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Lack of men

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Really getting sick of the guys on here most say ladies are unicorns on here but im sorry to say its the men that are few and far between . What im trying to say is that the lack of guys that show any interest in attending socials and meet and greets is shocking

. I mean the moan and groan saying they never get invites but over the last number of socials the turn out has been v low why or whats goin on ??. What bugs me even more is all the guys that mail me the day after wanting to know what happened when they could easily went and found out themselves . Why are guys so afraid of turning up ??

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By *ohn MingoMan over a year ago

Dublin

1. scared

2. cheating.

3. fantasizing

take your pick.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well I think to be honest theres a lot of arm chair swingers on here

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By *lfieWoman over a year ago

South Dublin

See the 'lies on profiles' thread. Cause so many are not what they claim to be.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Probably the same guys who are no shows with meets, who live in a fab fantasy world and when it comes to reality they get cold feet

I'm a poet and I know it

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By *owdyBoobyMan over a year ago

limerick

"1. scared

2. cheating.

3. fantasizing

take your pick."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

M&Gs are awesome. Those who avoid them have no idea what they are missing...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All talk no action types I think

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Iv asked for invite on here and got no reply so just gave Up asking maybe I'm not what people are looking for

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By *ean0001Man over a year ago

Dublin West

I can only speak for myself on this one. I have attended many meet and greets over the years and to be honest was never a fan of the larger ones as they tend to turn into large groups with little or no interaction between the group's.

If you have asked for an invite and are invited it's just not on if you don't show. If you not 100% in going then don't ask for an invite.

But I have found in my time that for many single guys when they do show they get the vibe that they are really not that wanted in the first place and have seen it usually turns out that the singles end up talking to each other While the single girls and the couples hang out in the larger groups.

I'm not saying it's a case for all but I have seen it happen many times.

I have been told to fuck off by couples as they don't play with single guys when all I was doing was trying to introduce myself In a polite and respectful manner.

When you are not well known or at your first few it's difficult and off putting to attend. If you can push through this it gets easier.

I'm not trying to justify anyone not showing up but I also want people to realize that it can be a hostile place as a single guy to go to so it might give some people a better insight as to why so many single guys don't want to go in the first place.

If so many are choosing not to go then there must be a reason why and I'm not sure that the tar all with the one brush approach is going to do any favors to anyone.

My tuppence worth for all it's worth.

Sean

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ill be honest .. im to scared to attend any due to my nervs.. im sure after a few drinks i be ok ... but on other hand dont wana show up d*unk lol... im sure it would help me get a meet im longing for ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well said sean

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Might get away from being a keyboard warrior and fantasist and go to the M&G in dublin in 2weeks time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can only speak for myself on this one. I have attended many meet and greets over the years and to be honest was never a fan of the larger ones as they tend to turn into large groups with little or no interaction between the group's.

If you have asked for an invite and are invited it's just not on if you don't show. If you not 100% in going then don't ask for an invite.

I'm not saying it's a case for all but I have seen it happen many times.

I have been told to fuck off by couples as they don't play with single guys when all I was doing was trying to introduce myself In a polite and respectful manner.

When you are not well known or at your first few it's difficult and off putting to attend. If you can push through this it gets easier.

If so many are choosing not to go then there must be a reason why and I'm not sure that the tar all with the one brush approach is going to do any favors to anyone.

My tuppence worth for all it's worth.

Sean"
told to fuck off by couples? That's out of order

but the single guys shouldn't ask for invites or meets then not turn up its wasting people's time and giving genuine single guys who DO want to meet a bad name on fab hence why they are at the bottom of every list and get treated like shit in some cases like yourself, but I do understand your point

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Really getting sick of the guys on here most say ladies are unicorns on here but im sorry to say its the men that are few and far between . What im trying to say is that the lack of guys that show any interest in attending socials and meet and greets is shocking

Well im on here just to meet women for sex, not to go on a piss up and talk to people i have no interest in talking to...maybe lots of other guys are the same. Zero interest in the social side of things

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have no problem in going to meets and socials and its always a pleasure to meet any member wether its single males single ladys or couples. Its A great way to get to know people and there all good fun i have to say as single i have never had a bad experience at any of them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I want sex thats it I didnt come here to make friends and I know thats the case with most... Whats with nagging guys that dont go to socials...

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By *al2001Man over a year ago

kildare

Socials aren't a necessary part of swinging.

And I have met rude cpls at socials and parties prob because I was a single guy there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd love go to a social but find it hard to travel due to work etc.... But if any1 Knows of social in cork soon please get in touch

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I want sex thats it I didnt come here to make friends and I know thats the case with most... Whats with nagging guys that dont go to socials..."
I'm sure there are lots of people right up your street on here, personally I enjoy the social side of fab too and I think most people do also, iv only been to 1 meet and greet and it was good crack had a great time meeting new people. But everyone's here for there own enjoyment whatever it may be

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm curious about the couples on here, and there are loads of profiles I've seen throughout Ireland and UK who aren't meeting anyone else and are exclusive to each other.

Fair play to them for finding happiness and I'm not saying they shouldn't be on the site...but why should they be allowed to go to socials?

Everyone preaches about how vital a social is for networking. These couples are taking the place of a couple who want to network and to meet potential new play partners?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I went to few M&Gs and thanks to them I have met very cool single ladies and couples. With few of them I played or we are planning to meet for sex.

Every M&G is different and sometimes people are not interested in chatting with single blokes, which is fair enough. At the same time I also have my preferences. Sometimes couples show bad attitude but I simply move on to another person. Thankfully, I never experienced hostility from anyone during such parties.

