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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wondered how others here feel about mails from members who obviously have not botherd to check their profiles..
Do you feel obligated to reply to these people?
Like myself , do you simply not reply?, especialy if your profile CLEARLY states that you have certain preferences ect.
I always take the time to check the profiles of those who mail me, if they don`t fit my profile comments , I have no problem simply deleting the mail..
Likewise , I carefuly check member profiles before sending mails, if they don`t reply it does not bother me..
So why oh why, do so many people insist on getting pissed off , sending rude mails and acting like spoilt brats, if they do not get replies.?
Any thoughts? |
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"Just wondered how others here feel about mails from members who obviously have not botherd to check their profiles..
Do you feel obligated to reply to these people?
Like myself , do you simply not reply?, especialy if your profile CLEARLY states that you have certain preferences ect.
I always take the time to check the profiles of those who mail me, if they don`t fit my profile comments , I have no problem simply deleting the mail..
Likewise , I carefuly check member profiles before sending mails, if they don`t reply it does not bother me..
So why oh why, do so many people insist on getting pissed off , sending rude mails and acting like spoilt brats, if they do not get replies.?
Any thoughts?"
maybe your profile is confusing- you say no mails from straight males yet your verification is from a straight male |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The one liner mail gets deleted
If I delete mail and the person mails me again I block cause there not getting the message.
If I look at their profile and my interest fade I delete.
If I look at their profile and I see/read something I like or Makes me smile I'll reply...... it's really that simple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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That's why I, like others, have a word to be quoted in a message title so a person shows they have bothered to at least read my profile.
I do not respond to even all those who do this, though, for the simple reason that some males unfortunately take a polite "no thanks" as an invitation to hassle someone with repeated "ah go on" type messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That's why I, like others, have a word to be quoted in a message title so a person shows they have bothered to at least read my profile.
I do not respond to even all those who do this, though, for the simple reason that some males unfortunately take a polite "no thanks" as an invitation to hassle someone with repeated "ah go on" type messages."
the 'ah go on' made me laugh... the tv/ts guys try to argue the point... best was ... a blow jobs a blow job... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That's why I, like others, have a word to be quoted in a message title so a person shows they have bothered to at least read my profile.
I do not respond to even all those who do this, though, for the simple reason that some males unfortunately take a polite "no thanks" as an invitation to hassle someone with repeated "ah go on" type messages.
the 'ah go on' made me laugh... the tv/ts guys try to argue the point... best was ... a blow jobs a blow job... "
Then they follow up with "why won't you meet me" - a rhetorical question |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its a good point though... I assumed it was taken that a no reply was a polite no thanks... Cant be engaging with everyone??"
You're thinking with a logical brain, where others are thinking with their insecure egos |
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"Its a good point though... I assumed it was taken that a no reply was a polite no thanks... Cant be engaging with everyone??
You're thinking with a logical brain, where others are thinking with their insecure egos"
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By (user no longer on site)
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If I send a first mail and don't get a reply..i try to get time, use private notes and never mail again
.if were chatting and they don't read my mails, I have a 2 mail rule based on girls and couples getting so much mail..but after that I don't mail again
.if we're chatting and they don't reply..same again ..2 times on the assumption they are too busy..or the conversation naturally tailed off which is normal..
..i always assume if people drop off conversations then they aren't interested ..so I leave them alone..for good..its happened with loads of other forumites tbh ...but I do wonder at times how many conversations single guys are meant to strike up!!!..i guess I'm not pushy enough..then again..im having a ball..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I send a first mail and don't get a reply..i try to get time, use private notes and never mail again
.if were chatting and they don't read my mails, I have a 2 mail rule based on girls and couples getting so much mail..but after that I don't mail again
.if we're chatting and they don't reply..same again ..2 times on the assumption they are too busy..or the conversation naturally tailed off which is normal..
..i always assume if people drop off conversations then they aren't interested ..so I leave them alone..for good..its happened with loads of other forumites tbh ...but I do wonder at times how many conversations single guys are meant to strike up!!!..i guess I'm not pushy enough..then again..im having a ball.. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That's why I, like others, have a word to be quoted in a message title so a person shows they have bothered to at least read my profile.
I do not respond to even all those who do this, though, for the simple reason that some males unfortunately take a polite "no thanks" as an invitation to hassle someone with repeated "ah go on" type messages."
Im with this!!
I have word and alot guys not read and some later just send msg what Im doing wrong blah blah and after telling he didnt read profile they saying they did..but come on.. I see you didnt or just stupid and dont know what mean ''subject/title''!
And if even some have it but msg text is jsut hi how are you..I dont bother msg back and deleting..and even not feeling bad about it!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just wondered how others here feel about mails from members who obviously have not botherd to check their profiles..
Do you feel obligated to reply to these people?
Like myself , do you simply not reply?, especialy if your profile CLEARLY states that you have certain preferences ect.
I always take the time to check the profiles of those who mail me, if they don`t fit my profile comments , I have no problem simply deleting the mail..
Likewise , I carefuly check member profiles before sending mails, if they don`t reply it does not bother me..
So why oh why, do so many people insist on getting pissed off , sending rude mails and acting like spoilt brats, if they do not get replies.?
Any thoughts?"
I never ever read a profile if it's as long as a book |
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By *s louWoman
over a year ago
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"The one liner mail gets deleted
If I delete mail and the person mails me again I block cause there not getting the message.
If I look at their profile and my interest fade I delete.
If I look at their profile and I see/read something I like or Makes me smile I'll reply...... it's really that simple."
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