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 Our thoughts are with you BB. | |||
"This has to have been the toughest day in my life so far had to tell my mam that her daughter my sister has only months to live . Guys every day i see ppl argue over stupid shit but when u have this to deal wit well everything else doesnt matter . Live life to the max " Big hugs  sorry to hear this news xx you are right in what you say live life to the max you don't know what's around the corner | |||
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"This has to have been the toughest day in my life so far had to tell my mam that her daughter my sister has only months to live . Guys every day i see ppl argue over stupid shit but when u have this to deal wit well everything else doesnt matter . Live life to the max " our thought and prayers are with you and your family | |||
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"This has to have been the toughest day in my life so far had to tell my mam that her daughter my sister has only months to live . Guys every day i see ppl argue over stupid shit but when u have this to deal wit well everything else doesnt matter . Live life to the max " Sorry to hear that BB | |||
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"This has to have been the toughest day in my life so far had to tell my mam that her daughter my sister has only months to live . Guys every day i see ppl argue over stupid shit but when u have this to deal wit well everything else doesnt matter . Live life to the max " Ah really sorry to hear that hun my thoughts are with your family | |||
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"This has to have been the toughest day in my life so far had to tell my mam that her daughter my sister has only months to live . Guys every day i see ppl argue over stupid shit but when u have this to deal wit well everything else doesnt matter . Live life to the max " I've always said live every day like it's your last Busty. Words fail us here. We are so sorry for your situation but obviously we hope you cherish every last minute that you have left together. From myself and my wife, L and T..... God bless xxx | |||
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"This has to have been the toughest day in my life so far had to tell my mam that her daughter my sister has only months to live . Guys every day i see ppl argue over stupid shit but when u have this to deal wit well everything else doesnt matter . Live life to the max " My heart goes out you and your family... Xx | |||
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"Sorry but if I had a dying relative/friend I wouldn't be on fab wasting precious time that should be spent with that dying person Marie" Think you being a bit harsh there. Some people just need to off load to someone who isn't as close as family n friends. Or a distraction for half hour to alleviate a bit of pressure. | |||
"That's tough. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult period. As you have already done here, reached out to people, feel free to do so again in the future. "  | |||
"Sorry but if I had a dying relative/friend I wouldn't be on fab wasting precious time that should be spent with that dying person Marie" Very insensitive comment. | |||
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"Sorry but if I had a dying relative/friend I wouldn't be on fab wasting precious time that should be spent with that dying person Marie" Clearly said by someone lucky enough to have never had to deal with long term family illness | |||
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"I know a lot of yous will get nasty with me but do I care NO I'm entitled to my opinion thoughts and ideas " There's nobody being nasty to you, your comment showed lack of empathy or sympathy towards another forum user and if you wouldn't post about a sick relative, thats your choice. As a matter of fact her point in posting the thread was indeed about living life to the max and leaving the bullshit behind. Like you have a choice, the OP has one too | |||
"I cared for my dad who suffered cancer plus a cousin who died at 18 from cancer so I know how it feels to loose a close one. I sure as hell would not be on fab if friends or family are unwell let alone dying some people have no standards to me they've shown lack of respect to a dying person " Jesus! Judgemental! MUCH!!! We all have our own ways of dealing with things and maybe just off loading on here has eased the op's mind and what the hell is wrong with that?? 
NOTHING!
