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Not a cry for help but just want a understanding from it
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok I know I don't say to much on this but I feel like I want to say how disappointed I am with this site and hard and I mean so hard to find some genuine people that would be up for having a meet with me. As I said it's not a cry for help or attention it's just that I do think about what I do put in a message till send till a couple or a single woman and I get no response from anyone or if I do it does not progress at all. Im a doing something wrong?! I just don't know at all ? I'm a very decent and genuine guy and thought this would help me a lot as I don't time waste or anything but maybe it doesn't ? If there's any couple or single woman out there just message and we'll see what happens  . And one more thing I would like to say or even ask! Is the dogging scene or even ones that just like fun outside not exist round the co.down area e.g Newry, Newcastle, Belfast and so on. As I've been driving round the odd night hoping to come across someone but it just doesn't happen. So feel free to message me about that as well and give me some info if that's ok. It's just I don't want to feel that I've to lose faith in the site and quit as I really enjoy the site and would like some genuine people to bring me back till being happy with it and just to meet some genuine nice people. Thanks for reading fab community. 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok I know I don't say to much on this but I feel like I want to say how disappointed I am with this site and hard and I mean so hard to find some genuine people that would be up for having a meet with me. As I said it's not a cry for help or attention it's just that I do think about what I do put in a message till send till a couple or a single woman and I get no response from anyone or if I do it does not progress at all. Im a doing something wrong?! I just don't know at all ? I'm a very decent and genuine guy and thought this would help me a lot as I don't time waste or anything but maybe it doesn't ? If there's any couple or single woman out there just message and we'll see what happens . And one more thing I would like to say or even ask! Is the dogging scene or even ones that just like fun outside not exist round the co.down area e.g Newry, Newcastle, Belfast and so on. As I've been driving round the odd night hoping to come across someone but it just doesn't happen. So feel free to message me about that as well and give me some info if that's ok. It's just I don't want to feel that I've to lose faith in the site and quit as I really enjoy the site and would like some genuine people to bring me back till being happy with it and just to meet some genuine nice people. Thanks for reading fab community.
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Maybe the ladies u chat to just don't Fancy you....  |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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I can't believe I read all of that that must have been the most long winded why wont people meet me post ever. but as mistress x said maybe they just don't find you appealing but keep going you will find someone to meet soon enough |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just said what was in my head and just wanted to get it out that's all and must say it's better just getting it all and let everyone else think about it ? |
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"Just said what was in my head and just wanted to get it out that's all and must say it's better just getting it all and let everyone else think about it ? "
Don't you realise everyone on here only ever thinks about themselves? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yea I do realise that but just wanted people to know what I thought you know it'll prob not help me in anyway but I hope it does but we'll just have to see |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just said what was in my head and just wanted to get it out that's all and must say it's better just getting it all and let everyone else think about it ?
Don't you realise everyone on here only ever thinks about themselves? "
Not true.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know the answer.
Most of the women and couples on here are so far up the own geebags they cant see a way out.
Toss the lot of them pal.
Me & you gonna start a new forum and then ban those fools |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I still haven't read that but I bet it is good. I also have a tattoo of a bumble bee on my arse but it looks like an overweight wasp"
Is that not what they are??
Fat wasps.......
Thats a terrible thing to call the women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Right had a look at your profile and your doing better than a lot from what I can see. You've had repeat meets so shows someone was willing to come back for more. Pics are ok I'd get rid of the wipes looks like u were having a pedal n crank etc just keep on trying  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Right had a look at your profile and your doing better than a lot from what I can see. You've had repeat meets so shows someone was willing to come back for more. Pics are ok I'd get rid of the wipes looks like u were having a pedal n crank etc just keep on trying "
Tbh I find those kind of repeat veris offputting (not these ones in particular just in general). It's a bit too dog pissing on a lamp post to mark it's territory for me.
So I'd hide the first two. But that's just me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Right had a look at your profile and your doing better than a lot from what I can see. You've had repeat meets so shows someone was willing to come back for more. Pics are ok I'd get rid of the wipes looks like u were having a pedal n crank etc just keep on trying "
She wants you..... Wipes and all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Right had a look at your profile and your doing better than a lot from what I can see. You've had repeat meets so shows someone was willing to come back for more. Pics are ok I'd get rid of the wipes looks like u were having a pedal n crank etc just keep on trying
Tbh I find those kind of repeat veris offputting (not these ones in particular just in general). It's a bit too dog pissing on a lamp post to mark it's territory for me.
So I'd hide the first two. But that's just me "
I'd just hide the wipes lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Right had a look at your profile and your doing better than a lot from what I can see. You've had repeat meets so shows someone was willing to come back for more. Pics are ok I'd get rid of the wipes looks like u were having a pedal n crank etc just keep on trying
She wants you..... Wipes and all"
Shhh if wanted him I'd give him a sneaky pm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Right had a look at your profile and your doing better than a lot from what I can see. You've had repeat meets so shows someone was willing to come back for more. Pics are ok I'd get rid of the wipes looks like u were having a pedal n crank etc just keep on trying
She wants you..... Wipes and all
Shhh if wanted him I'd give him a sneaky pm "
Hes beem pming me.........
