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over a year ago
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Who would you trust on a swing or sex site and why ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My other half cause she's the woman I love |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On here, my man, without honesty there is no relationship in my opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My other half cause she's the woman I love "
Would she be all you would trust ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who would you trust on a swing or sex site and why ?? "
Clearly anyone cheating on their partner isn't displaying much in the line of integrity.
Trust people with what? My secrets? My bank account?Babysitting?
I trust people on a site as much as anyone "real" - because that's what they are, real people - and in general, I trust only a handful of intimates. |
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There aren't many who I'd completely trust to be honest, my other half obviously but outside of that there are only one or two. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I trust until I have a reason not too, I'm a good person and I'm on here so why assume others here aren't? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There aren't many who I'd completely trust to be honest, my other half obviously but outside of that there are only one or two."
Why or what would make u trust them?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only trust one or two here. They've done that by helping me through some rough times and always being there for the other. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok I'll elaborate when we meet we trust the other person with our bodies basically which is a big trust how do you decide who to trust and with how much? |
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"Ok I'll elaborate when we meet we trust the other person with our bodies basically which is a big trust how do you decide who to trust and with how much? "
It's an endless discussion misscar! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok I'll elaborate when we meet we trust the other person with our bodies basically which is a big trust how do you decide who to trust and with how much? "
It's not that difficult to spot someone who is all about themselves - what are the chances they will be respectful of another? Pushy behaviour of any kind should be an immediate red flag |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok I'll elaborate when we meet we trust the other person with our bodies basically which is a big trust how do you decide who to trust and with how much?
It's an endless discussion misscar!"
True so who would u trust with your body? Can I tie u up ? Blindfold ya  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I trust the people I've met and one or two I haven't. I'd be trusting of everyone tho |
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By *ale4U2Man
over a year ago
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You can never trust anybody 100% on these sites.. You can only go with your gut feeling and hope that ur judgement is accurate enough .. Read between the lines also .. That's my analysis of it anyway ... |
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It depends on what the things you tell personal details I'd be quite wary of for obvious reasons.
I guess I would like to be treated like I treat others..
I would now my boundaries and gut
maybe I'm too naive .
but you have to know you self |
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"Who would you trust on a swing or sex site and why ?? "
well verified is helpful...but only at timess
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Theres 3 people i'd trust... me, myself and i  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I had my single profile (babybear) lots of ladies trusted me and I believe is still the case! I guess I'm just one of those people trust, although I'm always loyal and considered  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'd be very trusting too and look for the good in people that's the way I've always been am wondering am I naive though.. Guess the gut is the way to go  |
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By *ale4U2Man
over a year ago
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"I'd be very trusting too and look for the good in people that's the way I've always been am wondering am I naive though.. Guess the gut is the way to go "
Has your gut failed u in the past? If not its doing its job well x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get the gut out for the boys? |
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"Ok I'll elaborate when we meet we trust the other person with our bodies basically which is a big trust how do you decide who to trust and with how much? "
interesting, you ask a good question because as singers we interact with strangers on a daily basis and even invite some into our homes. We tend to go with our gut to be honest and it's such a small place (fab) and word travels fast si it's not long before bad egg's get sussed out  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd be very trusting too and look for the good in people that's the way I've always been am wondering am I naive though.. Guess the gut is the way to go "
Well from having met you I would agree with you too trusting maybe |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I trust until I have a reason not too, I'm a good person and I'm on here so why assume others here aren't?"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My other half cause she's the woman I love
Would she be all you would trust ? "
One or two others but not to the level I would trust kitty |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd be very trusting too and look for the good in people that's the way I've always been am wondering am I naive though.. Guess the gut is the way to go
Well from having met you I would agree with you too trusting maybe "
As I said I give everyone the benefit of the doubt lol  |
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Well I only trust people I know very well but wouldn't open up and tell them everything about myself,ever me friend's away from this don't know everything about myself I always keep my personal business well and truly to myself it's just the way I roll less haste and very little bitching I fine a quiet life is a easy life |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I only trust one or two here. They've done that by helping me through some rough times and always being there for the other. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm very trusting I think maybe to a fault !I try to see the good in people all the time unless they have shown me reason to think otherwise !