If someone is serious about wanting to experience group sex, those meets are good to get your foot through the door and let yourself known. I worked wonders for me personally.

I'd say, if someone is here just to meet with single ladies than surely M&Gs are no use for him what so ever.

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By *al2001Man over a year ago

kildare

"I'm curious about the couples on here, and there are loads of profiles I've seen throughout Ireland and UK who aren't meeting anyone else and are exclusive to each other.

Fair play to them for finding happiness and I'm not saying they shouldn't be on the site...but why should they be allowed to go to socials?

Everyone preaches about how vital a social is for networking. These couples are taking the place of a couple who want to network and to meet potential new play partners? "

Its a social,why shouldn't they go and socialise. Maybe going to a party is pretty pointless but not social imo

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ill be honest .. im to scared to attend any due to my nervs.. im sure after a few drinks i be ok ... but on other hand dont wana show up d*unk lol... im sure it would help me get a meet im longing for .."
you're not alone. I get nervous too. I'm not good In big crowds anyway. I wouldn't question someone's genuineness because they don't go to M&Gs. Each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Roll on the 11th hope you're heading alone busty blonde

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"M&Gs are awesome. Those who avoid them have no idea what they are missing...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you have asked for an invite and are invited it's just not on if you don't show. If you not 100% in going then don't ask for an invite.

I'm not saying it's a case for all but I have seen it happen many times.

I have been told to fuck off by couples as they don't play with single guys when all I was doing was trying to introduce myself In a polite and respectful manner.

When you are not well known or at your first few it's difficult and off putting to attend. If you can push through this it gets easier.

If so many are choosing not to go then there must be a reason why and I'm not sure that the tar all with the one brush approach is going to do any favors to anyone.

My tuppence worth for all it's worth.

Sean"

Very well put but the point I think that was trying to be made is the ones that ask for an invite and don't show. Anyone can have a last minute emergency but not all the ones that tend to miss them. We can see where your coming from but its not going to happen when you walk in the door it's no different from a night on the tiles make the effort and the results will pay off and nothing lost but the chance to meet great people.

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By *elfastDMan over a year ago

belfast

Believe it or not men can be intimidated here too

Turning up to large groups of people who know each other already can be daunting

I think that's why I prefer one on one socials first now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

100% and judging by some of the forum posts don't think the cliques and I would get on too well...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"judging by some of the forum posts don't think the cliques and I would get on too well... "

it's difficult to get on well with something that doesn't exist

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"M&Gs are awesome. Those who avoid them have no idea what they are missing...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Face it...They are just afraid of you busty

Afraid of any strong woman I think some men must suffer from inferiority complex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"judging by some of the forum posts don't think the cliques and I would get on too well...

it's difficult to get on well with something that doesn't exist

Lol maybe your right maybe not who knows

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well I think to be honest theres a lot of arm chair swingers on here

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By *aitMan over a year ago

Plymouth

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Roll on the 11th hope you're heading alone busty blonde

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Oh ill be there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Face it...They are just afraid of you busty

Afraid of any strong woman I think some men must suffer from inferiority complex

Or is it just some women suffer from delusions of grandeur lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"judging by some of the forum posts don't think the cliques and I would get on too well...

it's difficult to get on well with something that doesn't exist

Lol maybe your right maybe not who knows

haha, true :D

I really do not think there is any clique on the site. There are groups of people that know each other and like each other. There are also people that do not necessary like or give a fuck about each other's existence. I wouldn't classify this as a clique.

When I joined the site, it was one of the first things I was told, beware of the clique, however I didn't give a damn about it and just stormed into the forums announcing my presence and I was fine.

It seems to me that some people are using this as an excuse for not having enough will and drive to engage into forums and use it for networking. I can see few single lads that since my arrival hit the forums big time and established themselves here and I guess in the popular definition they are now part of the famous clique, even though they never applied to be part of that group...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Face it...They are just afraid of you busty

Afraid of any strong woman I think some men must suffer from inferiority complex

Or is it just some women suffer from delusions of grandeur lol "

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By *illow1972Man over a year ago

Naas

I agree with everything Sean said above.

I've already made my feeling clear on meets & greets before. I've no interest in them. I've no interest in making friends here. I've no interest in interacting with a group of swingers on a social night out.

I have however an interest in sex. I have an interest in private parties. I have an interest in meeting people for sex. That's why I'm here.

Single men are on the lowest rung of the ladder here, I accept that. Having said that I've no more interest in hanging around a meet & greet in the hope that some lady or couple might take it upon themselves to talk to me.

The woman who have notions of themselves and the male halves of couples giving you the once over if you even dare to talk to the female half. And the beautiful boys of fab dont like it when they think you're moving in on their harem.

Thats' why I don't do meets an greets. I'm no less a genuine guy just because I don't go to them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was at my first social on Friday... Didnt think I'd make it but arrived although very late...

Had a few pints, chatted to some of the people who were still there, made a contact or two,... Found everyone friendly to be honest and glad I went cos I'd usually avoid crowds when I don't know anyone..

I think its a great way to meet up with people.. I'll go again..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP you dont know what some of these single lads go through at socials so no point in nagging them to go to 1

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had no interest in m&g but I figured that if Iwanted to meet more people I should go. Some of the ladies just want to make sure they are on a safe environment for a meet. If you want to make sure you get to talk to someone you should check out who is going and let them know that you what to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP you dont know what some of these single lads go through at socials so no point in nagging them to go to 1"
Im not nagging what im saying is they ask for invites but they turn up

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By *aid backMan over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"OP you dont know what some of these single lads go through at socials so no point in nagging them to go to 1"

i go to a fair few socials and parties i'm a single guy and iv never had any problems even when i was starting out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP you dont know what some of these single lads go through at socials so no point in nagging them to go to 1Im not nagging what im saying is they ask for invites but they turn up "

well theres a simple answer to that then. Arm chair swingers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have no interest in going to most of the socials or meet and greets really.

