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Meet an gorgeous lady recent and she was funny ,sexy ,naughty and hot body ..she came really quick which left alot of chatting time ..turned out I work with her hubby which was a bit scary .she says he knows she plays about but I never told her I knew him ....should I ?? |
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"Meet an gorgeous lady recent and she was funny ,sexy ,naughty and hot body ..she came really quick which left alot of chatting time ..turned out I work with her hubby which was a bit scary .she says he knows she plays about but I never told her I knew him ....should I ??"
This is a fairytale... you are from Newtownards... there are simply no girls in Newtownards who come under the description "funny, sexy, naughty and hot body".. and if there is.... she came from BANGOR!!!
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"Meet an gorgeous lady recent and she was funny ,sexy ,naughty and hot body ..she came really quick which left alot of chatting time ..turned out I work with her hubby which was a bit scary .she says he knows she plays about but I never told her I knew him ....should I ??
This is a fairytale... you are from Newtownards... there are simply no girls in Newtownards who come under the description "funny, sexy, naughty and hot body".. and if there is.... she came from BANGOR!!!
I'm totally offended !!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Meet an gorgeous lady recent and she was funny ,sexy ,naughty and hot body ..she came really quick which left alot of chatting time ..turned out I work with her hubby which was a bit scary .she says he knows she plays about but I never told her I knew him ....should I ??
This is a fairytale... you are from Newtownards... there are simply no girls in Newtownards who come under the description "funny, sexy, naughty and hot body".. and if there is.... she came from BANGOR!!!
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Lol i would have to disagree iknow few ards ladies ...but ... This was a dundonald lass |
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"What do ye want to say you know her hubby for? Will it change anything? Some things are best left unsaid I think  "
I dunno...what if she finds out via the husband they know each other, then he's on the spot as to why he didn't say when he knew. |
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"What do ye want to say you know her hubby for? Will it change anything? Some things are best left unsaid I think
I dunno...what if she finds out via the husband they know each other, then he's on the spot as to why he didn't say when he knew. "
That's what I was thinking |
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"What do ye want to say you know her hubby for? Will it change anything? Some things are best left unsaid I think
I dunno...what if she finds out via the husband they know each other, then he's on the spot as to why he didn't say when he knew. "
Unless hes meeting the lady regularly I dont see the point.. My answer if that was me would be, fab life and real life are separate things. Isnt everyone always banging on about discretion too? I dont see what gain hed have by saying anything. |
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"What do ye want to say you know her hubby for? Will it change anything? Some things are best left unsaid I think
I dunno...what if she finds out via the husband they know each other, then he's on the spot as to why he didn't say when he knew.
That's what I was thinking"
There's an argument both ways but if you are an honest person you should tell her so she has all the facts. The downside of being honest is she may deem it too close to home & stop it. At least you'll still have your honour though. |
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"What do ye want to say you know her hubby for? Will it change anything? Some things are best left unsaid I think
I dunno...what if she finds out via the husband they know each other, then he's on the spot as to why he didn't say when he knew.
Unless hes meeting the lady regularly I dont see the point.. My answer if that was me would be, fab life and real life are separate things. Isnt everyone always banging on about discretion too? I dont see what gain hed have by saying anything. "
Oh of course, if it was just a one off then yeah, oops! & don't go back. I got the impression it might be an ongoing thing...(would you care to elaborate OP?) |
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"What do ye want to say you know her hubby for? Will it change anything? Some things are best left unsaid I think
I dunno...what if she finds out via the husband they know each other, then he's on the spot as to why he didn't say when he knew.
Unless hes meeting the lady regularly I dont see the point.. My answer if that was me would be, fab life and real life are separate things. Isnt everyone always banging on about discretion too? I dont see what gain hed have by saying anything.
Oh of course, if it was just a one off then yeah, oops! & don't go back. I got the impression it might be an ongoing thing...(would you care to elaborate OP?)"
If it was regularly the chances of them bumping into the hubby with her on work nights out etc are increased of course but the Op would have known her before they met, thats why I assumed it was a once off meet |
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I've met her three times now ...she is alot of fun but I didn't know I worked wo her hubby until she mention some things that clicked ..im just afraid if I don't tell her she will think I'm being sneaky ..im not saying to tell her hubby just to her that I know him ...I think I shud tell her I work with him as as was said at least I keep my honour if she wants to finish it  |
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"I've met her three times now ...she is alot of fun but I didn't know I worked wo her hubby until she mention some things that clicked ..im just afraid if I don't tell her she will think I'm being sneaky ..im not saying to tell her hubby just to her that I know him ...I think I shud tell her I work with him as as was said at least I keep my honour if she wants to finish it "
I thought youd only met once! Id tell her so, at least youre giving her the choice to decide whether you meet again or not. And as Candy said, youll keep your honour |
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"What do ye want to say you know her hubby for? Will it change anything? Some things are best left unsaid I think
I dunno...what if she finds out via the husband they know each other, then he's on the spot as to why he didn't say when he knew.
Unless hes meeting the lady regularly I dont see the point.. My answer if that was me would be, fab life and real life are separate things. Isnt everyone always banging on about discretion too? I dont see what gain hed have by saying anything. "
100% agree don't say anything... Gentleman never tells, everyone can rumours but if you never say anything no one knows 100% there is beauty in that....
While yes there is always people that like to contradict and swing against to what others say but I don't see a need either to say anything!  |
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"I've met her three times now ...she is alot of fun but I didn't know I worked wo her hubby until she mention some things that clicked ..im just afraid if I don't tell her she will think I'm being sneaky ..im not saying to tell her hubby just to her that I know him ...I think I shud tell her I work with him as as was said at least I keep my honour if she wants to finish it "
Don't, is not being dishonest, you just keeping things separate always best policy... That you know him is completely irrelevant keep it separate  |
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"I've met her three times now ...she is alot of fun but I didn't know I worked wo her hubby until she mention some things that clicked ..im just afraid if I don't tell her she will think I'm being sneaky ..im not saying to tell her hubby just to her that I know him ...I think I shud tell her I work with him as as was said at least I keep my honour if she wants to finish it "
Or she tells him and your big muscly arms are required to defend yourself 
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"I've met her three times now ...she is alot of fun but I didn't know I worked wo her hubby until she mention some things that clicked ..im just afraid if I don't tell her she will think I'm being sneaky ..im not saying to tell her hubby just to her that I know him ...I think I shud tell her I work with him as as was said at least I keep my honour if she wants to finish it "
You sound like you know what to do. |
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"Meet an gorgeous lady recent and she was funny ,sexy ,naughty and hot body ..she came really quick which left alot of chatting time ..turned out I work with her hubby which was a bit scary .she says he knows she plays about but I never told her I knew him ....should I ??"
stay well clear .....
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Tell her. She needs to know. Allow the woman to make an informed decision. If there is going to be no blowback, she may continue to meet you. If it is going to cause trouble, she may call a halt.
Her husband knows she plays. That is fine. But does he know that she is playing with someone he works with? Different ballgame there son. He might be happy with her having anonymous meets. You being a work colleague of his, are not anonymous. |
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