Need some advise guys,iv been seeing a girl for a about 4 months now,she's abit old fashion and prefers to keep herself to herself, I have hinted a couple of times that I'd be turned on seeing her with another guy but she didn't seem interested cause she would feel like a slut "her words" so I just let it go not wanting to be pushy,this is the part I dont get she was out last night had a few drinks then came back to mine and says out of nowhere she would only let it happen if she was blindfolded tied to the bed and I sneaked someone in without her knowing? So basically I would have to get someone willing to sneak in while she's tied up not saying a single word so she thinks it's just me??? Any advise on why she wants to not know? |
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over a year ago
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"Need some advise guys,iv been seeing a girl for a about 4 months now,she's abit old fashion and prefers to keep herself to herself, I have hinted a couple of times that I'd be turned on seeing her with another guy but she didn't seem interested cause she would feel like a slut "her words" so I just let it go not wanting to be pushy,this is the part I dont get she was out last night had a few drinks then came back to mine and says out of nowhere she would only let it happen if she was blindfolded tied to the bed and I sneaked someone in without her knowing? So basically I would have to get someone willing to sneak in while she's tied up not saying a single word so she thinks it's just me??? Any advise on why she wants to not know?"
Because she's in denial about her desires, as they don't fit in with the image she likes to have of herself.
My advice? Don't do this, this girl is conflicted about sex and when the inevitable fallout happens, will most likely turn it around to be all your fault. |
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Mate I wouldn't touch that fantasy with a barge pole until she has tried other things first. If it goes wrong and she freaks out...clink clink. Mountjoy  |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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This sounds all wrong!
If she doesn't agree to it when she is sober she's not up for it.
She might have that tied up fantasy however I wouldn't go there unless she agrees first to meet another guy with you there and her seeing the guy etc.
You two have to talk about that much more and you need her commitments and consent if not you're the one who's fucked in the end.... |
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"Need some advise guys,iv been seeing a girl for a about 4 months now,she's abit old fashion and prefers to keep herself to herself, I have hinted a couple of times that I'd be turned on seeing her with another guy but she didn't seem interested cause she would feel like a slut "her words" so I just let it go not wanting to be pushy,this is the part I dont get she was out last night had a few drinks then came back to mine and says out of nowhere she would only let it happen if she was blindfolded tied to the bed and I sneaked someone in without her knowing? So basically I would have to get someone willing to sneak in while she's tied up not saying a single word so she thinks it's just me??? Any advise on why she wants to not know?"
Have you asked her when she is sober . Maybe it is a fantasy of hers and knowing you are there to Keep her safe |
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By *ark the manMan
over a year ago
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"Mate I wouldn't touch that fantasy with a barge pole until she has tried other things first. If it goes wrong and she freaks out...clink clink. Mountjoy "
Yep and then its Bubba time and guess who will be tied down blindfolded and fucked ........
And Bubba dont sneak around either! |
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"Mate I wouldn't touch that fantasy with a barge pole until she has tried other things first. If it goes wrong and she freaks out...clink clink. Mountjoy
Yep and then its Bubba time and guess who will be tied down blindfolded and fucked ........
And Bubba dont sneak around either!"
But it's not gay in prison...  |
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By *ark the manMan
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"Mate I wouldn't touch that fantasy with a barge pole until she has tried other things first. If it goes wrong and she freaks out...clink clink. Mountjoy
Yep and then its Bubba time and guess who will be tied down blindfolded and fucked ........
And Bubba dont sneak around either!
But it's not gay in prison... "
Yep all straight and innocent in the jailhouse.
Lawyer Fucked me !  |
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if she's tied up, why would the 'guest' have to sneak around?