Sometimes isn't it just nice to escape reality just for a little while and coming on here is just that for some people and there's no harm being done to anyone at the end of the day in fairness
Live and let live
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"Perhaps the mods should close this thread before it causes more distress" | |||
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"talk about kicking someone in the teeth when they are already distressed ... I suggest you keep your bloody opinions to yourself !!! If you cant see what it is that you have said which offended , then I suggest you have lost the ability to be empathic to another human , what pleasure you could possibly dervive from chastising a very distressed lady who has had awful news that means life for her and her family will never be the same again . You have made yourself look like an insensitive gobshite ." | |||
"Perhaps the mods should close this thread before it causes more distress" Ya this will get nasty  sorry to hear bb had a relation of mine go through this recently it is hard, so my thoughts are with you and your family at this point in time | |||
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"talk about kicking someone in the teeth when they are already distressed ... I suggest you keep your bloody opinions to yourself !!! If you cant see what it is that you have said which offended , then I suggest you have lost the ability to be empathic to another human , what pleasure you could possibly dervive from chastising a very distressed lady who has had awful news that means life for her and her family will never be the same again . You have made yourself look like an insensitive gobshite ." | |||
"On here for fun not to be bored with serious issues keep your dam real life issues off here if you don't want people to comment on it END OF STORY STOP THE BLOOLY MOANING AND CRITISING MY OWN VIEWS CHEER UP LIGHTEN UP " Wow
Sorry to hear the tragedy befalling a site users family is boring to you. | |||
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"I know a lot of yous will get nasty with me but do I care NO I'm entitled to my opinion thoughts and ideas There's nobody being nasty to you, your comment showed lack of empathy or sympathy towards another forum user and if you wouldn't post about a sick relative, thats your choice. As a matter of fact her point in posting the thread was indeed about living life to the max and leaving the bullshit behind. Like you have a choice, the OP has one too " | |||
"I cared for my dad who suffered cancer plus a cousin who died at 18 from cancer so I know how it feels to loose a close one. I sure as hell would not be on fab if friends or family are unwell let alone dying some people have no standards to me they've shown lack of respect to a dying person " I'm incline to agree with you. If I had to break such news to my parents fab be the last place I would have time for or post personal stuff on. Doesn't exactly make a fab forum a fun place to be. If the Op is looking for support from fab friends use the phone, if you don't have their number then are they really friends!!! | |||
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"Sorry but if I had a dying relative/friend I wouldn't be on fab wasting precious time that should be spent with that dying person Marie" I don't think it's harsh or insensitive it's just an honest opinion, and there are plenty of them in this thread | |||
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"This has to have been the toughest day in my life so far had to tell my mam that her daughter my sister has only months to live . Guys every day i see ppl argue over stupid shit but when u have this to deal wit well everything else doesnt matter . Live life to the max " Really sorry to hear that hun, situations like this definitely put things into perspective. | |||
"Sorry but if I had a dying relative/friend I wouldn't be on fab wasting precious time that should be spent with that dying person Marie" talk about kicking someone,when their down..... | |||
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"I know a lot of yous will get nasty with me but do I care NO I'm entitled to my opinion thoughts and ideas " What an ass, ignorance beyond belief. If you don't like the trend then don't read it and most of all why comment. | |||
" "I know a lot of yous will get nasty with me but do I care NO I'm entitled to my opinion thoughts and ideas" What an ass, ignorance beyond belief. If you don't like the trend then don't read it and most of all why comment. " I agree. At the end of the day, we all have different ways of dealing with grief. I see fabs as a closed community. And for the best part, maybe a close group of people. We've made so many friends here over the last 4 and a half years. Busty I'm sure you've ignored the negative comments. Myself and L are thinking of you, even though we've said it already. Just jumping in to agree with the positive thoughts here. Take care, L and T. | |||
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"Well I wish u well but if it was me I Wudnt be waste my time here if a family member only had months to live I wud be spending as much time with them wild there around sex be the last thing on my mind or any meets but u enjoy "There is such thing as a hospital wit strict visting times so no i cant be wit her or maybe mr actionman u havent heard abt hospitals !! | |||
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"Well I wish u well but if it was me I Wudnt be waste my time here if a family member only had months to live I wud be spending as much time with them wild there around sex be the last thing on my mind or any meets but u enjoy
There is such thing as a hospital wit strict visting times so no i cant be wit her or maybe mr actionman u havent heard abt hospitals !!"If I had a dying sister, I wouldn't allow any hospital dictate to me when I could visit. Before my mother passed I visited my mother daily from 9.30 to 11pm no medical person asked me to leave, they are so understaffed they left me attending to my mother washing feeding etc | |||
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"Well I wish u well but if it was me I Wudnt be waste my time here if a family member only had months to live I wud be spending as much time with them wild there around sex be the last thing on my mind or any meets but u enjoy
There is such thing as a hospital wit strict visting times so no i cant be wit her or maybe mr actionman u havent heard abt hospitals !!
