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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Probably like many other guys I've got messages from Male half of couple looking to meet up.... look at their profile and they are Straight!!
That is a turn off!!"
I get a fair few messages like that and from single males with a straight profile. They rarely show up. |
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"Probably like many other guys I've got messages from Male half of couple looking to meet up.... look at their profile and they are Straight!!
That is a turn off!!
I get a fair few messages like that and from single males with a straight profile. They rarely show up."
Probably have their hands full...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It wouldn't stop me meeting n himself would just like boundaries set xx
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Thats a very good point. If himself isnt into it then boundaries are the way to go x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It wouldn't stop me meeting n himself would just like boundaries set xx
Thats a very good point. If himself isnt into it then boundaries are the way to go x"
Can still be very sexy play xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it such a turn on watching M with another guy..... knowing he is comfortable with who he is....
I love sharing a guy with him...both of us taking him in our mouths at the same time...
But in truth I don't like labels... I think they confine us
X D |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
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"I find it such a turn on watching M with another guy..... knowing he is comfortable with who he is....
I love sharing a guy with him...both of us taking him in our mouths at the same time...
But in truth I don't like labels... I think they confine us
X D"
Same as us , we like to call it bi playfull  now i tbink we have alot in common with ye too , ye are just like us , think we need a road trip
Mrs crazy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Love it, for two reasons.
1. Its a turn on knowing someone is open minded and willing to step outside the norm sexually
2. In this day and age, to do it openly and be open about it displays being brave and courageous
Thats not saying i shun those who hide it whatsoever, just that its something I admire  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find it such a turn on watching M with another guy..... knowing he is comfortable with who he is....
I love sharing a guy with him...both of us taking him in our mouths at the same time...
But in truth I don't like labels... I think they confine us
X D
Same as us , we like to call it bi playfull now i tbink we have alot in common with ye too , ye are just like us , think we need a road trip
Mrs crazy "
I said that yesterday too this sexy pair |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find it such a turn on watching M with another guy..... knowing he is comfortable with who he is....
I love sharing a guy with him...both of us taking him in our mouths at the same time...
But in truth I don't like labels... I think they confine us
X D
Same as us , we like to call it bi playfull now i tbink we have alot in common with ye too , ye are just like us , think we need a road trip
Mrs crazy
I said that yesterday too this sexy pair "
Road Trip Ladies  yes please
X D |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find it such a turn on watching M with another guy..... knowing he is comfortable with who he is....
I love sharing a guy with him...both of us taking him in our mouths at the same time...
But in truth I don't like labels... I think they confine us
X D
Same as us , we like to call it bi playfull now i tbink we have alot in common with ye too , ye are just like us , think we need a road trip
Mrs crazy
I said that yesterday too this sexy pair
Road Trip Ladies yes please
X D"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definately a turn-on for me....
The experience has enhanced many of our meets....
And looking forward to many more
Cat 
Hope to see ye very soon too
Mrs crazy "
Mmmm....the memories.... |
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"I find it such a turn on watching M with another guy..... knowing he is comfortable with who he is....
I love sharing a guy with him...both of us taking him in our mouths at the same time...
But in truth I don't like labels... I think they confine us
X D"
M is one lucky guy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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His sexuality would have no bearing on our decision, hubs is not interested in MM so if he's okay with that then...sure an extra hand might come in handy Mr69?... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmmmm nothing wrong with it at all but really not our cup of tea at all. Saying that its nice to see many are more open about it now then say 5years ago.
Tomcat |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It seems only the people that like bi guys are commenting.be nice to hear from the side that doesn't like bi guys......
why?
Why what?
why do you need to hear from the side that doesn't?
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Interesting topic,nice to hear both sides....why would you feel the need to question me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It seems only the people that like bi guys are commenting.be nice to hear from the side that doesn't like bi guys......
why?
Why what?
why do you need to hear from the side that doesn't?
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Would this be because you have sent me a friend request twice and I have deleted it both times?
U deleted it because we have never spoke no other reason.
If this is why your questioning me.i could be wrong |
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"It seems only the people that like bi guys are commenting.be nice to hear from the side that doesn't like bi guys......
why?
