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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi there,
Our opinion about some threads
Some users just seem to be judging what you should or shouldn't ask, just because they've been here longer or more actively participating. That doesn't give them the authority to dismiss or tell people what they should or shouldn't do on the forums, we think it's up to the users to reply, or not, with jokes.. or serious answers. Some advises may be handy.
But there's nothing wrong in using the forums to get verified, ask personal questions, of course always in a respectable context.
In our opinion bullying or disrespect should be banned and reported.. anything else? why don't we just relax and let people be 
We've been on forums in other country, and to be honest, there seem to be a few quite intimidating, bossy people here (
Of course also a lot of lovely people!)
Greets Rik & Alex
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi there,
Our opinion about some threads
Some users just seem to be judging what you should or shouldn't ask, just because they've been here longer or more actively participating. That doesn't give them the authority to dismiss or tell people what they should or shouldn't do on the forums, we think it's up to the users to reply, or not, with jokes.. or serious answers. Some advises may be handy.
But there's nothing wrong in using the forums to get verified, ask personal questions, of course always in a respectable context.
In our opinion bullying or disrespect should be banned and reported.. anything else? why don't we just relax and let people be
We've been on forums in other country, and to be honest, there seem to be a few quite intimidating, bossy people here (
Of course also a lot of lovely people!)
Greets Rik & Alex
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i think people should attack the topic more and not the person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No one tells anyone what to do on the forums, although I admit I have commented on things pointing out that that's not the correct way to carry on or that a certain post might seem needy, but nothing meant offend people and if i did offend someone I would openly apologise |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can see this going down well.lol
And that type of answer helps, how? "
cause u know what us fellow fourmites are like sometimes lol meant nothing bad by it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So someone complains about a thread and you think they shouldn't but here you are complaining about their thread. What's the difference?"
Double standards i assume?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So someone complains about a thread and you think they shouldn't but here you are complaining about their thread. What's the difference?"
Giving our opinion, our point of view in a respectful and hopefully constructive way, is something different than complaining about specific threads. And we were not pointing out anyone in particular, or were we?? |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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Yes u pointed out the veri thread but the sentiment is correct. One thing I will say if u post an opinion on an open fourm u can expect that to be challenged or agreed with by others, some seem to take this as a personal attack which its not. |
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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago
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"Hi there,
Our opinion about some threads
Some users just seem to be judging what you should or shouldn't ask, just because they've been here longer or more actively participating. That doesn't give them the authority to dismiss or tell people what they should or shouldn't do on the forums, we think it's up to the users to reply, or not, with jokes.. or serious answers. Some advises may be handy.
But there's nothing wrong in using the forums to get verified, ask personal questions, of course always in a respectable context.
In our opinion bullying or disrespect should be banned and reported.. anything else? why don't we just relax and let people be
We've been on forums in other country, and to be honest, there seem to be a few quite intimidating, bossy people here (
Of course also a lot of lovely people!)
Greets Rik & Alex
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes u pointed out the veri thread but the sentiment is correct. One thing I will say if u post an opinion on an open fourm u can expect that to be challenged or agreed with by others, some seem to take this as a personal attack which its not."
Agree
If you dish it ya gotta be prepared to get as good if not better back. I kinda like how mad I get at some people on threads then a while later you're meeting them and laughing about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes u pointed out the veri thread but the sentiment is correct. One thing I will say if u post an opinion on an open fourm u can expect that to be challenged or agreed with by others, some seem to take this as a personal attack which its not.
Agree
If you dish it ya gotta be prepared to get as good if not better back. I kinda like how mad I get at some people on threads then a while later you're meeting them and laughing about it. "
agree with this we all are different and clash sometimes but no point in carrying on with it outside the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes u pointed out the veri thread but the sentiment is correct. One thing I will say if u post an opinion on an open fourm u can expect that to be challenged or agreed with by others, some seem to take this as a personal attack which its not."
Agreed, we are just defending freedom of topics..and hoping people can be little less rude . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes u pointed out the veri thread but the sentiment is correct. One thing I will say if u post an opinion on an open fourm u can expect that to be challenged or agreed with by others, some seem to take this as a personal attack which its not.
Agree
If you dish it ya gotta be prepared to get as good if not better back. I kinda like how mad I get at some people on threads then a while later you're meeting them and laughing about it. "
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Yes u pointed out the veri thread but the sentiment is correct. One thing I will say if u post an opinion on an open fourm u can expect that to be challenged or agreed with by others, some seem to take this as a personal attack which its not.
