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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Hey I'm looking for a fuck buddy on here are some fun but really this site pure shit is sny other lads having problems get some action seem to more men then women I was told tovupload pics and show my meet vertfication but it doesn't help .I'm a horney guy willing to travel so what's the story

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don't expect it on a silver platter

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By *osafewordneededMan  over a year ago

City

There is something in life called "fit" humans naturally look for it, in life, in business, in work.

For example google corporate fit. People go to university to study it.

If you can figure out what someone wants, then you just have to fit what they need. Thats what most on here do. Try it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Probably start by losing the entitlement attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Probably start by losing the entitlement attitude. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey I'm looking for a fuck buddy on here are some fun but really this site pure shit is sny other lads having problems get some action seem to more men then women I was told tovupload pics and show my meet vertfication but it doesn't help .I'm a horney guy willing to travel so what's the story "

• Tidy your Bedroom

• Turn on the light

• Lose the attitude

• Make an effort at your profile

• Don't send Wanna fuck messages

• Its hard to meet genuine guys also so stop hating on us women...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey I'm looking for a fuck buddy on here are some fun but really this site pure shit is sny other lads having problems get some action seem to more men then women I was told tovupload pics and show my meet vertfication but it doesn't help .I'm a horney guy willing to travel so what's the story

• Tidy your Bedroom

• Turn on the light

• Lose the attitude

• Make an effort at your profile

• Don't send Wanna fuck messages

• Its hard to meet genuine guys also so stop hating on us women... "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey I'm looking for a fuck buddy on here are some fun but really this site pure shit is sny other lads having problems get some action seem to more men then women I was told tovupload pics and show my meet vertfication but it doesn't help .I'm a horney guy willing to travel so what's the story

• Tidy your Bedroom

• Turn on the light

• Lose the attitude

• Make an effort at your profile

• Don't send Wanna fuck messages

• Its hard to meet genuine guys also so stop hating on us women... "

Plus a few more pictures than one would help

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Lol first of all I've never send do u wanna fuck messages to you are anyone else and I don't think u ever reply to me o I don't think you should even be making a comment as it's only manners to reply to msgs I think and what's my room got to do with it .It's untidy lol you got to be joking as I said you women dont give us a chance and I'm probably as genuine as they come but no one gives me a chance so il prob be deleting it soon

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By *irst officerMan  over a year ago

Naas


"There is something in life called "fit" humans naturally look for it, in life, in business, in work.

For example google corporate fit. People go to university to study it.

If you can figure out what someone wants, then you just have to fit what they need. Thats what most on here do. Try it."

That's a good piece of advice.

It's one I'll add to the book.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey I'm looking for a fuck buddy on here are some fun but really this site pure shit is sny other lads having problems get some action seem to more men then women I was told tovupload pics and show my meet vertfication but it doesn't help .I'm a horney guy willing to travel so what's the story "

Some genuine advice..

As you are already verified, why don`t you go along to one of the large organised meet and greets..

This way, other members will get to know that you are a genuine guy..

It`s not easy given the huge numbers of guys on site, so at least go down the meet route gives you a better chance..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Lol first of all I've never send do u wanna fuck messages to you are anyone else and I don't think u ever reply to me o I don't think you should even be making a comment as it's only manners to reply to msgs I think and what's my room got to do with it .It's untidy lol you got to be joking as I said you women dont give us a chance and I'm probably as genuine as they come but no one gives me a chance so il prob be deleting it soon "

What do ya expect from an ass only a kick...

I commented to "Try" to help u... Clearly Casanova dont really need it...

I didn't reply to your message 2months ago as it my perogative as to who I choose to reply too...

Not going to waste my time or yours by messaging somebody I'm not interested in..

Also I can post what I like as its a public forum...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Lol first of all I've never send do u wanna fuck messages to you are anyone else and I don't think u ever reply to me o I don't think you should even be making a comment as it's only manners to reply to msgs I think and what's my room got to do with it .It's untidy lol you got to be joking as I said you women dont give us a chance and I'm probably as genuine as they come but no one gives me a chance so il prob be deleting it soon "
I guess you never liked your nose. Since you are cutting it off to spite your face.

Whatever slim chance you had before now, you are just totally ruining with your forum posts.

As I said before - lose the entitlement attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Lad get down off your high horse lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Its hard to succeed bare with it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Lad get down off your high horse lol "
the OP or me?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Lad get down off your high horse lol the OP or me?"

OP bam lol not you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

"I'm a horney guy willing to travel"

Uh, you and every other bloke here....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey I'm looking for a fuck buddy on here are some fun but really this site pure shit is sny other lads having problems get some action seem to more men then women I was told tovupload pics and show my meet vertfication but it doesn't help .I'm a horney guy willing to travel so what's the story "

Why are you staying if the site is pure shit? Yes there are more men to women but the men who are successful understand the scene, don't have unrealistic expectations or an inflated sense of entitlement. Understand that and you may enjoy the site more.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Looks like it all got too much for him

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey I'm looking for a fuck buddy on here are some fun but really this site pure shit is sny other lads having problems get some action seem to more men then women I was told tovupload pics and show my meet vertfication but it doesn't help .I'm a horney guy willing to travel so what's the story

Why are you staying if the site is pure shit? Yes there are more men to women but the men who are successful understand the scene, don't have unrealistic expectations or an inflated sense of entitlement. Understand that and you may enjoy the site more."

i do feel a tad sry for him!you enjoy the site by getting somewhere!if your mailing putting in the effort and getting nowhere i wouldnt say thats enjoyable for anybody

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By *appyPandaMan  over a year ago

Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun

Wow.

If ever I feel I'm too desperate, I'll come back to this post just to make myself feel better.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey I'm looking for a fuck buddy on here are some fun but really this site pure shit is sny other lads having problems get some action seem to more men then women I was told tovupload pics and show my meet vertfication but it doesn't help .I'm a horney guy willing to travel so what's the story

Why are you staying if the site is pure shit? Yes there are more men to women but the men who are successful understand the scene, don't have unrealistic expectations or an inflated sense of entitlement. Understand that and you may enjoy the site more.i do feel a tad sry for him!you enjoy the site by getting somewhere!if your mailing putting in the effort and getting nowhere i wouldnt say thats enjoyable for anybody "

It aint rocket science and he doesnt deserve sympathy.

All he has to do is ask himself 1 question: am i making myself as attractive to women as i possibly can be on here?

If the answer to that is no, then he takes it from there to make necesaary improvements. If he doesnt know how to make those improvements then hes a lost cause. They do exist...plenty of them

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey I'm looking for a fuck buddy on here are some fun but really this site pure shit is sny other lads having problems get some action seem to more men then women I was told tovupload pics and show my meet vertfication but it doesn't help .I'm a horney guy willing to travel so what's the story

Why are you staying if the site is pure shit? Yes there are more men to women but the men who are successful understand the scene, don't have unrealistic expectations or an inflated sense of entitlement. Understand that and you may enjoy the site more.i do feel a tad sry for him!you enjoy the site by getting somewhere!if your mailing putting in the effort and getting nowhere i wouldnt say thats enjoyable for anybody

It aint rocket science and he doesnt deserve sympathy.

All he has to do is ask himself 1 question: am i making myself as attractive to women as i possibly can be on here?