Why what?
why do you need to hear from the side that doesn't?
Interesting topic,nice to hear both sides....why would you feel the need to question me?"
I simply asked why? and you've answered my question. Thanks. No need to question my motives. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It seems only the people that like bi guys are commenting.be nice to hear from the side that doesn't like bi guys......
why?
Why what?
why do you need to hear from the side that doesn't?
Interesting topic,nice to hear both sides....why would you feel the need to question me?
I simply asked why? and you've answered my question. Thanks. No need to question my motives. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find it such a turn on watching M with another guy..... knowing he is comfortable with who he is....
I love sharing a guy with him...both of us taking him in our mouths at the same time...
But in truth I don't like labels... I think they confine us
X D
M is one lucky guy"
You have no idea how lucky I am. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bi guys are a huge turn on for me and bi 3 sum with two lads is definitely very high up on my to do list "
You should have a chat with the gentlemen of fab, TigerTiger. A nicer couple you'll never meet......until you meet us cause we're much nicer  |
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"Bi guys are a huge turn on for me and bi 3 sum with two lads is definitely very high up on my to do list
You should have a chat with the gentlemen of fab, TigerTiger. A nicer couple you'll never meet......until you meet us cause we're much nicer
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I have to agree...until you push us off our perch |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bi guys are a huge turn on for me and bi 3 sum with two lads is definitely very high up on my to do list
You should have a chat with the gentlemen of fab, TigerTiger. A nicer couple you'll never meet......until you meet us cause we're much nicer "
Maybe I might just take up on that offer ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Two sides to this. Ok so couples that don't like bi guys, well that preference should be fully respected and certainly not frowned upon. We all have elements we do and dont like in the contact we make.
The bigger issue and it's come up a lot lately is guys with straight profiles contacting couples when they are clearly bi...my inbox could prove it  . What bothers me us the people who feel the need to lie about it to get meets with females or couples. Grow a pair and nail your colours to the mast. You can be sure as imaginary god that they are BS'ing about most other things as well.
I have had the honour and pleasure of meeting couples here and as long as boundaries are set out and respected then it can flow . Nothing better than 3+ people wrapped up on a bed with no inhibitions |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bi guys are a huge turn on for me and bi 3 sum with two lads is definitely very high up on my to do list
You should have a chat with the gentlemen of fab, TigerTiger. A nicer couple you'll never meet......until you meet us cause we're much nicer
I have to agree...until you push us off our perch "
Yeah but I'll be a gent and say sorry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Two sides to this. Ok so couples that don't like bi guys, well that preference should be fully respected and certainly not frowned upon. We all have elements we do and dont like in the contact we make.
The bigger issue and it's come up a lot lately is guys with straight profiles contacting couples when they are clearly bi...my inbox could prove it . What bothers me us the people who feel the need to lie about it to get meets with females or couples. Grow a pair and nail your colours to the mast. You can be sure as imaginary god that they are BS'ing about most other things as well.
I have had the honour and pleasure of meeting couples here and as long as boundaries are set out and respected then it can flow . Nothing better than 3+ people wrapped up on a bed with no inhibitions "
This this and a bit more of this!!! |
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"It seems only the people that like bi guys are commenting.be nice to hear from the side that doesn't like bi guys......
why?
Why what?
why do you need to hear from the side that doesn't?
Would this be because you have sent me a friend request twice and I have deleted it both times?
U deleted it because we have never spoke no other reason.
If this is why your questioning me.i could be wrong"
Wow missed this one ...hang in your horns...not like bitchy folk |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It seems only the people that like bi guys are commenting.be nice to hear from the side that doesn't like bi guys......
why?
Why what?
why do you need to hear from the side that doesn't?
Would this be because you have sent me a friend request twice and I have deleted it both times?
U deleted it because we have never spoke no other reason.
If this is why your questioning me.i could be wrong
Wow missed this one ...hang in your horns...not like bitchy folk"
*grabs popcorn and a beer* this could get nasty.
Can't we all just get along, in a bed...at the same time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It seems only the people that like bi guys are commenting.be nice to hear from the side that doesn't like bi guys......
why?