Hes getting some pro advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Right had a look at your profile and your doing better than a lot from what I can see. You've had repeat meets so shows someone was willing to come back for more. Pics are ok I'd get rid of the wipes looks like u were having a pedal n crank etc just keep on trying
She wants you..... Wipes and all
Shhh if wanted him I'd give him a sneaky pm
Hes beem pming me.........
Hes getting some pro advice"
From the newbie 
Good luck to you both and goodnight |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Right had a look at your profile and your doing better than a lot from what I can see. You've had repeat meets so shows someone was willing to come back for more. Pics are ok I'd get rid of the wipes looks like u were having a pedal n crank etc just keep on trying
She wants you..... Wipes and all
Shhh if wanted him I'd give him a sneaky pm
Hes beem pming me.........
Hes getting some pro advice
From the newbie
Good luck to you both and goodnight "
On matters not related to here.
Where I strive.
Goodnight Miss Sideboob |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Right had a look at your profile and your doing better than a lot from what I can see. You've had repeat meets so shows someone was willing to come back for more. Pics are ok I'd get rid of the wipes looks like u were having a pedal n crank etc just keep on trying
She wants you..... Wipes and all
Shhh if wanted him I'd give him a sneaky pm
Hes beem pming me.........
Hes getting some pro advice
From the newbie
Good luck to you both and goodnight
On matters not related to here.
Where I strive.
Goodnight Miss Sideboob"
Goodnight mister lotta |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It takes time don't forget for everyone one lady on here their is 5 men to choose from,keep ur updates interesting and ur profile clear get chatting on the fourms also get to a few meet and greets.But above all be respectfull even if the lady says no it will happen just takes time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well..id say the best advice Is just be yourself, dont try to adopt a persona to 'do better'...best bet is to do and say what comes naturally..
..oh...and its the internet..always remember that the words written may betray the sentiment...so don't hold grudges as there may not have been one in the first place!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Right had a look at your profile and your doing better than a lot from what I can see. You've had repeat meets so shows someone was willing to come back for more. Pics are ok I'd get rid of the wipes looks like u were having a pedal n crank etc just keep on trying "
Agree..you're doing a hell of a lot better than me mate..don't knock it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hide 2 of the veris as said above. Then get a couple of new pics. Those two are too similar. Lose the Sydney warning, its useless and off putting. You seem like a nice guy. Please dont get bitter, theres a lot of that on here lately it seems. |
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First of all... There are very few opportunities for single males in NI on here. Live with it.
Second.. You're not in shape. Thats not criticism, thats just something thats going to limit your chances. Of the women that are here to meet (rather than 'just chatting atm') many are looking a BBC or a Magic Mike... There are guys like that here and in general they will get a lot higher up the pecking order.
Thirdly - no crying in baseball.
Fourthly - accept this site for what it is. I recently spent many hours talking to about four profiles, the conversations were fun, witty with many compliments flowing my way... Still not one resulted in a meet. Thats just the way it rolls.
Fifthly - think about trying other sites, the usual dating ones have significant amounts of NSA stuff going on, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone else like comment on this ?? Must say I'm free tonight if anyone is interested "
You don't have a bad body at all, I like my men with a bit of meat in them as do a lot of ladies here!! If I lived near you, I'd meet you for a coffee/tea but sadly you're not!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone else like comment on this ?? Must say I'm free tonight if anyone is interested "
Thats an example of what not to do..lol.. but you might get lucky. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Second.. You're not in shape. Thats not criticism, thats just something thats going to limit your chances. Of the women that are here to meet (rather than 'just chatting atm') many are looking a BBC or a Magic Mike... There are guys like that here and in general they will get a lot higher up the pecking order."
I call bullshit on this. Not everyone on here is that shallow. And he's definitely not 'not in shape'! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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""Second.. You're not in shape. Thats not criticism, thats just something thats going to limit your chances. Of the women that are here to meet (rather than 'just chatting atm') many are looking a BBC or a Magic Mike... There are guys like that here and in general they will get a lot higher up the pecking order."
I call bullshit on this. Not everyone on here is that shallow. And he's definitely not 'not in shape'!"
You beat me to it. Absolute horse manure...... |
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""Second.. You're not in shape. Thats not criticism, thats just something thats going to limit your chances. Of the women that are here to meet (rather than 'just chatting atm') many are looking a BBC or a Magic Mike... There are guys like that here and in general they will get a lot higher up the pecking order."
I call bullshit on this. Not everyone on here is that shallow. And he's definitely not 'not in shape'!"
You can call bullshit all you like but try and learn to read. I didnt say 'all' women i said 'many'. And nobody can deny that in general the hotter / fitter men get more attention and success. Any person realistically involved in the scene will admit this, regardless of the morality or justice of that. |
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