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Has fab got better or worse over last 12 months?
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Hi all we rarely post... We are now a year here and while we have chatted and met some wonderful people we have also noticed that over the 12 months there seems to be an increasing lack of basic respect and 'normality' here Just wondered do people agree and are normal real people hiding or leaving. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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Welcome to the fourms delighted to see u loose ur posting verginity 
As busty says it depends on how u use it,vetting potential meets is hard but once u find a fourmla that works its a good place |
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"Its what u make of it iv had a great year goin to socials and parties so cant complain "
maybe thats where we are going wrong that we do most of our communication with people on here and phone etc before we meet and dont have time with kids work etc to get away to socials. |
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"Welcome to the fourms delighted to see u loose ur posting verginity
As busty says it depends on how u use it,vetting potential meets is hard but once u find a fourmla that works its a good place "
have posted before but dont like attracting unwarranted attention or abuse so like a lot here tend to remain below the radar. But ty |
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over a year ago
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"Worse
There used to lots of fit young adventurous people with an open and importantly friendly attitude.
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There are fit older adventurous friendly people too but I agree to an extent with what you're saying. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Worse
There used to lots of fit young adventurous people with an open and importantly friendly attitude.
There are fit older adventurous friendly people too but I agree to an extent with what you're saying. "
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"Worse
There used to lots of fit young adventurous people with an open and importantly friendly attitude.
Ty super for your thoughts but post was more about real and normal rather than fit and young. But very interesting to see ur view point. Maybe we are on wrong site as we just like to get to know the person/people a tiny bit before we meet or sleep with them.
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"Hi all we rarely post... We are now a year here and while we have chatted and met some wonderful people we have also noticed that over the 12 months there seems to be an increasing lack of basic respect and 'normality' here Just wondered do people agree and are normal real people hiding or leaving."
Just be yourself - "to thine own self be true"...
The forums and chat room divas and alpha males represent only a % of fabbers - most of whom are genuine, grounded people who represent the true ethos of swinging
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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isnt worse or better kind of relative for some its got better but for others its got worse. i find that fab is what you make of it but in general i think it has gotten better there at more parties socials and events on in the past 12 months than ever before |
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"Hi all we rarely post... We are now a year here and while we have chatted and met some wonderful people we have also noticed that over the 12 months there seems to be an increasing lack of basic respect and 'normality' here Just wondered do people agree and are normal real people hiding or leaving.
Just be yourself - "to thine own self be true"...
The forums and chat room divas and alpha males represent only a % of fabbers - most of whom are genuine, grounded people who represent the true ethos of swinging
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ty guys |
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over a year ago
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I can't really answer your question but what I can say is that iv meet some lovely people on here and I find most people on here are honest u can come across the odd joker but u just use your block button |
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"I can't really answer your question but what I can say is that iv meet some lovely people on here and I find most people on here are honest u can come across the odd joker but u just use your block button "
yes thats def an observation for us.... we find ourselves having to use the block button more over the last year because of lack of basic human respect. And we tend to give most the benefit of the doubt ...dont get us wrong we dont expect to make friends for life with every meet or anything lol we appreciate we may not be others cup of tea either lol
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over a year ago
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Fab is what you make of it. I've attendedsocials and parties, ggotten to know quite a few, some people I know have moved on but more lovely people have joined. |
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"Welcome to the fourms delighted to see u loose ur posting verginity
As busty says it depends on how u use it,vetting potential meets is hard but once u find a fourmla that works its a good place "
I agree here, I've met some really lovely people, there are some that have really impressed me, some have even become friends!!    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ya win some ya lose some... Sometimes you need to have a couple of days off here coz it gets too much. There's serious bullshit at times but then once you come back after a few days break its great again. |
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over a year ago
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I have just joined Fab 2 weeks ago and I am having a blast. I was on another site a few years back and I had lots of fun with cool, sexy people there, but Fab is by far a better experience. A lot more open and friendly people here (maybe because there are more people swinging in Ireland than before)
Going to my first fab social next week. I will have a far better feel for the site then. First impressions though, good, very good. Will I feel the same in 12 months time??? I sure hope so.
"It's what you make of it"
True that!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Gotten better for me.
but people have always been afraid to have an opinion on here, to say whats on their mind. Maybe its because there are more parties and people are afraid of losing their invites, maybe people gossip instead of talk openly to someone cause they are afraid of upsetting the few that organise stuff.
Its been great for me though, gets better all the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My point is that there was more variety for all.