Why what?
why do you need to hear from the side that doesn't?
Would this be because you have sent me a friend request twice and I have deleted it both times?
U deleted it because we have never spoke no other reason.
If this is why your questioning me.i could be wrong
Wow missed this one ...hang in your horns...not like bitchy folk
*grabs popcorn and a beer* this could get nasty.
Can't we all just get along, in a bed...at the same time "
Agreed. Why can't we all just get a schlong. |
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"It seems only the people that like bi guys are commenting.be nice to hear from the side that doesn't like bi guys......
why?
Why what?
why do you need to hear from the side that doesn't?
Would this be because you have sent me a friend request twice and I have deleted it both times?
U deleted it because we have never spoke no other reason.
If this is why your questioning me.i could be wrong
Wow missed this one ...hang in your horns...not like bitchy folk
*grabs popcorn and a beer* this could get nasty.
Can't we all just get along, in a bed...at the same time "
friend request two times makes me laugh who counts I certainly don't he must not get many...btw he forgets there's two of us on this profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It seems only the people that like bi guys are commenting.be nice to hear from the side that doesn't like bi guys......
why?
Why what?
why do you need to hear from the side that doesn't?
Would this be because you have sent me a friend request twice and I have deleted it both times?
U deleted it because we have never spoke no other reason.
If this is why your questioning me.i could be wrong
Wow missed this one ...hang in your horns...not like bitchy folk
*grabs popcorn and a beer* this could get nasty.
Can't we all just get along, in a bed...at the same time
friend request two times makes me laugh who counts I certainly don't he must not get many...btw he forgets there's two of us on this profile"
Honestly?no I don't get many friend requests but I'm fine with that.
So both of you guys add straight guys as friends without even a message to say hi?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find it such a turn on watching M with another guy..... knowing he is comfortable with who he is....
I love sharing a guy with him...both of us taking him in our mouths at the same time...
But in truth I don't like labels... I think they confine us
X D
M is one lucky guy
You have no idea how lucky I am. "
And I am one very Lucky and Happy Lady x D |
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"It seems only the people that like bi guys are commenting.be nice to hear from the side that doesn't like bi guys......
why?
Why what?
why do you need to hear from the side that doesn't?
Would this be because you have sent me a friend request twice and I have deleted it both times?
U deleted it because we have never spoke no other reason.
If this is why your questioning me.i could be wrong
Wow missed this one ...hang in your horns...not like bitchy folk
*grabs popcorn and a beer* this could get nasty.
Can't we all just get along, in a bed...at the same time
friend request two times makes me laugh who counts I certainly don't he must not get many...btw he forgets there's two of us on this profile
Honestly?no I don't get many friend requests but I'm fine with that.
So both of you guys add straight guys as friends without even a message to say hi?
why do you say both of us? Mate no offense but the block button will solve your problem. Please use it.
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"I find it such a turn on watching M with another guy..... knowing he is comfortable with who he is....
I love sharing a guy with him...both of us taking him in our mouths at the same time...
But in truth I don't like labels... I think they confine us
X D
M is one lucky guy
You have no idea how lucky I am.
And I am one very Lucky and Happy Lady x D"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It seems only the people that like bi guys are commenting.be nice to hear from the side that doesn't like bi guys......
why?
Why what?
why do you need to hear from the side that doesn't?
Would this be because you have sent me a friend request twice and I have deleted it both times?
U deleted it because we have never spoke no other reason.
If this is why your questioning me.i could be wrong
Wow missed this one ...hang in your horns...not like bitchy folk
*grabs popcorn and a beer* this could get nasty.
Can't we all just get along, in a bed...at the same time
friend request two times makes me laugh who counts I certainly don't he must not get many...btw he forgets there's two of us on this profile
Honestly?no I don't get many friend requests but I'm fine with that.
So both of you guys add straight guys as friends without even a message to say hi?
why do you say both of us? Mate no offense but the block button will solve your problem. Please use it.
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I said both because you pointed out there was two of you |
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"a polite hi should suffice
I always say Hi... maybe I don't type politely!!