If the answer to that is no, then he takes it from there to make necesaary improvements. If he doesnt know how to make those improvements then hes a lost cause. They do exist...plenty of them"

forget about this thread hes after doing!if hes sending polite mails to women and getting nowhere it aint gonna be enjoyable!what isnt rocket science is that this site is difficult to succeed on for men and who i feel for is genuine blokes who send nice mails! There is a saying "treat a no reply as not interested"! That aint true as alot of women bulk delete with a big number of mail in their inbox

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey I'm looking for a fuck buddy on here are some fun but really this site pure shit is sny other lads having problems get some action seem to more men then women I was told tovupload pics and show my meet vertfication but it doesn't help .I'm a horney guy willing to travel so what's the story

Why are you staying if the site is pure shit? Yes there are more men to women but the men who are successful understand the scene, don't have unrealistic expectations or an inflated sense of entitlement. Understand that and you may enjoy the site more.i do feel a tad sry for him!you enjoy the site by getting somewhere!if your mailing putting in the effort and getting nowhere i wouldnt say thats enjoyable for anybody

It aint rocket science and he doesnt deserve sympathy.

All he has to do is ask himself 1 question: am i making myself as attractive to women as i possibly can be on here?

If the answer to that is no, then he takes it from there to make necesaary improvements. If he doesnt know how to make those improvements then hes a lost cause. They do exist...plenty of themforget about this thread hes after doing!if hes sending polite mails to women and getting nowhere it aint gonna be enjoyable!what isnt rocket science is that this site is difficult to succeed on for men and who i feel for is genuine blokes who send nice mails! There is a saying "treat a no reply as not interested"! That aint true as alot of women bulk delete with a big number of mail in their inbox "

Honestly speaking, i dont find it difficult at all...and im pretty sure a lot of men would think the same. Unless you look like the back of a bus, or live in the back arse of nowhere, i dont see why it should be difficult to succeed

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey I'm looking for a fuck buddy on here are some fun but really this site pure shit is sny other lads having problems get some action seem to more men then women I was told tovupload pics and show my meet vertfication but it doesn't help .I'm a horney guy willing to travel so what's the story

Why are you staying if the site is pure shit? Yes there are more men to women but the men who are successful understand the scene, don't have unrealistic expectations or an inflated sense of entitlement. Understand that and you may enjoy the site more.i do feel a tad sry for him!you enjoy the site by getting somewhere!if your mailing putting in the effort and getting nowhere i wouldnt say thats enjoyable for anybody

It aint rocket science and he doesnt deserve sympathy.

All he has to do is ask himself 1 question: am i making myself as attractive to women as i possibly can be on here?

If the answer to that is no, then he takes it from there to make necesaary improvements. If he doesnt know how to make those improvements then hes a lost cause. They do exist...plenty of themforget about this thread hes after doing!if hes sending polite mails to women and getting nowhere it aint gonna be enjoyable!what isnt rocket science is that this site is difficult to succeed on for men and who i feel for is genuine blokes who send nice mails! There is a saying "treat a no reply as not interested"! That aint true as alot of women bulk delete with a big number of mail in their inbox

Honestly speaking, i dont find it difficult at all...and im pretty sure a lot of men would think the same. Unless you look like the back of a bus, or live in the back arse of nowhere, i dont see why it should be difficult to succeed"

agreed

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey I'm looking for a fuck buddy on here are some fun but really this site pure shit is sny other lads having problems get some action seem to more men then women I was told tovupload pics and show my meet vertfication but it doesn't help .I'm a horney guy willing to travel so what's the story

Why are you staying if the site is pure shit? Yes there are more men to women but the men who are successful understand the scene, don't have unrealistic expectations or an inflated sense of entitlement. Understand that and you may enjoy the site more.i do feel a tad sry for him!you enjoy the site by getting somewhere!if your mailing putting in the effort and getting nowhere i wouldnt say thats enjoyable for anybody

It aint rocket science and he doesnt deserve sympathy.

All he has to do is ask himself 1 question: am i making myself as attractive to women as i possibly can be on here?

If the answer to that is no, then he takes it from there to make necesaary improvements. If he doesnt know how to make those improvements then hes a lost cause. They do exist...plenty of themforget about this thread hes after doing!if hes sending polite mails to women and getting nowhere it aint gonna be enjoyable!what isnt rocket science is that this site is difficult to succeed on for men and who i feel for is genuine blokes who send nice mails! There is a saying "treat a no reply as not interested"! That aint true as alot of women bulk delete with a big number of mail in their inbox

Honestly speaking, i dont find it difficult at all...and im pretty sure a lot of men would think the same. Unless you look like the back of a bus, or live in the back arse of nowhere, i dont see why it should be difficult to succeed"

well then ul be able to shed light on why so many polite guys do? Another thing,location is big problem imo even though some say it shouldnt be

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey I'm looking for a fuck buddy on here are some fun but really this site pure shit is sny other lads having problems get some action seem to more men then women I was told tovupload pics and show my meet vertfication but it doesn't help .I'm a horney guy willing to travel so what's the story

Why are you staying if the site is pure shit? Yes there are more men to women but the men who are successful understand the scene, don't have unrealistic expectations or an inflated sense of entitlement. Understand that and you may enjoy the site more.i do feel a tad sry for him!you enjoy the site by getting somewhere!if your mailing putting in the effort and getting nowhere i wouldnt say thats enjoyable for anybody

It aint rocket science and he doesnt deserve sympathy.

All he has to do is ask himself 1 question: am i making myself as attractive to women as i possibly can be on here?

If the answer to that is no, then he takes it from there to make necesaary improvements. If he doesnt know how to make those improvements then hes a lost cause. They do exist...plenty of themforget about this thread hes after doing!if hes sending polite mails to women and getting nowhere it aint gonna be enjoyable!what isnt rocket science is that this site is difficult to succeed on for men and who i feel for is genuine blokes who send nice mails! There is a saying "treat a no reply as not interested"! That aint true as alot of women bulk delete with a big number of mail in their inbox

Honestly speaking, i dont find it difficult at all...and im pretty sure a lot of men would think the same. Unless you look like the back of a bus, or live in the back arse of nowhere, i dont see why it should be difficult to succeedwell then ul be able to shed light on why so many polite guys do? Another thing,location is big problem imo even though some say it shouldnt be "

To honest, being polite only gets you so far...and a lot of the times, it can probably just be boring for women. Polite is what they get in their daily lives, they come on here for a bit more. Im not suggesting being disrespectful but theres a thin line between polite and boring. Aside from looks, women find confidence and humour a big turn on...politeness on its own is just dull and could hint at a timid personality which is certainly not gonna get the women.

Be brash, be confident, be daring...theyre there for the taking, and they wanna be taken too.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey I'm looking for a fuck buddy on here are some fun but really this site pure shit is sny other lads having problems get some action seem to more men then women I was told tovupload pics and show my meet vertfication but it doesn't help .I'm a horney guy willing to travel so what's the story

Why are you staying if the site is pure shit? Yes there are more men to women but the men who are successful understand the scene, don't have unrealistic expectations or an inflated sense of entitlement. Understand that and you may enjoy the site more.i do feel a tad sry for him!you enjoy the site by getting somewhere!if your mailing putting in the effort and getting nowhere i wouldnt say thats enjoyable for anybody

It aint rocket science and he doesnt deserve sympathy.

All he has to do is ask himself 1 question: am i making myself as attractive to women as i possibly can be on here?

If the answer to that is no, then he takes it from there to make necesaary improvements. If he doesnt know how to make those improvements then hes a lost cause. They do exist...plenty of themforget about this thread hes after doing!if hes sending polite mails to women and getting nowhere it aint gonna be enjoyable!what isnt rocket science is that this site is difficult to succeed on for men and who i feel for is genuine blokes who send nice mails! There is a saying "treat a no reply as not interested"! That aint true as alot of women bulk delete with a big number of mail in their inbox

Honestly speaking, i dont find it difficult at all...and im pretty sure a lot of men would think the same. Unless you look like the back of a bus, or live in the back arse of nowhere, i dont see why it should be difficult to succeedwell then ul be able to shed light on why so many polite guys do? Another thing,location is big problem imo even though some say it shouldnt be

To honest, being polite only gets you so far...and a lot of the times, it can probably just be boring for women. Polite is what they get in their daily lives, they come on here for a bit more. Im not suggesting being disrespectful but theres a thin line between polite and boring. Aside from looks, women find confidence and humour a big turn on...politeness on its own is just dull and could hint at a timid personality which is certainly not gonna get the women.

