Had a conversation last night and it got me wondering.
Body image can be a big thing to people, how they look themselves, or how the other person looks. So my query is, would u pass on a play meet due to how the other person looks, or how u feel u look towards them?
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"Had a conversation last night and it got me wondering.
Body image can be a big thing to people, how they look themselves, or how the other person looks. So my query is, would u pass on a play meet due to how the other person looks, or how u feel u look towards them?
Tina "
Well there's a limit to everything... so within reason! |
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I never judge people on there looks obviously I would have to be attracted to them in some way but I normally fall for people's personalitys once someone makes me laugh and I'm happy in there company and comfortable |
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"I think if we are all honest looks play some part in the games, how a person acts n reacts is vital but wudnt put me off if wasn't Richard gere "
Yea I think ur right as there has to be an attraction on some level for things to work out right for everyone |
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"I never judge people on there looks obviously I would have to be attracted to them in some way but I normally fall for people's personalitys once someone makes me laugh and I'm happy in there company and comfortable "
I'm like that, the attraction doesn't depend on looks alone. But I will admit I myself have the dreaded 'body issues' about myself |
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"I never judge people on there looks obviously I would have to be attracted to them in some way but I normally fall for people's personalitys once someone makes me laugh and I'm happy in there company and comfortable
I'm like that, the attraction doesn't depend on looks alone. But I will admit I myself have the dreaded 'body issues' about myself "
I think everyone has some kind of issue with themselves no matter what they look like so wouldn't feel on ur own on that one I'm like that Aswel |
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I agree girls, we all have our hang ups, but I must admit I'm lucky to have a partner who fancies the ass clean off me and my play mates have all liked my good n bad xxx |
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I always go for personality but yes think there has to be some attraction ! As for myself  have to admit I've seen peoples face pics and thought they wud never go near me and have kept my distance  |
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"Had a conversation last night and it got me wondering.
Body image can be a big thing to people, how they look themselves, or how the other person looks. So my query is, would u pass on a play meet due to how the other person looks, or how u feel u look towards them?
Tina "
Yes. & no. |
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"I agree girls, we all have our hang ups, but I must admit I'm lucky to have a partner who fancies the ass clean off me and my play mates have all liked my good n bad xxx"
Same here Jules, my guy adores me and fancies me very passionately. The only thing he'd change about me is my lack of confidence 
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I think it natural that there has to be a connection made before you feel comfortable. However, this connection should not be restricted to looks. Good looks and body shape can be timebound whereas a personality tends to rarely change.
To me its personality every day of the week and twice on Sundays.
Although, I have looked at peoples pics on here and presumed they would have no interest in me which has put me of messaging them.
I believe this is a lack of confidence in my part as those people may well be driven by the same principles as myself and prefer to connect in a different way from looks alone.
I also believe that when you speak to someone over the phone you always tell if you can connect with them which makes the first meeting or making that connection much less daunting.
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"I think it natural that there has to be a connection made before you feel comfortable. However, this connection should not be restricted to looks. Good looks and body shape can be timebound whereas a personality tends to rarely change.
To me its personality every day of the week and twice on Sundays.
Although, I have looked at peoples pics on here and presumed they would have no interest in me which has put me of messaging them.
I believe this is a lack of confidence in my part as those people may well be driven by the same principles as myself and prefer to connect in a different way from looks alone.
I also believe that when you speak to someone over the phone you always tell if you can connect with them which makes the first meeting or making that connection much less daunting.
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There is a yolk that lives beside us. Wild good looking but she has nothing else going for her. I'd sooner ride Susan Boyle than her. I'd hate to see her enjoying herself. However her cousin is a large girl, fun and always happy and up for the craic, not the best looking but the kinda person you could get on with. I know which one I would swing with. |
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"I agree girls, we all have our hang ups, but I must admit I'm lucky to have a partner who fancies the ass clean off me and my play mates have all liked my good n bad xxx
Same here Jules, my guy adores me and fancies me very passionately. The only thing he'd change about me is my lack of confidence
Tina "
It,s a mind set Tina, we all fight with ourselves about looks but I truly believe if you can say to yourself you know what I am a decent good person and I like making people around me smile n happy they do start smiling back xxx |
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"I always go for personality but yes think there has to be some attraction ! As for myself have to admit I've seen peoples face pics and thought they wud never go near me and have kept my distance "
Ah stop!! You're gorgeous!! |
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"I never judge people on there looks obviously I would have to be attracted to them in some way but I normally fall for people's personalitys once someone makes me laugh and I'm happy in there company and comfortable
I'm like that, the attraction doesn't depend on looks alone. But I will admit I myself have the dreaded 'body issues' about myself "
And what you call body issues others find attractive |
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"I think it natural that there has to be a connection made before you feel comfortable. However, this connection should not be restricted to looks. Good looks and body shape can be timebound whereas a personality tends to rarely change.
To me its personality every day of the week and twice on Sundays.
Although, I have looked at peoples pics on here and presumed they would have no interest in me which has put me of messaging them.
I believe this is a lack of confidence in my part as those people may well be driven by the same principles as myself and prefer to connect in a different way from looks alone.
I also believe that when you speak to someone over the phone you always tell if you can connect with them which makes the first meeting or making that connection much less daunting.
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"I never judge people on there looks obviously I would have to be attracted to them in some way but I normally fall for people's personalitys once someone makes me laugh and I'm happy in there company and comfortable
I'm like that, the attraction doesn't depend on looks alone. But I will admit I myself have the dreaded 'body issues' about myself
And what you call body issues others find attractive "
Not always easy to see in urself what others may see Steven
But I do get what ur saying
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"I agree girls, we all have our hang ups, but I must admit I'm lucky to have a partner who fancies the ass clean off me and my play mates have all liked my good n bad xxx
Same here Jules, my guy adores me and fancies me very passionately. The only thing he'd change about me is my lack of confidence
Tina
It,s a mind set Tina, we all fight with ourselves about looks but I truly believe if you can say to yourself you know what I am a decent good person and I like making people around me smile n happy they do start smiling back xxx"
I totally agree with u Jules |
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I would pass a meet based on a person's looks and I'd only pass a meet based on how I feel I look if they've said something stupid which I don't agree with. |
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