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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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evening all
Just a curious question, interested to hear peoples views on it.
We have had aprox 20 winks in the last day or so.(not sleep  no pun intended)
But Not one mail to accompany it, we have mailed off to a few that caught our eye from aformentiond winks, only to see the mail deleated with not so much as a bye your leave?
So first what do people think is happening here?
Second are winks a waste of time?
Lastly we are not bothered by this just curious thats all.
Pennysworth welcome 
Have a great evening all |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To be honest i never look at them and rarely use them. .. not sure their point"
Cool thanks for the input
We think the idea behiend it is good, kinna like ohh like your profile come check us out, and if you like mail us.
Well thats what we think its surpossed to be, guess its a bit lazy really.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We like em....think it shows other ppl that you are interested in getting to know them...wink wink"
Ooohhh mail on way dont delete it jokeeeeeeeeeee  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I use winks to signal my interest. I gave up sending long messages to people as most rarely reply to emails from single guys.
Apparently emails from single guys are not worth replying to. "
Ehh sorry cannot read the above you are a single guy!Therefore invisable
Jokkkkkkkeee
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use winks to signal my interest. I gave up sending long messages to people as most rarely reply to emails from single guys.
Apparently emails from single guys are not worth replying to. "
I'll send you a mail Willow, we can pretend  |
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"I use winks to signal my interest. I gave up sending long messages to people as most rarely reply to emails from single guys.
Apparently emails from single guys are not worth replying to.
I'll send you a mail Willow, we can pretend "
Do indeed but will you pretend you're a woman and talk dirty to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest I forget to check them and have discovered some days afterwards
I do send them the odd time but unlik me mate Willow Im still in the mail camp
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"I use winks to signal my interest. I gave up sending long messages to people as most rarely reply to emails from single guys.
Apparently emails from single guys are not worth replying to.
I'll send you a mail Willow, we can pretend
Do indeed but will you pretend you're a woman and talk dirty to me. "
Did someone call me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use winks to signal my interest. I gave up sending long messages to people as most rarely reply to emails from single guys.
Apparently emails from single guys are not worth replying to.
I'll send you a mail Willow, we can pretend
Do indeed but will you pretend you're a woman and talk dirty to me.
Did someone call me? "
The meat for the sandwich perhaps?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like winks. If I like a profile, I might wink, if I get a wink back I will send a message.
It's a nice way to start a convo without investing time to write a nice message to profiles that simply bin it. If there is a wink, at least we have established an initial interest, so I am happier to spend time on writing down few words. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like winks. If I like a profile, I might wink, if I get a wink back I will send a message.
It's a nice way to start a convo without investing time to write a nice message to profiles that simply bin it. If there is a wink, at least we have established an initial interest, so I am happier to spend time on writing down few words."
Would Agree totally  |
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"I use winks to signal my interest. I gave up sending long messages to people as most rarely reply to emails from single guys.
Apparently emails from single guys are not worth replying to.
I'll send you a mail Willow, we can pretend
Do indeed but will you pretend you're a woman and talk dirty to me.
Did someone call me?
The meat for the sandwich perhaps?
If you find another why not make it a triple decker
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lofao
Does every thread without fail get hijacked and go off topic? Only 4th reply in and someone desides to do something different, noting to do with the original post.
Lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like winks. If I like a profile, I might wink, if I get a wink back I will send a message.
It's a nice way to start a convo without investing time to write a nice message to profiles that simply bin it. If there is a wink, at least we have established an initial interest, so I am happier to spend time on writing down few words.
Would Agree totally "
Thanks for the input guys
Tho you may be invisable, your voices can still be heard!
Againnnn jokeing before people start on us, its called banter...and its our thread so we can hijack it if we want noooo need to point out the ironey of our slating hijacked postes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like winks. If I like a profile, I might wink, if I get a wink back I will send a message.