If they're bi why not say so is my point! "
I think we've come full circle since the start of the threat...they're in the closet! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Love it, for two reasons.
1. Its a turn on knowing someone is open minded and willing to step outside the norm sexually
2. In this day and age, to do it openly and be open about it displays being brave and courageous
Thats not saying i shun those who hide it whatsoever, just that its something I admire "
Bisexuals are not stepping outside the sexual norm, it is a sexuality , exactly the same as hetro , gay ect. |
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"Love it, for two reasons.
1. Its a turn on knowing someone is open minded and willing to step outside the norm sexually
2. In this day and age, to do it openly and be open about it displays being brave and courageous
Thats not saying i shun those who hide it whatsoever, just that its something I admire
Bisexuals are not stepping outside the sexual norm, it is a sexuality , exactly the same as hetro , gay ect."
Indeed... but why not have it on profile if they are??
A Wink from a straight guy is a Wink from a straight guy!
If they are Bi why not send message instead of a wink?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Love it, for two reasons.
1. Its a turn on knowing someone is open minded and willing to step outside the norm sexually
2. In this day and age, to do it openly and be open about it displays being brave and courageous
Thats not saying i shun those who hide it whatsoever, just that its something I admire
Bisexuals are not stepping outside the sexual norm, it is a sexuality , exactly the same as hetro , gay ect.
Indeed... but why not have it on profile if they are??
A Wink from a straight guy is a Wink from a straight guy!
If they are Bi why not send message instead of a wink??"
I get a ton of winks from.straight guys, why do they not message instead? |
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"Love it, for two reasons.
1. Its a turn on knowing someone is open minded and willing to step outside the norm sexually
2. In this day and age, to do it openly and be open about it displays being brave and courageous
Thats not saying i shun those who hide it whatsoever, just that its something I admire
Bisexuals are not stepping outside the sexual norm, it is a sexuality , exactly the same as hetro , gay ect.
Indeed... but why not have it on profile if they are??
A Wink from a straight guy is a Wink from a straight guy!
If they are Bi why not send message instead of a wink??
I get a ton of winks from.straight guys, why do they not message instead?"
Good night to one and all...x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"a polite hi should suffice
I always say Hi... maybe I don't type politely!!
If they're bi why not say so is my point!
I think we've come full circle since the start of the threat...they're in the closet!"
Aye but so far in they're in Narnia |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Love it, for two reasons.
1. Its a turn on knowing someone is open minded and willing to step outside the norm sexually
2. In this day and age, to do it openly and be open about it displays being brave and courageous
Thats not saying i shun those who hide it whatsoever, just that its something I admire
Bisexuals are not stepping outside the sexual norm, it is a sexuality , exactly the same as hetro , gay ect."
Sounds like disagreeing with me for the sake of disagreeing with me. I never said bisexuality wasnt a sexuality.
Is there even percentages of bisexual and hetero and gay people in our population?
Bisexuality/Homosexuality percentages I would guess, are a lot lower than that of heterosexuals.
Higher percentage numbers being culturally accepted as 'the norm'
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Love it, for two reasons.
1. Its a turn on knowing someone is open minded and willing to step outside the norm sexually
2. In this day and age, to do it openly and be open about it displays being brave and courageous
Thats not saying i shun those who hide it whatsoever, just that its something I admire
Bisexuals are not stepping outside the sexual norm, it is a sexuality , exactly the same as hetro , gay ect.
Indeed... but why not have it on profile if they are??
A Wink from a straight guy is a Wink from a straight guy!
If they are Bi why not send message instead of a wink??"
Whats a tracker mortgage??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It was certainly an eye opener the number of women I've met who are into bi guys, and have lucky enough to help 1 or 2 tick a bi mmf off their bucket list |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Edit: poll carried out by irish times, mar 27 2015.
A mere 4% of those polled were either gay or bi.
So it appears 96% (give or take, before you start to pick apart the statisical correctness or significance) of our population are straight.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Love it, for two reasons.
