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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This place is rapidly going downhill. A Handful of people are ruining what used to be and still could be a fun and lovely site. There are still plenty of nice & genuine people here but some are just ruining this site. Funny how the majority of them are single guys who are either timewasters, pic collectors or obnixious and nasty people. There should be a name and shame forum where u can disclose their names but it takes a certain number of verified people to complain against the one profile before admin displays the profile and comments for others to see. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We we're on before but left due to the volume of timewasters but decided to try it again. Have been on this site for a few years and have met lots of genuine n nice people. Just cause our profile says 9 weeks does that mean we're not entitled to an opinion? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think this place is great! 
It's what you make of it. I'm thoroughly enjoying myself, I just don't let the few gobshites ruin it for me! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think this place is great!
It's what you make of it. I'm thoroughly enjoying myself, I just don't let the few gobshites ruin it for me! .......waves! !! "
Waves back!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think this place is great!
It's what you make of it. I'm thoroughly enjoying myself, I just don't let the few gobshites ruin it for me! .......waves! !!
Waves back! "
.....ahem.....think we will keep it low key on this thread. .  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love it and are enjoying our time here! Block button readily available if needed, as is Delete button and so is our ability to ignore the negativity just skip on pass it and have a fab day!!
its all about what u make it yourself xx |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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yes there are messers idiots fuckwits and the mentally unnhinged. the site in general is a great place and the good out number the bad. so stay positive and have as much fun as possible. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"yes there are messers idiots fuckwits and the mentally unnhinged. the site in general is a great place and the good out number the bad. so stay positive and have as much fun as possible. "
People have just got on my tits this morning and not in the way i like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We love it and are enjoying our time here! Block button readily available if needed, as is Delete button and so is our ability to ignore the negativity just skip on pass it and have a fab day!!
its all about what u make it yourself xx "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yup I agree with u its a shame and it's funny how half of the people disagree are the ones that make this place hell for some people we don't engage at all with them as there just wasters that's a fact |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Il be honest. I'm a long time here, well known and stay out off trouble, but the amount of people that has left in The last three months is ridiculous, I also think the forum is gone like the chat room was a while ago into a full on shooting range, abusing each other. I don't know what everyone thinks of my opinion but that is what it is.
agree or disagree is all.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Il be honest. I'm a long time here, well known and stay out off trouble, but the amount of people that has left in The last three months is ridiculous, I also think the forum is gone like the chat room was a while ago into a full on shooting range, abusing each other. I don't know what everyone thinks of my opinion but that is what it is.
agree or disagree is all. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab is what you make of it. There's always going to be drama, sometimes people who have nothing to do with it can and do get dragged in, all you need do is block, move on and just keep enjoying yourself. Fab at the end of the day is about having fun so once you keep that is mind none of the petty bullshit here should affect you |
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"Fab is what you make of it. There's always going to be drama, sometimes people who have nothing to do with it can and do get dragged in, all you need do is block, move on and just keep enjoying yourself. Fab at the end of the day is about having fun so once you keep that is mind none of the petty bullshit here should affect you"
Total agreement. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"This place is rapidly going downhill. A Handful of people are ruining what used to be and still could be a fun and lovely site. There are still plenty of nice & genuine people here but some are just ruining this site. Funny how the majority of them are single guys who are either timewasters, pic collectors or obnixious and nasty people. There should be a name and shame forum where u can disclose their names but it takes a certain number of verified people to complain against the one profile before admin displays the profile and comments for others to see."
