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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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After a recent weak effort to insult me by bringing up my relationship status, I got thinking.
There seems to be a quite a few who are against married folk that are here as a single.
What is your opinion on the matter?
Hate the cheaters?
One of the cheaters?
Live and let live? |
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Let them off!!! Don't be worrying about it!! Everybody has different tastes!! At least that person who said they were married were being honest about it!! Just ignore them and move on!! I don't care if ur single married etc we are all here for the same reason!!!
SEX!!!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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doesn't bother me if they are married or not! they're business not mine! not here to judge anybody! We are all here for the one thing! Great nsa fun with no hassle! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Let them off!!! Don't be worrying about it!! Everybody has different tastes!! At least that person who said they were married were being honest about it!! Just ignore them and move on!! I don't care if ur single married etc we are all here for the same reason!!!
SEX!!!!!
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That would be my way way of thinking. |
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"Once your partner knows what you are at and she approves it i dont see why others would mind
But do they know? That's the question
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Fucked if i know teaser if she doesn't id have to say poor girl and shame on him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After a recent weak effort to insult me by bringing up my relationship status, I got thinking.
There seems to be a quite a few who are against married folk that are here as a single.
What is your opinion on the matter?
Hate the cheaters?
One of the cheaters?
Live and let live?"
Married men get more grief than married women generally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The 2 couples I met a few years ago when I was married, well about 5 years ago now, we both married but their swinging partners we not their spouses.
Last I heard, both the women were having marriage problems and one of them was divorcing I think. Last I ever heard of them. I think they both had kids. I know one did for sure.
I guess their hubbies found out.  |
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I wouldn't worry about it, some people just like to get their cheap shots in.
There are so many married men on here that nearly every active female has shagged a married man whose wife does not know.
Being on here as a couple does not mean they dont cheat on each other either. Many a couple broken up after finding the other had a bit on the side.
If people dont like married people they should just avoid them. |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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we have all fucked married women most of them there part of cpls on here or there partners know about it but there are a few that are on as single women for what ever reason. but let them off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Id never judge anyone for their home lives its none of my business just don't bring me into any dramas ! I'm just lucky enough to be married and still have lots of fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Id never judge anyone for their home lives its none of my business just don't bring me into any dramas ! I'm just lucky enough to be married and still have lots of fun "
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Exaclty, Woman complains about married men, after fucking a married man, and another man who just fucked a married woman cheating.
Cause nearly every guy on here has fucked a married woman too.
so its just cheap shots, cause if they had a real problem with married people cheating they wouldnt be on here meeting anyone from here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if they are honest and upfront on here about being married that gives people the option of not meeting them if they don't like married people"
This
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Im not bothered either way, each to their own. Nobody knows what is going in other peoples heads or their situation.
Some decent post above.
Good to see theres some people on here who actually have a brain amd are not just walking cocks and vaginas. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Exaclty, Woman complains about married men, after fucking a married man, and another man who just fucked a married woman cheating.
Cause nearly every guy on here has fucked a married woman too.
so its just cheap shots, cause if they had a real problem with married people cheating they wouldnt be on here meeting anyone from here."
You think there are that many? |
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"Exaclty, Woman complains about married men, after fucking a married man, and another man who just fucked a married woman cheating.
Cause nearly every guy on here has fucked a married woman too.
so its just cheap shots, cause if they had a real problem with married people cheating they wouldnt be on here meeting anyone from here."
they could meet unattached singles.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if they are honest and upfront on here about being married that gives people the option of not meeting them if they don't like married people
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Honesty works the best from the start |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After a recent weak effort to insult me by bringing up my relationship status, I got thinking.
There seems to be a quite a few who are against married folk that are here as a single.
What is your opinion on the matter?
Hate the cheaters?
One of the cheaters?
Live and let live?"
Good post, I'm a bi maaried man that's going through a seperation.
Too many females are quick to jump on the bandwagon and state facts ! - ( it's all about us ) half of them can't get a man |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"After a recent weak effort to insult me by bringing up my relationship status, I got thinking.