Be brash, be confident, be daring...theyre there for the taking, and they wanna be taken too."

to sum it up they"re very difficult to please lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey I'm looking for a fuck buddy on here are some fun but really this site pure shit is sny other y improvements. If he doesnt know how to make those improvements then hes a lost cause. They

Honestly speaking, i dont bus, or live in the back arse of nowhere, i dont see why it should be difficult to succeedwell then ul be able to shed light on why so many polite guys do? Another thing,location is big problem imo even though some say it shouldnt be "

Maybe cuz following the same recipe for success often rolled out on the forums about being "polite" doesn't always work if what you say in your message is generic bullshit?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

And hes gone .....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey I'm looking for a fuck buddy on here are some fun but really this site pure shit is sny other lads having problems get some action seem to more men then women I was told tovupload pics and show my meet vertfication but it doesn't help .I'm a horney guy willing to travel so what's the story

Why are you staying if the site is pure shit? Yes there are more men to women but the men who are successful understand the scene, don't have unrealistic expectations or an inflated sense of entitlement. Understand that and you may enjoy the site more.i do feel a tad sry for him!you enjoy the site by getting somewhere!if your mailing putting in the effort and getting nowhere i wouldnt say thats enjoyable for anybody

It aint rocket science and he doesnt deserve sympathy.

All he has to do is ask himself 1 question: am i making myself as attractive to women as i possibly can be on here?

If the answer to that is no, then he takes it from there to make necesaary improvements. If he doesnt know how to make those improvements then hes a lost cause. They do exist...plenty of themforget about this thread hes after doing!if hes sending polite mails to women and getting nowhere it aint gonna be enjoyable!what isnt rocket science is that this site is difficult to succeed on for men and who i feel for is genuine blokes who send nice mails! There is a saying "treat a no reply as not interested"! That aint true as alot of women bulk delete with a big number of mail in their inbox

Honestly speaking, i dont find it difficult at all...and im pretty sure a lot of men would think the same. Unless you look like the back of a bus, or live in the back arse of nowhere, i dont see why it should be difficult to succeedwell then ul be able to shed light on why so many polite guys do? Another thing,location is big problem imo even though some say it shouldnt be

To honest, being polite only gets you so far...and a lot of the times, it can probably just be boring for women. Polite is what they get in their daily lives, they come on here for a bit more. Im not suggesting being disrespectful but theres a thin line between polite and boring. Aside from looks, women find confidence and humour a big turn on...politeness on its own is just dull and could hint at a timid personality which is certainly not gonna get the women.

Be brash, be confident, be daring...theyre there for the taking, and they wanna be taken too.to sum it up they"re very difficult to please lol"

I wouldnt say that either...i dont think ive encountered one woman on here where ive thought 'jesus, theres no pleasing this one'. Stand out from the dross. If you cant do it physically then do it verbally, like how ive suggested. Preferably, stand out in both ways

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey I'm looking for a fuck buddy on here are some fun but really this site pure shit is sny other lads having problems get some action seem to more men then women I was told tovupload pics and show my meet vertfication but it doesn't help .I'm a horney guy willing to travel so what's the story

Why are you staying if the site is pure shit? Yes there are more men to women but the men who are successful understand the scene, don't have unrealistic expectations or an inflated sense of entitlement. Understand that and you may enjoy the site more.i do feel a tad sry for him!you enjoy the site by getting somewhere!if your mailing putting in the effort and getting nowhere i wouldnt say thats enjoyable for anybody

It aint rocket science and he doesnt deserve sympathy.

All he has to do is ask himself 1 question: am i making myself as attractive to women as i possibly can be on here?

If the answer to that is no, then he takes it from there to make necesaary improvements. If he doesnt know how to make those improvements then hes a lost cause. They do exist...plenty of themforget about this thread hes after doing!if hes sending polite mails to women and getting nowhere it aint gonna be enjoyable!what isnt rocket science is that this site is difficult to succeed on for men and who i feel for is genuine blokes who send nice mails! There is a saying "treat a no reply as not interested"! That aint true as alot of women bulk delete with a big number of mail in their inbox

Honestly speaking, i dont find it difficult at all...and im pretty sure a lot of men would think the same. Unless you look like the back of a bus, or live in the back arse of nowhere, i dont see why it should be difficult to succeedwell then ul be able to shed light on why so many polite guys do? Another thing,location is big problem imo even though some say it shouldnt be

To honest, being polite only gets you so far...and a lot of the times, it can probably just be boring for women. Polite is what they get in their daily lives, they come on here for a bit more. Im not suggesting being disrespectful but theres a thin line between polite and boring. Aside from looks, women find confidence and humour a big turn on...politeness on its own is just dull and could hint at a timid personality which is certainly not gonna get the women.

Be brash, be confident, be daring...theyre there for the taking, and they wanna be taken too.to sum it up they"re very difficult to please lol

I wouldnt say that either...i dont think ive encountered one woman on here where ive thought 'jesus, theres no pleasing this one'. Stand out from the dross. If you cant do it physically then do it verbally, like how ive suggested. Preferably, stand out in both ways"

so the vast majority of mails you send you get replys to?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Lol,he's really upset ,I'm on here a while and have had no luck so far,but to throw a hissy fit just cos no one replies to messages,I'll keep sending messages til I hit the jackpot

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey I'm looking for a fuck buddy on here are some fun but really this site pure shit is sny other lads having problems get some action seem to more men then women I was told tovupload pics and show my meet vertfication but it doesn't help .I'm a horney guy willing to travel so what's the story

Why are you staying if the site is pure shit? Yes there are more men to women but the men who are successful understand the scene, don't have unrealistic expectations or an inflated sense of entitlement. Understand that and you may enjoy the site more.i do feel a tad sry for him!you enjoy the site by getting somewhere!if your mailing putting in the effort and getting nowhere i wouldnt say thats enjoyable for anybody

It aint rocket science and he doesnt deserve sympathy.

All he has to do is ask himself 1 question: am i making myself as attractive to women as i possibly can be on here?

If the answer to that is no, then he takes it from there to make necesaary improvements. If he doesnt know how to make those improvements then hes a lost cause. They do exist...plenty of themforget about this thread hes after doing!if hes sending polite mails to women and getting nowhere it aint gonna be enjoyable!what isnt rocket science is that this site is difficult to succeed on for men and who i feel for is genuine blokes who send nice mails! There is a saying "treat a no reply as not interested"! That aint true as alot of women bulk delete with a big number of mail in their inbox

Honestly speaking, i dont find it difficult at all...and im pretty sure a lot of men would think the same. Unless you look like the back of a bus, or live in the back arse of nowhere, i dont see why it should be difficult to succeedwell then ul be able to shed light on why so many polite guys do? Another thing,location is big problem imo even though some say it shouldnt be

To honest, being polite only gets you so far...and a lot of the times, it can probably just be boring for women. Polite is what they get in their daily lives, they come on here for a bit more. Im not suggesting being disrespectful but theres a thin line between polite and boring. Aside from looks, women find confidence and humour a big turn on...politeness on its own is just dull and could hint at a timid personality which is certainly not gonna get the women.

Be brash, be confident, be daring...theyre there for the taking, and they wanna be taken too.to sum it up they"re very difficult to please lol

I wouldnt say that either...i dont think ive encountered one woman on here where ive thought 'jesus, theres no pleasing this one'. Stand out from the dross. If you cant do it physically then do it verbally, like how ive suggested. Preferably, stand out in both waysso the vast majority of mails you send you get replys to?"