The site is a method of meeting people of like minds how u use it is up to u I can't understand how a hand full of people can run a place where if u don't like or agree with them u just block them or look past them. The other thing I fail to see is how mostly single guys are running a site where cpls and FEMS hold power by virtue of supply and demand, there's loads of guys on here to chat to and have fun without having to get stuck into pointless PIC collectors or time wasters. they can usually be discarded in the early stages by adeering to a selection process which u find works for u i.e resent veris profile content initial mails once u find a system that works stick with it,trust ur gut its usually right till proven wrong. U say u were here before for years if so what kept u here was most likely the craic and fun u had meeting new people the excitment of a new meet or the knowledge of repeats meets all that is still here just need to find that again
This is not a critism but a discussion of ur op there is a fine line there
From a guy on here as a single
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's always gonna be dickheads you get em playing football in the pub everywhere use that block button ...end of ...btw u need a sidekick mingo ill be like a kinda robin ? |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Fab is what you make of it. There's always going to be drama, sometimes people who have nothing to do with it can and do get dragged in, all you need do is block, move on and just keep enjoying yourself. Fab at the end of the day is about having fun so once you keep that is mind none of the petty bullshit here should affect you"
So true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The site is a method of meeting people of like minds how u use it is up to u I can't understand how a hand full of people can run a place where if u don't like or agree with them u just block them or look past them. The other thing I fail to see is how mostly single guys are running a site where cpls and FEMS hold power by virtue of supply and demand, there's loads of guys on here to chat to and have fun without having to get stuck into pointless PIC collectors or time wasters. they can usually be discarded in the early stages by adeering to a selection process which u find works for u i.e resent veris profile content initial mails once u find a system that works stick with it,trust ur gut its usually right till proven wrong. U say u were here before for years if so what kept u here was most likely the craic and fun u had meeting new people the excitment of a new meet or the knowledge of repeats meets all that is still here just need to find that again
This is not a critism but a discussion of ur op there is a fine line there
From a guy on here as a single
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to see folk that say the site is going downhill or quiet or not what it was are people that aren't getting what they want or expect from the site.patience is a virtue,we been on long enough to know the site is what you make of it,and just because one couple or individual is eager to party,finding a suitable couple or individual at that very time isn't always possible.bit like life,nothing is for certain. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This place is rapidly going downhill. A Handful of people are ruining what used to be and still could be a fun and lovely site. There are still plenty of nice & genuine people here but some are just ruining this site. Funny how the majority of them are single guys who are either timewasters, pic collectors or obnixious and nasty people. There should be a name and shame forum where u can disclose their names but it takes a certain number of verified people to complain against the one profile before admin displays the profile and comments for others to see.
The site is a method of meeting people of like minds how u use it is up to u I can't understand how a hand full of people can run a place where if u don't like or agree with them u just block them or look past them. The other thing I fail to see is how mostly single guys are running a site where cpls and FEMS hold power by virtue of supply and demand, there's loads of guys on here to chat to and have fun without having to get stuck into pointless PIC collectors or time wasters. they can usually be discarded in the early stages by adeering to a selection process which u find works for u i.e resent veris profile content initial mails once u find a system that works stick with it,trust ur gut its usually right till proven wrong. U say u were here before for years if so what kept u here was most likely the craic and fun u had meeting new people the excitment of a new meet or the knowledge of repeats meets all that is still here just need to find that again
This is not a critism but a discussion of ur op there is a fine line there
From a guy on here as a single
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fab is what you make of it. There's always going to be drama, sometimes people who have nothing to do with it can and do get dragged in, all you need do is block, move on and just keep enjoying yourself. Fab at the end of the day is about having fun so once you keep that is mind none of the petty bullshit here should affect you"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This place is rapidly going downhill. A Handful of people are ruining what used to be and still could be a fun and lovely site. There are still plenty of nice & genuine people here but some are just ruining this site. Funny how the majority of them are single guys who are either timewasters, pic collectors or obnixious and nasty people. There should be a name and shame forum where u can disclose their names but it takes a certain number of verified people to complain against the one profile before admin displays the profile and comments for others to see.
The site is a method of meeting people of like minds how u use it is up to u I can't understand how a hand full of people can run a place where if u don't like or agree with them u just block them or look past them. The other thing I fail to see is how mostly single guys are running a site where cpls and FEMS hold power by virtue of supply and demand, there's loads of guys on here to chat to and have fun without having to get stuck into pointless PIC collectors or time wasters. they can usually be discarded in the early stages by adeering to a selection process which u find works for u i.e resent veris profile content initial mails once u find a system that works stick with it,trust ur gut its usually right till proven wrong. U say u were here before for years if so what kept u here was most likely the craic and fun u had meeting new people the excitment of a new meet or the knowledge of repeats meets all that is still here just need to find that again
This is not a critism but a discussion of ur op there is a fine line there
From a guy on here as a single
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"This place is rapidly going downhill. A Handful of people are ruining what used to be and still could be a fun and lovely site. There are still plenty of nice & genuine people here but some are just ruining this site. Funny how the majority of them are single guys who are either timewasters, pic collectors or obnixious and nasty people. There should be a name and shame forum where u can disclose their names but it takes a certain number of verified people to complain against the one profile before admin displays the profile and comments for others to see.