1. Its a turn on knowing someone is open minded and willing to step outside the norm sexually
2. In this day and age, to do it openly and be open about it displays being brave and courageous
Thats not saying i shun those who hide it whatsoever, just that its something I admire
Bisexuals are not stepping outside the sexual norm, it is a sexuality , exactly the same as hetro , gay ect.
Indeed... but why not have it on profile if they are??
A Wink from a straight guy is a Wink from a straight guy!
If they are Bi why not send message instead of a wink??
Whats a tracker mortgage??
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Pmsl kit. I'm just getting g really confused. I spent most of my teens confused and fecked if I want to start that all over again. Toasted ham and cheese sammich anyone ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Love it, for two reasons.
1. Its a turn on knowing someone is open minded and willing to step outside the norm sexually
2. In this day and age, to do it openly and be open about it displays being brave and courageous
Thats not saying i shun those who hide it whatsoever, just that its something I admire
Bisexuals are not stepping outside the sexual norm, it is a sexuality , exactly the same as hetro , gay ect.
Indeed... but why not have it on profile if they are??
A Wink from a straight guy is a Wink from a straight guy!
If they are Bi why not send message instead of a wink??
Whats a tracker mortgage??
Pmsl kit. I'm just getting g really confused. I spent most of my teens confused and fecked if I want to start that all over again. Toasted ham and cheese sammich anyone ? "
Mmmm cheeeeeeese....
Ham sangwidges are so totes ways mores normalz like. Zomgz.
Why does the cheese always just stare at me and not send a wink? Why cant it just make the first move?? Why does it always pretend its not interested 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Love it, for two reasons.
1. Its a turn on knowing someone is open minded and willing to step outside the norm sexually
2. In this day and age, to do it openly and be open about it displays being brave and courageous
Thats not saying i shun those who hide it whatsoever, just that its something I admire
Bisexuals are not stepping outside the sexual norm, it is a sexuality , exactly the same as hetro , gay ect.
Indeed... but why not have it on profile if they are??
A Wink from a straight guy is a Wink from a straight guy!
If they are Bi why not send message instead of a wink??
Whats a tracker mortgage??
Pmsl kit. I'm just getting g really confused. I spent most of my teens confused and fecked if I want to start that all over again. Toasted ham and cheese sammich anyone ?
Mmmm cheeeeeeese....
Ham sangwidges are so totes ways mores normalz like. Zomgz.
Why does the cheese always just stare at me and not send a wink? Why cant it just make the first move?? Why does it always pretend its not interested
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I have a cheese fetish but I'm pretty sure the cheese is into me to Kit so you need to move on and get a new cheese. This is possibly the strangest conversation I have ever had...well today anyway  |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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Find the idea of meeting a bi guy very very exciting.... But with a straight hubby its proving very difficult to arrange...finding one would be difficult finding two just may be impossible |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sounds like disagreeing with me for the sake of disagreeing with me. I never said bisexuality wasnt a sexuality.
Is there even percentages of bisexual and hetero and gay people in our population?
Bisexuality/Homosexuality percentages I would guess, are a lot lower than that of heterosexuals.
Higher percentage numbers being culturally accepted as 'the norm'
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It was how you depicted bisexuals that I raised an issue with , if you feel this is disagreeing for disagreement sake then that is your opinion.
Statistic gathering on the numbers of individuals who identify as bisexual in Ireland is difficult, many feel unable to openly admit or only identify as hetro as they may simply be bi- curious. |
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I don't judge anyone by their sexuality it's just a shame in this day and age some people still don't feel they can be open about it ..
And much as I like mmf, bi mmf is definitely very high on my wish list. ...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Find the idea of meeting a bi guy very very exciting.... But with a straight hubby its proving very difficult to arrange...finding one would be difficult finding two just may be impossible"
Try the Tigers? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Two sides to this. Ok so couples that don't like bi guys, well that preference should be fully respected and certainly not frowned upon. We all have elements we do and dont like in the contact we make.
The bigger issue and it's come up a lot lately is guys with straight profiles contacting couples when they are clearly bi...my inbox could prove it . What bothers me us the people who feel the need to lie about it to get meets with females or couples. Grow a pair and nail your colours to the mast. You can be sure as imaginary god that they are BS'ing about most other things as well.