There seems to be a quite a few who are against married folk that are here as a single.
What is your opinion on the matter?
Hate the cheaters?
One of the cheaters?
Live and let live?
Good post, I'm a bi maaried man that's going through a seperation.
Too many females are quick to jump on the bandwagon and state facts ! - ( it's all about us ) half of them can't get a man "
You're as good as single so mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbh i dont care if they are married ... but it would be nice to have an option to play or not .. id rather make that decision for myself ...
on a few occasions ive played with single fems ..and single men and found out off others that they were married ... needless to say i wouldnt go there again .. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Tbh i dont care if they are married ... but it would be nice to have an option to play or not .. id rather make that decision for myself ...
on a few occasions ive played with single fems ..and single men and found out off others that they were married ... needless to say i wouldnt go there again .. "
So you wouldnt mind as long as the person was honest and upfront about it to you from day 1? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh i dont care if they are married ... but it would be nice to have an option to play or not .. id rather make that decision for myself ...
on a few occasions ive played with single fems ..and single men and found out off others that they were married ... needless to say i wouldnt go there again ..
So you wouldnt mind as long as the person was honest and upfront about it to you from day 1?"
it would give me the opertunity to make that decision.. instead of it being forced on me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never hidden my relationship status on here, it's one of the first things I've always mentioned even when just chatting. Some give out, others don't. Am I proud of being on here? No, I don't think any person on here without their partners knowledge would be. But it's my cross to bear not anyone else's here.
Strangely for me women seem to like to use it as some kind of stick to beat me with. In chat it's frequently referred to, 'it's 6 pm you can't be staying on here',questions be addressed to Nosafe asking his opinion on married women etc.
Even as recently as a couple of weeks ago it was used here in a thread just to get a little dig in and to raise a few LOLs.
What usually follows comments like these is me getting messages from some guys telling me they have my photos, if I don't meet they'll be sent to my home. Luckily I'm not completely green.
So it's easy to be smart or to bash the married people here, very easy for some but if they are at least honest here (albeit not in real life) then I'm not certain what issues anyone on Fab can have with them.
There's so many 'single' women on here, using the forums, meeting up with guys, attending socials who in reality have either a boyfriend, partner or husband at home. They say nothing. Sometimes I think they are right given the cheap shots. Similarly there are a right few couples and truly single women who have met and fucked married guys.
None of us have perfect lives, so if something doesn't affect you then it's nothing to do with you.
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"I've never hidden my relationship status on here, it's one of the first things I've always mentioned even when just chatting. Some give out, others don't. Am I proud of being on here? No, I don't think any person on here without their partners knowledge would be. But it's my cross to bear not anyone else's here.
Strangely for me women seem to like to use it as some kind of stick to beat me with. In chat it's frequently referred to, 'it's 6 pm you can't be staying on here',questions be addressed to Nosafe asking his opinion on married women etc.
Even as recently as a couple of weeks ago it was used here in a thread just to get a little dig in and to raise a few LOLs.
What usually follows comments like these is me getting messages from some guys telling me they have my photos, if I don't meet they'll be sent to my home. Luckily I'm not completely green.
So it's easy to be smart or to bash the married people here, very easy for some but if they are at least honest here (albeit not in real life) then I'm not certain what issues anyone on Fab can have with them.
There's so many 'single' women on here, using the forums, meeting up with guys, attending socials who in reality have either a boyfriend, partner or husband at home. They say nothing. Sometimes I think they are right given the cheap shots. Similarly there are a right few couples and truly single women who have met and fucked married guys.
None of us have perfect lives, so if something doesn't affect you then it's nothing to do with you.
