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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know this topic has probably been discussed to death but anyway.
I understand that some guys wont put bi in their profiles due to some couples / fems not wanting bi males.
however when ya keep getting messages from "straight" guys willing to be fucked for the first time ever just to get with a couple or to get to the fem of the couple kinda makes ya wonder how desperate is that?
I know its tough on here for single guys but surely its easier to get laid in the real world then to get fucked in the ass just to get at the fem?
Hope this makes sense lol.
Thoughts? |
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over a year ago
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"I have guys telling me there not bi but will put it on there profile thinking it will get to meet cpls quicker lol mind boggles  "
Is it not the opposite? Most couples say no bi guys so seems they are pigeon holing them into a small category by lying that way |
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"I have guys telling me there not bi but will put it on there profile thinking it will get to meet cpls quicker lol mind boggles "
Im not bi but i met a couple at the last social we had a laugh and her husband and i fucked her all night never in my life did i think id do it but thats it ticked off my list not saying i wouldnt do it again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know this topic has probably been discussed to death but anyway.
I understand that some guys wont put bi in their profiles due to some couples / fems not wanting bi males.
however when ya keep getting messages from "straight" guys willing to be fucked for the first time ever just to get with a couple or to get to the fem of the couple kinda makes ya wonder how desperate is that?
I know its tough on here for single guys but surely its easier to get laid in the real world then to get fucked in the ass just to get at the fem?
Hope this makes sense lol.
Thoughts?"
I can only speak for myself. I have been straight all my life. ie attracted to women. Lately I've started admiring cocks and have got curious about having a play with them and that I've done. Would I do it again? Probably yes but it in no way came anywhere near the fun with women. To be bisexual one has to be attracted in every way to both sexes. I have zero attraction, emotionally or romantically in a guy. I just like a bit of cock interaction. What that makes me I don't really care.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bi does not mean the guy is going to fuck you. We had a bi guy once but he had a dick about the size of my pinky finger so we never called him back. He more just like to watch and and stuff. My wife said I don't what that guy was doing down there but he was good. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Being naked in the same room or partaking in a mmf doesnt make ya bi.
my point is straight guys claiming to be willing to suck cock or be fucked by a man just to get a meet.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being naked in the same room or partaking in a mmf doesnt make ya bi.
my point is straight guys claiming to be willing to suck cock or be fucked by a man just to get a meet.
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No way would I do that. I would take part in a mmf. But I wouldn't 'take one for the team' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know this topic has probably been discussed to death but anyway.
I understand that some guys wont put bi in their profiles due to some couples / fems not wanting bi males.
however when ya keep getting messages from "straight" guys willing to be fucked for the first time ever just to get with a couple or to get to the fem of the couple kinda makes ya wonder how desperate is that?
I know its tough on here for single guys but surely its easier to get laid in the real world then to get fucked in the ass just to get at the fem?
Hope this makes sense lol.
Thoughts?
I can only speak for myself. I have been straight all my life. ie attracted to women. Lately I've started admiring cocks and have got curious about having a play with them and that I've done. Would I do it again? Probably yes but it in no way came anywhere near the fun with women. To be bisexual one has to be attracted in every way to both sexes. I have zero attraction, emotionally or romantically in a guy. I just like a bit of cock interaction. What that makes me I don't really care. "
Bi curious. Or Bi confused maybe? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being naked in the same room or partaking in a mmf doesnt make ya bi."
"my point is straight guys claiming to be willing to suck cock or be fucked by a man just to get a meet.
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I do not believe that a straight guy would ever be willing to get fucked in the arse by another guy just to get some action with a lady.
Most likely you have received a message from a guy that doesn't want to admit on his profile that he's bi or bi curious. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know this topic has probably been discussed to death but anyway.
I understand that some guys wont put bi in their profiles due to some couples / fems not wanting bi males.
however when ya keep getting messages from "straight" guys willing to be fucked for the first time ever just to get with a couple or to get to the fem of the couple kinda makes ya wonder how desperate is that?
I know its tough on here for single guys but surely its easier to get laid in the real world then to get fucked in the ass just to get at the fem?
