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over a year ago
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"So having this conversation with goldilocks yesterday... What makes for good or bad sex?
I mean apart from the fact that I'm a sexy hot blooded Latino, sex could only be great with me what other factors do you think are important?   "
Good sex starts in the brain, the connection, humour, teasing, sexual chemistry is a combination of physical and mental attraction - no matter how handsome or buff a guy is, if he's not intelligent and sharp I won't be attracted to him. |
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"kissing...usually a good indication if a man knows what he's doing!a soft light touch with his hands...i could go on but Id only be teasing myself."
Soo true Kitty, I say you can't beat a nice sexy massage followed by a verry sensual snog to get you in the mood :-$ :-$  |
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"kissing...usually a good indication if a man knows what he's doing!a soft light touch with his hands...i could go on but Id only be teasing myself."
What Kitty said  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Ohh and one more think that goldi told me and many other women also, is that most men don't have a fucking clue what they are doing! I'm sure we can all think of few |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So having this conversation with goldilocks yesterday... What makes for good or bad sex?
I mean apart from the fact that I'm a sexy hot blooded Latino, sex could only be great with me what other factors do you think are important?
Good sex starts in the brain, the connection, humour, teasing, sexual chemistry is a combination of physical and mental attraction - no matter how handsome or buff a guy is, if he's not intelligent and sharp I won't be attracted to him."
Totally agree  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ohh and one more think that goldi told me and many other women also, is that most men don't have a fucking clue what they are doing! I'm sure we can all think of few "
I don't think I've had sex with enough men to be able to say that most of them are bad at it... |
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"So having this conversation with goldilocks yesterday... What makes for good or bad sex?
I mean apart from the fact that I'm a sexy hot blooded Latino, sex could only be great with me what other factors do you think are important?
Good sex starts in the brain, the connection, humour, teasing, sexual chemistry is a combination of physical and mental attraction - no matter how handsome or buff a guy is, if he's not intelligent and sharp I won't be attracted to him."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So having this conversation with goldilocks yesterday... What makes for good or bad sex?
I mean apart from the fact that I'm a sexy hot blooded Latino, sex could only be great with me what other factors do you think are important?
Good sex starts in the brain, the connection, humour, teasing, sexual chemistry is a combination of physical and mental attraction - no matter how handsome or buff a guy is, if he's not intelligent and sharp I won't be attracted to him."
Well a good looking person can talk themselves out of being attractive in few words but uglies can't tall themselves into being attractive |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So having this conversation with goldilocks yesterday... What makes for good or bad sex?
I mean apart from the fact that I'm a sexy hot blooded Latino, sex could only be great with me what other factors do you think are important?
Good sex starts in the brain, the connection, humour, teasing, sexual chemistry is a combination of physical and mental attraction - no matter how handsome or buff a guy is, if he's not intelligent and sharp I won't be attracted to him.
Well a good looking person can talk themselves out of being attractive in few words but uglies can't tall themselves into being attractive "
I guess that depends how shallow the other party is |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good sex is having it with someone you like load, someone you would just hang with on a normal day, or go for a walk with, someone who makes you feel lucky to be where you are."
You are saying all the right things today x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So having this conversation with goldilocks yesterday... What makes for good or bad sex?
I mean apart from the fact that I'm a sexy hot blooded Latino, sex could only be great with me what other factors do you think are important? "
Hmmm. Kissing starts the ball rolling. If those lips fit perfectly then we're off to a good start.
Eye contact. Yep, only heightens the pleasure. Love it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Chemistry, attraction, having fun and enjoying the moment usually kissing and eye contact with me  unless I'm being bent over a bed, ass in air then it's just hmmmm boldness |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Chemistry, attraction, having fun and enjoying the moment usually kissing and eye contact with me unless I'm being bent over a bed, ass in air then it's just hmmmm boldness "
I like boldness |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Chemistry, attraction, having fun and enjoying the moment usually kissing and eye contact with me unless I'm being bent over a bed, ass in air then it's just hmmmm boldness
I like boldness "
Yeah, we all know that!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ohh and one more think that goldi told me and many other women also, is that most men don't have a fucking clue what they are doing! I'm sure we can all think of few
I don't think I've had sex with enough men to be able to say that most of them are bad at it..."
