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So when you are reading this bare in mind they are all fictitious characters and any similarity are purely coincidental!
So I keeps hearing from my friends ohh she is madly in love with him so on so forth, then weeks later same girl is madly in love with someone else, but it goes as far as changing their life habits for other person.... So I'm here wondering wtf? Surely we can fall in love with someone but we can fall in and out of love like a yoyo that mist be fucking exhausting! Especially on a swinging site
Maybe those are here for wrong reasons and if you look around they seem to be everywhere  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"So when you are reading this bare in mind they are all fictitious characters and any similarity are purely coincidental!
So I keeps hearing from my friends ohh she is madly in love with him so on so forth, then weeks later same girl is madly in love with someone else, but it goes as far as changing their life habits for other person.... So I'm here wondering wtf? Surely we can fall in love with someone but we can fall in and out of love like a yoyo that mist be fucking exhausting! Especially on a swinging site
Maybe those are here for wrong reasons and if you look around they seem to be everywhere "
It seems to be going around alright  |
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over a year ago
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I think you're trying to ask if it's possible to fall in and out of love very quickly with a string of people. Personally I'd say not. It's quite an immature teenagery view of love, or perhaps just a misinterpretation of it.
I suspect someone who does this has some kind of personal problem to resolve. It doesn't seem very healthy to me. |
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heres a novel suggestion ......worry about yourself and pay no attention to other peoples business ... you will find life here to be better . Best wishes . |
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"So when you are reading this bare in mind they are all fictitious characters and any similarity are purely coincidental!
So I keeps hearing from my friends ohh she is madly in love with him so on so forth, then weeks later same girl is madly in love with someone else, but it goes as far as changing their life habits for other person.... So I'm here wondering wtf? Surely we can fall in love with someone but we can fall in and out of love like a yoyo that mist be fucking exhausting! Especially on a swinging site
Maybe those are here for wrong reasons and if you look around they seem to be everywhere "
Over the years during my time on sites, I have met lots of people women and men who admit to getting into relationships with other swingers.
Many times these relationships do not last, some however do , leople can meet life partners anywhere. |
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"heres a novel suggestion ......worry about yourself and pay no attention to other peoples business ... you will find life here to be better . Best wishes . "
Well fact of the matter is we all by nature mind other people business even if you say you don't, unless of course you are a hypocrite in which case you will never realise you do, but by the simple fact of that novel you minding someone else business |
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"So when you are reading this bare in mind they are all fictitious characters and any similarity are purely coincidental!
So I keeps hearing from my friends ohh she is madly in love with him so on so forth, then weeks later same girl is madly in love with someone else, but it goes as far as changing their life habits for other person.... So I'm here wondering wtf? Surely we can fall in love with someone but we can fall in and out of love like a yoyo that mist be fucking exhausting! Especially on a swinging site
Maybe those are here for wrong reasons and if you look around they seem to be everywhere
Over the years during my time on sites, I have met lots of people women and men who admit to getting into relationships with other swingers.
Many times these relationships do not last, some however do , leople can meet life partners anywhere."
That is very true |
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Some people have never experienced true love and end up chasing their tails trying to find it. On a law of averages alot of people will never experience reciprocated true love. These are the truely unlucky people in life. |
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over a year ago
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I guess it depends on how you define love and how you receive love and how you give love. To say that falling in and out of love so quickly is infatuation is not fair because the feelings could be very real for the people involved. |
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I love my kids & family but Iv never been in love & don't think I will. I'm certainly not looking for it either. A lot of my single friends are looking (desperately) for love but mistake it for crushes & infatuation. I'm happy with my life just as it is & don't feel unlucky in any way. Good company, friends & family are all I need & of course I get my physical needs met whether it's here on fab or elsewhere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"WTF??
