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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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iv had a few meets on fab but only after a lot of chatting and getting to know each other im not really interested in the party meets so I'm wondering do people just meet for straight up sex without all the prep?? |
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over a year ago
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"Ya but I do like to get to know the person a bit, its just better when you have a good chemistry built up"
Once again King you're bang on 
Kaizer likes a rapport with potential meets, its all about the banter 
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It's far nicer to chat to someone first and I need to be physically attracted to the person too,,I can't just fuck anyone I meet and I guess I've been lucky with those I've chosen to meet as I've had no regrets  |
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"Ya but I do like to get to know the person a bit, its just better when you have a good chemistry built up
Once again King you're bang on
Kaizer likes a rapport with potential meets, its all about the banter
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I'm wise beyond my years bud  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ya but I do like to get to know the person a bit, its just better when you have a good chemistry built up
Once again King you're bang on
Kaizer likes a rapport with potential meets, its all about the banter
I'm wise beyond my years bud "
You're like Gandalf, only minus the staff and ZZ Top beardage |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ya but I do like to get to know the person a bit, its just better when you have a good chemistry built up
Once again King you're bang on
Kaizer likes a rapport with potential meets, its all about the banter
I'm wise beyond my years bud
You're like Gandalf, only minus the staff and ZZ Top beardage "
less grey too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ya but I do like to get to know the person a bit, its just better when you have a good chemistry built up
Once again King you're bang on
Kaizer likes a rapport with potential meets, its all about the banter
I'm wise beyond my years bud
You're like Gandalf, only minus the staff and ZZ Top beardage
less grey too "
More white  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ya but I do like to get to know the person a bit, its just better when you have a good chemistry built up
Once again King you're bang on
Kaizer likes a rapport with potential meets, its all about the banter
I'm wise beyond my years bud
You're like Gandalf, only minus the staff and ZZ Top beardage
less grey too
More white "
I'd be Gandalf the brown (the younger years) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some do........some girls will. ...Some girls won't. ...lol....when's the eurovision on again. ...I love that show.. "
Why are you thinking about entering. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's far nicer to chat to someone first and I need to be physically attracted to the person too,,I can't just fuck anyone I meet and I guess I've been lucky with those I've chosen to meet as I've had no regrets "
better not |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's far nicer to chat to someone first and I need to be physically attracted to the person too,,I can't just fuck anyone I meet and I guess I've been lucky with those I've chosen to meet as I've had no regrets "
Can't wait |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We do a mix of both, sometimes a social meet first, or drinks which may or may not progress to play or sometimes just turn up and fuck... Depends on the mood!   "
Hmm
Interesting |
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All three methods usually work out well for us!
Something about just walking in and getting down to business is HOT.
A couple of great meets were us surprising each other, eg, MrNPP arriving home to me & a F and joining in, or MrNPP arriving home with a F/M for us to play with! |
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Loads do. I don't but nearly everyone on here does. They think being promiscuous with strangers is swinging, and few of them do proper vet of the person.
When people are teenagers you can forgive having sex with strangers as youthful exploration. When they hit 20's it becomes a case of them having low self worth.
The girls who do it often think a guy with a gym membership is out of their league. They openly admit they get scared by a good looking guy. They hook up with guys they think wont turn them down, with guys who will leave them a great review, with guys who can make them feel wanted for a while.
But the reality is they are meeting up with someone who they think is average, who will fuck any girl, guy, or tv who is in front of them. Who does not give a shit about them, and gives the same bullshit veri to everyone. They were only wanted for their desperation and low self worth.
The guys who do it, didn't get laid enough when they were teenagers, and don't really know how to say no to sex. They have a lot of issues going on, they lie, they use, they don't really care.
It's all kids stuff. Turns me off big time.
Some women do it well enough, they have it down to an art getting to know the guy as quickly as possible, vetting him properly etc.
It's just not for me. I have nothing to offer those people. I'd more like to meet up and swing with groups of people that I like, have gotten to know, who know me, who like me, who don't just give it to strangers.
oh well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Loads do. I don't but nearly everyone on here does. They think being promiscuous with strangers is swinging, and few of them do proper vet of the person.
When people are teenagers you can forgive having sex with strangers as youthful exploration. When they hit 20's it becomes a case of them having low self worth.
The girls who do it often think a guy with a gym membership is out of their league. They openly admit they get scared by a good looking guy. They hook up with guys they think wont turn them down, with guys who will leave them a great review, with guys who can make them feel wanted for a while.