Agree
If you dish it ya gotta be prepared to get as good if not better back. I kinda like how mad I get at some people on threads then a while later you're meeting them and laughing about it.
agree with this we all are different and clash sometimes but no point in carrying on with it outside the forums."
No point carrying it to another thread even if u have a point or opinion expressed it debate it and agree to disagree. I seen some snide remarks crossover between threads today which are un called for or warented |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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Agreed, we are just defending freedom of topics..and hoping people can be little less rude ."
Rude people will be rude no matter where they are and unfortunately u have to throw ignorantance in there as well. It costs nothing to be nice even when defending ur opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Agreed, we are just defending freedom of topics..and hoping people can be little less rude .
Rude people will be rude no matter where they are and unfortunately u have to throw ignorantance in there as well. It costs nothing to be nice even when defending ur opinion "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think it is definitely down with that and also with this. But as this sounds just too meek and non confrontational how about the Greeks? Can we at least agree that no one likes the greeks. Or even the Romans.....now they're definitely a dodgy bunch. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Agreed, we are just defending freedom of topics..and hoping people can be little less rude .
Rude people will be rude no matter where they are and unfortunately u have to throw ignorantance in there as well. It costs nothing to be nice even when defending ur opinion "
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Agreed, we are just defending freedom of topics..and hoping people can be little less rude .
Rude people will be rude no matter where they are and unfortunately u have to throw ignorantance in there as well. It costs nothing to be nice even when defending ur opinion "
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Can we at least agree that no one likes the greeks. Or even the Romans.....now they're definitely a dodgy bunch."
The Greeks and the Romans, I like. I mean the Greek enjoyed the orgies and were much liberal sexually than what the Christians. The Romans enjoyed the orgies a little too (Bacchanalia) before forbidding them for good. All in all they had more open approach to sex than Christians, so I am Ok with the two groups.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Agreed, we are just defending freedom of topics..and hoping people can be little less rude .
Rude people will be rude no matter where they are and unfortunately u have to throw ignorantance in there as well. It costs nothing to be nice even when defending ur opinion "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone calm down, no safe is here to sort this mess out.
Firstly this place is not the place for personal attacks, unless you want to personally attack my cock with your mouth mmmmm
Secondly, If I ever post something it is not an oppinion, it is fact so dont disagree with me, it confuses me, I'm like, trying to reword the fact seven different ways sometimes.
That's about it I think, If I think of any more Ill let you all know.
Thanks for reading. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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To the person that just mailed me
And then blocked me from replying
At no stage did I set out to personally attack u or make a snipe at u. I chalanged ur opinion which if u had any conviction u would have defended it I can not and will not be held responsible for others comments. If u whish to unblock me send me mail then block me again fine but it would be better if a comment is made or passed in an open fourm u deal with it in that fourm. Not hiding behind the block button
To the moderator that is about ban me please read the resent mail sent to me and the thread "are the fourms dying" |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Everyone calm down, no safe is here to sort this mess out.
Firstly this place is not the place for personal attacks, unless you want to personally attack my cock with your mouth mmmmm
Secondly, If I ever post something it is not an oppinion, it is fact so dont disagree with me, it confuses me, I'm like, trying to reword the fact seven different ways sometimes.
That's about it I think, If I think of any more Ill let you all know.
Thanks for reading."
Facts are there to be chalanged if we didn't we still be sailing of the edge of the world |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" Can we at least agree that no one likes the greeks. Or even the Romans.....now they're definitely a dodgy bunch.
The Greeks and the Romans, I like. I mean the Greek enjoyed the orgies and were much liberal sexually than what the Christians. The Romans enjoyed the orgies a little too (Bacchanalia) before forbidding them for good. All in all they had more open approach to sex than Christians, so I am Ok with the two groups.
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Agreed, Romans (pre-catholisism) ruled, as did the Greek! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Agreed, we are just defending freedom of topics..and hoping people can be little less rude .
Rude people will be rude no matter where they are and unfortunately u have to throw ignorantance in there as well. It costs nothing to be nice even when defending ur opinion
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+3 or 4...but it's Cj who's the boss!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hope it dont happen cj as you are far from a bully just stating an opinion. Which is freedom of speech your rights to do.
Also not allowing you to comment was pretty unfair too. "
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"Hi there,
Our opinion about some threads
Some users just seem to be judging what you should or shouldn't ask, just because they've been here longer or more actively participating. That doesn't give them the authority to dismiss or tell people what they should or shouldn't do on the forums, we think it's up to the users to reply, or not, with jokes.. or serious answers. Some advises may be handy.