Well i would def say anyway, the majority of msgs i send, i would get a reply

They dont all come to anything, of course, but i do generally get a reply alright

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey I'm looking for a fuck buddy on here are some fun but really this site pure shit is sny other lads having problems get some action seem to more men then women I was told tovupload pics and show my meet vertfication but it doesn't help .I'm a horney guy willing to travel so what's the story

Why are you staying if the site is pure shit? Yes there are more men to women but the men who are successful understand the scene, don't have unrealistic expectations or an inflated sense of entitlement. Understand that and you may enjoy the site more.i do feel a tad sry for him!you enjoy the site by getting somewhere!if your mailing putting in the effort and getting nowhere i wouldnt say thats enjoyable for anybody

It aint rocket science and he doesnt deserve sympathy.

All he has to do is ask himself 1 question: am i making myself as attractive to women as i possibly can be on here?

If the answer to that is no, then he takes it from there to make necesaary improvements. If he doesnt know how to make those improvements then hes a lost cause. They do exist...plenty of themforget about this thread hes after doing!if hes sending polite mails to women and getting nowhere it aint gonna be enjoyable!what isnt rocket science is that this site is difficult to succeed on for men and who i feel for is genuine blokes who send nice mails! There is a saying "treat a no reply as not interested"! That aint true as alot of women bulk delete with a big number of mail in their inbox

Honestly speaking, i dont find it difficult at all...and im pretty sure a lot of men would think the same. Unless you look like the back of a bus, or live in the back arse of nowhere, i dont see why it should be difficult to succeedwell then ul be able to shed light on why so many polite guys do? Another thing,location is big problem imo even though some say it shouldnt be

To honest, being polite only gets you so far...and a lot of the times, it can probably just be boring for women. Polite is what they get in their daily lives, they come on here for a bit more. Im not suggesting being disrespectful but theres a thin line between polite and boring. Aside from looks, women find confidence and humour a big turn on...politeness on its own is just dull and could hint at a timid personality which is certainly not gonna get the women.

Be brash, be confident, be daring...theyre there for the taking, and they wanna be taken too.to sum it up they"re very difficult to please lol

I wouldnt say that either...i dont think ive encountered one woman on here where ive thought 'jesus, theres no pleasing this one'. Stand out from the dross. If you cant do it physically then do it verbally, like how ive suggested. Preferably, stand out in both waysso the vast majority of mails you send you get replys to?

Well i would def say anyway, the majority of msgs i send, i would get a reply

They dont all come to anything, of course, but i do generally get a reply alright"

be honest do u think ud have the same success if u lived in a smaller county and not one of the biggest in ireland?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey I'm looking for a fuck buddy on here are some fun but really this site pure shit is sny other lads having problems get some action seem to more men then women I was told tovupload pics and show my meet vertfication but it doesn't help .I'm a horney guy willing to travel so what's the story

Why are you staying if the site is pure shit? Yes there are more men to women but the men who are successful understand the scene, don't have unrealistic expectations or an inflated sense of entitlement. Understand that and you may enjoy the site more.i do feel a tad sry for him!you enjoy the site by getting somewhere!if your mailing putting in the effort and getting nowhere i wouldnt say thats enjoyable for anybody

It aint rocket science and he doesnt deserve sympathy.

All he has to do is ask himself 1 question: am i making myself as attractive to women as i possibly can be on here?

If the answer to that is no, then he takes it from there to make necesaary improvements. If he doesnt know how to make those improvements then hes a lost cause. They do exist...plenty of themforget about this thread hes after doing!if hes sending polite mails to women and getting nowhere it aint gonna be enjoyable!what isnt rocket science is that this site is difficult to succeed on for men and who i feel for is genuine blokes who send nice mails! There is a saying "treat a no reply as not interested"! That aint true as alot of women bulk delete with a big number of mail in their inbox

Honestly speaking, i dont find it difficult at all...and im pretty sure a lot of men would think the same. Unless you look like the back of a bus, or live in the back arse of nowhere, i dont see why it should be difficult to succeedwell then ul be able to shed light on why so many polite guys do? Another thing,location is big problem imo even though some say it shouldnt be

To honest, being polite only gets you so far...and a lot of the times, it can probably just be boring for women. Polite is what they get in their daily lives, they come on here for a bit more. Im not suggesting being disrespectful but theres a thin line between polite and boring. Aside from looks, women find confidence and humour a big turn on...politeness on its own is just dull and could hint at a timid personality which is certainly not gonna get the women.

Be brash, be confident, be daring...theyre there for the taking, and they wanna be taken too.to sum it up they"re very difficult to please lol

I wouldnt say that either...i dont think ive encountered one woman on here where ive thought 'jesus, theres no pleasing this one'. Stand out from the dross. If you cant do it physically then do it verbally, like how ive suggested. Preferably, stand out in both waysso the vast majority of mails you send you get replys to?

Well i would def say anyway, the majority of msgs i send, i would get a reply

They dont all come to anything, of course, but i do generally get a reply alrightbe honest do u think ud have the same success if u lived in a smaller county and not one of the biggest in ireland?"

Oh not a chance, location is a huge factor of course. Youre no good to a woman in bishopstown if you live out in west kerry...plenty of other men closer to her will give her what she wants

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey I'm looking for a fuck buddy on here are some fun but really this site pure shit is sny other lads having problems get some action seem to more men then women I was told tovupload pics and show my meet vertfication but it doesn't help .I'm a horney guy willing to travel so what's the story

Why are you staying if the site is pure shit? Yes there are more men to women but the men who are successful understand the scene, don't have unrealistic expectations or an inflated sense of entitlement. Understand that and you may enjoy the site more.i do feel a tad sry for him!you enjoy the site by getting somewhere!if your mailing putting in the effort and getting nowhere i wouldnt say thats enjoyable for anybody

It aint rocket science and he doesnt deserve sympathy.

All he has to do is ask himself 1 question: am i making myself as attractive to women as i possibly can be on here?

If the answer to that is no, then he takes it from there to make necesaary improvements. If he doesnt know how to make those improvements then hes a lost cause. They do exist...plenty of themforget about this thread hes after doing!if hes sending polite mails to women and getting nowhere it aint gonna be enjoyable!what isnt rocket science is that this site is difficult to succeed on for men and who i feel for is genuine blokes who send nice mails! There is a saying "treat a no reply as not interested"! That aint true as alot of women bulk delete with a big number of mail in their inbox

Honestly speaking, i dont find it difficult at all...and im pretty sure a lot of men would think the same. Unless you look like the back of a bus, or live in the back arse of nowhere, i dont see why it should be difficult to succeedwell then ul be able to shed light on why so many polite guys do? Another thing,location is big problem imo even though some say it shouldnt be

To honest, being polite only gets you so far...and a lot of the times, it can probably just be boring for women. Polite is what they get in their daily lives, they come on here for a bit more. Im not suggesting being disrespectful but theres a thin line between polite and boring. Aside from looks, women find confidence and humour a big turn on...politeness on its own is just dull and could hint at a timid personality which is certainly not gonna get the women.

Be brash, be confident, be daring...theyre there for the taking, and they wanna be taken too.to sum it up they"re very difficult to please lol

I wouldnt say that either...i dont think ive encountered one woman on here where ive thought 'jesus, theres no pleasing this one'. Stand out from the dross. If you cant do it physically then do it verbally, like how ive suggested. Preferably, stand out in both waysso the vast majority of mails you send you get replys to?

Well i would def say anyway, the majority of msgs i send, i would get a reply

They dont all come to anything, of course, but i do generally get a reply alrightbe honest do u think ud have the same success if u lived in a smaller county and not one of the biggest in ireland?

