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Bisexual lifestyle..... Yay or nah?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is being a Bisexual guy a massive turn off/on in general to the women / couples?
Feeling like there's no place for it on this site. Stumped at the minute. 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There's a place for it here allright. It's always better to be honest and upfront with people. You will find the right people eventually "
Yeah I don't see the point in lying about it. Rather be straight up(excuse the pun) about it  |
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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Is being a Bisexual guy a massive turn off/on in general to the women / couples?
Feeling like there's no place for it on this site. Stumped at the minute.
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Not sure why you feel as you do. It's not been my experience of the site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is being a Bisexual guy a massive turn off/on in general to the women / couples?
Feeling like there's no place for it on this site. Stumped at the minute.
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Lots of people here totaly accept bisexual guys .
Others do not and are fully entiled to their opinions, beats the hyprocrites who bash bis then accidentaly fall onto cock at parties  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is being a Bisexual guy a massive turn off/on in general to the women / couples?
Feeling like there's no place for it on this site. Stumped at the minute.
Not sure why you feel as you do. It's not been my experience of the site"
Think it's just from people on here, in the fact that they don't wanna engage with me. Weather it's for being Bisexual I just don't know. Hopefully I'm wrong.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is being a Bisexual guy a massive turn off/on in general to the women / couples?
Feeling like there's no place for it on this site. Stumped at the minute.
Lots of people here totaly accept bisexual guys .
Others do not and are fully entiled to their opinions, beats the hyprocrites who bash bis then accidentaly fall onto cock at parties "
Yea of course everyone definitely entitled to there own views and opinions not arguing that at all. Just something I put out there to see maybe for my own piece of mind.
Haha! Oh I'm sure there are a few out there who are exactly like that... No doubt about it!  |
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It's a thorny issue
I see a lot of "sorry, bi guys not for us" on quite a few profiles, but very few when the gender is reversed.
I think some straight men feel that bi guys cant play straight if the other guy is. or maybe they've given a bi guy a chance and he said he could play straight and didn't.
all parties should be honest, if you dont like bi guys, fair enough. if you dont mind em being in the same room but it's not what you're into, they should respect that too.
as long as everyone knows where they stand and respects each other there should be no problems.
in a perfect world eh? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's a thorny issue
I see a lot of "sorry, bi guys not for us" on quite a few profiles, but very few when the gender is reversed.
I think some straight men feel that bi guys cant play straight if the other guy is. or maybe they've given a bi guy a chance and he said he could play straight and didn't.
all parties should be honest, if you dont like bi guys, fair enough. if you dont mind em being in the same room but it's not what you're into, they should respect that too.
as long as everyone knows where they stand and respects each other there should be no problems.
in a perfect world eh?
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Totally agree! You've summed it up in 1 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is being a Bisexual guy a massive turn off/on in general to the women / couples?
Feeling like there's no place for it on this site. Stumped at the minute.
Lots of people here totaly accept bisexual guys .
Others do not and are fully entiled to their opinions, beats the hyprocrites who bash bis then accidentaly fall onto cock at parties "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There was a thread a while ago and bi mmf was very much on the wish list of many ladies here.... Lots of profiles also looking for bi males only...
Keep looking... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok so when i first came to fab i spoke to a couple who told me i could pretty much forget about meeting other couples or females as most just don't want anything to do with bi guys. Now they weren't being rude it was just from their conversations with others so i then considered starting a male profile but after another conversation with a single female who told me that I would be mad to hide my bi side.
she and many others saw it as an added kink and as long as the wishes of all partaking in bedroom fun are respected then it doesn't matter what your label is. As an obviously bi guy there are certain thing i prefer not to do and so far that has been respected for the most part.
Simply put in the swinging game you will be in close proximity to people who have kinks that do nothing for you but as long as you respect there kink/fetish and just step aside all will work out just fine |
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"Is being a Bisexual guy a massive turn off/on in general to the women / couples?
Feeling like there's no place for it on this site. Stumped at the minute.
Not sure why you feel as you do. It's not been my experience of the site
Think it's just from people on here, in the fact that they don't wanna engage with me. Weather it's for being Bisexual I just don't know. Hopefully I'm wrong.