But the reality is they are meeting up with someone who they think is average, who will fuck any girl, guy, or tv who is in front of them. Who does not give a shit about them, and gives the same bullshit veri to everyone. They were only wanted for their desperation and low self worth.
The guys who do it, didn't get laid enough when they were teenagers, and don't really know how to say no to sex. They have a lot of issues going on, they lie, they use, they don't really care.
It's all kids stuff. Turns me off big time.
Some women do it well enough, they have it down to an art getting to know the guy as quickly as possible, vetting him properly etc.
It's just not for me. I have nothing to offer those people. I'd more like to meet up and swing with groups of people that I like, have gotten to know, who know me, who like me, who don't just give it to strangers.
oh well."
You need to write a book NSFW, so we can all become enlightened. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You need to write a book NSFW, so we can all become enlightened.
I'd rather leave you's to it."
ah but the guide to swinging by nosafe could be a Christmas best seller |
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"ah but the guide to swinging by nosafe could be a Christmas best seller"
Maybe a guide dealing with morning after guilt from sleeping with a stranger would sell more.
I'm not trying to guide or change people, just writing what I am looking for. If people dont match me then it does me no harm at all. People should do whatever they want, just be honest about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ah but the guide to swinging by nosafe could be a Christmas best seller
Maybe a guide dealing with morning after guilt from sleeping with a stranger would sell more.
I'm not trying to guide or change people, just writing what I am looking for. If people dont match me then it does me no harm at all. People should do whatever they want, just be honest about it."
I coulda done with that when I was younger haha waking up next to someone who's not what you thought they were is horrible |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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what else would people be doing i dont mind actualy if a hot guy come over fucked me made me cum and then done my house work then hes a keeper other then that make me cum and get the feck out ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have done, but we find this can be great with singles, but tricky when meeting couples, because you have to find two people that you both like. For us it's much easier when meeting couples to meet socially first and then either meet up again or not. That's why we like parties best. More choice |
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By *itty14Couple
over a year ago
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"Ya but I do like to get to know the person a bit, its just better when you have a good chemistry built up
Once again King you're bang on
Kaizer likes a rapport with potential meets, its all about the banter
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Loads do. I don't but nearly everyone on here does. They think being promiscuous with strangers is swinging, and few of them do proper vet of the person.
When people are teenagers you can forgive having sex with strangers as youthful exploration. When they hit 20's it becomes a case of them having low self worth.
The girls who do it often think a guy with a gym membership is out of their league. They openly admit they get scared by a good looking guy. They hook up with guys they think wont turn them down, with guys who will leave them a great review, with guys who can make them feel wanted for a while.
But the reality is they are meeting up with someone who they think is average, who will fuck any girl, guy, or tv who is in front of them. Who does not give a shit about them, and gives the same bullshit veri to everyone. They were only wanted for their desperation and low self worth.
The guys who do it, didn't get laid enough when they were teenagers, and don't really know how to say no to sex. They have a lot of issues going on, they lie, they use, they don't really care.
It's all kids stuff. Turns me off big time.
Some women do it well enough, they have it down to an art getting to know the guy as quickly as possible, vetting him properly etc.
It's just not for me. I have nothing to offer those people. I'd more like to meet up and swing with groups of people that I like, have gotten to know, who know me, who like me, who don't just give it to strangers.
oh well."
" A guy with a gym membership is out of their league " what kind of Skanks do you hang around with because as a girl in her mid twenties I do not lower my standards, I have respect for myself as do my peers
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Loads do. I don't but nearly everyone on here does. They think being promiscuous with strangers is swinging, and few of them do proper vet of the person.
When people are teenagers you can forgive having sex with strangers as youthful exploration. When they hit 20's it becomes a case of them having low self worth.
The girls who do it often think a guy with a gym membership is out of their league. They openly admit they get scared by a good looking guy. They hook up with guys they think wont turn them down, with guys who will leave them a great review, with guys who can make them feel wanted for a while.
But the reality is they are meeting up with someone who they think is average, who will fuck any girl, guy, or tv who is in front of them. Who does not give a shit about them, and gives the same bullshit veri to everyone. They were only wanted for their desperation and low self worth.
The guys who do it, didn't get laid enough when they were teenagers, and don't really know how to say no to sex. They have a lot of issues going on, they lie, they use, they don't really care.
It's all kids stuff. Turns me off big time.
Some women do it well enough, they have it down to an art getting to know the guy as quickly as possible, vetting him properly etc.
It's just not for me. I have nothing to offer those people. I'd more like to meet up and swing with groups of people that I like, have gotten to know, who know me, who like me, who don't just give it to strangers.
oh well.