Oh not a chance, location is a huge factor of course. Youre no good to a woman in bishopstown if you live out in west kerry...plenty of other men closer to her will give her what she wants"

exactly so location is huge on here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey I'm looking for a fuck buddy on here are some fun but really this site pure shit is sny other lads having problems get some action seem to more men then women I was told tovupload pics and show my meet vertfication but it doesn't help .I'm a horney guy willing to travel so what's the story

Why are you staying if the site is pure shit? Yes there are more men to women but the men who are successful understand the scene, don't have unrealistic expectations or an inflated sense of entitlement. Understand that and you may enjoy the site more.i do feel a tad sry for him!you enjoy the site by getting somewhere!if your mailing putting in the effort and getting nowhere i wouldnt say thats enjoyable for anybody

It aint rocket science and he doesnt deserve sympathy.

All he has to do is ask himself 1 question: am i making myself as attractive to women as i possibly can be on here?

If the answer to that is no, then he takes it from there to make necesaary improvements. If he doesnt know how to make those improvements then hes a lost cause. They do exist...plenty of themforget about this thread hes after doing!if hes sending polite mails to women and getting nowhere it aint gonna be enjoyable!what isnt rocket science is that this site is difficult to succeed on for men and who i feel for is genuine blokes who send nice mails! There is a saying "treat a no reply as not interested"! That aint true as alot of women bulk delete with a big number of mail in their inbox

Honestly speaking, i dont find it difficult at all...and im pretty sure a lot of men would think the same. Unless you look like the back of a bus, or live in the back arse of nowhere, i dont see why it should be difficult to succeedwell then ul be able to shed light on why so many polite guys do? Another thing,location is big problem imo even though some say it shouldnt be

To honest, being polite only gets you so far...and a lot of the times, it can probably just be boring for women. Polite is what they get in their daily lives, they come on here for a bit more. Im not suggesting being disrespectful but theres a thin line between polite and boring. Aside from looks, women find confidence and humour a big turn on...politeness on its own is just dull and could hint at a timid personality which is certainly not gonna get the women.

Be brash, be confident, be daring...theyre there for the taking, and they wanna be taken too.to sum it up they"re very difficult to please lol

I wouldnt say that either...i dont think ive encountered one woman on here where ive thought 'jesus, theres no pleasing this one'. Stand out from the dross. If you cant do it physically then do it verbally, like how ive suggested. Preferably, stand out in both waysso the vast majority of mails you send you get replys to?

Well i would def say anyway, the majority of msgs i send, i would get a reply

They dont all come to anything, of course, but i do generally get a reply alrightbe honest do u think ud have the same success if u lived in a smaller county and not one of the biggest in ireland?

Oh not a chance, location is a huge factor of course. Youre no good to a woman in bishopstown if you live out in west kerry...plenty of other men closer to her will give her what she wantsexactly so location is huge on here "

nope sure if you can travel who cares where ya are?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Awwk i love it when all the boys are getting on and not being mean...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey I'm looking for a fuck buddy on here are some fun but really this site pure shit is sny other lads having problems get some action seem to more men then women I was told tovupload pics and show my meet vertfication but it doesn't help .I'm a horney guy willing to travel so what's the story

Why are you staying if the site is pure shit? Yes there are more men to women but the men who are successful understand the scene, don't have unrealistic expectations or an inflated sense of entitlement. Understand that and you may enjoy the site more.i do feel a tad sry for him!you enjoy the site by getting somewhere!if your mailing putting in the effort and getting nowhere i wouldnt say thats enjoyable for anybody

It aint rocket science and he doesnt deserve sympathy.

All he has to do is ask himself 1 question: am i making myself as attractive to women as i possibly can be on here?

If the answer to that is no, then he takes it from there to make necesaary improvements. If he doesnt know how to make those improvements then hes a lost cause. They do exist...plenty of themforget about this thread hes after doing!if hes sending polite mails to women and getting nowhere it aint gonna be enjoyable!what isnt rocket science is that this site is difficult to succeed on for men and who i feel for is genuine blokes who send nice mails! There is a saying "treat a no reply as not interested"! That aint true as alot of women bulk delete with a big number of mail in their inbox

Honestly speaking, i dont find it difficult at all...and im pretty sure a lot of men would think the same. Unless you look like the back of a bus, or live in the back arse of nowhere, i dont see why it should be difficult to succeedwell then ul be able to shed light on why so many polite guys do? Another thing,location is big problem imo even though some say it shouldnt be

To honest, being polite only gets you so far...and a lot of the times, it can probably just be boring for women. Polite is what they get in their daily lives, they come on here for a bit more. Im not suggesting being disrespectful but theres a thin line between polite and boring. Aside from looks, women find confidence and humour a big turn on...politeness on its own is just dull and could hint at a timid personality which is certainly not gonna get the women.

Be brash, be confident, be daring...theyre there for the taking, and they wanna be taken too.to sum it up they"re very difficult to please lol

I wouldnt say that either...i dont think ive encountered one woman on here where ive thought 'jesus, theres no pleasing this one'. Stand out from the dross. If you cant do it physically then do it verbally, like how ive suggested. Preferably, stand out in both waysso the vast majority of mails you send you get replys to?

Well i would def say anyway, the majority of msgs i send, i would get a reply

They dont all come to anything, of course, but i do generally get a reply alrightbe honest do u think ud have the same success if u lived in a smaller county and not one of the biggest in ireland?

Oh not a chance, location is a huge factor of course. Youre no good to a woman in bishopstown if you live out in west kerry...plenty of other men closer to her will give her what she wantsexactly so location is huge on here

nope sure if you can travel who cares where ya are?"

alot do trust me!sure most can drive/travel

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey I'm looking for a fuck buddy on here are some fun but really this site pure shit is sny other lads having problems get some action seem to more men then women I was told tovupload pics and show my meet vertfication but it doesn't help .I'm a horney guy willing to travel so what's the story

Why are you staying if the site is pure shit? Yes there are more men to women but the men who are successful understand the scene, don't have unrealistic expectations or an inflated sense of entitlement. Understand that and you may enjoy the site more.i do feel a tad sry for him!you enjoy the site by getting somewhere!if your mailing putting in the effort and getting nowhere i wouldnt say thats enjoyable for anybody

It aint rocket science and he doesnt deserve sympathy.

All he has to do is ask himself 1 question: am i making myself as attractive to women as i possibly can be on here?

If the answer to that is no, then he takes it from there to make necesaary improvements. If he doesnt know how to make those improvements then hes a lost cause. They do exist...plenty of themforget about this thread hes after doing!if hes sending polite mails to women and getting nowhere it aint gonna be enjoyable!what isnt rocket science is that this site is difficult to succeed on for men and who i feel for is genuine blokes who send nice mails! There is a saying "treat a no reply as not interested"! That aint true as alot of women bulk delete with a big number of mail in their inbox

Honestly speaking, i dont find it difficult at all...and im pretty sure a lot of men would think the same. Unless you look like the back of a bus, or live in the back arse of nowhere, i dont see why it should be difficult to succeedwell then ul be able to shed light on why so many polite guys do? Another thing,location is big problem imo even though some say it shouldnt be

To honest, being polite only gets you so far...and a lot of the times, it can probably just be boring for women. Polite is what they get in their daily lives, they come on here for a bit more. Im not suggesting being disrespectful but theres a thin line between polite and boring. Aside from looks, women find confidence and humour a big turn on...politeness on its own is just dull and could hint at a timid personality which is certainly not gonna get the women.

Be brash, be confident, be daring...theyre there for the taking, and they wanna be taken too.to sum it up they"re very difficult to please lol

I wouldnt say that either...i dont think ive encountered one woman on here where ive thought 'jesus, theres no pleasing this one'. Stand out from the dross. If you cant do it physically then do it verbally, like how ive suggested. Preferably, stand out in both waysso the vast majority of mails you send you get replys to?