What you trying to say?? i'm confused cause i know i ain't d*unk taught it was only me tuna haha "
Ye are confused cauz ye aren't lookin for lurrrvvveeee |
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over a year ago
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Your 'friend' is confusing love with lust! They also sound like they have a mirroring personality. They either want to be liked so much they mirror people they admire, or have a weak sense of self image and copy someone they think betters them in the hope of being better...like them. |
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"I think you're trying to ask if it's possible to fall in and out of love very quickly with a string of people. Personally I'd say not. It's quite an immature teenagery view of love, or perhaps just a misinterpretation of it.
I suspect someone who does this has some kind of personal problem to resolve. It doesn't seem very healthy to me. "
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There's 3 to 4 individuals on here that can fall into the category of selfish narcissistic individuals who tell women they love them but just playing games...
These men have issue's..
lust maybe but not love..
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"There's 3 to 4 individuals on here that can fall into the category of selfish narcissistic individuals who tell women they love them but just playing games...
These men have issue's..
lust maybe but not love..
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I think the women who fall for them to be just as bad honestly!!
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"There's 3 to 4 individuals on here that can fall into the category of selfish narcissistic individuals who tell women they love them but just playing games...
These men have issue's..
lust maybe but not love..
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believe me its not just the men on here who have issues. |
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"There's 3 to 4 individuals on here that can fall into the category of selfish narcissistic individuals who tell women they love them but just playing games...
These men have issue's..
lust maybe but not love..
I think the women who fall for them to be just as bad honestly!!
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Any woman here who is fooled by talk of love into having sex with a guy - seems to me she doesn't belong on a swinging site |
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"There's 3 to 4 individuals on here that can fall into the category of selfish narcissistic individuals who tell women they love them but just playing games...
These men have issue's..
lust maybe but not love..
I think the women who fall for them to be just as bad honestly!!
Any woman here who is fooled by talk of love into having sex with a guy - seems to me she doesn't belong on a swinging site "
Yes....This exactly!!^^^^^  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's 3 to 4 individuals on here that can fall into the category of selfish narcissistic individuals who tell women they love them but just playing games...
These men have issue's..
lust maybe but not love..
believe me its not just the men on here who have issues."
I'm with you on that one hun |
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"There's 3 to 4 individuals on here that can fall into the category of selfish narcissistic individuals who tell women they love them but just playing games...
These men have issue's..
lust maybe but not love..
I think the women who fall for them to be just as bad honestly!!
Any woman here who is fooled by talk of love into having sex with a guy - seems to me she doesn't belong on a swinging site
Yes....This exactly!!^^^^^ "
I agree but what about the men telling the women what they want to hear? Given them the ideas an hopes,making them believe there the one's??
I agree women can be just as bad but again there are individuals on this site that keep getting away with it...
I just feel sorry for there next victim's as obviously these women can get attached emotionally an not realise there just been taking for a ride to satisfy the man's ego for a time until boredom sets in...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's 3 to 4 individuals on here that can fall into the category of selfish narcissistic individuals who tell women they love them but just playing games...
These men have issue's..
lust maybe but not love..
believe me its not just the men on here who have issues.
I'm with you on that one hun "
That is from my own experience on here it annoy me when us all men are tarred with the same brush,I'm not been mean when i say this but in my experience ladys can play games to thats all im saying on the matter in hand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This thread is full of sideswipe and digs, if people have an issue with somebody why can't they just spit it out instead of back slapping eachother.
Men and women are equally as bad |
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"There's 3 to 4 individuals on here that can fall into the category of selfish narcissistic individuals who tell women they love them but just playing games...
These men have issue's..
lust maybe but not love..
believe me its not just the men on here who have issues."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's 3 to 4 individuals on here that can fall into the category of selfish narcissistic individuals who tell women they love them but just playing games...
These men have issue's..
lust maybe but not love..
I think the women who fall for them to be just as bad honestly!!
Any woman here who is fooled by talk of love into having sex with a guy - seems to me she doesn't belong on a swinging site
Yes....This exactly!!^^^^^
I agree but what about the men telling the women what they want to hear? Given them the ideas an hopes,making them believe there the one's??
I agree women can be just as bad but again there are individuals on this site that keep getting away with it...