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For once laelaps,I totally and completely agree with u. There are none of us perfect,and its time that the few who think they are perfect tried taking a hard look at themselves before running other people down. Many people are on top of a rather high horse on here and it is gonna really hurt when they have that horse kicked from under them. Only actions any of us are responsible for are our own,so perhaps its time more people stopped worrying about the splinter in their neighbours eye,and did something about the plank in their own |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Live and let live. No ones door step is totally clean, we all have our own story's and reasons for what we do in life. We all have our consciousness and know the difference between what is right, wrong and what we want in our lives, No one knows your story, walk in a mans/woman's shoes before you judge . If you are not hurting anybody go for it. Each to their own? Live,love and enjoy we are only here once xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've never hidden my relationship status on here, it's one of the first things I've always mentioned even when just chatting. Some give out, others don't. Am I proud of being on here? No, I don't think any person on here without their partners knowledge would be. But it's my cross to bear not anyone else's here.
Strangely for me women seem to like to use it as some kind of stick to beat me with. In chat it's frequently referred to, 'it's 6 pm you can't be staying on here',questions be addressed to Nosafe asking his opinion on married women etc.
Even as recently as a couple of weeks ago it was used here in a thread just to get a little dig in and to raise a few LOLs.
What usually follows comments like these is me getting messages from some guys telling me they have my photos, if I don't meet they'll be sent to my home. Luckily I'm not completely green.
So it's easy to be smart or to bash the married people here, very easy for some but if they are at least honest here (albeit not in real life) then I'm not certain what issues anyone on Fab can have with them.
There's so many 'single' women on here, using the forums, meeting up with guys, attending socials who in reality have either a boyfriend, partner or husband at home. They say nothing. Sometimes I think they are right given the cheap shots. Similarly there are a right few couples and truly single women who have met and fucked married guys.
None of us have perfect lives, so if something doesn't affect you then it's nothing to do with you.
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One of the best posts I've ever seen here. I didn't realise that you were getting hassle because of your situation. Your situation is your business. Should be no concern of others.
People are and can be so judgemental. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Before someone comes in and says it, my comment wasn't for sympathy cos I put myself into this position so it's my own fault so to speak. I'm an adult. I make my own decisions to be here and if that means putting up with nonsense that's fine. I can leave anytime and often do lol. |
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People jump to conclusions all the time I'm not married, I have children so that's my choice for not accommodating. I have in the past had a picture up that shows a ring that could resemble a wedding band. I have got messages saying husband not giving you any then I say 'husband I have no husband ' then I have got abuse. Some choose to believe what they want to believe anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Before someone comes in and says it, my comment wasn't for sympathy cos I put myself into this position so it's my own fault so to speak. I'm an adult. I make my own decisions to be here and if that means putting up with nonsense that's fine. I can leave anytime and often do lol."
I can't see many on here being quick with sympathy for you, but, I for one applaud your honesty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Before someone comes in and says it, my comment wasn't for sympathy cos I put myself into this position so it's my own fault so to speak. I'm an adult. I make my own decisions to be here and if that means putting up with nonsense that's fine. I can leave anytime and often do lol."
I understand that. What I don't understand is people being so judgemental. What business is it of others? Why should I care if we hook up and you are attached. Or if you were single and I was attached. That is our business. No one else's. What 2 consenting adults get up to behind a locked hotel room door is between them. No concern of others.
Put it down to jealousy Lae. You are upfront about your situation. There may be others here who are hiding their situation are the guilt is boiling over, in others direction. Including yours obviously. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've never hidden my relationship status on here, it's one of the first things I've always mentioned even when just chatting. Some give out, others don't. Am I proud of being on here? No, I don't think any person on here without their partners knowledge would be. But it's my cross to bear not anyone else's here.
Strangely for me women seem to like to use it as some kind of stick to beat me with. In chat it's frequently referred to, 'it's 6 pm you can't be staying on here',questions be addressed to Nosafe asking his opinion on married women etc.
Even as recently as a couple of weeks ago it was used here in a thread just to get a little dig in and to raise a few LOLs.
What usually follows comments like these is me getting messages from some guys telling me they have my photos, if I don't meet they'll be sent to my home. Luckily I'm not completely green.
So it's easy to be smart or to bash the married people here, very easy for some but if they are at least honest here (albeit not in real life) then I'm not certain what issues anyone on Fab can have with them.