Wouldn't have anything to say. Id basically sit there making eye contact with people till they looked away all night then go home.

Curiosity might get the better of me one day. But its not really my thing, couldnt even imagine me at one.

Reading the gossip about me the day after a social would be fun though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't understand what the big hang up about socials/M&Gs are....

Especially since 'single' guys give out about not getting any meets!

In it's simplest form, it's a way of broadening your social network...

(Fair enough, some guys don't feel the need and will happily just mail) or will say "I'm here for sex, not to make friends", fair enough and each to their own...

I go to meet other people who have a similar interest (lifestyle) as me, to have a laugh, to show that I am who/what I say I am and not just some wanna be fantasist!

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

around

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

around

How can anyone say socials/m&g are not for them if they've never been to one?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How can anyone say socials/m&g are not for them if they've never been to one?

because we know what happens at them. Theyre Not exactly a big mystery...people meet up, drink and talk. Whats there to know??

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By *ojos jugsWoman over a year ago

Bangor

"I want sex thats it I didnt come here to make friends and I know thats the case with most... Whats with nagging guys that dont go to socials... I'm sure there are lots of people right up your street on here, personally I enjoy the social side of fab too and I think most people do also, iv only been to 1 meet and greet and it was good crack had a great time meeting new people. But everyone's here for there own enjoyment whatever it may be

Hope to see u at the Spring Fling Topcatt

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"How can anyone say socials/m&g are not for them if they've never been to one?

because we know what happens at them. Theyre Not exactly a big mystery...people meet up, drink and talk. Whats there to know??"
LOL really ah well if that's what u think

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How can anyone say socials/m&g are not for them if they've never been to one?

because we know what happens at them. Theyre Not exactly a big mystery...people meet up, drink and talk. Whats there to know??LOL really ah well if that's what u think

Having been to several myself, that's EXACTLY what happens so I don't know why you're suggesting otherwise. Play may occur afterwards but a m&g is just a social.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How can anyone say socials/m&g are not for them if they've never been to one?

because we know what happens at them. Theyre Not exactly a big mystery...people meet up, drink and talk. Whats there to know??LOL really ah well if that's what u think

ok so you may end up shaggin someone perhaps if its in a hotel or even if it isnt...still no interest in spending my evening chatting to people, 90% of whom ill have no interest in chatting to

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By *ojos jugsWoman over a year ago

Bangor

Ive been to one M&G recently and have to say I thoroughly enjoyed it

with so many timewasters and fakes about, M&Gs are definitely the way to go on Fab... Anyone who has never attended one, shud.. so much fun to had at them, before, during and after

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ive been to one M&G recently and have to say I thoroughly enjoyed it

with so many timewasters and fakes about, M&Gs are definitely the way to go on Fab... Anyone who has never attended one, shud.. so much fun to had at them, before, during and after

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm sorry some of you girls spend a lot of time talking to assholes, time wasters and fakes... But thats a reason for you to attend socials, its not a reason for me to attend them.

I can gurantee everyone I talk to on here is genuine.

I mean it's more reason for me to avoid them, shows the majority at them cant judge people very well?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Busty is an absolute lady

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive been to one M&G recently and have to say I thoroughly enjoyed it

with so many timewasters and fakes about, M&Gs are definitely the way to go on Fab... Anyone who has never attended one, shud.. so much fun to had at them, before, during and after

only been to one myself and am now addicted

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By *ojos jugsWoman over a year ago

Bangor

"Ive been to one M&G recently and have to say I thoroughly enjoyed it

with so many timewasters and fakes about, M&Gs are definitely the way to go on Fab... Anyone who has never attended one, shud.. so much fun to had at them, before, during and after

only been to one myself and am now addicted

Me too

Lookin forward to my nxt fix lol

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By *ilderMan over a year ago

dublin

Is there a lack of single guys at M and G's? To be honest I'm not looking out for them so I don't notice their numbers...

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman over a year ago

Palookaville

"M&Gs are awesome. Those who avoid them have no idea what they are missing...

So true. ...love them

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By *oxic1998Woman over a year ago

Belfast

"I was at my first social on Friday... Didnt think I'd make it but arrived although very late...

I think its a great way to meet up with people.. I'll go again..

Pmsl.......why does that not surprise you being late

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We view these as an opportunity to have that initial coffee meet with loads of people at once. Most people want a social meet first and this can cut out that time and the next meet can be for fun. This is what the single guys don't always understand. If people have met you and know they fancy you, then there is a good chance of some fun later. Socials and m&g's are labour saving

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We view these as an opportunity to have that initial coffee meet with loads of people at once. Most people want a social meet first and this can cut out that time and the next meet can be for fun. This is what the single guys don't always understand. If people have met you and know they fancy you, then there is a good chance of some fun later. Socials and m&g's are labour saving

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think some people lose sight of what this site actually is. If people wanted to go on socials they would have joined match or pof. This is a site where individuals meet up for sex...that's it. Its a sex site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

social meet!!!! ha ha more like private club for those in the circle if u ask me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's whatever you want it be, i love socials but always go with people i know well

Sex site yes but i have made great friends who share my lifestyle, and i love that so no rules about it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Women do not change simply because they are on fab . A lot of ladies like to be charmed plus of course to see who is doing the charming.