But there's nothing wrong in using the forums to get verified, ask personal questions, of course always in a respectable context.
In our opinion bullying or disrespect should be banned and reported.. anything else? why don't we just relax and let people be
We've been on forums in other country, and to be honest, there seem to be a few quite intimidating, bossy people here (
Of course also a lot of lovely people!)
Greets Rik & Alex
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It's amazing how a post can start off like this and end up in multiple arguments.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Can we at least agree that no one likes the greeks. Or even the Romans.....now they're definitely a dodgy bunch.
The Greeks and the Romans, I like. I mean the Greek enjoyed the orgies and were much liberal sexually than what the Christians. The Romans enjoyed the orgies a little too (Bacchanalia) before forbidding them for good. All in all they had more open approach to sex than Christians, so I am Ok with the two groups.
Agreed, Romans (pre-catholisism) ruled, as did the Greek!"
It seems that all the religions with one whole might God suck big time and they usually do not allow people to be sexually free and at least few of those that enjoyed multiple Gods also were more in favour of multiple sexual partners, even if it was at the same time. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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Agreed, we are just defending freedom of topics..and hoping people can be little less rude .
Rude people will be rude no matter where they are and unfortunately u have to throw ignorantance in there as well. It costs nothing to be nice even when defending ur opinion
+3 or 4...but it's Cj who's the boss!! "
I am not a boss (my says I a can be but I don't believe her what she says goes) or a bully I will state my position and defend it if its denfendable I am just pissed at people using pm to say things then don't allow u to reply. I have and will never abuse any person here no matter what I think of them |
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"I hope it dont happen cj as you are far from a bully just stating an opinion. Which is freedom of speech your rights to do.
Also not allowing you to comment was pretty unfair too. "
Couldnt agree more. No way are you a bully CJ xxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am not a boss (my says I a can be but I don't believe her what she says goes) or a bully I will state my position and defend it if its denfendable I am just pissed at people using pm to say things then don't allow u to reply. I have and will never abuse any person here no matter what I think of them "
You do come across as a respectful guy and you are right so to be pissed of for what happened. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Agreed, we are just defending freedom of topics..and hoping people can be little less rude .
Rude people will be rude no matter where they are and unfortunately u have to throw ignorantance in there as well. It costs nothing to be nice even when defending ur opinion
+3 or 4...but it's Cj who's the boss!!
I am not a boss (my says I a can be but I don't believe her what she says goes) or a bully I will state my position and defend it if its denfendable I am just pissed at people using pm to say things then don't allow u to reply. I have and will never abuse any person here no matter what I think of them "
As should be ... 
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By (user no longer on site)
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Agreed, we are just defending freedom of topics..and hoping people can be little less rude .
Rude people will be rude no matter where they are and unfortunately u have to throw ignorantance in there as well. It costs nothing to be nice even when defending ur opinion
+3 or 4...but it's Cj who's the boss!!
I am not a boss (my says I a can be but I don't believe her what she says goes) or a bully I will state my position and defend it if its denfendable I am just pissed at people using pm to say things then don't allow u to reply. I have and will never abuse any person here no matter what I think of them "
Your one of the most fair people I've ever met! It's horrible to be treated in that manner but unfortunately there's plenty that call people bullys but NEVER have I seen you being abusive!
We a few have very strong opinions and personalitys that's not a bully!!
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By (user no longer on site)
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Off all the people i have met here i must say Cj is one of the nicest, can actually say he is a friend, and i have not many off here so whatever happened is totally unfair |
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"Facts are there to be chalanged if we didn't we still be sailing of the edge of the world "
Well actually they sailed around the world because the theory was for centuries that it was round. So they went out to prove a fact, now it is fact you can not challenge it.
If the clock had been invented before jesus was born we would have proven it round all the way back then.
It's theories and opinions you challenge. Facts are facts. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Unfortunately looks like a opinions on forums theses days are just not allowed. "
Agreed, having and voicing an opinion are fine, the point we were trying to make was about being respectful in the way the opinion is voiced, too many rude, non respectful and downright bullying comments sadly!
Cj is a good example of how we think opinions should be voiced. |
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Agreed, we are just defending freedom of topics..and hoping people can be little less rude .
Rude people will be rude no matter where they are and unfortunately u have to throw ignorantance in there as well. It costs nothing to be nice even when defending ur opinion "
Actually it does cost something to be nice; the opportunity cost of not being nice...which i find too high a price |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are not all going to agree on the same issues.
We should except that we are all not going to agree.
Agree to disagree. "
I dunno if i agree with this 
Haha No good point  |
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Agreed, we are just defending freedom of topics..and hoping people can be little less rude .