I have had the honour and pleasure of meeting couples here and as long as boundaries are set out and respected then it can flow . Nothing better than 3+ people wrapped up on a bed with no inhibitions "
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"I don't judge anyone by their sexuality it's just a shame in this day and age some people still don't feel they can be open about it ..
And much as I like mmf, bi mmf is definitely very high on my wish list. ...
Mrs S"
If male is bi why not put it on his profile? Wouldn't make much difference to life outside here.
I get Winks/Messages from guys that are straight on profile as do other, so they are Bi but afraid to say so. Reckon they'd probably be no shows too... |
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"Probably like many other guys I've got messages from Male half of couple looking to meet up.... look at their profile and they are Straight!!
That is a turn off!!
I get a fair few messages like that and from single males with a straight profile. They rarely show up."
Therein lies the problem! Reckon most won't show so a Wink isn't much of an effort. Most messages say very little if anything. |
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over a year ago
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"Sexuality is irrelevant, respect for the boundaries of others is the key.
Indeed, and in all situations including messages."
We only play within the limits of our company for the night. We respect their boundaries and never ever go beyond them. |
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"Sexuality is irrelevant, respect for the boundaries of others is the key.
Indeed, and in all situations including messages."
Saves you the trouble of wasting time on them if the disregard for you is that obvious. |
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By *ohnbi01Man
over a year ago
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"Sexuality is irrelevant, respect for the boundaries of others is the key. "
Spot on
It does not matter to me if I with a male, female, couple, tv, or ts.
Not pushed if I'm labelled straight, gay, bi, or some third sex in between. If there is an attraction with someone? That's what matters most.
I honestly believe every male and female should try some sort of bi experience once on their lifetime.
I'm just sorry I was not more comfortable and adventurous years ago |
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"Sexuality is irrelevant, respect for the boundaries of others is the key.
Indeed, and in all situations including messages.
Saves you the trouble of wasting time on them if the disregard for you is that obvious."
Normally Wink back and never hear from them again. I do not disregard them! |
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Sounds like disagreeing with me for the sake of disagreeing with me. I never said bisexuality wasnt a sexuality.
Is there even percentages of bisexual and hetero and gay people in our population?
Bisexuality/Homosexuality percentages I would guess, are a lot lower than that of heterosexuals.
Higher percentage numbers being culturally accepted as 'the norm'
It was how you depicted bisexuals that I raised an issue with , if you feel this is disagreeing for disagreement sake then that is your opinion.
Statistic gathering on the numbers of individuals who identify as bisexual in Ireland is difficult, many feel unable to openly admit or only identify as hetro as they may simply be bi- curious."
Im very sorry if you feel that I depicted bisexuals including myself in the wrong light by saying we are outside the norm based on statistics and percentage which very much so speak for the themselves.
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"Two sides to this. Ok so couples that don't like bi guys, well that preference should be fully respected and certainly not frowned upon. We all have elements we do and dont like in the contact we make.
The bigger issue and it's come up a lot lately is guys with straight profiles contacting couples when they are clearly bi...my inbox could prove it . What bothers me us the people who feel the need to lie about it to get meets with females or couples. Grow a pair and nail your colours to the mast. You can be sure as imaginary god that they are BS'ing about most other things as well.
I have had the honour and pleasure of meeting couples here and as long as boundaries are set out and respected then it can flow . Nothing better than 3+ people wrapped up on a bed with no inhibitions
Would you go on a meet with a couple if the male wasn't into any MM action but perfectly comfortable with you as either Sandra or Mark?"
Absolutely. I am 100% comfortable in either role and I have always liked the female form more so in play partners. Maybe it's because I do/did a bit of photography but the female form leaves me in awe far more than the male ever will. In my book it's about going with the flow according to the couples wishes.
I wouldn't meet a couple bi straight or otherwise if I thought they might not be on the same wavelength as each other and meeting me might cause tension between them |
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Sounds like disagreeing with me for the sake of disagreeing with me. I never said bisexuality wasnt a sexuality.
Is there even percentages of bisexual and hetero and gay people in our population?