It's a nice way to start a convo without investing time to write a nice message to profiles that simply bin it. If there is a wink, at least we have established an initial interest, so I am happier to spend time on writing down few words.
Would Agree totally "
Me too, wink to signal that I'm interested, if it's returned then start to chat, simples |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate having notifications, I'm a little OCD, so I click in to clear them but never really notice who's left them which is a bit rude of me now that I think of it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate having notifications, I'm a little OCD, so I click in to clear them but never really notice who's left them which is a bit rude of me now that I think of it!"
I was wondering why you never noticed my winks   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I hate having notifications, I'm a little OCD, so I click in to clear them but never really notice who's left them which is a bit rude of me now that I think of it!"
Hummmm ok lolli
So the winks dont work with you hummmm! .
Ok drastic action needed.
WEEEE LOVEEE YOUUUUUU COMEEE GET US
What whatttttt to sutle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I like winks. I like getting them (cough, cough) but are you running the risk when sending a wink to a profile you really like only for them to delete them because they get so many of them, just like Lolli has described. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate having notifications, I'm a little OCD, so I click in to clear them but never really notice who's left them which is a bit rude of me now that I think of it!"
Same... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate having notifications, I'm a little OCD, so I click in to clear them but never really notice who's left them which is a bit rude of me now that I think of it!
Hummmm ok lolli
So the winks dont work with you hummmm! .
Ok drastic action needed.
WEEEE LOVEEE YOUUUUUU COMEEE GET US
What whatttttt to sutle "
Aw shucks guys
*trips over knickers pulling them off as running for the door for the megas house |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah I like winks. I like getting them (cough, cough) but are you running the risk when sending a wink to a profile you really like only for them to delete them because they get so many of them, just like Lolli has described. "
Hi thanks formyour view.
We look at them then mail the ones that interest us, but then see the mail was deleted, after the peeps had initiated the wink...noone has tackeled the this part of the question |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Its amazing what a wink can do I use them to signal intent if they are returned then way hea send a mail
About hyjacking threads did I tell u that's a fine spank able ass "
Fuck we have just been dick turpinned |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I hate having notifications, I'm a little OCD, so I click in to clear them but never really notice who's left them which is a bit rude of me now that I think of it!
Hummmm ok lolli
So the winks dont work with you hummmm! .
Ok drastic action needed.
WEEEE LOVEEE YOUUUUUU COMEEE GET US
What whatttttt to sutle
Aw shucks guys
*trips over knickers pulling them off as running for the door for the megas house "
Door is wideeeee open mwahhhhh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah I like winks. I like getting them (cough, cough) but are you running the risk when sending a wink to a profile you really like only for them to delete them because they get so many of them, just like Lolli has described.
Hi thanks formyour view.
We look at them then mail the ones that interest us, but then see the mail was deleted, after the peeps had initiated the wink...noone has tackeled the this part of the question "
and the accounts that delete the mail, are they verified by meeting in person or not. if they are not meet verified then they are just time wasters who shit their pants when you mail back. if they are meet verified then i cant answer why! (twin peaks music in the background) |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Its amazing what a wink can do I use them to signal intent if they are returned then way hea send a mail
About hyjacking threads did I tell u that's a fine spank able ass
Fuck we have just been dick turpinned "
Stand and deliver
Seen it twice before when I received a wink I replied With a wink and an mail which as u say was deleted just shrugged my shoulders and looked at the next victim
I mean potential meet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah I like winks. I like getting them (cough, cough) but are you running the risk when sending a wink to a profile you really like only for them to delete them because they get so many of them, just like Lolli has described.
Hi thanks formyour view.
We look at them then mail the ones that interest us, but then see the mail was deleted, after the peeps had initiated the wink...noone has tackeled the this part of the question
and the accounts that delete the mail, are they verified by meeting in person or not. if they are not meet verified then they are just time wasters who shit their pants when you mail back. if they are meet verified then i cant answer why! (twin peaks music in the background)"
Mostly the later, go figure, were mystified.