Where does one find an application form?? |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Chemistry, attraction, having fun and enjoying the moment usually kissing and eye contact with me unless I'm being bent over a bed, ass in air then it's just hmmmm boldness
I like boldness
Yeah, we all know that!!!! "
Suuusssh rose people may get the wrong idea and think I am a slapper |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Chemistry, attraction, having fun and enjoying the moment usually kissing and eye contact with me unless I'm being bent over a bed, ass in air then it's just hmmmm boldness
I like boldness "
Don't we all |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Chemistry, attraction, having fun and enjoying the moment usually kissing and eye contact with me unless I'm being bent over a bed, ass in air then it's just hmmmm boldness
I like boldness
Don't we all "
Ass in the air |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Chemistry, attraction, having fun and enjoying the moment usually kissing and eye contact with me unless I'm being bent over a bed, ass in air then it's just hmmmm boldness
I like boldness
Don't we all
Ass in the air "
Cock it up there Cj |
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Foreplay and teasing makes for great sex...For the male I think it's all about the chase...and women put a lot of effort into how they look...eg.tan..lingerie. .hair make up....and so on..so a good compliment reassures them and puts them at ease..
A bit of soft music is also nice..And I love insense burning. ..nice company..nice smell...Nice Time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good sex is having it with someone you like load, someone you would just hang with on a normal day, or go for a walk with, someone who makes you feel lucky to be where you are.
You are saying all the right things today x"
I enjoy watching you guys chasing each other around the threads
Ps nice new name Lae |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"chemistry, attraction and that stuff is all fine and needed but if there's no skills and no stamina I might have a nice meet but not necessarily good sex...."
True but different people enjoy different shapes sizes heights libido etc so no black n white formula to good sex don't think can be manufactured maybe am wrong |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"chemistry, attraction and that stuff is all fine and needed but if there's no skills and no stamina I might have a nice meet but not necessarily good sex....
True but different people enjoy different shapes sizes heights libido etc so no black n white formula to good sex don't think can be manufactured maybe am wrong "
I agree that there's no black and white formula for good sex as we are all different, thanks Duck, and what's good for some might not be for others (had to learn that the hard way), just saying as the post is about what makes good sex, stamina and skills are not the only but crucial factors for me... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"chemistry, attraction and that stuff is all fine and needed but if there's no skills and no stamina I might have a nice meet but not necessarily good sex....
True but different people enjoy different shapes sizes heights libido etc so no black n white formula to good sex don't think can be manufactured maybe am wrong
I agree that there's no black and white formula for good sex as we are all different, thanks Duck, and what's good for some might not be for others (had to learn that the hard way), just saying as the post is about what makes good sex, stamina and skills are not the only but crucial factors for me... "
Yup me too def stamina I like long sessions not into quickies |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good sex is having it with someone you like load, someone you would just hang with on a normal day, or go for a walk with, someone who makes you feel lucky to be where you are.
You are saying all the right things today x
I enjoy watching you guys chasing each other around the threads
Ps nice new name Lae "
We chase around much better in real life.
And ty, I hate it lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ohh and one more think that goldi told me and many other women also, is that most men don't have a fucking clue what they are doing! I'm sure we can all think of few
I don't think I've had sex with enough men to be able to say that most of them are bad at it...
Where does one find an application form?? "
We can just save time and I'll declare you bad at sex without ever meeting if you want? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good sex is having it with someone you like load, someone you would just hang with on a normal day, or go for a walk with, someone who makes you feel lucky to be where you are."
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By *squaredCouple
over a year ago
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need to click on some level., intelligence an advantage.
personal hygiene & trimming important - no mouthful of hair please.
being able to listen as i have slight tendency to say what/how i like things.
stamina good but rhythm vital, if you don't have it fake it with music as you will work to beat.
eye contact can help but soft hands to run across my skin much better.
giver & taker - be fair don't only take its nice to receive too.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Chemistry an attraction between the 2. Lots of eye contact. Kissing an lots of it. Not afraid to run your hands over each other's bodies an explore them. Making sure that ye both enjoy the power of orgasm over an over again |
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