Bisexuality/Homosexuality percentages I would guess, are a lot lower than that of heterosexuals.
Higher percentage numbers being culturally accepted as 'the norm'
It was how you depicted bisexuals that I raised an issue with , if you feel this is disagreeing for disagreement sake then that is your opinion.
Statistic gathering on the numbers of individuals who identify as bisexual in Ireland is difficult, many feel unable to openly admit or only identify as hetro as they may simply be bi- curious.
Im very sorry if you feel that I depicted bisexuals including myself in the wrong light by saying we are outside the norm based on statistics and percentage which very much so speak for the themselves.
Better send ya a wank. I mean a wink "
I never said you were being disrespectful or placing bisexuals in the wrong light.
Your first post claimed that you enjoy bisexuals because they think outside the box , the norm so to speak sexualy.
My issue is, on swinging sites this is simply behaviour that bisexuals engage in and are expected to engage in to please the hetros seeking thrills.
Yet we bisexuals know it is part and parcel of our sexuality.
I hope this makes sense?.
If you read some of the comments on threads with regards bisexuals, as a bisexual woman do they not anger you?.
Some of the women here are grossly offensive about their meets with women. |
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I never said you were being disrespectful or placing bisexuals in the wrong light.
Your first post claimed that you enjoy bisexuals because they think outside the box , the norm so to speak sexualy.
My issue is, on swinging sites this is simply behaviour that bisexuals engage in and are expected to engage in to please the hetros seeking thrills.
Yet we bisexuals know it is part and parcel of our sexuality.
I hope this makes sense?.
If you read some of the comments on threads with regards bisexuals, as a bisexual woman do they not anger you?.
Some of the women here are grossly offensive about their meets with women."
Yes it makes total sense. I took it up wrong, I would never have looked at it from that angle I suppose. I do see your point though, but I personally havent let it bother me.
I suppose as females and even hetero females in a way have certain things expected of them, i.e. wear sexy lingerie for their men.. I think any act that is expected and not fully wanted or enjoyed by one of both parties, then there is an issue.
If someone expected and almost forcefully expected to watch me engage in a sexual act with another female just for their own thrill and I didnt feel comfortable doing that then there is a problem.
I cant say that doing any of that bothers me though.
But then on the other side of it I have enjoyed watching two men together, but in a way you could say that was for my own thrill, as it does turn me on to watch. However it was all consensual and because its happened once I would never expect either party involved to 'perform' this act (if you look at it that way) for me again just because they are bisexual.
Ive made it known that I enjoyed it but Id never expect it of them.
When you say some women are grossly offensive about their meets with other women, what do you mean? I havent noticed so its hard for me to understand the point you're trying to explain |
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I never said you were being disrespectful or placing bisexuals in the wrong light.
Your first post claimed that you enjoy bisexuals because they think outside the box , the norm so to speak sexualy.
My issue is, on swinging sites this is simply behaviour that bisexuals engage in and are expected to engage in to please the hetros seeking thrills.
Yet we bisexuals know it is part and parcel of our sexuality.
I hope this makes sense?.
If you read some of the comments on threads with regards bisexuals, as a bisexual woman do they not anger you?.
Some of the women here are grossly offensive about their meets with women.
Yes it makes total sense. I took it up wrong, I would never have looked at it from that angle I suppose. I do see your point though, but I personally havent let it bother me.
I suppose as females and even hetero females in a way have certain things expected of them, i.e. wear sexy lingerie for their men.. I think any act that is expected and not fully wanted or enjoyed by one of both parties, then there is an issue.
If someone expected and almost forcefully expected to watch me engage in a sexual act with another female just for their own thrill and I didnt feel comfortable doing that then there is a problem.
I cant say that doing any of that bothers me though.
But then on the other side of it I have enjoyed watching two men together, but in a way you could say that was for my own thrill, as it does turn me on to watch. However it was all consensual and because its happened once I would never expect either party involved to 'perform' this act (if you look at it that way) for me again just because they are bisexual.
Ive made it known that I enjoyed it but Id never expect it of them.