Age is but a number but a bad attitude is always a bad attitude.
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........lol...nice bit of backpedalling there....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive had a great 12 months here. Yeah the odd idiot irritating me but In general great. Went to first social, met a great guy im now dating and we have lots of fab shenanigans in the pipeline. Happy days |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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There's a difference between complaining and voicing an opinion its the op view it has changed from when they first joined. Which it has and will continue to do so as long as we have new members joining vairty is after all the spice of life,has in being a change for the better I think so my first year there was four or five socials a year now there is that a month which people orginise play dates around,however if u can't for what ever reason attend these I'd imagine getting dates could have suffered |
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over a year ago
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Yes its definitely getting better n better here!! The odd freak whom I just block n delete n move on
but in general everyone here is nice, I like to form my own opinion though and I like to stand out a bit from the crowd lol
I think it's important that we all do that and as Cj said there's a huge difference in people moaning n complaining and just having an opinion on something
I've been lucky to meet so many nice people here including a guy whom I'm now seeing and we're having lots of fun
so happy out x |
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Thanks all its interesting to have your input on our thoughts seems to be a mixed bag across the board. We appreciate its what you make of it and we have had breaks and are not driven by this ... for us its a diversion. But we would be more interested in what peoples views are about respect or is it just viewed by most a free knocking shop? Lol |
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"Hi all we rarely post... We are now a year here and while we have chatted and met some wonderful people we have also noticed that over the 12 months there seems to be an increasing lack of basic respect and 'normality' here Just wondered do people agree and are normal real people hiding or leaving.
Just be yourself - "to thine own self be true"...
The forums and chat room divas and alpha males represent only a % of fabbers - most of whom are genuine, grounded people who represent the true ethos of swinging
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I've learned a lot in the last 12 months. People who claim to be friends simply aren't And have shown their true colour. I have made some wonderful friends in unexpected ways! There's been some pretty awful stuff happen on here over the last year tbh but certain people make it worth sticking around for....the cream always rises to the top
The next 12 months are going to be very interesting |
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"Yes its definitely getting better n better here!! The odd freak whom I just block n delete n move on
but in general everyone here is nice, I like to form my own opinion though and I like to stand out a bit from the crowd lol
I think it's important that we all do that and as Cj said there's a huge difference in people moaning n complaining and just having an opinion on something
I've been lucky to meet so many nice people here including a guy whom I'm now seeing and we're having lots of fun
so happy out x "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have had a blast these last 7 months. Made great friends and have a genuine smile on my face when we chat. I know the fakes and liers so my life is easier here now.
when I hit my 1 year fab anniversary I will celebrate and hope all is still rosy in the world of fab. X |
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"I have had a blast these last 7 months. Made great friends and have a genuine smile on my face when we chat. I know the fakes and liers so my life is easier here now.
when I hit my 1 year fab anniversary I will celebrate and hope all is still rosy in the world of fab. X "
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"I have had a blast these last 7 months. Made great friends and have a genuine smile on my face when we chat. I know the fakes and liers so my life is easier here now.
when I hit my 1 year fab anniversary I will celebrate and hope all is still rosy in the world of fab. X "
as lim said i think thats an opportunity for a teaser birthday bash !!! |
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"I have had a blast these last 7 months. Made great friends and have a genuine smile on my face when we chat. I know the fakes and liers so my life is easier here now.
when I hit my 1 year fab anniversary I will celebrate and hope all is still rosy in the world of fab. X "
Never get complacent regarding the fakes & liars, they grow like mushrooms in the dark. |
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"I have had a blast these last 7 months. Made great friends and have a genuine smile on my face when we chat. I know the fakes and liers so my life is easier here now.
when I hit my 1 year fab anniversary I will celebrate and hope all is still rosy in the world of fab. X
Never get complacent regarding the fakes & liars, they grow like mushrooms in the dark."
My eyes are always open .
Ooooh I like the birthday party idea . |
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Only back after a year and a half break. The forums seem much the same as before.
There's seems to be a lot more meet and greets and socials. Also coffee meets seem to be very popular now.
I met a good few people here before but never for coffee. It was usually chat on here for a while, then talk by phone,and if there was a connection meet for sex.. It always worked out well that way for me..
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"Only back after a year and a half break. The forums seem much the same as before.
There's seems to be a lot more meet and greets and socials. Also coffee meets seem to be very popular now.
I met a good few people here before but never for coffee. It was usually chat on here for a while, then talk by phone,and if there was a connection meet for sex.. It always worked out well that way for me..