Hope this makes sense lol.
Thoughts?
I can only speak for myself. I have been straight all my life. ie attracted to women. Lately I've started admiring cocks and have got curious about having a play with them and that I've done. Would I do it again? Probably yes but it in no way came anywhere near the fun with women. To be bisexual one has to be attracted in every way to both sexes. I have zero attraction, emotionally or romantically in a guy. I just like a bit of cock interaction. What that makes me I don't really care. Bi curious. Or Bi confused maybe?"
There's no confusion. Just because I've jerked a guy off doesn't make me bisexual or in the least bit confused. It's just a new play toy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sick to death of getting messages off straight guys! have you used the filters?
You can't filter by sexuality
As in block if they annoying you!!"
If I block guys then bi/gay men can't get through to me. So I'm not going to do that. If you could block by sexuality, it'd be perfect |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I can only speak for myself. I have been straight all my life. ie attracted to women. Lately I've started admiring cocks and have got curious about having a play with them and that I've done. Would I do it again? Probably yes but it in no way came anywhere near the fun with women. To be bisexual one has to be attracted in every way to both sexes. I have zero attraction, emotionally or romantically in a guy. I just like a bit of cock interaction. What that makes me I don't really care. "
It makes you a human being. Life can rarely be explained in a 0 1 system. Human sexuality is far more complex than just being heterosexual, gay or bi (with equal attraction to both genders).
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale
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"Being naked in the same room or partaking in a mmf doesnt make ya bi.
my point is straight guys claiming to be willing to suck cock or be fucked by a man just to get a meet.
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Any lad willing to take one for the team isn't straight, he just has straight on his profile because more than likly he is bisexual and some single females or couples arent looking for a bi male to take part |
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"I'm sick to death of getting messages off straight guys! have you used the filters?
You can't filter by sexuality
As in block if they annoying you!!"
i think you should take lizzies advice its the easiest way to deal with the problem you are havin |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm sick to death of getting messages off straight guys! have you used the filters?
You can't filter by sexuality
As in block if they annoying you!!
i think you should take lizzies advice its the easiest way to deal with the problem you are havin "
I've already answered why I won't be doing this |
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"I'm sick to death of getting messages off straight guys! have you used the filters?
You can't filter by sexuality
As in block if they annoying you!!
i think you should take lizzies advice its the easiest way to deal with the problem you are havin
I've already answered why I won't be doing this "
Liz means by hitting block on there profile not by using your filters to block them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sick to death of getting messages off straight guys! have you used the filters?
You can't filter by sexuality
As in block if they annoying you!!
i think you should take lizzies advice its the easiest way to deal with the problem you are havin
I've already answered why I won't be doing this
Liz means by hitting block on there profile not by using your filters to block them "
thanks Brutus. I just gave up lol! X  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sick to death of getting messages off straight guys! have you used the filters?
You can't filter by sexuality
As in block if they annoying you!!
i think you should take lizzies advice its the easiest way to deal with the problem you are havin
I've already answered why I won't be doing this
Liz means by hitting block on there profile not by using your filters to block them "
I just ignore and delete. Save my block button for far more serious things it's just annoying is all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm sick to death of getting messages off straight guys! have you used the filters?
You can't filter by sexuality
As in block if they annoying you!!
i think you should take lizzies advice its the easiest way to deal with the problem you are havin
I've already answered why I won't be doing this
Liz means by hitting block on there profile not by using your filters to block them "
Brutus I wouldn't waste my breath bud |
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"I'm sick to death of getting messages off straight guys! have you used the filters?
You can't filter by sexuality
As in block if they annoying you!!
i think you should take lizzies advice its the easiest way to deal with the problem you are havin
I've already answered why I won't be doing this
Liz means by hitting block on there profile not by using your filters to block them
I just ignore and delete. Save my block button for far more serious things it's just annoying is all"
Ah ok bud |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sick to death of getting messages off straight guys! have you used the filters?