Guys should not lose sight of who really sets the rules on here ... Market forces prevail.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"social meet!!!! ha ha more like private club for those in the circle if u ask me "
Now thats rubbish have u ever asked for an invite then again u prob havent !!

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By *oandWexCouple over a year ago

arklow

We have this problem at nearly all our parties . Single guys confirm and then they don't show up . In saying that some couples do that as well.

We can only Ask guys who are verified and when we explain that they will not be allowed in the playroom unless invited by a female or couple they respond "well what's the point in me going" . Well the point is that u get to meet people and make contacts.

I am not speaking for all the single guys as some of them are great and really make the effort. All we ask is that if people are not going to turn up they just text. We don't need to know whether their cat died or whether they are working just a simple "can't attend" will do. Especially seen as we limit the Number of single guys we invite and always have to turn some down.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well I think to be honest theres a lot of arm chair swingers on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I want sex thats it I didnt come here to make friends and I know thats the case with most... Whats with nagging guys that dont go to socials..."
....so don't go...lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I want sex thats it I didnt come here to make friends and I know thats the case with most... Whats with nagging guys that dont go to socials.......so don't go...lol"

I know... I wouldnt be caught dead going to it

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By *eltic CplCouple over a year ago

Kildare

"I want sex thats it I didnt come here to make friends and I know thats the case with most... Whats with nagging guys that dont go to socials.......so don't go...lol

I know... I wouldnt be caught dead going to it"

Classy guy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I want sex thats it I didnt come here to make friends and I know thats the case with most... Whats with nagging guys that dont go to socials.......so don't go...lol

I know... I wouldnt be caught dead going to it"
...another angry guy.....lol...why?

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By *illow1972Man over a year ago

Naas

So a female or a couple can invite a guy into the playroom but single guys can't invite anyone and have to _ait to me invited??

Sure why invite guys at all? Wouldn't ye all be much less stressed and hassled if ye just didn't invited the pervert single lads at all?

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By *ocbrownMan over a year ago

Kilkenny/Waterford

I've been to socials only missed one

had to pull out of it, as I had been given an offer I just couldn't refuse

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By *oandWexCouple over a year ago

arklow

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And whats with couples telling single lads to fuck off at socials... I wouldnt call that a welcoming social

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I want sex thats it I didnt come here to make friends and I know thats the case with most... Whats with nagging guys that dont go to socials.......so don't go...lol

I know... I wouldnt be caught dead going to it"
Wouldn't be caught dead going to a social but it's fine being on a swingers site, some attitude you have on ya misses

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Single guys join here because they think it's sex on tap but they fail to realise that there is a way to conduct yourself here, you have to go to socials and meet & greets that way you build contacts and at the end of the day they're brilliant fun and that's what we are all here for

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh listento the King, young but wise, i think i'll enjoy that coffee after all

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By *isdirtygirlWoman over a year ago

Dublin

"I want sex thats it I didnt come here to make friends and I know thats the case with most... Whats with nagging guys that dont go to socials.......so don't go...lol

I know... I wouldnt be caught dead going to it"

lovely manners by the looks of it,, sounds like you're above everyone else by that comment which is probably why you can't get a meet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh listento the King, young but wise, i think i'll enjoy that coffee after all

It'll be a great coffee

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By *illow1972Man over a year ago

Naas

Tell me how I, as a single man, have to conduct myself here so please?

And why do we "have to go" to socials?

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By *ocbrownMan over a year ago

Kilkenny/Waterford

Iv met many couples who are straight up with me and said we're not interested in single guys

and others who are interested

ya go to socials to meet people over a few drinks and have a chat and hopefully meet up sometime in the future

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And whats with couples telling single lads to fuck off at socials... I wouldnt call that a welcoming social"
.....how do you know? ...if you wouldn't be caught dead at one?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Rubbish. You dont have to go to them...never been to any, never plan on and i have zero problems. Theyre an option for those who moan about not getting a meet, but just that, an option

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You don't "have to go to socials ". That's totally wrong. Plenty of people use the site successfully without ever going to one.

They are not the be all and end all of being on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I want sex thats it I didnt come here to make friends and I know thats the case with most... Whats with nagging guys that dont go to socials.......so don't go...lol

I know... I wouldnt be caught dead going to it

lovely manners by the looks of it,, sounds like you're above everyone else by that comment which is probably why you can't get a meet

Ah here..... I didnt say im above anybody.... what im saying is socials are not essential for success with women on here you're all saying its a must to attend a social ... It aint

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Rubbish. You dont have to go to them...never been to any, never plan on and i have zero problems. Theyre an option for those who moan about not getting a meet, but just that, an option"

I suppose I shouldn't have said have to because you know people have free will and what not, I understand what you mean

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And whats with couples telling single lads to fuck off at socials... I wouldnt call that a welcoming social.....how do you know? ...if you wouldn't be caught dead at one? "

Two to four lads in the previous posts have said that they try to introduce themselves to couples at other socials and they get told to fuck off for being nice.... No need for the hostility

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tell me how I, as a single man, have to conduct myself here so please?

And why do we "have to go" to socials?"
Who said ya have to go to socials? No one... socials are a good way for people to interact with folks they've been chatting to on fab in person rather than sitting behind a phone or computer. You actually get to see what someone's like before you decide to meet them

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By *isdirtygirlWoman over a year ago

Dublin

"I want sex thats it I didnt come here to make friends and I know thats the case with most... Whats with nagging guys that dont go to socials.......so don't go...lol

I know... I wouldnt be caught dead going to it

lovely manners by the looks of it,, sounds like you're above everyone else by that comment which is probably why you can't get a meet

Ah here..... I didnt say im above anybody.... what im saying is socials are not essential for success with women on here you're all saying its a must to attend a social ... It aint "

Your the one that's having no success.... You were given advice and then said you wouldn't be seen dead at one!!

so what's your answer to it then?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And whats with couples telling single lads to fuck off at socials... I wouldnt call that a welcoming social.....how do you know? ...if you wouldn't be caught dead at one?

