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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all,
Starting a thread as I'd really like to find guys that are into kinky bi fun. You'd be surprised at how difficult it really is!
Discounting assholes, one liners, straight guys who won't show, and those that won't verify after a meet 
Are there any of you out there?
All I'm asking is for some kinky sex! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Discounting assholes ...
All I'm asking is for some kinky sex!
If you are male Bi into kinky sex, surely assholes would be high on your list of wants "
Touché my friend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Iv had this discussion on here before.lots of bi guys wont advertise it on their profile as it puts most straight females off.....so lots of bi couples and guys wont meet if its not on a guys profile.
Vicious circle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Iv had this discussion on here before.lots of bi guys wont advertise it on their profile as it puts most straight females off.....so lots of bi couples and guys wont meet if its not on a guys profile.
Vicious circle"
We've always found that odd. On a site that promotes sexual diversity bi guys are seen as odd, greedy, perverted. BO females on the other hand? Held up on high. We get lots of messages with "I'm bi but don't list it". That's wrong. Be proud of who you are. Following the in crowd like a sheep won't get anywhere with us. We prefer honesty over deception. But that's just us. |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
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"Iv had this discussion on here before.lots of bi guys wont advertise it on their profile as it puts most straight females off.....so lots of bi couples and guys wont meet if its not on a guys profile.
Vicious circle
We've always found that odd. On a site that promotes sexual diversity bi guys are seen as odd, greedy, perverted. BO females on the other hand? Held up on high. We get lots of messages with "I'm bi but don't list it". That's wrong. Be proud of who you are. Following the in crowd like a sheep won't get anywhere with us. We prefer honesty over deception. But that's just us. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi all .the amount of "straight"guys who contact me afraid to state their sexual preference is unreal.I must admit to being very naive when I joined Fab I Don t think I would have said "BI" on my profile if I knew how hard it would be for me to get any meets with couples(F/M) or single ladies.BI is just one aspect of my sexuality.
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"Iv had this discussion on here before.lots of bi guys wont advertise it on their profile as it puts most straight females off.....so lots of bi couples and guys wont meet if its not on a guys profile.
Vicious circle
We've always found that odd. On a site that promotes sexual diversity bi guys are seen as odd, greedy, perverted. BO females on the other hand? Held up on high. We get lots of messages with "I'm bi but don't list it". That's wrong. Be proud of who you are. Following the in crowd like a sheep won't get anywhere with us. We prefer honesty over deception. But that's just us. "
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"Iv had this discussion on here before.lots of bi guys wont advertise it on their profile as it puts most straight females off.....so lots of bi couples and guys wont meet if its not on a guys profile.
Vicious circle
We've always found that odd. On a site that promotes sexual diversity bi guys are seen as odd, greedy, perverted. BO females on the other hand? Held up on high. We get lots of messages with "I'm bi but don't list it". That's wrong. Be proud of who you are. Following the in crowd like a sheep won't get anywhere with us. We prefer honesty over deception. But that's just us.
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Agree with this totally people are too judgemental about others sexuality. |
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I'm a bi guy but am not accepted as just a bi guy by other bi guys as I like to cross dress.. You would think I go around all day in a dress.. I meet as a guy too and love kinky fun.. Some bi guys need to relax a bit, lol rant over now where is that dress again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Iv had this discussion on here before.lots of bi guys wont advertise it on their profile as it puts most straight females off.....so lots of bi couples and guys wont meet if its not on a guys profile.
Vicious circle
We've always found that odd. On a site that promotes sexual diversity bi guys are seen as odd, greedy, perverted. BO females on the other hand? Held up on high. We get lots of messages with "I'm bi but don't list it". That's wrong. Be proud of who you are. Following the in crowd like a sheep won't get anywhere with us. We prefer honesty over deception. But that's just us.
Agree with this totally people are too judgemental about others sexuality. "
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By *p4itduoCouple
over a year ago
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Brings us on to a funny story our teenage daughter was dating a nice chap thery were in the house on their own and my partner was going out for a couple of hours , she informed then that they would not be left in the house together , the young chap without a thought told my partner not to worry that his parents did not allow him to stay in his own house with a girl or a boy because he was bi sexual Lols arkward moment  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all,
Starting a thread as I'd really like to find guys that are into kinky bi fun. You'd be surprised at how difficult it really is!