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...looks like your gonna have to change your m o... |
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"Only back after a year and a half break. The forums seem much the same as before.
There's seems to be a lot more meet and greets and socials. Also coffee meets seem to be very popular now.
I met a good few people here before but never for coffee. It was usually chat on here for a while, then talk by phone,and if there was a connection meet for sex.. It always worked out well that way for me..
...looks like your gonna have to change your m o... "
Not necessarily. Not every woman likes/requires coffee meets. I know I rarely had them in the past |
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"Only back after a year and a half break. The forums seem much the same as before.
There's seems to be a lot more meet and greets and socials. Also coffee meets seem to be very popular now.
I met a good few people here before but never for coffee. It was usually chat on here for a while, then talk by phone,and if there was a connection meet for sex.. It always worked out well that way for me..
...looks like your gonna have to change your m o... "
I might just have to tweek it a bit. . |
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"Only back after a year and a half break. The forums seem much the same as before.
There's seems to be a lot more meet and greets and socials. Also coffee meets seem to be very popular now.
I met a good few people here before but never for coffee. It was usually chat on here for a while, then talk by phone,and if there was a connection meet for sex.. It always worked out well that way for me..
...looks like your gonna have to change your m o...
Not necessarily. Not every woman likes/requires coffee meets. I know I rarely had them in the past "
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"Thanks all its interesting to have your input on our thoughts seems to be a mixed bag across the board. We appreciate its what you make of it and we have had breaks and are not driven by this ... for us its a diversion. But we would be more interested in what peoples views are about respect or is it just viewed by most a free knocking shop? Lol"
I would have to agree with yous on the respect aspect as some NOT all feel because your on here and are swingers that your desperate and will fuck anything with a pulse we get this from couples and singles. For us its as much about the social aspect as the sexual side of things so there has to be respect as in any walk of life |
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"Thanks all its interesting to have your input on our thoughts seems to be a mixed bag across the board. We appreciate its what you make of it and we have had breaks and are not driven by this ... for us its a diversion. But we would be more interested in what peoples views are about respect or is it just viewed by most a free knocking shop? Lol
I would have to agree with yous on the respect aspect as some NOT all feel because your on here and are swingers that your desperate and will fuck anything with a pulse we get this from couples and singles. For us its as much about the social aspect as the sexual side of things so there has to be respect as in any walk of life"
well said guys |
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"Only back after a year and a half break. The forums seem much the same as before.
There's seems to be a lot more meet and greets and socials. Also coffee meets seem to be very popular now.
I met a good few people here before but never for coffee. It was usually chat on here for a while, then talk by phone,and if there was a connection meet for sex.. It always worked out well that way for me..
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iv always wondered what way that works? Iv talked to people on here and on the phone then arranged for coffee to see if there's a sexual attraction as I don't think you can tell unless you meet someone in the flesh, maybe you can im not trying to be smart of funny iv just always wondered. What happens do you just meet up at a hotel or house and just straight to bed? What happens if they arnt what you expected? |
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"Only back after a year and a half break. The forums seem much the same as before.
There's seems to be a lot more meet and greets and socials. Also coffee meets seem to be very popular now.
I met a good few people here before but never for coffee. It was usually chat on here for a while, then talk by phone,and if there was a connection meet for sex.. It always worked out well that way for me..
iv always wondered what way that works? Iv talked to people on here and on the phone then arranged for coffee to see if there's a sexual attraction as I don't think you can tell unless you meet someone in the flesh, maybe you can im not trying to be smart of funny iv just always wondered. What happens do you just meet up at a hotel or house and just straight to bed? What happens if they arnt what you expected? "
yes my house their house or hotel,
sometimes not straight to bed..something have a drink or in some cases both of us have got pissed.
what happens if their not what I expected you ask.... its doesn't matter because. I tell myself before I go on a meet this is just a bit of fun and that I will give this my best shot no matter what, and make this as pleasurable for her and for me as I possibly can. I have had some great sex and some not great sex but overall every meet has had its good points, and great laugh. maybe I have just been lucky to not have met any stuck up cows.
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worse...a lot worse.
I was a member up until a year ago and it was a lot of fun back then. This time round it has been a huge disappointment. There are so many "fake" profiles and I have had one extremely weird meet. |
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"worse...a lot worse.
I was a member up until a year ago and it was a lot of fun back then. This time round it has been a huge disappointment. There are so many "fake" profiles and I have had one extremely weird meet."