The site is a method of meeting people of like minds how u use it is up to u I can't understand how a hand full of people can run a place where if u don't like or agree with them u just block them or look past them. The other thing I fail to see is how mostly single guys are running a site where cpls and FEMS hold power by virtue of supply and demand, there's loads of guys on here to chat to and have fun without having to get stuck into pointless PIC collectors or time wasters. they can usually be discarded in the early stages by adeering to a selection process which u find works for u i.e resent veris profile content initial mails once u find a system that works stick with it,trust ur gut its usually right till proven wrong. U say u were here before for years if so what kept u here was most likely the craic and fun u had meeting new people the excitment of a new meet or the knowledge of repeats meets all that is still here just need to find that again
This is not a critism but a discussion of ur op there is a fine line there
From a guy on here as a single
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See it does work u can choose to ignore those u don't whish to engage with |
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If my nipples were half as sensitive as some contributors that frequent the forums, I'd never get out of bed in the morning. 
The trick is to filter out the BS. Don't reply or acknowledge, it only empower's them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If my nipples were half as sensitive as some contributors that frequent the forums, I'd never get out of bed in the morning.
The trick is to filter out the BS. Don't reply or acknowledge, it only empower's them."
I concur...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If my nipples were half as sensitive as some contributors that frequent the forums, I'd never get out of bed in the morning.
The trick is to filter out the BS. Don't reply or acknowledge, it only empower's them.
I concur...... "
Your nipples ARE quite sensitive!  |
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"If my nipples were half as sensitive as some contributors that frequent the forums, I'd never get out of bed in the morning.
The trick is to filter out the BS. Don't reply or acknowledge, it only empower's them.
I concur......
Your nipples ARE quite sensitive! "
Even when it's not cold out, they get hard when I'm near you...
You know how I like it, swirled, not shaken |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because im not gonna be active in person soon, I'm thinking of becoming the sites resident vigilante.
Kinda like batman, the hero Fab needs but not the one it deserves.... Or something."
Don't we already have one of those on the forum?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I totally agree
Morning sexy xxx
And hello to you too yiz sexy beasts 
How can people not like fab when you've got sexy ladies like yourself around x
I'm like Marmite...ya either love me or hate me.... Plenty of the latter I assure you
You're ass is like John Giles though, everyone loves it! "
Its a big ole ass  |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"Because im not gonna be active in person soon, I'm thinking of becoming the sites resident vigilante.
Kinda like batman, the hero Fab needs but not the one it deserves.... Or something.
Don't we already have one of those on the forum? "
its more of a joker than a batman tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Speaking of going to the dogs? that would be pretty fun
I'll second that
Fab night at the dogs, be pretty fun
Any fab night is fun "
true, any night with the mad bunch off here will be great  |
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By *ssalotCouple
over a year ago
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We are only new, and our experience is the opposite, we blocked single males but then mailed a few we felt were sound, verified and turns out...we were right..met a really nice guy for coffee..now couples have winked , sent short one line mails...or immediately asked for pics...it seems some people only want to chat if your very public and possibly fit as fuck..(we are)...but we are considering leaving after getting let down tonight...BY A COUPLE...and because nobody seems to chat unless your prepared to go public with your pics..
We are new to swinging..but can see why people feel it's not for them |
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Name and shame? You think because more than one person calls someone a waster it must be true?
I had several people kind of name and shame me on here. I never talked to them, never agreed to meet them, never cancelled on them, never added them as friends, never collected their pics, and still several people openly agreed I was a waster and people shouldn't meet me.
Could you imagine if admin actively encouraged that kind of behavior? There wouldn't be a genuine person left on the site within an hour. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That reminds me, not been to the dogs in ages!! 
A SWING M&G at the dogs ..yeah ....that be fun ...
Or dogging...... At the dogs
too the dogs we go "
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"People take this place way too serious. Especially the forums."
Agree totally. Its only a swinging site ffs.
If someone annoys you block them. Then go for a walk. Go fishing. Watch a footy game. Knit. Cook. Get off the fecking laptop !!
Live !!!
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"Fab is what you make of it. There's always going to be drama, sometimes people who have nothing to do with it can and do get dragged in, all you need do is block, move on and just keep enjoying yourself. Fab at the end of the day is about having fun so once you keep that is mind none of the petty bullshit here should affect you"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope hasn't went to the dogs at all, it's a great site with lots of great folks. the only thing makes the site slightly dull is all these complaining threads that it's gone to the dogs |
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