If I had a dying sister, I wouldn't allow any hospital dictate to me when I could visit. Before my mother passed I visited my mother daily from 9.30 to 11pm no medical person asked me to leave, they are so understaffed they left me attending to my mother washing feeding etc"Did i say she was dying no go back read what i said i said she has months she is nit on deaths door and hope to have a few goid months wit her now u and ur other troll i have has enough listening to u be little me and every one else on here ! | |||
"Did i say she was dying no go back read what i said i said she has months she is nit on deaths door and hope to have a few goid months wit her now u and ur other troll i have has enough listening to u be little me and every one else on here !" I have been reading the comments on the thread as I didn't feel it was my place to share. We are all dying but by saying your sister has months to live you basically said she'll be dead in months. Doctors can get these things wrong and sometimes you have less time or more time together. How you deal with it is up to you and I have no reason or power to judge you over it. | |||
"Well I wish u well but if it was me I Wudnt be waste my time here if a family member only had months to live I wud be spending as much time with them wild there around sex be the last thing on my mind or any meets but u enjoy
There is such thing as a hospital wit strict visting times so no i cant be wit her or maybe mr actionman u havent heard abt hospitals !!
If I had a dying sister, I wouldn't allow any hospital dictate to me when I could visit. Before my mother passed I visited my mother daily from 9.30 to 11pm no medical person asked me to leave, they are so understaffed they left me attending to my mother washing feeding etcDid i say she was dying no go back read what i said i said she has months she is nit on deaths door and hope to have a few goid months wit her now u and ur other troll i have has enough listening to u be little me and every one else on here !"If someone has only months to live (your originally post) then I'm afraid yes they are dying. Unfortunately it's a part of life and I'm not evil by stating the obvious. Just because people have opinions and are not all in agreement with you or your fab friends doesn't make them a troll. Personally I think it's disrespectful to your sister sharing her life on a sex site and morally wrong. But that's my opinion and it won't affect you or anyone else. I stand by everything I say on this matter. | |||
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"Well I wish u well but if it was me I Wudnt be waste my time here if a family member only had months to live I wud be spending as much time with them wild there around sex be the last thing on my mind or any meets but u enjoy
There is such thing as a hospital wit strict visting times so no i cant be wit her or maybe mr actionman u havent heard abt hospitals !!
If I had a dying sister, I wouldn't allow any hospital dictate to me when I could visit. Before my mother passed I visited my mother daily from 9.30 to 11pm no medical person asked me to leave, they are so understaffed they left me attending to my mother washing feeding etcDid i say she was dying no go back read what i said i said she has months she is nit on deaths door and hope to have a few goid months wit her now u and ur other troll i have has enough listening to u be little me and every one else on here !
If someone has only months to live (your originally post) then I'm afraid yes they are dying. Unfortunately it's a part of life and I'm not evil by stating the obvious.
Just because people have opinions and are not all in agreement with you or your fab friends doesn't make them a troll.