Well i would def say anyway, the majority of msgs i send, i would get a reply

They dont all come to anything, of course, but i do generally get a reply alrightbe honest do u think ud have the same success if u lived in a smaller county and not one of the biggest in ireland?

Oh not a chance, location is a huge factor of course. Youre no good to a woman in bishopstown if you live out in west kerry...plenty of other men closer to her will give her what she wantsexactly so location is huge on here

nope sure if you can travel who cares where ya are?alot do trust me!sure most can drive/travel "

know one seems to care about where I live

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey I'm looking for a fuck buddy on here are some fun but really this site pure shit is sny other lads having problems get some action seem to more men then women I was told tovupload pics and show my meet vertfication but it doesn't help .I'm a horney guy willing to travel so what's the story

Why are you staying if the site is pure shit? Yes there are more men to women but the men who are successful understand the scene, don't have unrealistic expectations or an inflated sense of entitlement. Understand that and you may enjoy the site more.i do feel a tad sry for him!you enjoy the site by getting somewhere!if your mailing putting in the effort and getting nowhere i wouldnt say thats enjoyable for anybody

It aint rocket science and he doesnt deserve sympathy.

All he has to do is ask himself 1 question: am i making myself as attractive to women as i possibly can be on here?

If the answer to that is no, then he takes it from there to make necesaary improvements. If he doesnt know how to make those improvements then hes a lost cause. They do exist...plenty of themforget about this thread hes after doing!if hes sending polite mails to women and getting nowhere it aint gonna be enjoyable!what isnt rocket science is that this site is difficult to succeed on for men and who i feel for is genuine blokes who send nice mails! There is a saying "treat a no reply as not interested"! That aint true as alot of women bulk delete with a big number of mail in their inbox

Honestly speaking, i dont find it difficult at all...and im pretty sure a lot of men would think the same. Unless you look like the back of a bus, or live in the back arse of nowhere, i dont see why it should be difficult to succeedwell then ul be able to shed light on why so many polite guys do? Another thing,location is big problem imo even though some say it shouldnt be

To honest, being polite only gets you so far...and a lot of the times, it can probably just be boring for women. Polite is what they get in their daily lives, they come on here for a bit more. Im not suggesting being disrespectful but theres a thin line between polite and boring. Aside from looks, women find confidence and humour a big turn on...politeness on its own is just dull and could hint at a timid personality which is certainly not gonna get the women.

Be brash, be confident, be daring...theyre there for the taking, and they wanna be taken too.to sum it up they"re very difficult to please lol

I wouldnt say that either...i dont think ive encountered one woman on here where ive thought 'jesus, theres no pleasing this one'. Stand out from the dross. If you cant do it physically then do it verbally, like how ive suggested. Preferably, stand out in both waysso the vast majority of mails you send you get replys to?

Well i would def say anyway, the majority of msgs i send, i would get a reply

They dont all come to anything, of course, but i do generally get a reply alrightbe honest do u think ud have the same success if u lived in a smaller county and not one of the biggest in ireland?

Oh not a chance, location is a huge factor of course. Youre no good to a woman in bishopstown if you live out in west kerry...plenty of other men closer to her will give her what she wantsexactly so location is huge on here

nope sure if you can travel who cares where ya are?alot do trust me!sure most can drive/travel

know one seems to care about where I live "

do you travel outside lim to many meets?

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By *obbie65Man  over a year ago

kildare

I find it kind of helps on here if you are older, won't send a facepic , won't go to socials and can't meet at the drop of a hat .......

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey I'm looking for a fuck buddy on here are some fun but really this site pure shit is sny other lads having problems get some action seem to more men then women I was told tovupload pics and show my meet vertfication but it doesn't help .I'm a horney guy willing to travel so what's the story

Why are you staying if the site is pure shit? Yes there are more men to women but the men who are successful understand the scene, don't have unrealistic expectations or an inflated sense of entitlement. Understand that and you may enjoy the site more.i do feel a tad sry for him!you enjoy the site by getting somewhere!if your mailing putting in the effort and getting nowhere i wouldnt say thats enjoyable for anybody

It aint rocket science and he doesnt deserve sympathy.

All he has to do is ask himself 1 question: am i making myself as attractive to women as i possibly can be on here?

If the answer to that is no, then he takes it from there to make necesaary improvements. If he doesnt know how to make those improvements then hes a lost cause. They do exist...plenty of themforget about this thread hes after doing!if hes sending polite mails to women and getting nowhere it aint gonna be enjoyable!what isnt rocket science is that this site is difficult to succeed on for men and who i feel for is genuine blokes who send nice mails! There is a saying "treat a no reply as not interested"! That aint true as alot of women bulk delete with a big number of mail in their inbox

Honestly speaking, i dont find it difficult at all...and im pretty sure a lot of men would think the same. Unless you look like the back of a bus, or live in the back arse of nowhere, i dont see why it should be difficult to succeedwell then ul be able to shed light on why so many polite guys do? Another thing,location is big problem imo even though some say it shouldnt be

To honest, being polite only gets you so far...and a lot of the times, it can probably just be boring for women. Polite is what they get in their daily lives, they come on here for a bit more. Im not suggesting being disrespectful but theres a thin line between polite and boring. Aside from looks, women find confidence and humour a big turn on...politeness on its own is just dull and could hint at a timid personality which is certainly not gonna get the women.

Be brash, be confident, be daring...theyre there for the taking, and they wanna be taken too.to sum it up they"re very difficult to please lol

I wouldnt say that either...i dont think ive encountered one woman on here where ive thought 'jesus, theres no pleasing this one'. Stand out from the dross. If you cant do it physically then do it verbally, like how ive suggested. Preferably, stand out in both waysso the vast majority of mails you send you get replys to?

Well i would def say anyway, the majority of msgs i send, i would get a reply

They dont all come to anything, of course, but i do generally get a reply alrightbe honest do u think ud have the same success if u lived in a smaller county and not one of the biggest in ireland?

Oh not a chance, location is a huge factor of course. Youre no good to a woman in bishopstown if you live out in west kerry...plenty of other men closer to her will give her what she wantsexactly so location is huge on here

nope sure if you can travel who cares where ya are?alot do trust me!sure most can drive/travel

know one seems to care about where I live do you travel outside lim to many meets?"

Will have to most of the time, luckily met everyone here so far

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan  over a year ago

newcastle


"I find it kind of helps on here if you are older, won't send a facepic , won't go to socials and can't meet at the drop of a hat ....... "

that sounds like me - i always like to put zero effort in whatsoever

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey I'm looking for a fuck buddy on here are some fun but really this site pure shit is sny other lads having problems get some action seem to more men then women I was told tovupload pics and show my meet vertfication but it doesn't help .I'm a horney guy willing to travel so what's the story

Why are you staying if the site is pure shit? Yes there are more men to women but the men who are successful understand the scene, don't have unrealistic expectations or an inflated sense of entitlement. Understand that and you may enjoy the site more.i do feel a tad sry for him!you enjoy the site by getting somewhere!if your mailing putting in the effort and getting nowhere i wouldnt say thats enjoyable for anybody

It aint rocket science and he doesnt deserve sympathy.

All he has to do is ask himself 1 question: am i making myself as attractive to women as i possibly can be on here?

