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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah guess single females get inundated with msgs here! Still if they not interested at least a 'thanks for msg but not interested' would be polite thing to so!"
Are you really looking to meet impolite people?
If not,what does it matter if they reply or not? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well if you send someone a msg least they can do is reply only takes few secs!! "
According to you,they are impolite if they don't reply,so why would you want to meet someone that's impolite? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well didn't no before sending them msg they were an in polite person yah know like!!!! "
Yes I understand that,but as they haven't replied,you now see them as impolite,so what does it matter if they reply or not.move onto those that are polite and stop questioning those that aren't.you will find your time on fab much more rewarding. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single female member I'd be busy responding to guys night noon and morning if I were to reply and say thanks but no thanks to the messages I get. Common sense indicates no reply=not interested so why would you need a response to confirm that? albeit it polite or not. You already know the answer so what's the difference? And the same goes visa versa if I send a message and its deleted or not replied to, I say oh well and forget about it.No biggie  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a single female member I'd be busy responding to guys night noon and morning if I were to reply and say thanks but no thanks to the messages I get. Common sense indicates no reply=not interested so why would you need a response to confirm that? albeit it polite or not. You already know the answer so what's the difference? And the same goes visa versa if I send a message and its deleted or not replied to, I say oh well and forget about it.No biggie "
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"Just wondering how come if you send a nice friendly message to someone they don't reply? ??! Dosen't take a lot of effort to be polite and message back! "
I don't bother sending messages any more as all mine... which were nice... were just deleted or Bulk deleted
You're pissing against the wind!!
I CAN understand that females/couples get so many messages...and why they just delete them!!!
Just rise above it and maybe try Socials, Meet/Greets...
It doesn't take a lot of effort to be polite and message back to one!
BUT it does to dozens or 100's....
My one or your one is just one for you and me... females/couples would need Secretaries to reply or even read all they get!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think what the op is getting at is the amount of women he messages versus the replies he gets. I can definitely see his point but also I can see why single girls won't reply if a guy isn't for them. Women here are outnumbered by at least 10 to 1 and that's a lot of dear john letters to be writing!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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for every woman or couple from here there are 10 times more mans so imagine how many massage they receive. I ques nobody wanna be rude, just belive there are to manny message to have time to reply to all.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to reply to all even when it was obvious they hadn't read my profile. But then you get either the why message or the stuck up bitch message. As a single female you really can't win "
sometimes people forget that there are few steps necessary until cock and pussy game, that is the worst part of internet , when a part of us just wanna pass from their couch directly to sex. |
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"I used to reply to all even when it was obvious they hadn't read my profile. But then you get either the why message or the stuck up bitch message. As a single female you really can't win "
one learns fast on FAB!! |
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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago
Limerick |
"I used to reply to all even when it was obvious they hadn't read my profile. But then you get either the why message or the stuck up bitch message. As a single female you really can't win
sometimes people forget that there are few steps necessary until cock and pussy game, that is the worst part of internet , when a part of us just wanna pass from their couch directly to sex. "
And how does that work out? |
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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago
Limerick |
"I used to reply to all even when it was obvious they hadn't read my profile. But then you get either the why message or the stuck up bitch message. As a single female you really can't win
one learns fast on FAB!!
You sure do "
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"Yeah guess single females get inundated with msgs here! Still if they not interested at least a 'thanks for msg but not interested' would be polite thing to so!"
Sadly in all honesty sometimes a polite no thank you really doesn't go down well despite people saying that so often with experience you just don't reply  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah guess single females get inundated with msgs here! Still if they not interested at least a 'thanks for msg but not interested' would be polite thing to so!
Sadly in all honesty sometimes a polite no thank you really doesn't go down well despite people saying that so often with experience you just don't reply "
Quite often a "no thank you" ends in a torrent of abuse. |
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"Yeah guess single females get inundated with msgs here! Still if they not interested at least a 'thanks for msg but not interested' would be polite thing to so!
Sadly in all honesty sometimes a polite no thank you really doesn't go down well despite people saying that so often with experience you just don't reply
You had the manners to reply
Quite often a "no thank you" ends in a torrent of abuse."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer a thanks but no thanks. With the volume of mail problem sometimes mails never get read and they might be happy to hear from you if you message a second time at another time.
Then again I'm not one if these freaks who gets abusive if I'm not to someone's tastes. |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
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"Just wondering how come if you send a nice friendly message to someone they don't reply? ??! Dosen't take a lot of effort to be polite and message back! "
Can't speak for the individuals you messaged but sometimes a guy will refuse to take 'No thanks' as an answer |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just wondering how come if you send a nice friendly message to someone they don't reply? ??! Dosen't take a lot of effort to be polite and message back! "
kinda sick of it myself I try my hardest too be polite and send face pics and so forth only for the message too be read and deleted a simple no thanks is just fine  |
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"Just wondering how come if you send a nice friendly message to someone they don't reply? ??! Dosen't take a lot of effort to be polite and message back!
Can't speak for the individuals you messaged but sometimes a guy will refuse to take 'No thanks' as an answer"
lol not all off us lol |
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"Just wondering how come if you send a nice friendly message to someone they don't reply? ??! Dosen't take a lot of effort to be polite and message back! kinda sick of it myself I try my hardest too be polite and send face pics and so forth only for the message too be read and deleted a simple no thanks is just fine "
its not a nice feeling fanta |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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While it would be nice to get a 'not interested' message I can well imagine that women and couples on here get a lot of messages and can't reply to everyone.
