy at times, mail after mail, can't reply to them all and if you try be polite they see it as an invite to send rude and lewd messages!
Just gotta bear with it and be tolerant  |
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"You would need a secretary to reply to all mail and when you do all you get is why not followed by abuse"
and females/couples get abused while the CAUSE is guys sending idiotic messages and/or not taking No for an answer!!
The question should be "What causes females/couples not to reply?" |
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Just because you send a mail doesn't mean we have to reply. No reply means no thanks. The same way if I message someone and they don't reply I take it as a no thanks. They don't owe me anything. I've had to block people when I've replied and said no thanks and got abuse in response. It's just how it is.  |
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"Hi guys and girls,
A little rant ...There are a lot of women giving out and rightly to about abusive messages they get and it's terrible, but there are genuine men here that take the time write and are respectful towards the fairer sex...A little reply is all it takes I know you get tons of mail ladies not saying reply straight away but manners cost nothing...and for all the genuine men keep faith!!"
...."no one knows what it's like
To be The Batman
To be the sad man
Behind blue eyes"....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Manner cost nothing and should be used at ever possible moment on here
Come on folks treat others the way you de like to be treated - don't think that's to much to ask for is it ?
respectfully
Honestly
Courteously to name a few points
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"Hi guys and girls,
A little rant ...There are a lot of women giving out and rightly to about abusive messages they get and it's terrible, but there are genuine men here that take the time write and are respectful towards the fairer sex...A little reply is all it takes I know you get tons of mail ladies not saying reply straight away but manners cost nothing...and for all the genuine men keep faith!!"
. If someone has no interest in a message what would be the point of replying . The site rules state that no reply means no interest . Why would anyone want to receive replies with rejection messages ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm used to not getting replies, I'm used to mails not getting read, I'm used to being told ill meet you but nothing coming of it....
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.but...... I MEET ppl who reply, read mails and are as enthusiastic about arranging meets as me......simples.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I was honest.. would just say they not in my league, ugly or out of shape
Is that better than saying nothing "
Manners would dictate a diplomatic no thank you. Nicer than your fat or ugly!!!! |
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I'm in the manners camp...but probably a hypocrit at times too...sometimes I don't reply if not interested sometimes I do
I prefer to knows it's a no go vs. maybe my message wasn't read or maybe the timing wasn't good |
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 plenty of views on this topic, and i fully understand that the ladies and couples get tons of mail, and it most be difficult to reply to all..........me i will still send good mannered messages, and hope for the same in reply, but wont hold it against anyone who does not reply |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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No reply means not interested.
But to be fair to most guys,I joined here as a cpl years ago and she always replied to guys and 99.9 percent of guys said no prob and a lot sent a sweet thanks for replying anyway msg. Very rarely got abuse |
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"No reply means not interested.
But to be fair to most guys,I joined here as a cpl years ago and she always replied to guys and 99.9 percent of guys said no prob and a lot sent a sweet thanks for replying anyway msg. Very rarely got abuse"
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When I started out I tried to reply to all. Was time consuming so decided not to reply to those are like 'hi/how's ur week going etc'. I did also try to reply to the nice ones who altho I knew hadn't read my profile but still made an attempt to send a personal message but found even if I sent a 'thank u but not interested' etc they will still re message me with 'why not' or something similar that they want me to rereply to, so now I'm more ruthless. As other posts say, there's no obligation to reply to any message anyways. |
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what annoys me is men who send unsolicited mails to womens profiles at silly o clock of the night and then get arsey if a woman politely replies but doesnt want to be drawn further into conversation ... ring any bells ? |
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"what annoys me is men who send unsolicited mails to womens profiles at silly o clock of the night and then get arsey if a woman politely replies but doesnt want to be drawn further into conversation ... ring any bells ? "
Define silly o clock |
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