" A guy with a gym membership is out of their league " what kind of Skanks do you hang around with because as a girl in her mid twenties I do not lower my standards, I have respect for myself as do my peers
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I'm not a skank   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's very easy on here to pick out the people who really swing and those who don't but pontificate and judge others.
Experimentation is a lot of people's driver and most of the people we have met on here are fab decent normal people who are looking for fun and experimentation and certainly do not have self esteem issues or skanks. Setting up a meet and fuck scenario is very different than just picking up someone off the street ffs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Loads do. I don't but nearly everyone on here does. They think being promiscuous with strangers is swinging, and few of them do proper vet of the person.
When people are teenagers you can forgive having sex with strangers as youthful exploration. When they hit 20's it becomes a case of them having low self worth.
The girls who do it often think a guy with a gym membership is out of their league. They openly admit they get scared by a good looking guy. They hook up with guys they think wont turn them down, with guys who will leave them a great review, with guys who can make them feel wanted for a while.
But the reality is they are meeting up with someone who they think is average, who will fuck any girl, guy, or tv who is in front of them. Who does not give a shit about them, and gives the same bullshit veri to everyone. They were only wanted for their desperation and low self worth.
The guys who do it, didn't get laid enough when they were teenagers, and don't really know how to say no to sex. They have a lot of issues going on, they lie, they use, they don't really care.
It's all kids stuff. Turns me off big time.
Some women do it well enough, they have it down to an art getting to know the guy as quickly as possible, vetting him properly etc.
It's just not for me. I have nothing to offer those people. I'd more like to meet up and swing with groups of people that I like, have gotten to know, who know me, who like me, who don't just give it to strangers.
oh well.
" A guy with a gym membership is out of their league " what kind of Skanks do you hang around with because as a girl in her mid twenties I do not lower my standards, I have respect for myself as do my peers
I'm not a skank "
Fight! Fight! Fight!
In a pit of mud... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Loads do. I don't but nearly everyone on here does. They think being promiscuous with strangers is swinging, and few of them do proper vet of the person.
When people are teenagers you can forgive having sex with strangers as youthful exploration. When they hit 20's it becomes a case of them having low self worth.
The girls who do it often think a guy with a gym membership is out of their league. They openly admit they get scared by a good looking guy. They hook up with guys they think wont turn them down, with guys who will leave them a great review, with guys who can make them feel wanted for a while.
But the reality is they are meeting up with someone who they think is average, who will fuck any girl, guy, or tv who is in front of them. Who does not give a shit about them, and gives the same bullshit veri to everyone. They were only wanted for their desperation and low self worth.
The guys who do it, didn't get laid enough when they were teenagers, and don't really know how to say no to sex. They have a lot of issues going on, they lie, they use, they don't really care.
It's all kids stuff. Turns me off big time.
Some women do it well enough, they have it down to an art getting to know the guy as quickly as possible, vetting him properly etc.
It's just not for me. I have nothing to offer those people. I'd more like to meet up and swing with groups of people that I like, have gotten to know, who know me, who like me, who don't just give it to strangers.
oh well.
" A guy with a gym membership is out of their league " what kind of Skanks do you hang around with because as a girl in her mid twenties I do not lower my standards, I have respect for myself as do my peers
I'm not a skank
Fight! Fight! Fight!
In a pit of mud..."
That would be a skanky thing to do; I'm in |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Loads do. I don't but nearly everyone on here does. They think being promiscuous with strangers is swinging, and few of them do proper vet of the person.
When people are teenagers you can forgive having sex with strangers as youthful exploration. When they hit 20's it becomes a case of them having low self worth.
The girls who do it often think a guy with a gym membership is out of their league. They openly admit they get scared by a good looking guy. They hook up with guys they think wont turn them down, with guys who will leave them a great review, with guys who can make them feel wanted for a while.
But the reality is they are meeting up with someone who they think is average, who will fuck any girl, guy, or tv who is in front of them. Who does not give a shit about them, and gives the same bullshit veri to everyone. They were only wanted for their desperation and low self worth.
The guys who do it, didn't get laid enough when they were teenagers, and don't really know how to say no to sex. They have a lot of issues going on, they lie, they use, they don't really care.
It's all kids stuff. Turns me off big time.
Some women do it well enough, they have it down to an art getting to know the guy as quickly as possible, vetting him properly etc.
It's just not for me. I have nothing to offer those people. I'd more like to meet up and swing with groups of people that I like, have gotten to know, who know me, who like me, who don't just give it to strangers.
oh well.
" A guy with a gym membership is out of their league " what kind of Skanks do you hang around with because as a girl in her mid twenties I do not lower my standards, I have respect for myself as do my peers
I'm not a skank
Fight! Fight! Fight!