If the answer to that is no, then he takes it from there to make necesaary improvements. If he doesnt know how to make those improvements then hes a lost cause. They do exist...plenty of themforget about this thread hes after doing!if hes sending polite mails to women and getting nowhere it aint gonna be enjoyable!what isnt rocket science is that this site is difficult to succeed on for men and who i feel for is genuine blokes who send nice mails! There is a saying "treat a no reply as not interested"! That aint true as alot of women bulk delete with a big number of mail in their inbox

Honestly speaking, i dont find it difficult at all...and im pretty sure a lot of men would think the same. Unless you look like the back of a bus, or live in the back arse of nowhere, i dont see why it should be difficult to succeedwell then ul be able to shed light on why so many polite guys do? Another thing,location is big problem imo even though some say it shouldnt be

To honest, being polite only gets you so far...and a lot of the times, it can probably just be boring for women. Polite is what they get in their daily lives, they come on here for a bit more. Im not suggesting being disrespectful but theres a thin line between polite and boring. Aside from looks, women find confidence and humour a big turn on...politeness on its own is just dull and could hint at a timid personality which is certainly not gonna get the women.

Be brash, be confident, be daring...theyre there for the taking, and they wanna be taken too.to sum it up they"re very difficult to please lol

I wouldnt say that either...i dont think ive encountered one woman on here where ive thought 'jesus, theres no pleasing this one'. Stand out from the dross. If you cant do it physically then do it verbally, like how ive suggested. Preferably, stand out in both waysso the vast majority of mails you send you get replys to?

Well i would def say anyway, the majority of msgs i send, i would get a reply

They dont all come to anything, of course, but i do generally get a reply alrightbe honest do u think ud have the same success if u lived in a smaller county and not one of the biggest in ireland?

Oh not a chance, location is a huge factor of course. Youre no good to a woman in bishopstown if you live out in west kerry...plenty of other men closer to her will give her what she wantsexactly so location is huge on here

nope sure if you can travel who cares where ya are?alot do trust me!sure most can drive/travel

know one seems to care about where I live do you travel outside lim to many meets?

Will have to most of the time, luckily met everyone here so far"

Everyone Lim?

Bloody hell tell me more

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hey I'm looking for a fuck buddy on here are some fun but really this site pure shit is sny other lads having problems get some action seem to more men then women I was told tovupload pics and show my meet vertfication but it doesn't help .I'm a horney guy willing to travel so what's the story

Why are you staying if the site is pure shit? Yes there are more men to women but the men who are successful understand the scene, don't have unrealistic expectations or an inflated sense of entitlement. Understand that and you may enjoy the site more.i do feel a tad sry for him!you enjoy the site by getting somewhere!if your mailing putting in the effort and getting nowhere i wouldnt say thats enjoyable for anybody

It aint rocket science and he doesnt deserve sympathy.

All he has to do is ask himself 1 question: am i making myself as attractive to women as i possibly can be on here?

If the answer to that is no, then he takes it from there to make necesaary improvements. If he doesnt know how to make those improvements then hes a lost cause. They do exist...plenty of themforget about this thread hes after doing!if hes sending polite mails to women and getting nowhere it aint gonna be enjoyable!what isnt rocket science is that this site is difficult to succeed on for men and who i feel for is genuine blokes who send nice mails! There is a saying "treat a no reply as not interested"! That aint true as alot of women bulk delete with a big number of mail in their inbox

Honestly speaking, i dont find it difficult at all...and im pretty sure a lot of men would think the same. Unless you look like the back of a bus, or live in the back arse of nowhere, i dont see why it should be difficult to succeedwell then ul be able to shed light on why so many polite guys do? Another thing,location is big problem imo even though some say it shouldnt be

To honest, being polite only gets you so far...and a lot of the times, it can probably just be boring for women. Polite is what they get in their daily lives, they come on here for a bit more. Im not suggesting being disrespectful but theres a thin line between polite and boring. Aside from looks, women find confidence and humour a big turn on...politeness on its own is just dull and could hint at a timid personality which is certainly not gonna get the women.

Be brash, be confident, be daring...theyre there for the taking, and they wanna be taken too.to sum it up they"re very difficult to please lol

I wouldnt say that either...i dont think ive encountered one woman on here where ive thought 'jesus, theres no pleasing this one'. Stand out from the dross. If you cant do it physically then do it verbally, like how ive suggested. Preferably, stand out in both waysso the vast majority of mails you send you get replys to?

Well i would def say anyway, the majority of msgs i send, i would get a reply

They dont all come to anything, of course, but i do generally get a reply alrightbe honest do u think ud have the same success if u lived in a smaller county and not one of the biggest in ireland?

Oh not a chance, location is a huge factor of course. Youre no good to a woman in bishopstown if you live out in west kerry...plenty of other men closer to her will give her what she wantsexactly so location is huge on here

nope sure if you can travel who cares where ya are?alot do trust me!sure most can drive/travel

know one seems to care about where I live do you travel outside lim to many meets?

Will have to most of the time, luckily met everyone here so far

Everyone Lim?

Bloody hell tell me more "

they all come to meet lim, travel from the far corners of the earth

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

All hail Lim, King of the Swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All hail Lim, King of the Swingers."

Bam if you're going to block me You might as well ignore me here too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All hail Lim, King of the Swingers.

Bam if you're going to block me You might as well ignore me here too"

duly noted

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By *obbie65Man  over a year ago

kildare


"All hail Lim, King of the Swingers.

Bam if you're going to block me You might as well ignore me here too"

Men blocking men ! - what's this place coming to -

Man up , it's all for fun or it's for nothing.

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By *s louWoman  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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To honest, being polite only gets you so far...and a lot of the times, it can probably just be boring for women. Polite is what they get in their daily lives, they come on here for a bit more. Im not suggesting being disrespectful but theres a thin line between polite and boring. Aside from looks, women find confidence and humour a big turn on...politeness on its own is just dull and could hint at a timid personality which is certainly not gonna get the women.

Be brash, be confident, be daring...theyre there for the taking, and they wanna be taken too."

Reads like a script from a bad 70s porn movie

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan  over a year ago

newcastle


"

To honest, being polite only gets you so far...and a lot of the times, it can probably just be boring for women. Polite is what they get in their daily lives, they come on here for a bit more. Im not suggesting being disrespectful but theres a thin line between polite and boring. Aside from looks, women find confidence and humour a big turn on...politeness on its own is just dull and could hint at a timid personality which is certainly not gonna get the women.

Be brash, be confident, be daring...theyre there for the taking, and they wanna be taken too.

Reads like a script from a bad 70s porn movie "

must watch some of that i havent seen a full bush in years

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

To honest, being polite only gets you so far...and a lot of the times, it can probably just be boring for women. Polite is what they get in their daily lives, they come on here for a bit more. Im not suggesting being disrespectful but theres a thin line between polite and boring. Aside from looks, women find confidence and humour a big turn on...politeness on its own is just dull and could hint at a timid personality which is certainly not gonna get the women.

Be brash, be confident, be daring...theyre there for the taking, and they wanna be taken too.

Reads like a script from a bad 70s porn movie "

so you dont agree with him?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Awwk i love it when all the boys are getting on and not being mean... "

Maybe a few boys only nights would sort their shit out? (To those who haven't got it together).

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

A few boys only nights is a great idea and maybe I might be aloud to go along just to referee any disputes like....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A few boys only nights is a great idea and maybe I might be aloud to go along just to referee any disputes like.... "

Did you ever see a zebra try to referee lions?

We'd have to dangle you down from the roof so they couldn't reach you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

To honest, being polite only gets you so far...and a lot of the times, it can probably just be boring for women. Polite is what they get in their daily lives, they come on here for a bit more. Im not suggesting being disrespectful but theres a thin line between polite and boring. Aside from looks, women find confidence and humour a big turn on...politeness on its own is just dull and could hint at a timid personality which is certainly not gonna get the women.

Be brash, be confident, be daring...theyre there for the taking, and they wanna be taken too.

Reads like a script from a bad 70s porn movie so you dont agree with him?"

Well it obviously works for him, and those he meets..