You have to elaborate on that weird meet now youve said it |
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"worse...a lot worse.
I was a member up until a year ago and it was a lot of fun back then. This time round it has been a huge disappointment. There are so many "fake" profiles and I have had one extremely weird meet.
You have to elaborate on that weird meet now youve said it"
I was gonna write that but thought I'd look like a nose bag |
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"worse...a lot worse.
I was a member up until a year ago and it was a lot of fun back then. This time round it has been a huge disappointment. There are so many "fake" profiles and I have had one extremely weird meet.
You have to elaborate on that weird meet now youve said it
Well if he wanted to keep it private he woudnt have mentioned it
I was gonna write that but thought I'd look like a nose bag "
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Honestly I think it's 50/50...
Obviously when your new it's exciting,thrilling and your meeting lots of new people....
When you've been here awhile you get to know the naughty from the nice...
The moaners,the bitches,the trouble makers,but you also know the fun,genuine,honest people too,some who I'm very lucky to have as friends...
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"worse...a lot worse.
I was a member up until a year ago and it was a lot of fun back then. This time round it has been a huge disappointment. There are so many "fake" profiles and I have had one extremely weird meet.
You have to elaborate on that weird meet now youve said it"
well I thought I was meeting a rather attractive 27 year old woman but turned out it was a dirty old man. That was one awkward face to face meet...a 60 year old man greeting me with "Hi Andrew, I'm Lauren" still haunts my nightmares.... |
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"Honestly I think it's 50/50...
Obviously when your new it's exciting,thrilling and your meeting lots of new people....
When you've been here awhile you get to know the naughty from the nice...
The moaners,the bitches,the trouble makers,but you also know the fun,genuine,honest people too,some who I'm very lucky to have as friends...
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thats a very balanced way of putting it thank you. |
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"worse...a lot worse.
I was a member up until a year ago and it was a lot of fun back then. This time round it has been a huge disappointment. There are so many "fake" profiles and I have had one extremely
You have to elaborate on that weird meet now youve said it
well I thought I was meeting a rather attractive 27 year old woman but turned out it was a dirty old man. That was one awkward face to face meet...a 60 year old man greeting me with "Hi Andrew, I'm Lauren" still haunts my nightmares...."
oh my good gawd ... tell me ur not serious are u |
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"worse...a lot worse.
I was a member up until a year ago and it was a lot of fun back then. This time round it has been a huge disappointment. There are so many "fake" profiles and I have had one extremely
You have to elaborate on that weird meet now youve said it
well I thought I was meeting a rather attractive 27 year old woman but turned out it was a dirty old man. That was one awkward face to face meet...a 60 year old man greeting me with "Hi Andrew, I'm Lauren" still haunts my nightmares....
oh my good gawd ... tell me ur not serious are u"
I am sorry to say I am serious. Luckily it was a public place and I wasn't silly enough to tell her/him to meet me at my place! |
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"worse...a lot worse.
I was a member up until a year ago and it was a lot of fun back then. This time round it has been a huge disappointment. There are so many "fake" profiles and I have had one extremely weird meet.
You have to elaborate on that weird meet now youve said it
well I thought I was meeting a rather attractive 27 year old woman but turned out it was a dirty old man. That was one awkward face to face meet...a 60 year old man greeting me with "Hi Andrew, I'm Lauren" still haunts my nightmares...."
Feck that for a game of soldiers! What did you do............I presume you just legged it out the door like speedy gonzales!!  |
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"Honestly I think it's 50/50...
Obviously when your new it's exciting,thrilling and your meeting lots of new people....
When you've been here awhile you get to know the naughty from the nice...
The moaners,the bitches,the trouble makers,but you also know the fun,genuine,honest people too,some who I'm very lucky to have as friends...
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This exactly... So so true |
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"worse...a lot worse.
I was a member up until a year ago and it was a lot of fun back then. This time round it has been a huge disappointment. There are so many "fake" profiles and I have had one extremely weird meet.
You have to elaborate on that weird meet now youve said it
well I thought I was meeting a rather attractive 27 year old woman but turned out it was a dirty old man. That was one awkward face to face meet...a 60 year old man greeting me with "Hi Andrew, I'm Lauren" still haunts my nightmares....
Feck that for a game of soldiers! What did you do............I presume you just legged it out the door like speedy gonzales!! "
I called him a freak and walked out...what else could I do? I was shocking! It's put me right off meeting women off this. |
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"Honestly I think it's 50/50...