Personally I think it's disrespectful to your sister sharing her life on a sex site and morally wrong. But that's my opinion and it won't affect you or anyone else. I stand by everything I say on this matter."She's not being disrespectful to her sister at all? Busty is obviously going through a tough time and there a people on fab who she is genuinely close with and care about, at the end of the day offer support or move on, no need for anything else. | |||
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"All my family know im on here and if ppl think its wrong been on here well then morals or not ye shouldnt be here !" Just ignore them, hope you are coping ok | |||
"All my family know im on here and if ppl think its wrong been on here well then morals or not ye shouldnt be here !" You don't have to explain yourself to anyone,,,, as I always said the only people in life you have to look to explain yourself to or look for approval from are your parents, your children and yourself,,,, feck everyone else | |||
"Well I wish u well but if it was me I Wudnt be waste my time here if a family member only had months to live I wud be spending as much time with them wild there around sex be the last thing on my mind or any meets but u enjoy
There is such thing as a hospital wit strict visting times so no i cant be wit her or maybe mr actionman u havent heard abt hospitals !!
If I had a dying sister, I wouldn't allow any hospital dictate to me when I could visit. Before my mother passed I visited my mother daily from 9.30 to 11pm no medical person asked me to leave, they are so understaffed they left me attending to my mother washing feeding etcDid i say she was dying no go back read what i said i said she has months she is nit on deaths door and hope to have a few goid months wit her now u and ur other troll i have has enough listening to u be little me and every one else on here !
If someone has only months to live (your originally post) then I'm afraid yes they are dying. Unfortunately it's a part of life and I'm not evil by stating the obvious.
Just because people have opinions and are not all in agreement with you or your fab friends doesn't make them a troll.
Personally I think it's disrespectful to your sister sharing her life on a sex site and morally wrong. But that's my opinion and it won't affect you or anyone else. I stand by everything I say on this matter.
She's not being disrespectful to her sister at all? Busty is obviously going through a tough time and there a people on fab who she is genuinely close with and care about, at the end of the day offer support or move on, no need for anything else. "It's my opinion!! If her fab friends wish to support her there are other ways like pick up the ph or spend time with Busty who will need a lot of support, a sex site?? No I'm sorry, not the way to go . I'm sure Busty has friends outside of this lifestyle too. | |||
"Busty is obviously going through a tough time and there a people on fab who she is genuinely close with and care about, at the end of the day offer support or move on, no need for anything else. "If she's so close to themand they are such genuine friends - pick up the phone, send a text, go for a cuppa. There's no need to tell the rest of the site. I'm sorry someone is dying but this thread is just attention seeking in my opinion. | |||
"All my family know im on here and if ppl think its wrong been on here well then morals or not ye shouldnt be here !" You misunderstood me. I don't have an issue with you been here and great all your family know. I personally think it is morally wrong talking about your sister and her life here. Have you told your sister you posted that thread? Did you seek her permission? I would never post about my family issues on a sex site, but I guess that's what makes me different!!! | |||
"Busty is obviously going through a tough time and there a people on fab who she is genuinely close with and care about, at the end of the day offer support or move on, no need for anything else.
If she's so close to themand they are such genuine friends - pick up the phone, send a text, go for a cuppa. There's no need to tell the rest of the site. I'm sorry someone is dying but this thread is just attention seeking in my opinion. "If you don't care don't comment then it can't annoy or affect you? | |||
"Busty is obviously going through a tough time and there a people on fab who she is genuinely close with and care about, at the end of the day offer support or move on, no need for anything else.
If she's so close to themand they are such genuine friends - pick up the phone, send a text, go for a cuppa. There's no need to tell the rest of the site. I'm sorry someone is dying but this thread is just attention seeking in my opinion.
If you don't care don't comment then it can't annoy or affect you?"Did I say I was annoyed?? You do an awful lot of assuming on here | |||
"Busty is obviously going through a tough time and there a people on fab who she is genuinely close with and care about, at the end of the day offer support or move on, no need for anything else.
If she's so close to themand they are such genuine friends - pick up the phone, send a text, go for a cuppa. There's no need to tell the rest of the site. I'm sorry someone is dying but this thread is just attention seeking in my opinion.
If you don't care don't comment then it can't annoy or affect you?
Did I say I was annoyed??
