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Cowgirl position and a lot of lube and patience. Would also recommend a starter buttplug to wear during everyday life for a few hours everyday if possible
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"Cowgirl position and a lot of lube and patience. Would also recommend a starter buttplug to wear during everyday life for a few hours everyday if possible
Tomcat "
Sounds like a pain in the ass to me. |
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"Cowgirl position and a lot of lube and patience. Would also recommend a starter buttplug to wear during everyday life for a few hours everyday if possible
Tomcat Sounds like a pain in the ass to me."
Would actually say missionary as weird as that sounds ! Lol but the position allows for ease of access also some finger play with clitoral stimulation & plenty of lube .
Really all your worried about is getting past the sphincter muscle and then its easier. And always plenty of lube - first time or not lol
 
PS Oopps meant to attach this to original post not specifically Tomcats  |
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"Cowgirl position and a lot of lube and patience. Would also recommend a starter buttplug to wear during everyday life for a few hours everyday if possible
Tomcat Sounds like a pain in the ass to me.
Would actually say missionary as weird as that sounds ! Lol but the position allows for ease of access also some finger play with clitoral stimulation & plenty of lube .
Really all your worried about is getting past the sphincter muscle and then its easier. And always plenty of lube - first time or not lol
PS Oopps meant to attach this to original post not specifically Tomcats "
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Plenty of lube, slow and easy..
Have a few giggles if it doesn't work at the first attempt and try again
Missionary, cowgirl, doggy.. Try different positions and find out what's most comfortable for you |
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"Cowgirl position and a lot of lube and patience. Would also recommend a starter buttplug to wear during everyday life for a few hours everyday if possible
Tomcat Sounds like a pain in the ass to me.
Would actually say missionary as weird as that sounds ! Lol but the position allows for ease of access also some finger play with clitoral stimulation & plenty of lube .
Really all your worried about is getting past the sphincter muscle and then its easier. And always plenty of lube - first time or not lol
PS Oopps meant to attach this to original post not specifically Tomcats "
Only really speaking from our own experience as we found it was easier for kitty to take what she was comfortable with in this position rather than others. Guess everyone is different and should go with what's comfortable for them |
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The couch will work. Get comfy, have a glass of wine to relax you if it will help then log on to Irish water & pay them already. It won't get any easier over time. |
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"Cowgirl position and a lot of lube and patience. Would also recommend a starter buttplug to wear during everyday life for a few hours everyday if possible
Tomcat Sounds like a pain in the ass to me.
Would actually say missionary as weird as that sounds ! Lol but the position allows for ease of access also some finger play with clitoral stimulation & plenty of lube .
Really all your worried about is getting past the sphincter muscle and then its easier. And always plenty of lube - first time or not lol
PS Oopps meant to attach this to original post not specifically Tomcats
Only really speaking from our own experience as we found it was easier for kitty to take what she was comfortable with in this position rather than others. Guess everyone is different and should go with what's comfortable for them "
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"Plenty of lube, slow and easy..
Have a few giggles if it doesn't work at the first attempt and try again
Missionary, cowgirl, doggy.. Try different positions and find out what's most comfortable for you "
^^^^^^^^^ this |
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I found that being incredibly horny and wet helped, start by teasing the outer area with a finger or tongue and throw in lots of oral and massage her pussy and also her anal area. Tons of lube and just gently try slowly and a little bit at a time, the more relaxed and distracted she is the better and then after that, she'll hopefully be begging for it again and again |
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"I found that being incredibly horny and wet helped, start by teasing the outer area with a finger or tongue and throw in lots of oral and massage her pussy and also her anal area. Tons of lube and just gently try slowly and a little bit at a time, the more relaxed and distracted she is the better and then after that, she'll hopefully be begging for it again and again "
We fortgot to say, its male that's looking for anal  |
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Never liked using lube..... When started I was in missionary position guess that's also how I found out I loved dp... But ... No pun intended I love it in doggy position now |
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As I enquired of Apples the other evening as she was administering one of her amazing blow jobs. .. ..
"What the F**k have you just shoved up my ass?"
To which she she soothingly whispered
"It's just a thumb and a finger"
The doctors response to Noel Cowards claim that he had a pain near the 'entrance to his passage' came to mind.
"My dear boy, that is an exit not an entrance "
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Being relaxed is the secret, if you tense up it hurts like hell, obviously a well lubed condom helps, and remember to keep using more lube, as it can dry out and get painful.
I always found an enema a few hours before was a good idea, |
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