Ahh well |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Its amazing what a wink can do I use them to signal intent if they are returned then way hea send a mail
About hyjacking threads did I tell u that's a fine spank able ass
Fuck we have just been dick turpinned
Stand and deliver
Seen it twice before when I received a wink I replied With a wink and an mail which as u say was deleted just shrugged my shoulders and looked at the next victim
I mean potential meet "
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To wink or not to wink? I've personally had some good experiences in real life with them and have yet to be disappointed with them here.
They are a virtual birdsong, and can be very entertaining.
In the real world, whenever I'm in the supermarket and I see a woman picking up a cucumber, I give them a little wink and a smile... mainly just to see how many go red and put it back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I use winks to signal my interest. I gave up sending long messages to people as most rarely reply to emails from single guys.
Apparently emails from single guys are not worth replying to. "
Willow I totally get what u are saying,but here's the scenario,I have no pics displayed,I have no veris displayed,I have very little on my profile,and yes i have my filters turned on,and yet I have 568 messages in my inbox. I am sorry but for me to read and reply to all of these I would need to genuinely sit and just do that,no bathroom breaks,no food breaks,no sleep oh and lets not forget that as I am online,those messages are ever increasing.
For me it actually upsets me that I cant reply as I would pride myself on treating people as I like to be treated myself,with that volume of messages however that is really impossible.
And i am very much aware that within those messages are replies to messages I have sent myself to friends etc that I may have missed.
So I conclusion willow it is not that single males are not worthy of a reply,it is just physically impossible to reply to everyone and apologies if that offends. |
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I find guys send a wink a friend request and a mail all at the same time..
Both the wink and friend request are ignored..
I'll read the profile, then the mail and reply accordingly (unless it's a wanna fuck or just a "hi")
As for volume of mail.. It will ease off.
Do a bulk delete poster above. I'm sure the same guys will re mail you soon enough.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To wink or not to wink? I've personally had some good experiences in real life with them and have yet to be disappointed with them here.
They are a virtual birdsong, and can be very entertaining.
In the real world, whenever I'm in the supermarket and I see a woman picking up a cucumber, I give them a little wink and a smile... mainly just to see how
many go red and put it back. "
Oh ur naughty Licky |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If we receive a wink,we will wink back if we like the look if the profile .The balls then in their court to mail us ,if they don't we move on .now people who send a wink and a friend request at the same time will most likely be ignored . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Proposal: people are winking after firing through the 'browse' section because of your lush avi, then you message the winker so they go in for a closer look now they got a bite, see there's only 1 pic, nothing to fantasize over & now they're not actually interested so they delete your message.
What you reckon? |
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By *ohsirMan
over a year ago
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I do sometimes send a wink to a profile I like just to break the ice and to see if the other person is interested, before sending a message as most single guy messages don't get replied to. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Cool thanks guys for all the views.
But noone yet has tackeled the second part of the question!
That being if you get a wink and then you go ok and mail the winkers in question, only to either have the mail ignored or deleted, whats that about? When they made first contact!
Is it simply they thaught your mail was crap therfore you are lol
Views please |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This has happened me so many times I now just ignore winks completely unless its just a friend on a drive thru..lol
..i feel its usually fakes and heavily ego'd types who maybe wink at 30/40 profiles in the same night possibly to garner fabs/attention |
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"This has happened me so many times I now just ignore winks completely unless its just a friend on a drive thru..lol
..i feel its usually fakes and heavily ego'd types who maybe wink at 30/40 profiles in the same night possibly to garner fabs/attention"
Humm an ego thing you could be onto something there
Thanks for your thaughts |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Cool thanks guys for all the views.
But noone yet has tackeled the second part of the question!
That being if you get a wink and then you go ok and mail the winkers in question, only to either have the mail ignored or deleted, whats that about? When they made first contact!
Is it simply they thaught your mail was crap therfore you are lol
Views please "
Err hello... |
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