You can't filter by sexuality
As in block if they annoying you!!
i think you should take lizzies advice its the easiest way to deal with the problem you are havin
I've already answered why I won't be doing this
Liz means by hitting block on there profile not by using your filters to block them
Brutus I wouldn't waste my breath bud"
Seriously, I've said nothing for a while now. Do you feel the need to comment on nearly every post I make? I'm finding it quite easy to ignore you but you seem to not be able to do the same, especially since you discovered I blocked you.
Grow up and accept that not everyone likes you. Please stop talking to me etc on here.
Also wouldn't waste your breath??
I misunderstood a post. I don't claim to be perfect or be 'king of fab' and know everything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sick to death of getting messages off straight guys! have you used the filters?
You can't filter by sexuality
As in block if they annoying you!!
i think you should take lizzies advice its the easiest way to deal with the problem you are havin
I've already answered why I won't be doing this
Liz means by hitting block on there profile not by using your filters to block them
Brutus I wouldn't waste my breath bud
Seriously, I've said nothing for a while now. Do you feel the need to comment on nearly every post I make? I'm finding it quite easy to ignore you but you seem to not be able to do the same, especially since you discovered I blocked you.
Grow up and accept that not everyone likes you. Please stop talking to me etc on here.
Also wouldn't waste your breath??
I misunderstood a post. I don't claim to be perfect or be 'king of fab' and know everything. "
Never claimed to be the king of fab, I was actually given the name king lim by another site user but it was before your time, I was commenting to Brutus so calm down |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sick to death of getting messages off straight guys! have you used the filters?
You can't filter by sexuality
As in block if they annoying you!!
i think you should take lizzies advice its the easiest way to deal with the problem you are havin
I've already answered why I won't be doing this
Liz means by hitting block on there profile not by using your filters to block them
Brutus I wouldn't waste my breath bud
Seriously, I've said nothing for a while now. Do you feel the need to comment on nearly every post I make? I'm finding it quite easy to ignore you but you seem to not be able to do the same, especially since you discovered I blocked you.
Grow up and accept that not everyone likes you. Please stop talking to me etc on here.
Also wouldn't waste your breath??
I misunderstood a post. I don't claim to be perfect or be 'king of fab' and know everything.
Never claimed to be the king of fab, I was actually given the name king lim by another site user but it was before your time, I was commenting to Brutus so calm down"
easy now ladies. King l is correct in saying the name was put on him by a fellow fabbed. Just move on now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It makes you a human being. Life can rarely be explained in a 0 1 system. Human sexuality is far more complex than just being heterosexual, gay or bi (with equal attraction to both genders).
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale
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Exactly. I would also argue that increased exposure to porn and sexual imagery increases same-sex attraction. Also, the current media climate whereby homo and bi-sexuality have been given the social stamp of approval (after being wrongly suppressed for so long) makes it easier for people to experiment with same-sex relations. The more people that do it, the more it becomes naturalized and less sstigmatised. As the poster said above, all it means is that you are human and that nature, as Kinsey re_arked, "is not to be divided into sheep and goats". It's riduculous to assert that a same-sex encounter makes you gay. Are you "straight" again if you have an encounter with the opposite sex ? Labels are for cans.
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"I'm sick to death of getting messages off straight guys! have you used the filters?
You can't filter by sexuality
As in block if they annoying you!!
i think you should take lizzies advice its the easiest way to deal with the problem you are havin
I've already answered why I won't be doing this
Liz means by hitting block on there profile not by using your filters to block them
Brutus I wouldn't waste my breath bud
Seriously, I've said nothing for a while now. Do you feel the need to comment on nearly every post I make? I'm finding it quite easy to ignore you but you seem to not be able to do the same, especially since you discovered I blocked you.
Grow up and accept that not everyone likes you. Please stop talking to me etc on here.
Also wouldn't waste your breath??
I misunderstood a post. I don't claim to be perfect or be 'king of fab' and know everything.
Never claimed to be the king of fab, I was actually given the name king lim by another site user but it was before your time, I was commenting to Brutus so calm downeasy now ladies. King l is correct in saying the name was put on him by a fellow fabbed. Just move on now "
Fuck calm down lad " down with that sort of thing" careful now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It makes you a human being. Life can rarely be explained in a 0 1 system. Human sexuality is far more complex than just being heterosexual, gay or bi (with equal attraction to both genders).