Go with your gut instinct I'd say x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only trust my partner and someone else here, to be blind folded, tied up, and more. I'm completely sure they won't do anything that will hurt me.
I'm sure there are other people here that are trustworthy, but for now just those two people.
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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Meeting someone here demands a level of trust but in reality trust is build up over a period of time, weather u let some one tie u to a bed or tell them u deepest thoughts and secrets are two different things
Here gut is best |
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I'd trust no one here. I'm not being malicious in my comment. I've been around this game for too long, seen purported " best friends" fall out, seen friendly people turn into monsters for one reason or another.
You can have me body, but not my mind and never my trust. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only trust one or two here. They've done that by helping me through some rough times and always being there for the other. "
lol I'd trust you with my hob nobs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Strangely though.... You mostly only find out that you can't trust someone when you do.....  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I only trust one or two here. They've done that by helping me through some rough times and always being there for the other. lol I'd trust you with my hob nobs "
and t bags lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Trust shouldn't be handed over so easily it has to be earned by the actions of others and as you get to know them better there is only one on this site I would trust as far as I would allow the site to influence my decision |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only trust my mr new and of course our favourite couple..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meeting someone here demands a level of trust but in reality trust is build up over a period of time, weather u let some one tie u to a bed or tell them u deepest thoughts and secrets are two different things
Here gut is best "
I think that depends on the person I need more than gut feeling to let someone blindfold or tie me up
And yes it takes time for me to build up trust in someone to that level. Same goes for trusting someone with secrets and feelings |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who would you trust on a swing or sex site and why ?? "
Everyone.
Sure aren't you all lovely? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd trust no one here. I'm not being malicious in my comment. I've been around this game for too long, seen purported " best friends" fall out, seen friendly people turn into monsters for one reason or another.
You can have me body, but not my mind and never my trust. "
Well said |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only trust me, myself and I. |
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On here? I'd trust very few. Why would I?
Someone gets annoyed at you and they block you and post your personal info on the forum and no one even blinks.
Or how about screenshot a message and send it to people? Or gossip spreading through private message etc.
None of which have happened to me, but you see that kind of stuff happen.
When you're in a group where breaches of trust are not even met with a raised eyebrow, its lunacy to trust people.
It takes more than a few messages and a quick fuck to earn.
I do trust someone on here though, took about a year, we had our fallings out, they been annoyed and pissed off at me, i told them personal things but none of it ever made any gossip, or got said back to me on forum or chat, not even when they were pissed at me, I'd trust them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Trust shouldn't be handed over so easily it has to be earned by the actions of others and as you get to know them better there is only one on this site I would trust as far as I would allow the site to influence my decision "
I agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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D.T.A
Don't trust anybody |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Luckily I've managed to meet some amazing people whom I definitely trust. you can also trust people you haven't met too, I have a few people like that here. they are the ones who mail me advice, look out for me etc...
And then there's a few here I wouldn't trust as far as I could throw them. It's a strange but wonderful place Fab |
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There's a lot of exaggeration here. I've got quite a few people here that I've trusted with very private information. There are lots of good people here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To me Trust is earned not given.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I trust 2 fabbers I'd tell them anything but things change so quickly before I got out of bed this morning there was 3 and just a few weeks ago there was 4 so as they are all dropping like flies I'll be dropping from Fab myself tonight, it's been strange knowing you all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I trust 2 fabbers I'd tell them anything but things change so quickly before I got out of bed this morning there was 3 and just a few weeks ago there was 4 so as they are all dropping like flies I'll be dropping from Fab myself tonight, it's been strange knowing you all "
Ooooh come on, don't leave us again!! |
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Trust will always be an issue on this site. Nothing will ever change. The jungle drums will always be beating. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Trust will always be an issue on this site. Nothing will ever change. The jungle drums will always be beating. "
Boom boom boom
what are they saying skippy |
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"Trust will always be an issue on this site. Nothing will ever change. The jungle drums will always be beating.