It`s the terminology that`s questionable,

Polite is what THEY get , They`re here for the taking and they wanna be taken too...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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To honest, being polite only gets you so far...and a lot of the times, it can probably just be boring for women. Polite is what they get in their daily lives, they come on here for a bit more. Im not suggesting being disrespectful but theres a thin line between polite and boring. Aside from looks, women find confidence and humour a big turn on...politeness on its own is just dull and could hint at a timid personality which is certainly not gonna get the women.

Be brash, be confident, be daring...theyre there for the taking, and they wanna be taken too.

Reads like a script from a bad 70s porn movie so you dont agree with him?

Well it obviously works for him, and those he meets..

It`s the terminology that`s questionable,

Polite is what THEY get , They`re here for the taking and they wanna be taken too...

"

Well, yes...i was addressing a guy about women. In what way is 'they' questionable?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A few boys only nights is a great idea and maybe I might be aloud to go along just to referee any disputes like....

Did you ever see a zebra try to referee lions?

We'd have to dangle you down from the roof so they couldn't reach you."

Ahh i wouldn't mind the touching its the biting I'd be afraid of...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

To honest, being polite only gets you so far...and a lot of the times, it can probably just be boring for women. Polite is what they get in their daily lives, they come on here for a bit more. Im not suggesting being disrespectful but theres a thin line between polite and boring. Aside from looks, women find confidence and humour a big turn on...politeness on its own is just dull and could hint at a timid personality which is certainly not gonna get the women.

Be brash, be confident, be daring...theyre there for the taking, and they wanna be taken too.

Reads like a script from a bad 70s porn movie so you dont agree with him?

Well it obviously works for him, and those he meets..

It`s the terminology that`s questionable,

Polite is what THEY get , They`re here for the taking and they wanna be taken too...

Well, yes...i was addressing a guy about women. In what way is 'they' questionable?"

Perhaps my use of the word terminology didn`t best explain my inital point..

Phraseology would have been more apt..

Using the words THEY to describe women coupled with they`re here for the taking; smacks of 70s porn scripts...

Swinging is a lifestyle not a low budget movie, where the women are drooling for sex...

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By *osafewordneededMan  over a year ago

City

Shame he had to leave for being honest about what he wanted, the same thing most guys want, some slut to stick their dick in on a platter.

You're ten times creepier than this guy is for having some creepy little game plan to get women into bed, than he is for just asking for it out right.

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By *ong riderMan  over a year ago

belfast


"Shame he had to leave for being honest about what he wanted, the same thing most guys want, some slut to stick their dick in on a platter.

You're ten times creepier than this guy is for having some creepy little game plan to get women into bed, than he is for just asking for it out right."

Brilliant! Well said. Though he was really creepy...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

To honest, being polite only gets you so far...and a lot of the times, it can probably just be boring for women. Polite is what they get in their daily lives, they come on here for a bit more. Im not suggesting being disrespectful but theres a thin line between polite and boring. Aside from looks, women find confidence and humour a big turn on...politeness on its own is just dull and could hint at a timid personality which is certainly not gonna get the women.

Be brash, be confident, be daring...theyre there for the taking, and they wanna be taken too.

Reads like a script from a bad 70s porn movie so you dont agree with him?

Well it obviously works for him, and those he meets..

It`s the terminology that`s questionable,

Polite is what THEY get , They`re here for the taking and they wanna be taken too...

Well, yes...i was addressing a guy about women. In what way is 'they' questionable?

Perhaps my use of the word terminology didn`t best explain my inital point..

Phraseology would have been more apt..

Using the words THEY to describe women coupled with they`re here for the taking; smacks of 70s porn scripts...

Swinging is a lifestyle not a low budget movie, where the women are drooling for sex...

"

Well ive never watched a 70s porn movie so i have no idea what their scripts are like

I understand swinging is a lifestyle, but when it comes down to it, everyone is here for one reason, so we all have that in our favour right from the off.

You can pick holes in my phraseology all you like but actually going after it is what gets you what you want on here. No point in dancing around the issue here, i may as well not contribute if all im gonna do is reinforce the 'just be polite' myth.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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To honest, being polite only gets you so far...and a lot of the times, it can probably just be boring for women. Polite is what they get in their daily lives, they come on here for a bit more. Im not suggesting being disrespectful but theres a thin line between polite and boring. Aside from looks, women find confidence and humour a big turn on...politeness on its own is just dull and could hint at a timid personality which is certainly not gonna get the women.

Be brash, be confident, be daring...theyre there for the taking, and they wanna be taken too.

Reads like a script from a bad 70s porn movie so you dont agree with him?

Well it obviously works for him, and those he meets..

It`s the terminology that`s questionable,

Polite is what THEY get , They`re here for the taking and they wanna be taken too...

Well, yes...i was addressing a guy about women. In what way is 'they' questionable?

Perhaps my use of the word terminology didn`t best explain my inital point..

Phraseology would have been more apt..

Using the words THEY to describe women coupled with they`re here for the taking; smacks of 70s porn scripts...

Swinging is a lifestyle not a low budget movie, where the women are drooling for sex...

Well ive never watched a 70s porn movie so i have no idea what their scripts are like

I understand swinging is a lifestyle, but when it comes down to it, everyone is here for one reason, so we all have that in our favour right from the off.

You can pick holes in my phraseology all you like but actually going after it is what gets you what you want on here. No point in dancing around the issue here, i may as well not contribute if all im gonna do is reinforce the 'just be polite' myth."

With respect,I was not picking holes in your comments, merely pointing out that not ALL women respond to your thinking..

Yes as you point out we are all here for sex, but the one shoe fits all notion is wrong, and it`s no wonder guys get frustrated and confused by the conflicting advice...

On one hand they are told, be polite, genuine, respectful, don`t send out wanna fuck messages ect.

Yet when they come onto forums like the original poster did to air their frustrations at not getting meets, they are ridiculed ect..

Perhaps we women need to more upfront about we want , sex end off, stop confusing guys, play on an equal pitch..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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To honest, being polite only gets you so far...and a lot of the times, it can probably just be boring for women. Polite is what they get in their daily lives, they come on here for a bit more. Im not suggesting being disrespectful but theres a thin line between polite and boring. Aside from looks, women find confidence and humour a big turn on...politeness on its own is just dull and could hint at a timid personality which is certainly not gonna get the women.

Be brash, be confident, be daring...theyre there for the taking, and they wanna be taken too.

Reads like a script from a bad 70s porn movie so you dont agree with him?

Well it obviously works for him, and those he meets..

It`s the terminology that`s questionable,

Polite is what THEY get , They`re here for the taking and they wanna be taken too...

Well, yes...i was addressing a guy about women. In what way is 'they' questionable?

Perhaps my use of the word terminology didn`t best explain my inital point..

Phraseology would have been more apt..

Using the words THEY to describe women coupled with they`re here for the taking; smacks of 70s porn scripts...

Swinging is a lifestyle not a low budget movie, where the women are drooling for sex...

Well ive never watched a 70s porn movie so i have no idea what their scripts are like

I understand swinging is a lifestyle, but when it comes down to it, everyone is here for one reason, so we all have that in our favour right from the off.

You can pick holes in my phraseology all you like but actually going after it is what gets you what you want on here. No point in dancing around the issue here, i may as well not contribute if all im gonna do is reinforce the 'just be polite' myth.

With respect,I was not picking holes in your comments, merely pointing out that not ALL women respond to your thinking..

Yes as you point out we are all here for sex, but the one shoe fits all notion is wrong, and it`s no wonder guys get frustrated and confused by the conflicting advice...

On one hand they are told, be polite, genuine, respectful, don`t send out wanna fuck messages ect.

Yet when they come onto forums like the original poster did to air their frustrations at not getting meets, they are ridiculed ect..

Perhaps we women need to more upfront about we want , sex end off, stop confusing guys, play on an equal pitch.."

I dont know about ridiculing him, i certainly havent done that, i merely offered my advise on what i believe women on here want and how best to go about working with that

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