There's so many 'single' women on here, using the forums, meeting up with guys, attending socials who in reality have either a boyfriend, partner or husband at home. They say nothing. Sometimes I think they are right given the cheap shots. Similarly there are a right few couples and truly single women who have met and fucked married guys.
None of us have perfect lives, so if something doesn't affect you then it's nothing to do with you.
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well said laelaps fair play to you for being so honest and open about yourself, pity there weren't more like you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People jump to conclusions all the time I'm not married, I have children so that's my choice for not accommodating. I have in the past had a picture up that shows a ring that could resemble a wedding band. I have got messages saying husband not giving you any then I say 'husband I have no husband ' then I have got abuse. Some choose to believe what they want to believe anyway. "
Again, no one's business as to what your situation is. I have up that I will not accomodate. That's my personal choice. If I meet someone and feel comfortable with them, then I might accommodate. My choice. As it is your choice. And everyone else's.
Place is weird sometimes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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“If someone isn't what others want them to be, the others become angry. Everyone seems to have a clear idea of how other people should lead their lives, but none about his or her own.”
? Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist
The above sums up perfectly how I feel personaly on the subject.
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By (user no longer on site)
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“If someone isn't what others want them to be, the others become angry. Everyone seems to have a clear idea of how other people should lead their lives, but none about his or her own.”
? Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist
The above sums up perfectly how I feel personaly on the subject.
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TL;DR live and let live. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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“If someone isn't what others want them to be, the others become angry. Everyone seems to have a clear idea of how other people should lead their lives, but none about his or her own.”
? Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist
The above sums up perfectly how I feel personaly on the subject.
TL;DR live and let live. "
Does that mean too long did not read? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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“If someone isn't what others want them to be, the others become angry. Everyone seems to have a clear idea of how other people should lead their lives, but none about his or her own.”
? Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist
The above sums up perfectly how I feel personaly on the subject.
TL;DR live and let live.
Does that mean too long did not read?"
Yes. But it wasn't. Some folk around here are not too good with reading anything only plain and simple English. These poor souls may have been confused with your quotation. I made it easy for them.
(I felt saying that I broke it down for the idiots would be mean) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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“If someone isn't what others want them to be, the others become angry. Everyone seems to have a clear idea of how other people should lead their lives, but none about his or her own.”
? Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist
The above sums up perfectly how I feel personaly on the subject.
TL;DR live and let live.
Does that mean too long did not read?Yes. But it wasn't. Some folk around here are not too good with reading anything only plain and simple English. These poor souls may have been confused with your quotation. I made it easy for them.
(I felt saying that I broke it down for the idiots would be mean)"
If you had written the last sentence, I fear some would have choked on their cornflakes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a swinger/sex site... Everyone is here for their own reasons and needs and those reasons and needs are no ones business but their own...
People's preferences should be respected and not judged nor should they judge either.
This place is supposed to be about fun, sex, making a few friends and having the craic... And if you are not here for this, and to quote many people's profiles "jog on " |
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"It's a swinger/sex site... Everyone is here for their own reasons and needs and those reasons and needs are no ones business but their own...
People's preferences should be respected and not judged nor should they judge either.
This place is supposed to be about fun, sex, making a few friends and having the craic... And if you are not here for this, and to quote many people's profiles "jog on ""
Indeed... some will meet married guys, some won't.
That's their choice!
So why the need to get opinions on everything?? |
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“If someone isn't what others want them to be, the others become angry. Everyone seems to have a clear idea of how other people should lead their lives, but none about his or her own.”
? Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist
The above sums up perfectly how I feel personaly on the subject.
TL;DR live and let live.
Does that mean too long did not read?Yes. But it wasn't. Some folk around here are not too good with reading anything only plain and simple English. These poor souls may have been confused with your quotation. I made it easy for them.
(I felt saying that I broke it down for the idiots would be mean)
If you had written the last sentence, I fear some would have choked on their cornflakes "
Just as well I didn't then, eh? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good posts above.