Boom boom boom
what are they saying skippy "
Pmsl....that i trust you 100% cj  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Trust will always be an issue on this site. Nothing will ever change. The jungle drums will always be beating.
Boom boom boom
what are they saying skippy
Pmsl....that i trust you 100% cj "
Get a room you two |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To me Trust is earned not given..
this is very true .... I trust easily .... Is it a good or bad thing I don't know .... But what I do know is that if you betray me there are most definitely no second chances .... I've been hurt to many times before "
Couldn't agree more Angel,, once bitten, twice shy and all that |
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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago
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You have to throw it out there and hope for the best sometimes. But with time you will usually find out who has your back and who will be there for you when you need them.
I have a few people in that camp. I have been burnt in the past and I probably will be again.
But I work on the basis I treat people like I would like them to treat me. Most respond positively but some don't. |
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Follow your gut, get to know a person through chat or messages or feed back from other members.Trust the genuine people not the messers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always give someone a fair crack at the whip. I know I maybe shouldn't though as you said trust is earned. But like 'innocent until proven guilty'. Once you've lost my trust I couldn't give it back. That's my tu-pence worth |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's a lot of exaggeration here. I've got quite a few people here that I've trusted with very private information. There are lots of good people here. "
I agree Mick, and I don't hold it against other people if certain fabbers fucked me over, and we've all been taken advantage of and lied to at some stage, that's one persons fault and not everyone else should be held accountable |
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"I'd be very trusting too and look for the good in people that's the way I've always been am wondering am I naive though.. Guess the gut is the way to go "
Snap.. I like to give people the benefit of the doubt before I stick a block on them.. The gut and instinct are key, trust your own and don't listen to the grapevine, best results are to figure them out for yourself or is that me being naive  |
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"I'd be very trusting too and look for the good in people that's the way I've always been am wondering am I naive though.. Guess the gut is the way to go
Snap.. I like to give people the benefit of the doubt before I stick a block on them.. The gut and instinct are key, trust your own and don't listen to the grapevine, best results are to figure them out for yourself or is that me being naive "
Not all......too many listen to too many people on here. They add 2 and 2 together and get 5 |
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"I'd be very trusting too and look for the good in people that's the way I've always been am wondering am I naive though.. Guess the gut is the way to go
Snap.. I like to give people the benefit of the doubt before I stick a block on them.. The gut and instinct are key, trust your own and don't listen to the grapevine, best results are to figure them out for yourself or is that me being naive "
agree can't beat gut instinct |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There's a lot of exaggeration here. I've got quite a few people here that I've trusted with very private information. There are lots of good people here.
I agree Mick, and I don't hold it against other people if certain fabbers fucked me over, and we've all been taken advantage of and lied to at some stage, that's one persons fault and not everyone else should be held accountable "
agree 100% with both of you. I wouldn't tar everyone with the same brush just wonder how u decide who to trust or do u just trust everyone and hope for the best |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Folks..just chat em...and if you keep hitting the wrong guys/girls/couples..then your doing something wrong..change it...same as everything in life..if it looks too good to b true...  |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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I generally trust people until that trust is lost then you are dead to me and thats applied to every aspect of my life. I think only person has ever regained my trust in my whole life. Iv cut people out of my life and not spoke to them in donkey's years after a falling out.
but in general im a trusting person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's only one person I trust fully on here but he's as much part of my real life as he is fab life. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"There's a lot of exaggeration here. I've got quite a few people here that I've trusted with very private information. There are lots of good people here.
I agree Mick, and I don't hold it against other people if certain fabbers fucked me over, and we've all been taken advantage of and lied to at some stage, that's one persons fault and not everyone else should be held accountable agree 100% with both of you. I wouldn't tar everyone with the same brush just wonder how u decide who to trust or do u just trust everyone and hope for the best "
I take every one at face value and assume they are like me until I see different. At first u trust they are what they protray to being which gains the very basic level of trust after that its earned by actions and interactions to all that life brings. Would I trust someone here with my Swiss bank account details no |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Trust is earned, it is not given. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm very trusting I think maybe to a fault !I try to see the good in people all the time unless they have shown me reason to think otherwise !