You do an awful lot of assuming on here"Well all anyone can.do here is assume it's the internet after all  | |||
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"BB sorry to read your post, tough time for you. Do whatever you need to do as a distraction, whether that be fab or anything else. I hope you don't let any comments upset you, theyre just faceless strangers and they shouldn't matter to you. Stay strong! " Couldn't have put it better Red. | |||
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"BB sorry to read your post, tough time for you. Do whatever you need to do as a distraction, whether that be fab or anything else. I hope you don't let any comments upset you, theyre just faceless strangers and they shouldn't matter to you. Stay strong! "
I spent a month hanging around Intensive care waiting for someone close to pass and found fab a distraction from all the stress and trauma of what was happening to someone I loved very much, as for it being disrespectful, I know the person I was with would have pee'd himself laughing at what I was doing.I really wish people would stop getting irate or annoyed on behalf of people they dont know or know nothing about.
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"Well I wish u well but if it was me I Wudnt be waste my time here if a family member only had months to live I wud be spending as much time with them wild there around sex be the last thing on my mind or any meets but u enjoy
There is such thing as a hospital wit strict visting times so no i cant be wit her or maybe mr actionman u havent heard abt hospitals !!
If I had a dying sister, I wouldn't allow any hospital dictate to me when I could visit. Before my mother passed I visited my mother daily from 9.30 to 11pm no medical person asked me to leave, they are so understaffed they left me attending to my mother washing feeding etcDid i say she was dying no go back read what i said i said she has months she is nit on deaths door and hope to have a few goid months wit her now u and ur other troll i have has enough listening to u be little me and every one else on here !
If someone has only months to live (your originally post) then I'm afraid yes they are dying. Unfortunately it's a part of life and I'm not evil by stating the obvious.
Just because people have opinions and are not all in agreement with you or your fab friends doesn't make them a troll.
Personally I think it's disrespectful to your sister sharing her life on a sex site and morally wrong. But that's my opinion and it won't affect you or anyone else. I stand by everything I say on this matter."You dont like people being negative on your threads so you should practice what you preech and leave BB alone shes going through enough without your negativity on her threads | |||
"Well I wish u well but if it was me I Wudnt be waste my time here if a family member only had months to live I wud be spending as much time with them wild there around sex be the last thing on my mind or any meets but u enjoy
There is such thing as a hospital wit strict visting times so no i cant be wit her or maybe mr actionman u havent heard abt hospitals !!
If I had a dying sister, I wouldn't allow any hospital dictate to me when I could visit. Before my mother passed I visited my mother daily from 9.30 to 11pm no medical person asked me to leave, they are so understaffed they left me attending to my mother washing feeding etcDid i say she was dying no go back read what i said i said she has months she is nit on deaths door and hope to have a few goid months wit her now u and ur other troll i have has enough listening to u be little me and every one else on here !
If someone has only months to live (your originally post) then I'm afraid yes they are dying. Unfortunately it's a part of life and I'm not evil by stating the obvious.
Just because people have opinions and are not all in agreement with you or your fab friends doesn't make them a troll.
Personally I think it's disrespectful to your sister sharing her life on a sex site and morally wrong. But that's my opinion and it won't affect you or anyone else. I stand by everything I say on this matter.
You dont like people being negative on your threads so you should practice what you preech and leave BB alone shes going through enough without your negativity on her threads "And you should try to understand what is written I said I won't have people been disrespectful on my threads. I'm not having a "go" at BB, and I will reply to anyone who comments on any post I make. | |||
"Well I wish u well but if it was me I Wudnt be waste my time here if a family member only had months to live I wud be spending as much time with them wild there around sex be the last thing on my mind or any meets but u enjoy
There is such thing as a hospital wit strict visting times so no i cant be wit her or maybe mr actionman u havent heard abt hospitals !!
If I had a dying sister, I wouldn't allow any hospital dictate to me when I could visit. Before my mother passed I visited my mother daily from 9.30 to 11pm no medical person asked me to leave, they are so understaffed they left me attending to my mother washing feeding etcDid i say she was dying no go back read what i said i said she has months she is nit on deaths door and hope to have a few goid months wit her now u and ur other troll i have has enough listening to u be little me and every one else on here !