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale
Exactly. I would also argue that increased exposure to porn and sexual imagery increases same-sex attraction. Also, the current media climate whereby homo and bi-sexuality have been given the social stamp of approval (after being wrongly suppressed for so long) makes it easier for people to experiment with same-sex relations. The more people that do it, the more it becomes naturalized and less sstigmatised. As the poster said above, all it means is that you are human and that nature, as Kinsey re_arked, "is not to be divided into sheep and goats". It's riduculous to assert that a same-sex encounter makes you gay. Are you "straight" again if you have an encounter with the opposite sex ? Labels are for cans.
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Increased exposure to porn and sexual imagery increases same-sex attraction?
What? If I watch a violent movie or play a violent video game am I more likely to kill someone? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It makes you a human being. Life can rarely be explained in a 0 1 system. Human sexuality is far more complex than just being heterosexual, gay or bi (with equal attraction to both genders).
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale
Exactly. I would also argue that increased exposure to porn and sexual imagery increases same-sex attraction. Also, the current media climate whereby homo and bi-sexuality have been given the social stamp of approval (after being wrongly suppressed for so long) makes it easier for people to experiment with same-sex relations. The more people that do it, the more it becomes naturalized and less sstigmatised. As the poster said above, all it means is that you are human and that nature, as Kinsey re_arked, "is not to be divided into sheep and goats". It's riduculous to assert that a same-sex encounter makes you gay. Are you "straight" again if you have an encounter with the opposite sex ? Labels are for cans.
Increased exposure to porn and sexual imagery increases same-sex attraction?
What? If I watch a violent movie or play a violent video game am I more likely to kill someone?"
I'd agree to some degree with the original comment. I can only assume watching porn coupled with all the pics on here have got me admiring cock and curious about a play. Similarly reading about and seeing threesomes etc etc. If one can't control themselves when it comes to something voilent, illegal or criminal that's a whole new ball game  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Put on him by fellow fabbers?
Now come on.
You make it sound like it was forced upon him lol.
Hold him down til we give him his new name someone kinda stuff.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Put on him by fellow fabbers?
Now come on.
You make it sound like it was forced upon him lol.
Hold him down til we give him his new name someone kinda stuff.
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It was given to me by a very sound couple from here if you must know |
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"I'm sick to death of getting messages off straight guys! have you used the filters?
You can't filter by sexuality
As in block if they annoying you!!
i think you should take lizzies advice its the easiest way to deal with the problem you are havin
I've already answered why I won't be doing this
Liz means by hitting block on there profile not by using your filters to block them
Brutus I wouldn't waste my breath bud
Seriously, I've said nothing for a while now. Do you feel the need to comment on nearly every post I make? I'm finding it quite easy to ignore you but you seem to not be able to do the same, especially since you discovered I blocked you.
Grow up and accept that not everyone likes you. Please stop talking to me etc on here.
Also wouldn't waste your breath??
I misunderstood a post. I don't claim to be perfect or be 'king of fab' and know everything.
Never claimed to be the king of fab, I was actually given the name king lim by another site user but it was before your time, I was commenting to Brutus so calm downeasy now ladies. King l is correct in saying the name was put on him by a fellow fabbed. Just move on now
He's just annoyed cause lim and you and Brutus were negative and dismissive of him when he had done nothing wrong but comment on the thread to explain it happens to him too.
But moving on is good advice and leaving him alone would be good advice too."
Show me where i was negative? ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Put on him by fellow fabbers?
Now come on.
You make it sound like it was forced upon him lol.
Hold him down til we give him his new name someone kinda stuff.
It was given to me by a very sound couple from here if you must know"
I know someone else picked it for ya, it was the term Lizzie used, it made me giggle, makes me think of you being wrestled to the ground and written all over |
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"Show me where i was negative? ?? "
I said negative AND dismissive. He had basically explained he is bisexual and gets messages from straight men that he would rather filter because he cant block all men who send him a message when they are horny.