I see the senisble & logical people post here in the mornings lol
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That must be why there's been no new threads from you this morning lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As I said before and keep saying I'm here because I find most of the people on the site are non judgemental and non critical. I don't care if a women's married and playing away here or a mans married and playing here it's their decision and their conscience at the end of the day. |
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"I've never hidden my relationship status on here, it's one of the first things I've always mentioned even when just chatting. Some give out, others don't. Am I proud of being on here? No, I don't think any person on here without their partners knowledge would be. But it's my cross to bear not anyone else's here.
Strangely for me women seem to like to use it as some kind of stick to beat me with. In chat it's frequently referred to, 'it's 6 pm you can't be staying on here',questions be addressed to Nosafe asking his opinion on married women etc.
Even as recently as a couple of weeks ago it was used here in a thread just to get a little dig in and to raise a few LOLs.
What usually follows comments like these is me getting messages from some guys telling me they have my photos, if I don't meet they'll be sent to my home. Luckily I'm not completely green.
So it's easy to be smart or to bash the married people here, very easy for some but if they are at least honest here (albeit not in real life) then I'm not certain what issues anyone on Fab can have with them.
There's so many 'single' women on here, using the forums, meeting up with guys, attending socials who in reality have either a boyfriend, partner or husband at home. They say nothing. Sometimes I think they are right given the cheap shots. Similarly there are a right few couples and truly single women who have met and fucked married guys.
None of us have perfect lives, so if something doesn't affect you then it's nothing to do with you.
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Fair play.
I dont give a fuck if a person is married or not. It's none of my business.
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Re; There seems to be a quite a few who are against married folk that are here as a single.....
Indeed, if they are married then they are not single!! Why say they are when they aren't???
If they are married then they should have the balls to say so.... then if people look at their profile they know what's what, then send a message or not!!
Who needs everyone's opinion about it??
If someone is 5ft tall why should we all need an opinion on them??????? etc etc...
Of course there's plenty here who won't meet married guys, and plenty that will! That's their choice but why go on and on about it? |
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"After a recent weak effort to insult me by bringing up my relationship status, I got thinking.
There seems to be a quite a few who are against married folk that are here as a single.
What is your opinion on the matter?
Hate the cheaters?
One of the cheaters?
Live and let live?"
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eve--live and let live
david--hate the cheaters  |
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"Re; There seems to be a quite a few who are against married folk that are here as a single.....
Indeed, if they are married then they are not single!! Why say they are when they aren't???
If they are married then they should have the balls to say so.... then if people look at their profile they know what's what, then send a message or not!!
Who needs everyone's opinion about it??
If someone is 5ft tall why should we all need an opinion on them??????? etc etc...
Of course there's plenty here who won't meet married guys, and plenty that will! That's their choice but why go on and on about it?"
If the attached people were honest, wouldn't they make less work for themselves by ruling out a lot who don't want to meet attached singles? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I reckon there are actually very little genuinely unattached singles on fab.
I respectfully disagree Ah speak for yourself im single and im sure there is many like us on here !!"
I think you misunderstood my post 
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There are plenty of married females just looking for some fun for many reasons... have no problem meeting them so long as they leave their baggage at home.
I never ask a female if she's married or not, none of my business! If they say then they say.... IF they say then often it is because hubby is small or can't get a hard on!
They just want some fun... then go their way, if they message again then they message again whenever. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Couldn't agree more with what lealeaps said,nobody knows what goes on in a relationship be it at home in real life or here swinging,everyone is here for their own reasons and nobody should be judged for whatever reason... |
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By *rivexMan
over a year ago
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I'm really glad there is a libertarian spirit here and not one still gripped by the bashers. I really am delighted with knowing that there are people openminded and non judgmental. Genuinely some people are not in a position where they are lucky enough to be in a open relationship like some who cast stones.
Responsible adults who enjoy this life should share the trust here and not have to pay homage to other points if view that don't match theirs.
Live let live,
Lust let lust,
Free let free.-
Gad I wish I had an Irish flag there sounded patriotic as balls that last line.
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It's not an issue for me whether he's married or not. Not my place to judge - I've no interest in home wrecking but have had some incredible sex with married men in the past. |
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