Go with your gut instinct I'd say x"
I'd say go with ur gut instinct also |
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By *ale4U2Man
over a year ago
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"There's a lot of exaggeration here. I've got quite a few people here that I've trusted with very private information. There are lots of good people here.
I agree Mick, and I don't hold it against other people if certain fabbers fucked me over, and we've all been taken advantage of and lied to at some stage, that's one persons fault and not everyone else should be held accountable agree 100% with both of you. I wouldn't tar everyone with the same brush just wonder how u decide who to trust or do u just trust everyone and hope for the best "
Well going with my gut I trust you ... Or is that my cock I'm going with Carol
?!?! Pmsl x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I only trust people I know very well but wouldn't open up and tell them everything about myself,ever me friend's away from this don't know everything about myself I always keep my personal business well and truly to myself it's just the way I roll less haste and very little bitching I fine a quiet life is a easy life "
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I do have people on here that I trust completely, but that has been built up over time. It's an inch by inch senario and is about being honest with each other. They have helped me through bad times and I Wud like to think that I have done the same for them. Sometimes it's just about being a friend to someone that needs one, that's how real trust is built . Have always trusted my gut instinct and has served me well up to now. |
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I used to trust people as I assumed they were as open as I was.
Big mistake.
Now I am at the other end of the scale.. I don't trust most people and read into everything that's said to me.
As for the whole being tied up thing, that would need to be built up to. No way I'd allow some random guy from a sex site tie me up helpless, I've heard way too many horror stories.
Please be careful with the bdsm stuff, don't become another news story like Elaine o Hara. |
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I tend to trust someone straight away as i look for the good in someone all the time. till i dont have a reason to trust anymore then my trust is hard to get back for that person " once bitten twice shy" or "fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me " |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's only one person I trust fully on here but he's as much part of my real life as he is fab life. "
Dont trust that headbanger Lae.
I saw him stealing sweets and dodging cars on the beach the other day he's notsafe |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's only one person I trust fully on here but he's as much part of my real life as he is fab life.
Dont trust that headbanger Lae.
I saw him stealing sweets and dodging cars on the beach the other day he's notsafe "
It's chocolate, get your facts right Yosser |
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Don't trust any1 but urself but don't give to much away and only tell people what u don't mind them knowing. At the end of the day it's a swing site sure we can all be friends but u don't know there story other than what they tell u. Iv had messages screen shot sent to other people to upset them and text messages changed to make the conversation look as if it's 1 way. We have friends years in swinging but I understand they have to look after number 1 and I'm fine with that. Trust is for the people u grow up with and family not some1 u occasionally have fun with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've trusted someone here before and they threw it back in my face and betrayed me  thankfully majority of the people are sound and l have my trusted few |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Trust is based on character!you can make a good judge of someone by what they like,what they are willing to say about themselves and what there boundries are.all this makes me trust a person and of course body language.p xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's only one person I trust fully on here but he's as much part of my real life as he is fab life. "
Intertwined & grounded. Sounds strong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Trust absolutely nobody here. Ever. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've trusted someone here before and they threw it back in my face and betrayed me thankfully majority of the people are sound and l have my trusted few
Happens a lot in life unfortunately and is never nice. This site is small enough that as said previous it always comes back Lim whether that's good or bad I dunno. But there are lovely people here and I'd call some friends, I'll be listening to my gut more though I think
I'm always listening to my gut. It never stops rumbling and belching "
That should tell ya something Mick |
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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago
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I left my wallet in the Chatroom. Which one of ye lovely peeps took it for safe keeping ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I trust my other half of course!! all takes time I trust a good friend I met through here and it's totally the same for her
everyone needs someone they can totally tell everything to I'd be a nervous wreck here if I didn't have these 2!!!
as 4 everyone else I take everything with a pinch of salt these are fab friends not Genuine/lifetime friends
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can never trust anybody 100% on these sites.. You can only go with your gut feeling and hope that ur judgement is accurate enough .. Read between the lines also .. That's my analysis of it anyway ..."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"On here? I'd trust very few. Why would I?