Then you tell him to follow the liz girls advice and block them, which is dismissive of what he just said, so he explains that he already explained he cant follow her advice. You are dismissive again telling him to block them on the profile and he has to explain again why this isnt a real solution, meanwhile liz and lim say they gave up, and not to waste breath being negative.
He had just been on topic explaining that it happens to him and he sees no real solution for it other than bringing in a filter for sexuality. |
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Increased exposure to porn and sexual imagery increases same-sex attraction?
What? If I watch a violent movie or play a violent video game am I more likely to kill someone?
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That's like saying you are more likely to become a footballer after watching "Match of the Day". Sex is a lot more pleasurable than violence and most people's natural inclinations would be in the realm of wanting to have fun - rather than wanting to kill people (I hope !) My point is that, as another poster re_arked, "you can't filter sexuality" - the more cock you see, the more you are disposed to liking and accepting it, I think.
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"Show me where i was negative? ??
I said negative AND dismissive. He had basically explained he is bisexual and gets messages from straight men that he would rather filter because he cant block all men who send him a message when they are horny.
Then you tell him to follow the liz girls advice and block them, which is dismissive of what he just said, so he explains that he already explained he cant follow her advice. You are dismissive again telling him to block them on the profile and he has to explain again why this isnt a real solution, meanwhile liz and lim say they gave up, and not to waste breath being negative.
He had just been on topic explaining that it happens to him and he sees no real solution for it other than bringing in a filter for sexuality."
I was in no way dismissive or negative toward him i simply cleared up what liz was saying so if he didnt wanna take the advice that cool but his last reply was "
I just ignore and delete. Save my block button for far more serious things it's just annoying is all" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know this topic has probably been discussed to death but anyway.
I understand that some guys wont put bi in their profiles due to some couples / fems not wanting bi males.
however when ya keep getting messages from "straight" guys willing to be fucked for the first time ever just to get with a couple or to get to the fem of the couple kinda makes ya wonder how desperate is that?
I know its tough on here for single guys but surely its easier to get laid in the real world then to get fucked in the ass just to get at the fem?
Hope this makes sense lol.
Thoughts?
I can only speak for myself. I have been straight all my life. ie attracted to women. Lately I've started admiring cocks and have got curious about having a play with them and that I've done. Would I do it again? Probably yes but it in no way came anywhere near the fun with women. To be bisexual one has to be attracted in every way to both sexes. I have zero attraction, emotionally or romantically in a guy. I just like a bit of cock interaction. What that makes me I don't really care. "
I thought I was the only one.... Tbh I don't know hot to class it. Maybe I'm just slutty? Greedy? |
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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago
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Way too many lables in this place. I also get mails from guys but hey its not like i get hundreds every day so in the whole i ignore them but if i guy has messaged me and put a bit of effort in i will mail him back to say thanks but no thanks.
I have never played one on one with a guy. I have been in group scenes where a guy has touched me and im ok with that as i'm usually busy with his wife / girlfriend. I'm not attracted to guys in any shape or form but i am comfortable around other blokes as i have become more used to it and more comfortable with it over time. I ahve done 3somes, more somes up to multiples where there is just a mass of naked bodies in the room all having a good time, and with time you get more comfortable in the situation
Lots of girls like the idea of 2 bi guys, but even bi guys are different. Some are active, some are passive so some give and some take and some do both. So getting 2 guys that are comfortable enough with each other and suit each others needs is difficult hence so difficult for the girls that want the Bi MMF.
You only have to look at how popular some of the TS/TV's are in the hottest pics to see that it must be on peoples radars. Most are afraid to put it on their profile as it may make their task of finding someone even more difficult than it already is. I have met couples who are straight and who are bi and it really depends on the couple, place and time as to what goes on.
Every person or couple i have met have been different, and some i have met multiple times the play has been different. I'm comfortable around others, and very easy going so if some guy wants to suck me off while im busy with his wife then i don't have a big issue with that. it dont mean i will be doing it to him, but maybe it will tick a few fantasy's for the couple.
We are all adults here, we mostly are all looking for a good time, and some peoples idea of a good time is different to others. You just have to get lucky and find others that are looking for the same thing as you are.
Play safe, play fair, be nice to each other and you just never know how good it might be. |
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