Two to four lads in the previous posts have said that they try to introduce themselves to couples at other socials and they get told to fuck off for being nice.... No need for the hostility"

The couples were probably just there to socialise and not to network /get to know people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I want sex thats it I didnt come here to make friends and I know thats the case with most... Whats with nagging guys that dont go to socials.......so don't go...lol

I know... I wouldnt be caught dead going to it

lovely manners by the looks of it,, sounds like you're above everyone else by that comment which is probably why you can't get a meet

Im doing well thank you very much... It feels nice not going with the conveyor belt mentality

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tell me how I, as a single man, have to conduct myself here so please?

And why do we "have to go" to socials? Who said ya have to go to socials? No one... socials are a good way for people to interact with folks they've been chatting to on fab in person rather than sitting behind a phone or computer. You actually get to see what someone's like before you decide to meet them

Read the post you just quoted, kinglim just said you have to go to them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I want sex thats it I didnt come here to make friends and I know thats the case with most... Whats with nagging guys that dont go to socials.......so don't go...lol

I know... I wouldnt be caught dead going to it

lovely manners by the looks of it,, sounds like you're above everyone else by that comment which is probably why you can't get a meet

Ah here..... I didnt say im above anybody.... what im saying is socials are not essential for success with women on here you're all saying its a must to attend a social ... It aint "
....never been to one either. ....but its a bit condescending to say you wouldn't be caught dead at one....you come across as angry for some reason. ...swimming against the tide get u a big fat zero on here. ...just some friendly advice ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tell me how I, as a single man, have to conduct myself here so please?

Read the post you just quoted, kinglim just said you have to go to them. "

I did say have was a bad choice of words as no one has to do anything

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh sweet mother of jesus !!!! Go or don't go, who cares!!! People are giving advice so that single men can meet people and maybe find easier to meet women or couples, when given advice take it or leave it....simple

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tell me how I, as a single man, have to conduct myself here so please?

Read the post you just quoted, kinglim just said you have to go to them. "
see that thanks, well no ya don't

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And whats with couples telling single lads to fuck off at socials... I wouldnt call that a welcoming social.....how do you know? ...if you wouldn't be caught dead at one?

Two to four lads in the previous posts have said that they try to introduce themselves to couples at other socials and they get told to fuck off for being nice.... No need for the hostility

The couples were probably just there to socialise and not to network /get to know people

Nicer words could be used other than fuckoff... If a woman came up to any couple she'll be fully welcomed it should be all about equality dont u think

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I just can't make up my mind now. haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hahaha i am sure you do well sweet xx

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By *illow1972Man over a year ago

Naas

Tell me how I, as a single man, have to conduct myself here so please?

Ya I know what socials are thanks.

Read the posts above and you'll see who said "ye have to go". I was replying to that post.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tell me how I, as a single man, have to conduct myself here so please?

Ya I know what socials are thanks.

Read the posts above and you'll see who said "ye have to go". I was replying to that post.

Willow apologies "have to go" was a bad choice of words also I shouldn't have jumped in to the thread sure what do I know

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tell me how I, as a single man, have to conduct myself here so please?

Ya I know what socials are thanks.

Read the posts above and you'll see who said "ye have to go". I was replying to that post.

"
yea it was pointed out on the the thread above thanks

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By *illow1972Man over a year ago

Naas

"And why do we "have to go" to socials? Who said ya have to go to socials? No one... socials are a good way for people to interact with folks they've been chatting to on fab in person rather than sitting behind a phone or computer. You actually get to see what someone's like before you decide to meet them

Ya I know what socials are thanks.

Read the posts above and you'll see who said "ye have to go". I was replying to that post.

yea it was pointed out on the the thread above thanks

You're welcome. Apology accepted.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh sweet mother of jesus !!!! Go or don't go, who cares!!! People are giving advice so that single men can meet people and maybe find easier to meet women or couples, when given advice take it or leave it....simple"
......your right. ...my ears are starting to bleed. ..With all this whinging. ...Miller time.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

After all this i am on my second one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ya I know what socials are thanks.

Read the posts above and you'll see who said "ye have to go". I was replying to that post.

yea it was pointed out on the the thread above thanks

You're welcome. Apology accepted.

"
haaaaaaaa

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"After all this i am on my second one

"
....lol im having a wee powers to chase it....lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Forgive my ignorance but what is that?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Forgive my ignorance but what is that?

Whiskey

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Forgive my ignorance but what is that?

Whiskey"
......hah....not just any old whisky! !!!..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Forgive my ignorance but what is that?

Whiskey......hah....not just any old whisky! !!!.. "

Ya it is powers is only ok, get on the middleton was drinking that myself last night, beautiful stuff

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ah i see, sorry

thanking ye xx enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And whats with couples telling single lads to fuck off at socials... I wouldnt call that a welcoming social.....how do you know? ...if you wouldn't be caught dead at one?