If someone has only months to live (your originally post) then I'm afraid yes they are dying. Unfortunately it's a part of life and I'm not evil by stating the obvious.
Just because people have opinions and are not all in agreement with you or your fab friends doesn't make them a troll.
Personally I think it's disrespectful to your sister sharing her life on a sex site and morally wrong. But that's my opinion and it won't affect you or anyone else. I stand by everything I say on this matter.
You dont like people being negative on your threads so you should practice what you preech and leave BB alone shes going through enough without your negativity on her threads
And you should try to understand what is written
I said I won't have people been disrespectful on my threads. I'm not having a "go" at BB, and I will reply to anyone who comments on any post I make."Your entitled to an opinion but show some sympathy and respect | |||
"Well I wish u well but if it was me I Wudnt be waste my time here if a family member only had months to live I wud be spending as much time with them wild there around sex be the last thing on my mind or any meets but u enjoy
There is such thing as a hospital wit strict visting times so no i cant be wit her or maybe mr actionman u havent heard abt hospitals !!
If I had a dying sister, I wouldn't allow any hospital dictate to me when I could visit. Before my mother passed I visited my mother daily from 9.30 to 11pm no medical person asked me to leave, they are so understaffed they left me attending to my mother washing feeding etcDid i say she was dying no go back read what i said i said she has months she is nit on deaths door and hope to have a few goid months wit her now u and ur other troll i have has enough listening to u be little me and every one else on here !
If someone has only months to live (your originally post) then I'm afraid yes they are dying. Unfortunately it's a part of life and I'm not evil by stating the obvious.
Just because people have opinions and are not all in agreement with you or your fab friends doesn't make them a troll.
Personally I think it's disrespectful to your sister sharing her life on a sex site and morally wrong. But that's my opinion and it won't affect you or anyone else. I stand by everything I say on this matter.
You dont like people being negative on your threads so you should practice what you preech and leave BB alone shes going through enough without your negativity on her threads
And you should try to understand what is written
I said I won't have people been disrespectful on my threads. I'm not having a "go" at BB, and I will reply to anyone who comments on any post I make.
Your entitled to an opinion but show some sympathy and respect "Yes I am entitled to my opinion, thank you Please show me where I have been disrespectful?? | |||
"Well I wish u well but if it was me I Wudnt be waste my time here if a family member only had months to live I wud be spending as much time with them wild there around sex be the last thing on my mind or any meets but u enjoy
There is such thing as a hospital wit strict visting times so no i cant be wit her or maybe mr actionman u havent heard abt hospitals !!
If I had a dying sister, I wouldn't allow any hospital dictate to me when I could visit. Before my mother passed I visited my mother daily from 9.30 to 11pm no medical person asked me to leave, they are so understaffed they left me attending to my mother washing feeding etcDid i say she was dying no go back read what i said i said she has months she is nit on deaths door and hope to have a few goid months wit her now u and ur other troll i have has enough listening to u be little me and every one else on here !
If someone has only months to live (your originally post) then I'm afraid yes they are dying. Unfortunately it's a part of life and I'm not evil by stating the obvious.
Just because people have opinions and are not all in agreement with you or your fab friends doesn't make them a troll.
Personally I think it's disrespectful to your sister sharing her life on a sex site and morally wrong. But that's my opinion and it won't affect you or anyone else. I stand by everything I say on this matter.
You dont like people being negative on your threads so you should practice what you preech and leave BB alone shes going through enough without your negativity on her threads
And you should try to understand what is written
I said I won't have people been disrespectful on my threads. I'm not having a "go" at BB, and I will reply to anyone who comments on any post I make.
Your entitled to an opinion but show some sympathy and respect
Yes I am entitled to my opinion, thank you
Please show me where I have been disrespectful??
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