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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lady's, here's an interesting question, & plz be very honest when answering, & genuine reason for this Q. If a male chatted to a woman on a site & they went fit a.meal, & had a few dates, & really liked each other, then he came around ti telling her, he's actually married, how would ye react?? |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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Well there is not enough information to judge this situation. It depends what site they met through, dating site, swinger site, sex site etc. and what was she looking for, a new relationship, nsa fun or a lover for the odd night. Also did she ever ask him if he's married and did he then lie to her? Respectively would she have refused to meet him in the first place knowing that he's married? etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing worse than being hurt by lies especially something like that. Since you didn't say hypothetical I hope your friend is ok and realises what a waste of space he is |
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By *squaredCouple
over a year ago
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"Well there is not enough information to judge this situation. It depends what site they met through, dating site, swinger site, sex site etc. and what was she looking for, a new relationship, nsa fun or a lover for the odd night. Also did she ever ask him if he's married and did he then lie to her? Respectively would she have refused to meet him in the first place knowing that he's married? etc."
Agree 100% depends on site, what im looking for & if i asked were u married & u lied. The dates thing would throw me sure if married would u not b fearful of getting caught hence dinner dates seem odd.
I was lied to, i had asked direct question several times, fuming when i found out until i learned circumstances & had time to chill. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well there is not enough information to judge this situation. It depends what site they met through, dating site, swinger site, sex site etc. and what was she looking for, a new relationship, nsa fun or a lover for the odd night. Also did she ever ask him if he's married and did he then lie to her? Respectively would she have refused to meet him in the first place knowing that he's married? etc.
Agree 100% depends on site, what im looking for & if i asked were u married & u lied. The dates thing would throw me sure if married would u not b fearful of getting caught hence dinner dates seem odd.
I was lied to, i had asked direct question several times, fuming when i found out until i learned circumstances & had time to chill."
Ahhh maybe it's just me but if you chat to someone for a bit and meet reardless of site, there ample time to be upfront after meeting for first time. It comes back to honesty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Female here dumb the guy ,, he's lieing is say to his wife lieing to u ,,, you need to ask yourself this can he ever be trusted to tell you the truth since after all he lied to you from the start get rid of him you deserve better a relationship based on lies does not work you will only get hurt dump him and move on plenty more Single guys out there who can tell the truth   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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id be upset . I never get involved with attached people , I dont care what the excuse is , if your unhappy in a marriage , get a divorce , like I did . To reel someone in and allow them to think the relationship is going somewhere only to turn round and reveal the truth once they have feelings for you is a dispicable thing to do . I am assuming that the woman wanted more than a quick shag here , and she would be well advised to just walk and leave him find someone who would be ok with the situation , but of course , that would necessitate him being truthful from the offset , a concept he obviously is not familiar with . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"id be upset . I never get involved with attached people , I dont care what the excuse is , if your unhappy in a marriage , get a divorce , like I did . To reel someone in and allow them to think the relationship is going somewhere only to turn round and reveal the truth once they have feelings for you is a dispicable thing to do . I am assuming that the woman wanted more than a quick shag here , and she would be well advised to just walk and leave him find someone who would be ok with the situation , but of course , that would necessitate him being truthful from the offset , a concept he obviously is not familiar with . "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"id be upset . I never get involved with attached people , I dont care what the excuse is , if your unhappy in a marriage , get a divorce , like I did . To reel someone in and allow them to think the relationship is going somewhere only to turn round and reveal the truth once they have feelings for you is a dispicable thing to do . I am assuming that the woman wanted more than a quick shag here , and she would be well advised to just walk and leave him find someone who would be ok with the situation , but of course , that would necessitate him being truthful from the offset , a concept he obviously is not familiar with . "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Actually...I'd probably pretend it didn't matter "because I love you so much. Can we ever be together, just the 2 of us?"
Until I had his wife's contact details. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually...I'd probably pretend it didn't matter "because I love you so much. Can we ever be together, just the 2 of us?"
Until I had his wife's contact details."
No need to lol. If he's on here I think Karma has just turned up and bit his arse  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it was me I'd be furious, I tend not to meet married or attached guy's and if I have and found out at a later date I would no longer meet them as this is about trust and discretion.
1. I could never trust you again.
2. Discretion is obviously not your strong point either putting it all over the forums. |
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By *-ManMan
over a year ago
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Married and cheating-send him on, no if's or buts
Still married but separated/stuck in a dead marriage etc.- He should of been honest from the start but maybe there's wiggle room, depends on the circumstances |
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