Discounting assholes, one liners, straight guys who won't show, and those that won't verify after a meet
Are there any of you out there?
All I'm asking is for some kinky sex!"
I'm guessing they won't verify because then they aren't "straight" any more? It does seem a little strange, almost like it's feeding itself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is a really interesting one for me. Ok so I play in boy and tv mode and im obviously bi. It is simply insane the amount of "straight" guy who contact asking for meets and what really boils my pee are the moronic few who say please don't verify me if we do meet.
I have gotten into conversation with some to try and figure out their mindset and in a way I understand there reasons. There are some couples and prominent females here like most forums who don't like bi guys so it's a simple matter of them being dishonest to keep their options open while engaging in bi play which they view as taboo.
Now I personally take it as a huge insult for someone to say let's meet but I'm not going to admit to the closet that is fab that I'm bi or I have been with you. Some guys are new enough to the fantasy of being bi and can be afforded some wiggle room to see where there sexuality lies. However an experienced fabber get no rope and I block them after explaining why they are being insulting and stupid in a place that can be very accepting if you find the right people.
Simply put if you want to play with balls then grow a pair first  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is a really interesting one for me. Ok so I play in boy and tv mode and im obviously bi. It is simply insane the amount of "straight" guy who contact asking for meets and what really boils my pee are the moronic few who say please don't verify me if we do meet.
I have gotten into conversation with some to try and figure out their mindset and in a way I understand there reasons. There are some couples and prominent females here like most forums who don't like bi guys so it's a simple matter of them being dishonest to keep their options open while engaging in bi play which they view as taboo.
Now I personally take it as a huge insult for someone to say let's meet but I'm not going to admit to the closet that is fab that I'm bi or I have been with you. Some guys are new enough to the fantasy of being bi and can be afforded some wiggle room to see where there sexuality lies. However an experienced fabber get no rope and I block them after explaining why they are being insulting and stupid in a place that can be very accepting if you find the right people.
Simply put if you want to play with balls then grow a pair first "
Very well said  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a really interesting one for me. Ok so I play in boy and tv mode and im obviously bi. It is simply insane the amount of "straight" guy who contact asking for meets and what really boils my pee are the moronic few who say please don't verify me if we do meet.
I have gotten into conversation with some to try and figure out their mindset and in a way I understand there reasons. There are some couples and prominent females here like most forums who don't like bi guys so it's a simple matter of them being dishonest to keep their options open while engaging in bi play which they view as taboo.
Now I personally take it as a huge insult for someone to say let's meet but I'm not going to admit to the closet that is fab that I'm bi or I have been with you. Some guys are new enough to the fantasy of being bi and can be afforded some wiggle room to see where there sexuality lies. However an experienced fabber get no rope and I block them after explaining why they are being insulting and stupid in a place that can be very accepting if you find the right people.
Simply put if you want to play with balls then grow a pair first "
Do many of your friends or family know that you're on fab or are bi or crossdress?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is a really interesting one for me. Ok so I play in boy and tv mode and im obviously bi. It is simply insane the amount of "straight" guy who contact asking for meets and what really boils my pee are the moronic few who say please don't verify me if we do meet.
I have gotten into conversation with some to try and figure out their mindset and in a way I understand there reasons. There are some couples and prominent females here like most forums who don't like bi guys so it's a simple matter of them being dishonest to keep their options open while engaging in bi play which they view as taboo.
Now I personally take it as a huge insult for someone to say let's meet but I'm not going to admit to the closet that is fab that I'm bi or I have been with you. Some guys are new enough to the fantasy of being bi and can be afforded some wiggle room to see where there sexuality lies. However an experienced fabber get no rope and I block them after explaining why they are being insulting and stupid in a place that can be very accepting if you find the right people.
Simply put if you want to play with balls then grow a pair first
Do many of your friends or family know that you're on fab or are bi or crossdress?
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Friends nope. My sister is the only person from the so called real world who knows a dress an has done from the beginning many years ago. As far as fab goes no one knows, the only reason I'm here is because my partner has made it abundantly clear that's she finds tvs/cds odd. She has no problem with cds but wouldn't accept me doing it. I'm as honest an open with as many people as I can with blowing holes in my everyday life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""...blowing holes.......". Interesting.....  "
Lol despite they common view all tvs are nuts and will do anything blowing holes is something I have yet to nor do I want to do  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is a really interesting one for me. Ok so I play in boy and tv mode and im obviously bi. It is simply insane the amount of "straight" guy who contact asking for meets and what really boils my pee are the moronic few who say please don't verify me if we do meet.