Two to four lads in the previous posts have said that they try to introduce themselves to couples at other socials and they get told to fuck off for being nice.... No need for the hostility

The couples were probably just there to socialise and not to network /get to know people

Who has actually been told to fuck off,in those exact words ? My first thought on that would be ,maybe the guy approaching was rude in someway,if not and the couple actually said that without provocation,then they have only let themselves down.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ah i see, sorry

thanking ye xx enjoy it "
......lol don't be apologising for not knowing about whisky. ...its just us alcoholic feckers who are into it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And whats with couples telling single lads to fuck off at socials... I wouldnt call that a welcoming social.....how do you know? ...if you wouldn't be caught dead at one?

Two to four lads in the previous posts have said that they try to introduce themselves to couples at other socials and they get told to fuck off for being nice.... No need for the hostility

The couples were probably just there to socialise and not to network /get to know people

Sean0001 mentioned it and he can't be described as rude

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hahaha!!! I drink beer

or captain morgan, never knew there was a whiskey called powers, but i am not irish

oh and i don't trust someone who doesn't drink lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And whats with couples telling single lads to fuck off at socials... I wouldnt call that a welcoming social.....how do you know? ...if you wouldn't be caught dead at one?

Two to four lads in the previous posts have said that they try to introduce themselves to couples at other socials and they get told to fuck off for being nice.... No need for the hostility

The couples were probably just there to socialise and not to network /get to know people

Sean0001 mentioned it and he can't be described as rude "

Well then ,the couple have an apology to give.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hahaha!!! I drink beer

or captain morgan, never knew there was a whiskey called powers, but i am not irish

oh and i don't trust someone who doesn't drink lol"
....I feel sorry for them. ....when they wake up in the morning. ...thats the best their gonna feel all day.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hahahaha!!! My hungover is leaving now.... Therefore i drank a bit more

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By *ilderMan over a year ago

dublin

Does someone have to go to socials to get meets? No. Personally however I think I would have significantly less than I have if I didn't go to socials. It's through socials that I have got invites to parties etc. As a single guy I have to make an extra effort and I'm more than aware of that. Have I met rude people at socials? Yes I have but I've also met them at parties and in real life so so be it.

I went to Diggers social / meet and greet last night and I probably knew a good 40% of those there already (note I said knew as in met before and not played with, although I have with some

). On a number of occasions people I knew called me over to others they were talking too so I could be introduced and I spoke to some myself so I that made it worth the trip.

Did I go to any parties after? No I wasn't invited to anything so went home alone however at least 2 conversations I had last night I think may lead to something in the future and who knows what email I may recieve from someone else I met inviting me to something or another. Networking rocks!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does someone have to go to socials to get meets? No. Personally however I think I would have significantly less than I have if I didn't go to socials. It's through socials that I have got invites to parties etc. As a single guy I have to make an extra effort and I'm more than aware of that. Have I met rude people at socials? Yes I have but I've also met them at parties and in real life so so be it.

I went to Diggers social / meet and greet last night and I probably knew a good 40% of those there already (note I said knew as in met before and not played with, although I have with some

). On a number of occasions people I knew called me over to others they were talking too so I could be introduced and I spoke to some myself so I that made it worth the trip.

Did u find ur lady in black

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By *ilderMan over a year ago

dublin

I went to Diggers social / meet and greet last night and I probably knew a good 40% of those there already (note I said knew as in met before and not played with, although I have with some

). On a number of occasions people I knew called me over to others they were talking too so I could be introduced and I spoke to some myself so I that made it worth the trip.

Did u find ur lady in black

Yep!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I went to Diggers social / meet and greet last night and I probably knew a good 40% of those there already (note I said knew as in met before and not played with, although I have with some

). On a number of occasions people I knew called me over to others they were talking too so I could be introduced and I spoke to some myself so I that made it worth the trip.

Did u find ur lady in black

Yep!

Must get u to help me with my Where's wally book

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By *ilderMan over a year ago

dublin

I went to Diggers social / meet and greet last night and I probably knew a good 40% of those there already (note I said knew as in met before and not played with, although I have with some

). On a number of occasions people I knew called me over to others they were talking too so I could be introduced and I spoke to some myself so I that made it worth the trip.

Did u find ur lady in black

Yep!

Must get u to help me with my Where's wally book

I thought you'd be more interested ub where's willy?

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By *ojos jugsWoman over a year ago

Bangor

Sex site?? And heres me thinkin it waz a swingers site

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By *ilk69Man over a year ago

city.

i was invited to a M/G in cork last year, and i saw a cpl i no very well, i just paniced, i just froz i dont no why.

it wood have been my first time goin too a M/G..i know be fore you say it, i'am a knob head for not going in.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i was invited to a M/G in cork last year, and i saw a cpl i no very well, i just paniced, i just froz i dont no why.

it wood have been my first time goin too a M/G..i know be fore you say it, i'am a knob head for not going in."

You're not a knob head for not going to it, its only a mere social nothing else to it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer to meet a lady 1-2-1 and not in a m&g . It's easier to know if we have something in common. We have more time to chat and just relax.

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By *hocko87Man over a year ago

dublin

We'll I work d weekends n most meets r on weekends n to b honest I went to one party n it was a flop . But I went to one lunchtime meet n it was very nice . But I could not give up work to go to a party n anyway I'm having fun without going to any party .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ah this old chestnut. This has been talked about for years. Last time I was on here I sucked up socials and gatherings like there's no tomorrow. I met some truely lovely people at socials. Some I talk to to this day on a daily basis. Single guys, if you want to see a lady without her jocks, pull up your socks. Get to socials!! This may be a swing site but there has to be some interaction before interaction. I think Beddy said that back in the day.

See you all on the 11th in the big smoke.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tell me how I, as a single man, have to conduct myself here so please?

And why do we "have to go" to socials?"