Rude people will be rude no matter where they are and unfortunately u have to throw ignorantance in there as well. It costs nothing to be nice even when defending ur opinion
Actually it does cost something to be nice; the opportunity cost of not being nice...which i find too high a price"
I try to be nice  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Facts are there to be chalanged if we didn't we still be sailing of the edge of the world
Well actually they sailed around the world because the theory was for centuries that it was round. So they went out to prove a fact, now it is fact you can not challenge it.
If the clock had been invented before jesus was born we would have proven it round all the way back then.
It's theories and opinions you challenge. Facts are facts."
Lol safey think ull find it was flat and they proved it round. A proven fact is one thing but there are so many unproven facts quoted ull find a lot will chalange them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Facts are there to be chalanged if we didn't we still be sailing of the edge of the world
Well actually they sailed around the world because the theory was for centuries that it was round. So they went out to prove a fact, now it is fact you can not challenge it.
If the clock had been invented before jesus was born we would have proven it round all the way back then.
It's theories and opinions you challenge. Facts are facts.
Lol safey think ull find it was flat and they proved it round. A proven fact is one thing but there are so many unproven facts quoted ull find a lot will chalange them "
Fact: I'm a sex god
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By (user no longer on site)
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A proven fact is one thing but there are so many unproven facts quoted ull find a lot will chalange them "
Unproven facts are called a theory. i am on NSWN on this. Fact is a theory that was proven |
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Lol safey think ull find it was flat and they proved it round. A proven fact is one thing but there are so many unproven facts quoted ull find a lot will chalange them "
There is no such thing as an unproven fact. It is impossible. If it is unproven it is a theory not a fact.
I mean aristotle accepted the world was round 1800 years before columbus was even born.
It is total myth that people at the time of columbus believed the world was flat, it is not true at all, they believed it to be round. There is even a wiki page on how people now believe wrongly that people back then thought the world was flat http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Myth_of_the_Flat_Earth
There was an interesting bbc show about how clocks changed the world, allowing us for the first time to sail east or west with confidence. Before then we had to guesstimate how far we had gone, and people were not comfortable sailing out to the unkown, the risk of getting lost, they were not afraid of falling off the world.
anyway, facts have to be proven. if they are not proven they are not fact just therom or opinion etc. |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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you can't rely on Wikipedia as a reference not one university will accept it as a reference for a paper.
as for facts or theories nothing is a set in stone fact there are always chenges to facts made by academics all the time |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"you can't rely on Wikipedia as a reference not one university will accept it as a reference for a paper.
as for facts or theories nothing is a set in stone fact there are always chenges to facts made by academics all the time "
A man after my own heart but able to explain it better |
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There is even a wiki page on how people now believe wrongly that people back then thought the world was flat http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Myth_of_the_Flat_Earth"
Wikipedia pages are not to be trusted for factual data. The errors and inconsistencies on those pages have been proven by experts ever since Wiki emerged, it's like reading the Beano at times. They can be edited by just about anyone with no knowledge on any said topic and any type of data can be bled into them. |
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"you can't rely on Wikipedia as a reference not one university will accept it as a reference for a paper.
as for facts or theories nothing is a set in stone fact there are always chenges to facts made by academics all the time "
That so makes sense!!  |
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"I think it is definitely down with that and also with this. But as this sounds just too meek and non confrontational how about the Greeks? Can we at least agree that no one likes the greeks. Or even the Romans.....now they're definitely a dodgy bunch."
.......ye......and while your at it.....im no racist. .. but you see the
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"I think it is definitely down with that and also with this. But as this sounds just too meek and non confrontational how about the Greeks? Can we at least agree that no one likes the greeks. Or even the Romans.....now they're definitely a dodgy bunch."
.......ye......and while your at it.....im no racist. .. but you see them Nigerians.. |
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It's a good thread OP. And you are right in your observations. I've being saying it for a long time.
And yet again you see the beautiful boys of Fab, or the knobs, as I prefer to reference them, come out with their insane comments.
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"It's a good thread OP. And you are right in your observations. I've being saying it for a long time.
And yet again you see the beautiful boys of Fab, or the knobs, as I prefer to reference them, come out with their insane comments.
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you're completely contradicting yourself here.
I agree that some people ridicule other people posting on the forum, and that's not ok.
But how is calling people knobs any better than that?
Treat others the way you want to be treated.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Don't be in much here but what a delightful thread.
Totally agree with ye guys.
2 many judgemental people
Let the forum go with the flow
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Yes,exactly |
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