Obviously when your new it's exciting,thrilling and your meeting lots of new people....
When you've been here awhile you get to know the naughty from the nice...
The moaners,the bitches,the trouble makers,but you also know the fun,genuine,honest people too,some who I'm very lucky to have as friends...
This exactly... So so true "
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"worse...a lot worse.
I was a member up until a year ago and it was a lot of fun back then. This time round it has been a huge disappointment. There are so many "fake" profiles and I have had one extremely weird meet.
You have to elaborate on that weird meet now youve said it
well I thought I was meeting a rather attractive 27 year old woman but turned out it was a dirty old man. That was one awkward face to face meet...a 60 year old man greeting me with "Hi Andrew, I'm Lauren" still haunts my nightmares...."
no offence Andrew but I think your a jackanory, why the hell would any old man set up meets with young straight men and pretend to be a 27 year old woman? Unless he was like the elephant man wen ya met him with the amount of hiddings he'd get from doing this I find this very hard to believe. I for 1 would have had stern words |
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"worse...a lot worse.
I was a member up until a year ago and it was a lot of fun back then. This time round it has been a huge disappointment. There are so many "fake" profiles and I have had one extremely weird meet.
You have to elaborate on that weird meet now youve said it
well I thought I was meeting a rather attractive 27 year old woman but turned out it was a dirty old man. That was one awkward face to face meet...a 60 year old man greeting me with "Hi Andrew, I'm Lauren" still haunts my nightmares....no offence Andrew but I think your a jackanory, why the hell would any old man set up meets with young straight men and pretend to be a 27 year old woman? Unless he was like the elephant man wen ya met him with the amount of hiddings he'd get from doing this I find this very hard to believe. I for 1 would have had stern words"
...and that's why I hardly ever post...what sort of sick mind do you think I have to make something like that up? |
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"worse...a lot worse.
I was a member up until a year ago and it was a lot of fun back then. This time round it has been a huge disappointment. There are so many "fake" profiles and I have had one extremely weird meet.
You have to elaborate on that weird meet now youve said it
well I thought I was meeting a rather attractive 27 year old woman but turned out it was a dirty old man. That was one awkward face to face meet...a 60 year old man greeting me with "Hi Andrew, I'm Lauren" still haunts my nightmares....no offence Andrew but I think your a jackanory, why the hell would any old man set up meets with young straight men and pretend to be a 27 year old woman? Unless he was like the elephant man wen ya met him with the amount of hiddings he'd get from doing this I find this very hard to believe. I for 1 would have had stern words
...and that's why I hardly ever post...what sort of sick mind do you think I have to make something like that up?"
Its alright
Nothing to fall out over
I hope you reported the profile though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"worse...a lot worse.
I was a member up until a year ago and it was a lot of fun back then. This time round it has been a huge disappointment. There are so many "fake" profiles and I have had one extremely weird meet.
You have to elaborate on that weird meet now youve said it
well I thought I was meeting a rather attractive 27 year old woman but turned out it was a dirty old man. That was one awkward face to face meet...a 60 year old man greeting me with "Hi Andrew, I'm Lauren" still haunts my nightmares....no offence Andrew but I think your a jackanory, why the hell would any old man set up meets with young straight men and pretend to be a 27 year old woman? Unless he was like the elephant man wen ya met him with the amount of hiddings he'd get from doing this I find this very hard to believe. I for 1 would have had stern words
...and that's why I hardly ever post...what sort of sick mind do you think I have to make something like that up?"
alright calm down lol  |
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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago
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"worse...a lot worse.
I was a member up until a year ago and it was a lot of fun back then. This time round it has been a huge disappointment. There are so many "fake" profiles and I have had one extremely
You have to elaborate on that weird meet now youve said it
well I thought I was meeting a rather attractive 27 year old woman but turned out it was a dirty old man. That was one awkward face to face meet...a 60 year old man greeting me with "Hi Andrew, I'm Lauren" still haunts my nightmares....
oh my good gawd ... tell me ur not serious are u
I am sorry to say I am serious. Luckily it was a public place and I wasn't silly enough to tell her/him to meet me at my place!"
So 'Lauren' had no veris, either green flag or tick? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"worse...a lot worse.