In a pit of mud...
That would be a skanky thing to do; I'm in "
So its a date
Meet, wrestle, fuck...no talking
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Loads do. I don't but nearly everyone on here does. They think being promiscuous with strangers is swinging, and few of them do proper vet of the person.
When people are teenagers you can forgive having sex with strangers as youthful exploration. When they hit 20's it becomes a case of them having low self worth.
The girls who do it often think a guy with a gym membership is out of their league. They openly admit they get scared by a good looking guy. They hook up with guys they think wont turn them down, with guys who will leave them a great review, with guys who can make them feel wanted for a while.
But the reality is they are meeting up with someone who they think is average, who will fuck any girl, guy, or tv who is in front of them. Who does not give a shit about them, and gives the same bullshit veri to everyone. They were only wanted for their desperation and low self worth.
The guys who do it, didn't get laid enough when they were teenagers, and don't really know how to say no to sex. They have a lot of issues going on, they lie, they use, they don't really care.
It's all kids stuff. Turns me off big time.
Some women do it well enough, they have it down to an art getting to know the guy as quickly as possible, vetting him properly etc.
It's just not for me. I have nothing to offer those people. I'd more like to meet up and swing with groups of people that I like, have gotten to know, who know me, who like me, who don't just give it to strangers.
oh well.
" A guy with a gym membership is out of their league " what kind of Skanks do you hang around with because as a girl in her mid twenties I do not lower my standards, I have respect for myself as do my peers
I'm not a skank
Fight! Fight! Fight!
In a pit of mud...
That would be a skanky thing to do; I'm in "
Didn't directly call you a skank,
If I wanted to call you a skank I would just be blunt and say it not pussyfoot around it... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have met just to fuck. Have gone for drinks first, even a night out. and I prefer the meets where we've chatted for a while, the build up can be quite hot and I like to be attracted to the guy |
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"Loads do. I don't but nearly everyone on here does. They think being promiscuous with strangers is swinging, and few of them do proper vet of the person.
When people are teenagers you can forgive having sex with strangers as youthful exploration. When they hit 20's it becomes a case of them having low self worth.
The girls who do it often think a guy with a gym membership is out of their league. They openly admit they get scared by a good looking guy. They hook up with guys they think wont turn them down, with guys who will leave them a great review, with guys who can make them feel wanted for a while.
But the reality is they are meeting up with someone who they think is average, who will fuck any girl, guy, or tv who is in front of them. Who does not give a shit about them, and gives the same bullshit veri to everyone. They were only wanted for their desperation and low self worth.
The guys who do it, didn't get laid enough when they were teenagers, and don't really know how to say no to sex. They have a lot of issues going on, they lie, they use, they don't really care.
It's all kids stuff. Turns me off big time.
Some women do it well enough, they have it down to an art getting to know the guy as quickly as possible, vetting him properly etc.
It's just not for me. I have nothing to offer those people. I'd more like to meet up and swing with groups of people that I like, have gotten to know, who know me, who like me, who don't just give it to strangers.
oh well.
" A guy with a gym membership is out of their league " what kind of Skanks do you hang around with because as a girl in her mid twenties I do not lower my standards, I have respect for myself as do my peers
I'm not a skank
Fight! Fight! Fight!
In a pit of mud...
That would be a skanky thing to do; I'm in
Didn't directly call you a skank,
If I wanted to call you a skank I would just be blunt and say it not pussyfoot around it... "
As I explained to banana I was joking |
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"" A guy with a gym membership is out of their league " what kind of Skanks do you hang around with because as a girl in her mid twenties I do not lower my standards, I have respect for myself as do my peers
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You do think people are out of your league. You admitted it before. To quote you "Ive felt like that about a few profiles on here".
I was talking about their mentality that they think they are not good enough for someone with a pretty photo.
I don't know what people I hang around with has to do with it. How do you define "skank"? so I can answer your question properly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Of course there is people out of my league... As there is people out of yours also..."
but there's no such thing as leagues? leagues are only there if you believe in them no one should be out of anyones league |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"what else would people be doing i dont mind actualy if a hot guy come over fucked me made me cum and then done my house work then hes a keeper other then that make me cum and get the feck out ha ha "
Is there much house work to be done??? And how long would you keep me? |
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"Of course there is people out of my league... As there is people out of yours also...
but there's no such thing as leagues? leagues are only there if you believe in them no one should be out of anyones league "
There are different leagues I think lim, but not based on photo or how a person looks.
For example, I have dated a model before, very pretty, not out of my league.