Exactly what I was thinking, a way to conduct yourself are you feeling allright I conduct myself the same as I do outside of fab why change just to please someone else ?

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By *happy79xMan over a year ago

Waterford

Lol lack of men ? Lol good job i ve a thick skin and don t take insults lightly lol lol

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

around

"How can anyone say socials/m&g are not for them if they've never been to one?

because we know what happens at them. Theyre Not exactly a big mystery...people meet up, drink and talk. Whats there to know??"

How can you know what is going to happen? A fortune teller are you? You may know the concept but not the outcome. You don't know who you could potentially meet and what could be the result of it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's my first social to go to I am nervous but I will turn up it's only fair u make effort when people put alot in to organize the social so hopefully someone will talk to me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have to say i love going to the m&gs . (thanks party monster and ballbuster) i like the social and fun side of it. You get to meet a lot of interesting people there and a lot who would normally be outside your normal swinging locations. As a single guy i usually have no problem talking to singles and couples and all have always been extremely nice and friendly

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By *oldenFingersMan over a year ago

Fairview

I think a lot like the idea of it but when it comes to the crunch can't do it for whatever reason. Meet & greats are always a good way to break the ice alright.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't understand what the big hang up about socials/M&Gs are....

Especially since 'single' guys give out about not getting any meets!

In it's simplest form, it's a way of broadening your social network...

(Fair enough, some guys don't feel the need and will happily just mail) or will say "I'm here for sex, not to make friends", fair enough and each to their own...

I go to meet other people who have a similar interest (lifestyle) as me, to have a laugh, to show that I am who/what I say I am and not just some wanna be fantasist!

And to flog a few T-shirts Fooey

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By *ingerrrrWoman over a year ago

Meath

I'm much more likely to meet a guy I've previously encountered at a social evening than straight up cold messaging.

You can get a "feel" for the person and know if you'll get on well or not.

(Yes I'm one of those that need the chemistry to want to play)

Swinging is more than just a quick fuck for me.

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By *aid backMan over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"I'm much more likely to meet a guy I've previously encountered at a social evening than straight up cold messaging.

You can get a "feel" for the person and know if you'll get on well or not.

(Yes I'm one of those that need the chemistry to want to play)

Swinging is more than just a quick fuck for me. "

grab your lab coat and goggles as i love fucking with chemistry

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By *ingerrrrWoman over a year ago

Meath

And laid.. You stirred my chemicals real good!!

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By *ojos jugsWoman over a year ago

Bangor

"I'm much more likely to meet a guy I've previously encountered at a social evening than straight up cold messaging.

You can get a "feel" for the person and know if you'll get on well or not.

(Yes I'm one of those that need the chemistry to want to play)

Swinging is more than just a quick fuck for me. "

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By *aid backMan over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"And laid.. You stirred my chemicals real good!! "

our radical free bodies cause some reaction

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By *aid backMan over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

See you all on the 11th in the big smoke.

who did you get the invite from as you never mailed me looking for an invite to the 11th ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm much more likely to meet a guy I've previously encountered at a social evening than straight up cold messaging.

You can get a "feel" for the person and know if you'll get on well or not.

(Yes I'm one of those that need the chemistry to want to play)

Swinging is more than just a quick fuck for me.

grab your lab coat and goggles as i love fucking with chemistry

Last time I fucked with chemistry I blew the lab up!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

Last time I fucked with chemistry I blew the lab up!

What breed was your next dog after the lab?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't understand what the big hang up about socials/M&Gs are....

Especially since 'single' guys give out about not getting any meets!

In it's simplest form, it's a way of broadening your social network...

(Fair enough, some guys don't feel the need and will happily just mail) or will say "I'm here for sex, not to make friends", fair enough and each to their own...

I go to meet other people who have a similar interest (lifestyle) as me, to have a laugh, to show that I am who/what I say I am and not just some wanna be fantasist!

And to flog a few T-shirts Fooey

Don't forget the Keyrings, hats and mugs too!

Hope to have some signed posters at the next one!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't understand what the big hang up about socials/M&Gs are....

Especially since 'single' guys give out about not getting any meets!

In it's simplest form, it's a way of broadening your social network...

(Fair enough, some guys don't feel the need and will happily just mail) or will say "I'm here for sex, not to make friends", fair enough and each to their own...

I go to meet other people who have a similar interest (lifestyle) as me, to have a laugh, to show that I am who/what I say I am and not just some wanna be fantasist!

And to flog a few T-shirts Fooey

Don't forget the Keyrings, hats and mugs too!

Hope to have some signed posters at the next one!

I'm _aiting for the limited edition fooey bobble heads

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

I'm _aiting for the limited edition fooey bobble heads"

Pervert!

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By *-4pleasureCouple over a year ago

Belfast

"I agree with everything Sean said above.

I have however an interest in sex. I have an interest in private parties. I have an interest in meeting people for sex. That's why I'm here.

Thats' why I don't do meets an greets. I'm no less a genuine guy just because I don't go to them.

So why do you post non sexual subjects in the forums if you are only interested in securing sex and not in socialising?Why do you inquire as to how people's days are going in the chat room if you aren't really interested? This suggests that everything you do has an ulterior motive and cannot be taken at face value.

Ps - you seem to have an issue with males ensuring the safety and enjoyment of their partner when approached by people they don't know. You're surprised by this? Why? Do you feel that the normal etiquette of socialising doesn't apply in the swinging environment?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Last time I fucked with chemistry I blew the lab up!

What breed was your next dog after the lab?

I got one that went WOOF instead of POOF!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm _aiting for the limited edition fooey bobble heads

Pervert!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm _aiting for the limited edition fooey bobble heads

Pervert!