I have gotten into conversation with some to try and figure out their mindset and in a way I understand there reasons. There are some couples and prominent females here like most forums who don't like bi guys so it's a simple matter of them being dishonest to keep their options open while engaging in bi play which they view as taboo.
Now I personally take it as a huge insult for someone to say let's meet but I'm not going to admit to the closet that is fab that I'm bi or I have been with you. Some guys are new enough to the fantasy of being bi and can be afforded some wiggle room to see where there sexuality lies. However an experienced fabber get no rope and I block them after explaining why they are being insulting and stupid in a place that can be very accepting if you find the right people.
Simply put if you want to play with balls then grow a pair first
Do many of your friends or family know that you're on fab or are bi or crossdress?
Friends nope. My sister is the only person from the so called real world who knows a dress an has done from the beginning many years ago. As far as fab goes no one knows, the only reason I'm here is because my partner has made it abundantly clear that's she finds tvs/cds odd. She has no problem with cds but wouldn't accept me doing it. I'm as honest an open with as many people as I can with blowing holes in my everyday life"
I suppose the point I'm trying to get at is that you dont tell real world people about any of that stuff for the same reason that bi guys dont publicise on their profiles that theyre bi.
Fear of judgement from a society that is rife with it, narrow mindedness and refusal to accept everyone as individuals and not try fit them into some pre conceived category based on whatever attributes they do or dont have.
And I do understand that because you're open about everything on here that it doesnt sit right with you that others hide things.
But I'm reading words and labels you place on these people (moronic, stupid, causing insult, dishonest, keeping options open) and wondering can you truly say that some or all of these dont apply in someway or another to your own situation in the real world?
Is it right to place a different set of unspoken rules for fab world than it is for the so called real world?
And if those unspoken rules arent followed then thou shall be judged and labelled...
Is it right or fair?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a really interesting one for me. Ok so I play in boy and tv mode and im obviously bi. It is simply insane the amount of "straight" guy who contact asking for meets and what really boils my pee are the moronic few who say please don't verify me if we do meet.
I have gotten into conversation with some to try and figure out their mindset and in a way I understand there reasons. There are some couples and prominent females here like most forums who don't like bi guys so it's a simple matter of them being dishonest to keep their options open while engaging in bi play which they view as taboo.
Now I personally take it as a huge insult for someone to say let's meet but I'm not going to admit to the closet that is fab that I'm bi or I have been with you. Some guys are new enough to the fantasy of being bi and can be afforded some wiggle room to see where there sexuality lies. However an experienced fabber get no rope and I block them after explaining why they are being insulting and stupid in a place that can be very accepting if you find the right people.
Simply put if you want to play with balls then grow a pair first
Do many of your friends or family know that you're on fab or are bi or crossdress?
Friends nope. My sister is the only person from the so called real world who knows a dress an has done from the beginning many years ago. As far as fab goes no one knows, the only reason I'm here is because my partner has made it abundantly clear that's she finds tvs/cds odd. She has no problem with cds but wouldn't accept me doing it. I'm as honest an open with as many people as I can with blowing holes in my everyday life
I suppose the point I'm trying to get at is that you dont tell real world people about any of that stuff for the same reason that bi guys dont publicise on their profiles that theyre bi.
Fear of judgement from a society that is rife with it, narrow mindedness and refusal to accept everyone as individuals and not try fit them into some pre conceived category based on whatever attributes they do or dont have.
And I do understand that because you're open about everything on here that it doesnt sit right with you that others hide things.
But I'm reading words and labels you place on these people (moronic, stupid, causing insult, dishonest, keeping options open) and wondering can you truly say that some or all of these dont apply in someway or another to your own situation in the real world?
Is it right to place a different set of unspoken rules for fab world than it is for the so called real world?
And if those unspoken rules arent followed then thou shall be judged and labelled...
Is it right or fair?
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Can I ask you a question. Do your family and friends know you're in fab and if not then why not.
The reasons for not telling people in my real world have far greater consequences than anyone on fab saying they are bi. In fact I would go as far as saying they are world's apart. Hiding you are bi here is to try get laid. Hiding my persona on fab from my real world stops my world falling apart. |
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