Just imagine your mails as a message in a bottle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Id say fifty+ percent of the time a polite no thanks response leads to more mails generally with responses like "why not" "how do you know without even chatting to me" "youre a stuck up bitch" etc. Which is why ive stopped replying all the time. Also most just keep mailing you anyway even once youve told them no thanks.
Obviously not everyone on here is like this but those who are tend to ruin it for the genuine people. |
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"Just wondering how come if you send a nice friendly message to someone they don't reply? ??! Dosen't take a lot of effort to be polite and message back! "
it is a bit of a kick in the balls when you put the effort in to messaging someone and they don't reply to you, but the way I look at it now is, I don't have to waste any more time on them and I move on to someone else.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Id say fifty+ percent of the time a polite no thanks response leads to more mails generally with responses like "why not" "how do you know without even chatting to me" "youre a stuck up bitch" etc. Which is why ive stopped replying all the time. Also most just keep mailing you anyway even once youve told them no thanks.
Obviously not everyone on here is like this but those who are tend to ruin it for the genuine people. "
Yup, which is probably why fab rules state no reply = not interested. We also state on our profile that we will not reply if not interested - why waste anyone's time getting into a conversation when we are never going to meet... |
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"Id say fifty+ percent of the time a polite no thanks response leads to more mails generally with responses like "why not" "how do you know without even chatting to me" "youre a stuck up bitch" etc. Which is why ive stopped replying all the time. Also most just keep mailing you anyway even once youve told them no thanks.
Obviously not everyone on here is like this but those who are tend to ruin it for the genuine people.
Yup, which is probably why fab rules state no reply = not interested. We also state on our profile that we will not reply if not interested - why waste anyone's time getting into a conversation when we are never going to meet..."
Indeed No Reply = Not Interested
Trouble starts when that is not accepted!!
2 weeks ago I got message from a Couple, wasn't interested as she definitely wasn't my type.
Sent a "No Thanks" and got an abusive reply INSISTING on knowing why I was turning down pussy....
NO MEANS NO!!!
Get over it!!
Not just guys are abusive I can tell you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Id say fifty+ percent of the time a polite no thanks response leads to more mails generally with responses like "why not" "how do you know without even chatting to me" "youre a stuck up bitch" etc. Which is why ive stopped replying all the time. Also most just keep mailing you anyway even once youve told them no thanks.
Obviously not everyone on here is like this but those who are tend to ruin it for the genuine people.
Yup, which is probably why fab rules state no reply = not interested. We also state on our profile that we will not reply if not interested - why waste anyone's time getting into a conversation when we are never going to meet...
Indeed No Reply = Not Interested
Trouble starts when that is not accepted!!
2 weeks ago I got message from a Couple, wasn't interested as she definitely wasn't my type.
Sent a "No Thanks" and got an abusive reply INSISTING on knowing why I was turning down pussy....
NO MEANS NO!!!
Get over it!!
Not just guys are abusive I can tell you!"
I can believe it, but it tends to be guys who start threads like this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Id say fifty+ percent of the time a polite no thanks response leads to more mails generally with responses like "why not" "how do you know without even chatting to me" "youre a stuck up bitch" etc. Which is why ive stopped replying all the time. Also most just keep mailing you anyway even once youve told them no thanks.
Obviously not everyone on here is like this but those who are tend to ruin it for the genuine people.
Yup, which is probably why fab rules state no reply = not interested. We also state on our profile that we will not reply if not interested - why waste anyone's time getting into a conversation when we are never going to meet..."
Sorry I hate to correct you there and apologise if it comes across as being an ass but the no reply- no interest thing isn't a rule. Its more of a guideline
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Id say fifty+ percent of the time a polite no thanks response leads to more mails generally with responses like "why not" "how do you know without even chatting to me" "youre a stuck up bitch" etc. Which is why ive stopped replying all the time. Also most just keep mailing you anyway even once youve told them no thanks.
Obviously not everyone on here is like this but those who are tend to ruin it for the genuine people.
Yup, which is probably why fab rules state no reply = not interested. We also state on our profile that we will not reply if not interested - why waste anyone's time getting into a conversation when we are never going to meet...
Sorry I hate to correct you there and apologise if it comes across as being an ass but the no reply- no interest thing isn't a rule. Its more of a guideline
Tomcat "
Not an ass, just a pedant |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
Pleasuretown |
"Just wondering how come if you send a nice friendly message to someone they don't reply? ??! Dosen't take a lot of effort to be polite and message back!
Can't speak for the individuals you messaged but sometimes a guy will refuse to take 'No thanks' as an answerlol not all off us lol"
That's why I said sometimes lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I ignore most of the time. Some then send a rude message to which I might reply. After which he thinks I'm fucked up and if he's mean he gets a response so that's now his new tactic. Weird |
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By *ardy cowboyMan
over a year ago
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"I ignore most of the time. Some then send a rude message to which I might reply. After which he thinks I'm fucked up and if he's mean he gets a response so that's now his new tactic. Weird "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We try to answer every message that is sent to us and so far we have been very lucky to have encountered nice genuine fun loving people..... couples and single guys, long may it continue.. D |
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"Id say fifty+ percent of the time a polite no thanks response leads to more mails generally with responses like "why not" "how do you know without even chatting to me" "youre a stuck up bitch" etc. Which is why ive stopped replying all the time. Also most just keep mailing you anyway even once youve told them no thanks.
Obviously not everyone on here is like this but those who are tend to ruin it for the genuine people. "
Yep. .so agree. I try to reply politely to most but if someone clearly hasn't my profile or is rude etc I just delete now. ..was a learning curve but I'm good with curves lol
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Also & correct me if I'm wrong site rules say no reply means no interest 