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why care? |
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By *arkedMan
over a year ago
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"Ok so when i first came to fab i spoke to a couple who told me i could pretty much forget about meeting other couples or females as most just don't want anything to do with bi guys. Now they weren't being rude it was just from their conversations with others so i then considered starting a male profile but after another conversation with a single female who told me that I would be mad to hide my bi side.
she and many others saw it as an added kink and as long as the wishes of all partaking in bedroom fun are respected then it doesn't matter what your label is. As an obviously bi guy there are certain thing i prefer not to do and so far that has been respected for the most part.
Simply put in the swinging game you will be in close proximity to people who have kinks that do nothing for you but as long as you respect there kink/fetish and just step aside all will work out just fine "
I totally agree: at every meet (be it 2 people having a m&g over coffee, or an organised party of a 100 or so) what matters isn't "who's not into what": but that others respect it |
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I'm a bisexual guy who has had plenty of meets with women and even had bi guys bring there female fuck buddies around for fun, so in my experience I have found it good to display the fact you are bi, just add in profile or in convocations with couples you are willing to play safe (if you are of course) And as a side note you'd be surprised how many ("straight") guys I have met from here just wanting sucking off while the Mrs is out or away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a bisexual guy who has had plenty of meets with women and even had bi guys bring there female fuck buddies around for fun, so in my experience I have found it good to display the fact you are bi, just add in profile or in convocations with couples you are willing to play safe (if you are of course) And as a side note you'd be surprised how many ("straight") guys I have met from here just wanting sucking off while the Mrs is out or away."
Just in your side note, maybe 60/70% of the guys who contact me say they are straight and I've questioned a few in why they don't just say the are bi. Most say its because they think it cuts their chances with females in half if they sai they are bi and also there is still an element if shame to admitting your in someway into other guys. It would be interesting and pretty informative to hear from the fairer sex on this one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To me, a bi male is no different to a straight male - if my partner and I are meeting another man, boundaries will be discussed and we expect him to be as respectful of ours as we will be of his.
Surely this goes for any meet, regardless of the orientation of the players. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely a place for it here, granted some people may not be into it but if everyone liked everyone else the world would be such a boring place! I for one have no issues whatsoever with bi guys I sometimes think they've more to offer than some straight guys!  |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
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"To me, a bi male is no different to a straight male - if my partner and I are meeting another man, boundaries will be discussed and we expect him to be as respectful of ours as we will be of his.
Surely this goes for any meet, regardless of the orientation of the players."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love bi guys.
Always have and feel very comfortable in their company. Pity some won't or feel that they cant openly express themselves on here.  "
agreed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To me, a bi male is no different to a straight male - if my partner and I are meeting another man, boundaries will be discussed and we expect him to be as respectful of ours as we will be of his.
Surely this goes for any meet, regardless of the orientation of the players."
This.
I'm bisexual, doesn't mean in going to jump for every cock I see. I'm obviously going to respect boundaries. You can't even get an invite to some events if you're bi. Ridiculous. We're not sexual deviants who can't act like a decent person once someone gets their cock out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To me, a bi male is no different to a straight male - if my partner and I are meeting another man, boundaries will be discussed and we expect him to be as respectful of ours as we will be of his.
Surely this goes for any meet, regardless of the orientation of the players.
This.
I'm bisexual, doesn't mean in going to jump for every cock I see. I'm obviously going to respect boundaries. You can't even get an invite to some events if you're bi. Ridiculous. We're not sexual deviants who can't act like a decent person once someone gets their cock out "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To me, a bi male is no different to a straight male - if my partner and I are meeting another man, boundaries will be discussed and we expect him to be as respectful of ours as we will be of his.
Surely this goes for any meet, regardless of the orientation of the players.
This.
I'm bisexual, doesn't mean in going to jump for every cock I see. I'm obviously going to respect boundaries. You can't even get an invite to some events if you're bi. Ridiculous. We're not sexual deviants who can't act like a decent person once someone gets their cock out "
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The thing I found when I told some people I was bi is they jyst couldnt understand how u can like both, people have preferences if they want straight guys only thats fine, some only want bi guys , |
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