When you say some women are grossly offensive about their meets with other women, what do you mean? I havent noticed so its hard for me to understand the point you're trying to explain "
Some of the forum posts made about meets with bisexual women and in particular those by other women can be offensive.
Girls refered to as greedy bitches ect.
No wonder many bisexuals are hesitant about disclosing their sexuality.
To be honest from experience of chatting with other bisexual women, it is no wonder some of them can not get bisexual women to meet them.
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I never said you were being disrespectful or placing bisexuals in the wrong light.
Your first post claimed that you enjoy bisexuals because they think outside the box , the norm so to speak sexualy.
My issue is, on swinging sites this is simply behaviour that bisexuals engage in and are expected to engage in to please the hetros seeking thrills.
Yet we bisexuals know it is part and parcel of our sexuality.
I hope this makes sense?.
If you read some of the comments on threads with regards bisexuals, as a bisexual woman do they not anger you?.
Some of the women here are grossly offensive about their meets with women.
Yes it makes total sense. I took it up wrong, I would never have looked at it from that angle I suppose. I do see your point though, but I personally havent let it bother me.
I suppose as females and even hetero females in a way have certain things expected of them, i.e. wear sexy lingerie for their men.. I think any act that is expected and not fully wanted or enjoyed by one of both parties, then there is an issue.
If someone expected and almost forcefully expected to watch me engage in a sexual act with another female just for their own thrill and I didnt feel comfortable doing that then there is a problem.
I cant say that doing any of that bothers me though.
But then on the other side of it I have enjoyed watching two men together, but in a way you could say that was for my own thrill, as it does turn me on to watch. However it was all consensual and because its happened once I would never expect either party involved to 'perform' this act (if you look at it that way) for me again just because they are bisexual.
Ive made it known that I enjoyed it but Id never expect it of them.
When you say some women are grossly offensive about their meets with other women, what do you mean? I havent noticed so its hard for me to understand the point you're trying to explain
Some of the forum posts made about meets with bisexual women and in particular those by other women can be offensive.
Girls refered to as greedy bitches ect.
No wonder many bisexuals are hesitant about disclosing their sexuality.
To be honest from experience of chatting with other bisexual women, it is no wonder some of them can not get bisexual women to meet them.
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Hi do you mean in Other threads's etc ? as I haven't really seen anyone women being offensive in this manner in this thread. . I think everyone should be respectful of others no matter what the subject in general in these threads is tbh. I know I got a message saying I had been offensive to bi guys by saying I would like a bi mmf...I certainly didn't intend it that way. .I was simply expressing something that I would find very sexy. I agree I don't think anyone should"perform" for anyone else's gratification (unless they want to )and like kitana says we probably all do it to some extent ie lingerie etc but usually because we enjoy it and its mutual, not just to amuse someone . Think it's a case of each to their own. .be polite and respectful to all and let's enjoy the fact that we can talk to each other on here about things lots of people often can't in real life. |
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Sorry thought my post made it clear that I was specificly refering to other threads around the forums.
This thread is one of most interesting, informative and enjoyable on the subject IMO. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I just take people as i find them and respect their boundaries and expect them to respect mine. I've played with both bi and straight males in 3 sum situations and once boundaries were communicated before hand never a problem only good fun. |
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"Sexuality is irrelevant, respect for the boundaries of others is the key.
Indeed, and in all situations including messages.
We only play within the limits of our company for the night. We respect their boundaries and never ever go beyond them. "
Quoting for agreement, and because it needs to be seen again. |
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"Sexuality is irrelevant, respect for the boundaries of others is the key.
Indeed, and in all situations including messages.
We only play within the limits of our company for the night. We respect their boundaries and never ever go beyond them.
Quoting for agreement, and because it needs to be seen again."
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By *obrayMan
over a year ago
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"I like. But don't understand the need to lie bout it. Loads of women love bi men
Exactly...and could be losing out on some fun!!
Tis true "
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By *ierycrackWoman
over a year ago
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There's some very hot bi guys on here and its unfortunate they can't be themselves on a swing site where people constantly judge others sexual preference!
Some women are put off at the thought of guys being with other guys. I personally find it a total turn ON!
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