I was a member up until a year ago and it was a lot of fun back then. This time round it has been a huge disappointment. There are so many "fake" profiles and I have had one extremely
You have to elaborate on that weird meet now youve said it
well I thought I was meeting a rather attractive 27 year old woman but turned out it was a dirty old man. That was one awkward face to face meet...a 60 year old man greeting me with "Hi Andrew, I'm Lauren" still haunts my nightmares....
oh my good gawd ... tell me ur not serious are u
I am sorry to say I am serious. Luckily it was a public place and I wasn't silly enough to tell her/him to meet me at my place!
So 'Lauren' had no veris, either green flag or tick? "
Had a green tick strangely enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When i was here first i never met for a drink and chat first, just meet at hotels, most times meets were not great, this time around i meet face to face, and i am very happy i do, have met wonderful people and made new friends i can meet regularly for fun |
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I had a very similar experience to an earlier poster
My first meet was meant to be a rather hot..strapping.. tall 48yr old silver fox
..turned out to be his dad  who was 5'4..seventy if a day and bald who told me I was naive to believe anyone was what they said they were or who their photos were off! Luckily I have met some amazing people and friends through here but the forum definitely has its share of those who just love to snipe at others. I just ignore them and chat to those I like and go to the socials. .best way to meet genuine people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot worse. ...it's like effin Facebook on here sometimes ...too many people up their own asses, so full of themselves....too many playing silly games.....of course there's plenty of down to earth, genuine people but they're getting hidden with all the shit profiles popping up daily...it''s like serious swingers are being frowned upon lol..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all we rarely post... We are now a year here and while we have chatted and met some wonderful people we have also noticed that over the 12 months there seems to be an increasing lack of basic respect and 'normality' here Just wondered do people agree and are normal real people hiding or leaving."
totally agree with you, there seem to be a lot of people on here that are hiding behind their computer screens and throwing manners out the window... I too posted something similar recently... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Going to put together a 'code of honour' post at some stage.
Good idea or waste of time? "
code of conduct sounds good at least then some of the muppets out there might have some idea of how to behave on here lol.... |
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By *ts artMan
over a year ago
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"A lot worse. ...it's like effin Facebook on here sometimes ...too many people up their own asses, so full of themselves....too many playing silly games.....of course there's plenty of down to earth, genuine people but they're getting hidden with all the shit profiles popping up daily...it''s like serious swingers are being frowned upon lol....."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Suggested rule #1
No metamorphosis. Keep your profile, username and reputation. No need to 'leave' or 'come back', just logout as needs be.
Suggestions for rule #2??? |
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Guys sorry as op we havent posted but thought it had died away. Interested to see its drawn so much attention and very interesting to see such a split. The code of conduct thing while a good idea .. is it pragmatic?? Who will manage it who will have a say in it. Etc etc. If the mods and site dont act on peoples valid reporting how can we expect a code of conduct to be followed. What we do hope from this is maybe people on both sides of the fence respect each others opinion and try not to judge ridicule or mock. Sometimes the loudest are the best sometime the more reserved are the passionate or vice versa. What is important is that we are all here for similiar reasons and its those distinct differences between us all that allows us to dream and push our pleasure limits. Happy continued fabbing and heres to our next 12 months here. |
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"Suggested rule #1
No metamorphosis. Keep your profile, username and reputation. No need to 'leave' or 'come back', just logout as needs be.
Suggestions for rule #2??? "
Although you might not totally agree with anothers opinion,respect should be used regardless |
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It's never going to be perfect right? If the people who are not enjoying it were able to change it so they did, another group of people would become unhappy with the way it changed.
It's not like you need fab to breathe is it? (Some may need to seek help if answered truthfully), if it's not working for you atm, hibernate for a while, go meet some non fabbers. You'll be back. |
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"It's never going to be perfect right? If the people who are not enjoying it were able to change it so they did, another group of people would become unhappy with the way it changed.
It's not like you need fab to breathe is it? (Some may need to seek help if answered truthfully), if it's not working for you atm, hibernate for a while, go meet some non fabbers. You'll be back."
Wise words |
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"It has little up's and downs like most things in life.
It's all good for me at the moment
Exactly,,,,glad youre enjoying it
I hope the soreness has eased
New man today and horny again.
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You had an afterglow,,feel lucky |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My thoughts on the code of conduct is that it is self policed. Maybe anyone interested could mention it in their profile and it should be easy enough from someones profile and verifications to see if they practice what they preach.
So Rule #2: Respects for others regardless of differing opinions or tastes...no abusive language
Suggested Rule #3: Show up as agreed or have the decency to cancel ASAP if something real comes up.
Part of rule 3 is make your mind up first and then commit to a meet or politely decline. |
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