I just feel sorry for there next victim's as obviously these women can get attached emotionally an not realise there just been taking for a ride to satisfy the man's ego for a time until boredom sets in...
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This applies to anyone, male or female, on or off the internet. People who are not able to detach sex and emotion should avoid "no-strings". |
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"There's 3 to 4 individuals on here that can fall into the category of selfish narcissistic individuals who tell women they love them but just playing games...
These men have issue's..
lust maybe but not love..
I think the women who fall for them to be just as bad honestly!!
Any woman here who is fooled by talk of love into having sex with a guy - seems to me she doesn't belong on a swinging site
Yes....This exactly!!^^^^^
I agree but what about the men telling the women what they want to hear? Given them the ideas an hopes,making them believe there the one's??
I agree women can be just as bad but again there are individuals on this site that keep getting away with it...
I just feel sorry for there next victim's as obviously these women can get attached emotionally an not realise there just been taking for a ride to satisfy the man's ego for a time until boredom sets in...
This applies to anyone, male or female, on or off the internet. People who are not able to detach sex and emotion should avoid "no-strings"."
Wasn't a no strings relationship and I agree no strings only on a swing site that's why I left and thanks for your advice |
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"This thread is full of sideswipe and digs, if people have an issue with somebody why can't they just spit it out instead of back slapping eachother.
Men and women are equally as bad "
I couldn't agree with you more!
But people get confused and stories get twisted and people get hurt and it's like telling a child the fire is hot they gotta touch it anyway....  |
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"There's 3 to 4 individuals on here that can fall into the category of selfish narcissistic individuals who tell women they love them but just playing games...
These men have issue's..
lust maybe but not love..
I think the women who fall for them to be just as bad honestly!!
Any woman here who is fooled by talk of love into having sex with a guy - seems to me she doesn't belong on a swinging site
Yes....This exactly!!^^^^^
I agree but what about the men telling the women what they want to hear? Given them the ideas an hopes,making them believe there the one's??
I agree women can be just as bad but again there are individuals on this site that keep getting away with it...
I just feel sorry for there next victim's as obviously these women can get attached emotionally an not realise there just been taking for a ride to satisfy the man's ego for a time until boredom sets in...
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Are women really that gullible?  Surely to God they'd be aware that some men will say anything for the ride.
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I have tonight's winning lotto numbers if any lady who disagrees with the above would like to contact me.  |
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"There's 3 to 4 individuals on here that can fall into the category of selfish narcissistic individuals who tell women they love them but just playing games...
These men have issue's..
lust maybe but not love..
I think the women who fall for them to be just as bad honestly!!
Any woman here who is fooled by talk of love into having sex with a guy - seems to me she doesn't belong on a swinging site
Yes....This exactly!!^^^^^
I agree but what about the men telling the women what they want to hear? Given them the ideas an hopes,making them believe there the one's??
I agree women can be just as bad but again there are individuals on this site that keep getting away with it...
I just feel sorry for there next victim's as obviously these women can get attached emotionally an not realise there just been taking for a ride to satisfy the man's ego for a time until boredom sets in...
Are women really that gullible? Surely to God they'd be aware that some men will say anything for the ride.
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I have tonight's winning lotto numbers if any lady who disagrees with the above would like to contact me. "
Yes, some women are foolish enough to trust men not to lie to them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd be happy out if someone or even a few here fell in love with me...
It would be a pleasant change from them drooling and just using me for sex.... "
You poor thing... |
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"I'd be happy out if someone or even a few here fell in love with me...
It would be a pleasant change from them drooling and just using me for sex.... "
I hate that alright. I bet it makes you feel all cheap and duurty! |
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"This thread is full of sideswipe and digs, if people have an issue with somebody why can't they just spit it out instead of back slapping eachother.
Men and women are equally as bad "
I never now what ur posts say cause I only ever get half way threw then state at ur arse haha  |
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"This thread is full of sideswipe and digs, if people have an issue with somebody why can't they just spit it out instead of back slapping eachother.