Someone gets annoyed at you and they block you and post your personal info on the forum and no one even blinks.
Or how about screenshot a message and send it to people? Or gossip spreading through private message etc.
None of which have happened to me, but you see that kind of stuff happen.
When you're in a group where breaches of trust are not even met with a raised eyebrow, its lunacy to trust people.
It takes more than a few messages and a quick fuck to earn.
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"I've trusted someone here before and they threw it back in my face and betrayed me thankfully majority of the people are sound and l have my trusted few
Happens a lot in life unfortunately and is never nice. This site is small enough that as said previous it always comes back Lim whether that's good or bad I dunno. But there are lovely people here and I'd call some friends, I'll be listening to my gut more though I think
I'm always listening to my gut. It never stops rumbling and belching
That should tell ya something Mick "
Hunger. Feck, it's gone one o clock! I should've known! |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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trust isn't black and white there are degrees of trust.
I think we have all been guilty of trusting people who turned out not to be trustworthy. but in honesty if you dont have any trust in people in general then all you become is paranoid and think everyone is out to get you or do you over which in fairness is a sad way to be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"trust isn't black and white there are degrees of trust.
I think we have all been guilty of trusting people who turned out not to be trustworthy. but in honesty if you dont have any trust in people in general then all you become is paranoid and think everyone is out to get you or do you over which in fairness is a sad way to be."
Totally agree with this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"trust isn't black and white there are degrees of trust.
I think we have all been guilty of trusting people who turned out not to be trustworthy. but in honesty if you dont have any trust in people in general then all you become is paranoid and think everyone is out to get you or do you over which in fairness is a sad way to be.
Totally agree with this "
On a further note, a lot of people play mind game's which leave you not knowing if you can trust people  |
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Agree with laid you have to trust people and we are all smart enough now to know how to gauge the levels of trust we should have in people we meet in life, work or fab. Whilst there is a cost of a trust being betrayed and it may be easy to become disillusioned, the cost of not trusting can be much more.
So work towards being trustworthy and helping others to trust more. Whilst we should not trust blindly, we should defenitely avoid the paranoia of blind distrust.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"trust isn't black and white there are degrees of trust.
I think we have all been guilty of trusting people who turned out not to be trustworthy. but in honesty if you dont have any trust in people in general then all you become is paranoid and think everyone is out to get you or do you over which in fairness is a sad way to be.
Totally agree with this "
Same here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ah, at least wait until rush hour ffs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I trust only few on here..
But what for me seems funny that some mature people after fell out or issues, hassle(call how you like it) want that third person choose who they are friends with!
I dont understand why I need choose be friends with person B or C.. if none of them did anything bad to me I will stay friends with both..but mostly one of who falling out will later kinda like even giving out that Im friends with someone who hurt/had fight with them...
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Someone start a thread called Summer of Love before this one deccends into the usual bickering. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I trust only few on here..
But what for me seems funny that some mature people after fell out or issues, hassle(call how you like it) want that third person choose who they are friends with!
I dont understand why I need choose be friends with person B or C.. if none of them did anything bad to me I will stay friends with both..but mostly one of who falling out will later kinda like even giving out that Im friends with someone who hurt/had fight with them...
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Because they're not mature people |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
by a lake with my rod out |
"Someone start a thread called Summer of Love before this one deccends into the usual bickering. "
i think that horse has left the stable |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mods were for arth thou |
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"Someone start a thread called Summer of Love before this one deccends into the usual bickering.
i think that horse has left the stable"
The hour is neigh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone start a thread called Summer of Love before this one deccends into the usual bickering.
i think that horse has left the stable
The hour is neigh "
I like summer lovin |
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