This is a well known fact

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

Last time I fucked with chemistry I blew the lab up!

What breed was your next dog after the lab?

I got one that went WOOF instead of POOF!

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By *uaveGentMan over a year ago

dublin

Like many ,en who have commented on here, i'm just not into socials. Ive attended them and found them pretty dull. For all the talk of 'arm chair' swingers there is also saloon bore swingers who'd rather socialise, drink excessively and then d*unken fumble. Thats cool, thats their thing. Its not mine. Thats not everyone who attends socials but its a large part of it.

Plus in Ireland attending a social is somewhat risky as, lets face it, there are far too many bitter people out to ruin others lives. Socials are the opposite of the discretion that is still wise on the Irish scene.

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By *al2001Man over a year ago

kildare

"And whats with couples telling single lads to fuck off at socials... I wouldnt call that a welcoming social.....how do you know? ...if you wouldn't be caught dead at one?

Two to four lads in the previous posts have said that they try to introduce themselves to couples at other socials and they get told to fuck off for being nice.... No need for the hostility

The couples were probably just there to socialise and not to network /get to know people

I was told to fuck off by a husband and I was far from rude,I met them briefly at a previous party and went over to say hello,I had no interest in the wife just being friendly

Not that it put me off socials but it did boil my piss but I just bit my lip

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By *uaveGentMan over a year ago

dublin

I was told to fuck off by a husband and I was far from rude,I met them briefly at a previous party and went over to say hello,I had no interest in the wife just being friendly

Not that it put me off socials but it did boil my piss but I just bit my lip"

Anyone who uses that language is either having a very bad time of it ir just a dick, so, ya know, no great loss.

Perhaps socials should develop a colour code, like 'greelight discos'.. Wear red and it means 'no single males'.

Lets face it, if your a cpl looking a cpl and you get 20 single guys 'just being mates' all night it probably is a bit annoying.

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By *illow1972Man over a year ago

Naas

"I agree with everything Sean said above.

I have however an interest in sex. I have an interest in private parties. I have an interest in meeting people for sex. That's why I'm here.

Thats' why I don't do meets an greets. I'm no less a genuine guy just because I don't go to them.

Thank you for your comments. Apologies for the delay in reverting however I'm just getting a chance to go online now.

I will address them individually so clarity will prevail:

1. "So why do you post non sexual subjects in the forums if you are only interested in securing sex and not in socialising"

I post non sexual topics in the forum as I don't see the necessity to post only sexual topics. I'm not preoccupied with, for example what ones favorite position is or whats the best way for guys to shave their private parts.

I trust you will raise this issue with the other people who post non sexual threads also. I do appreciate the time that you take to reply to my threads though and value your contribution.

2. "Why do you inquire as to how people's days are going in the chat room if you aren't really interested?"

I don't quiet understand this part of your question however I will still try to address it. I say hi to people in the chatroom as they say hi to me and out of manners and social etiquette I ask them how they are. I'm sorry if this causes you unease.

I again would implore you to ask other chatroom users why they feel the need to say hello to people. I would hasten to suggest that they would give a similar answer. Please feel free to say hi to me in there when you see me. Again I'm flattered that you take such an interest in my chatroom performance as well as my Threads.

3. "This suggests that everything you do has an ulterior motive and cannot be taken at face value".

This one, I must confess, has me slightly puzzled as I don't understand it.

Have I an ulterior motive because I post non-sexual Thread in the Forum and because in the chat room I tend to I ask people how their day was?

Should you find the time to rephrase the question I will gladly try to reply as best I can.

4. "Ps - you seem to have an issue with males ensuring the safety and enjoyment of their partner when approached by people they don't know. You're surprised by this? Why? Do you feel that the normal etiquette of socialising doesn't apply in the swinging environment?

You might please point out where I said that the normal etiquette of socialising doesnt apply to swinging? When I talk to a couple in the real world I find that both parties tend to converse with me equally. When I talk to some couples in the swinging world, surprisingly they both then to talk to me. They can make up their mind about me after the conversation if they so chose.

What definitely doesnt happen in the real world is that sometimes that male partner may get uneasey, hung up etc and give the dagger looks.

I trust that I have being able to address the concerns raised by you and that this opinion you have formed of me may change.

I do thank you for taking a keen interest in me here, both in the Forums and in the chatroom and I look forward to your continued comments in relation to both.

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By *ong riderMan over a year ago

belfast

So...

Two bananas chatting

Banana 1: I need to go to the doctor.

Banana 2: Why's that?

Banana 1: I'm not peeling well

Here all week *jazz hands*

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By *ojos jugsWoman over a year ago

Bangor

Last time I fucked with chemistry I blew the lab up!

What breed was your next dog after the lab?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

always wanted to go to an m&g but always too nervous to go on my own

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've no interest in a meet n greet. An actual sex party...sure

My reasons:

1. Demographics

2. Gossip

3. Bumping into a neighbour, cousin or colleague

4. Swinging is not my social life

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've no interest in a meet n greet. An actual sex party...sure

My reasons:

1. Demographics

2. Gossip

3. Bumping into a neighbour, cousin or colleague

4. Swinging is not my social life"
So no problem bumping into a family member at a party lol what is the difference to bumping into them at a social

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

"I've no interest in a meet n greet. An actual sex party...sure

My reasons:

1. Demographics

2. Gossip

3. Bumping into a neighbour, cousin or colleague

4. Swinging is not my social lifeSo no problem bumping into a family member at a party lol what is the difference to bumping into them at a social "

Ah sure, wouldn't you have to talk to them at a social?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ah Michael lol

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