Men and women are equally as bad I never now what ur posts say cause I only ever get half way threw then state at ur arse haha "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"WTF??
What you trying to say?? i'm confused cause i know i ain't d*unk taught it was only me tuna haha
Ye are confused cauz ye aren't lookin for lurrrvvveeee haha I hope that's what it is haha "
Oh I definitely ain't looking for it and wouldn't trust anyone from here for starters lol |
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It is quite funny looking at some of the hypocrisy on some of the replys...
Not looking for love eh...
Well if not why twist stories to make yourself look like a victim?
There's always 2 sides to a story an then there's the truth!!! |
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"It is quite funny looking at some of the hypocrisy on some of the replys...
Not looking for love eh...
Well if not why twist stories to make yourself look like a victim?
There's always 2 sides to a story an then there's the truth!!! "
well im def no hypocrite and speaking the truth from my experience.  |
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"It is quite funny looking at some of the hypocrisy on some of the replys...
Not looking for love eh...
Well if not why twist stories to make yourself look like a victim?
There's always 2 sides to a story an then there's the truth!!! "
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"It is quite funny looking at some of the hypocrisy on some of the replys...
Not looking for love eh...
Well if not why twist stories to make yourself look like a victim?
There's always 2 sides to a story an then there's the truth!!! "
Exactly! |
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"It is quite funny looking at some of the hypocrisy on some of the replys...
Not looking for love eh...
Well if not why twist stories to make yourself look like a victim?
There's always 2 sides to a story an then there's the truth!!! "
what is the truth? |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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"I don't know if I've ever been properly in love, maybe if it happens I will understand u love yourself too much that's why haha "
How very dare you Ash! I make love to myself most days (needs must), does that count? |
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"I don't know if I've ever been properly in love, maybe if it happens I will understand u love yourself too much that's why haha
How very dare you Ash! I make love to myself most days (needs must), does that count? "
See, there you go, confusing sex with love again |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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you can fall for the next person you meet whether its on fab in a bar even in tescos we are only human after all and to make out that there is something wrong with falling for someone is a bit weird. yes there are serial fall in lovers but unless they are causing you any harm then let them off. as for those that lie conive and dupe others they are just users who play with people's emotions and are just scum simple as that. |
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"you can fall for the next person you meet whether its on fab in a bar even in tescos we are only human after all and to make out that there is something wrong with falling for someone is a bit weird. yes there are serial fall in lovers but unless they are causing you any harm then let them off. as for those that lie conive and dupe others they are just users who play with people's emotions and are just scum simple as that."
comon we go violate tesco for the laugh haha
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By *aid backMan
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"you can fall for the next person you meet whether its on fab in a bar even in tescos we are only human after all and to make out that there is something wrong with falling for someone is a bit weird. yes there are serial fall in lovers but unless they are causing you any harm then let them off. as for those that lie conive and dupe others they are just users who play with people's emotions and are just scum simple as that. comon we go violate tesco for the laugh haha "
fresh fruit section or meat counter ? |
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By *ilderMan
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"I don't know if I've ever been properly in love, maybe if it happens I will understand u love yourself too much that's why haha
How very dare you Ash! I make love to myself most days (needs must), does that count?
See, there you go, confusing sex with love again"
Trust me I know the difference. |
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"you can fall for the next person you meet whether its on fab in a bar even in tescos we are only human after all and to make out that there is something wrong with falling for someone is a bit weird. yes there are serial fall in lovers but unless they are causing you any harm then let them off. as for those that lie conive and dupe others they are just users who play with people's emotions and are just scum simple as that. comon we go violate tesco for the laugh haha
fresh fruit section or meat counter ?"
I was thinking more holding onto the drink Isle without making any of the bottles falls adds a bit to the excitement haha |
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"I think you're trying to ask if it's possible to fall in and out of love very quickly with a string of people. Personally I'd say not. It's quite an immature teenagery view of love, or perhaps just a misinterpretation of it.
I suspect someone who does this has some kind of personal problem to resolve. It doesn't seem very healthy to me. "
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