But another girl, who was pretty (not model pretty), was out of my league. She was really really nice, friendly, and lived a lifestyle I could never offer her. She travelled with staff to take care of her, moved from one 5 star hotel to the next. When you added everything up, she was simply out of my league.
Thats what I think anyway. But that does not apply to swinging or sex, when it comes to swinging and sex there are just preferences, not leagues. People who think there are leagues based on photos etc just need a bit more self belief really. |
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"Of course there is people out of my league... As there is people out of yours also...
but there's no such thing as leagues? leagues are only there if you believe in them no one should be out of anyones league
There are different leagues I think lim, but not based on photo or how a person looks.
For example, I have dated a model before, very pretty, not out of my league.
But another girl, who was pretty (not model pretty), was out of my league. She was really really nice, friendly, and lived a lifestyle I could never offer her. She travelled with staff to take care of her, moved from one 5 star hotel to the next. When you added everything up, she was simply out of my league.
Thats what I think anyway. But that does not apply to swinging or sex, when it comes to swinging and sex there are just preferences, not leagues. People who think there are leagues based on photos etc just need a bit more self belief really."
Ouch... |
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"Ouch...
Why ouch? its a compliment. You're better than you think. People must always read the stuff I write in a negative voice in their head or something."
Thanks....
I think... |
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I myself have enjoyed the meet and fuck with no prep chat etc. I do like a bit of banter inbetween ie. How's the father is your mother working sort of thing... Giddy up ya dirty bitch I know ya love it yeeeeehaaa A1 Sharon now here's a tenner go and buy some sweets eh eh I mean drinks  |
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"Of course there is people out of my league... As there is people out of yours also...
but there's no such thing as leagues? leagues are only there if you believe in them no one should be out of anyones league
There are different leagues I think lim, but not based on photo or how a person looks.
For example, I have dated a model before, very pretty, not out of my league.
But another girl, who was pretty (not model pretty), was out of my league. She was really really nice, friendly, and lived a lifestyle I could never offer her. She travelled with staff to take care of her, moved from one 5 star hotel to the next. When you added everything up, she was simply out of my league.
Thats what I think anyway. But that does not apply to swinging or sex, when it comes to swinging and sex there are just preferences, not leagues. People who think there are leagues based on photos etc just need a bit more self belief really."
I used don't buy into that crap, I don't think anyone is unobtainable or too good For me based purely only her looks |
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"Loads do. I don't but nearly everyone on here does. They think being promiscuous with strangers is swinging, and few of them do proper vet of the person.
When people are teenagers you can forgive having sex with strangers as youthful exploration. When they hit 20's it becomes a case of them having low self worth.
The girls who do it often think a guy with a gym membership is out of their league. They openly admit they get scared by a good looking guy. They hook up with guys they think wont turn them down, with guys who will leave them a great review, with guys who can make them feel wanted for a while.
But the reality is they are meeting up with someone who they think is average, who will fuck any girl, guy, or tv who is in front of them. Who does not give a shit about them, and gives the same bullshit veri to everyone. They were only wanted for their desperation and low self worth.
The guys who do it, didn't get laid enough when they were teenagers, and don't really know how to say no to sex. They have a lot of issues going on, they lie, they use, they don't really care.
It's all kids stuff. Turns me off big time.
Some women do it well enough, they have it down to an art getting to know the guy as quickly as possible, vetting him properly etc.
It's just not for me. I have nothing to offer those people. I'd more like to meet up and swing with groups of people that I like, have gotten to know, who know me, who like me, who don't just give it to strangers.
oh well."
This is a swing site right? For consensual adults to meet and have sex if they choose? If you were at the last Dublin social or I'm sure any of the others this year you would have meet very nice and social people who I'm sure had absolutely no problems getting laid as teenagers or now!
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"iv had a few meets on fab but only after a lot of chatting and getting to know each other im not really interested in the party meets so I'm wondering do people just meet for straight up sex without all the prep??"
Has happened a few times for me...
Gotta say Iv enjoyed every meet Iv been on
The chatting for weeks first or the quick.."hey r u around tonight?" types... its all about the sex at the end of the day
So if anyone wants to meet at shortish notice give me a shout |
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"Ouch...
Why ouch? its a compliment. You're better than you think. People must always read the stuff I write in a negative voice in their head or something."
I think that is a fair point re reading your posts negatively.
Whilst I may not agree with all you have said on this particular thread, your reasoning and openness to explaining same is refreshing and interesting. Other posters on the forums
could take a leaf from your book and understand that a different viewpoint is not an attack or a negative response.
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