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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does anybody else think it's common courtesy that if you send a photo, you should at LEAST get one back in return?
Even if the person isn't your taste, I think there's too many women on this with over-inflated egos that REALLY need to re-evaluate themselves and be realistic.
Come on guys, let's be honest, how many of the women on this would you set your sights on if you were on a night out? There's not many!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Aye letme, but being asked to send a photo and not even getting a reply or the decency to say, "I'm sorry, you're not for me BUT since you were good enough to send me yours, here's my photo". It's not asking much, know what I mean? |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Aye letme, but being asked to send a photo and not even getting a reply or the decency to say, "I'm sorry, you're not for me BUT since you were good enough to send me yours, here's my photo". It's not asking much, know what I mean? "
Yes I know what u mean but the reference to u wouldn't look twice at in a pub let u down 
It happened me once a cpl msged had a chat and they asked for a face PIC well the small head took over and I sent one to receive no reply. I was gutted I felt violated to be honest but the blood came back to the head and I realised pretty fast onwards and upwards now if someone asks I say I will if u will after that u can only hope  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Like I've mentioned greynsweet, it comes down to decency. Nobody can FORCE you to do anything, but if a guy OR a woman sends a photo and is then blocked or doesn't get a reply or a photo back, isn't that just rude or I am being to naive?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aye letme, but being asked to send a photo and not even getting a reply or the decency to say, "I'm sorry, you're not for me BUT since you were good enough to send me yours, here's my photo". It's not asking much, know what I mean? "
I think that if someone asks for a photo, it's only fair they send one back. But if you just send yours and expect one in return, you're not being fair. Mind you, why would you ever want a photo off anyone on here, when you wouldn't look twice at them on a night out  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anybody else think it's common courtesy that if you send a photo, you should at LEAST get one back in return?
Even if the person isn't your taste, I think there's too many women on this with over-inflated egos that REALLY need to re-evaluate themselves and be realistic.
Come on guys, let's be honest, how many of the women on this would you set your sights on if you were on a night out? There's not many!
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You seem fussy man, girls on here are just playing it safe because off all the fucked up pervs that join sites like this |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"CJ I'm only telling it how it is, no point bullshiting or lying about it. You can use decorum and still be polite and honest about things. "
I agree with the pics part of the op totally know where ur coming from but it takes different folks to make fab go round. Yea we all love to pick up the looker in the club or pub but she may be shite in the sack.for me its simple eye contact or a smile or her replys to simple conversation that gives an insight to her mind. Hell there's one lady here that couldn't look me in the eye the first few times I seen her turned me on mad she did, I hadn't even seen her face.
Can u see where I am coming from now |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What I'm basically saying is, it doesn't take much to send a photo back so things are on an even keel. It's just rude if you block after a decent conversation or are sent a photo and don't return yours.
Just because the ratio of men to women on here is VASTLY in womens favour, doesn't mean you have the option to be RUDE! |
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I don't reckon it's rude if photo was unsolicited - if an exchange of photos was agreed - then it's rude not to send one in return - unless perhaps it's the senders other half - then perhaps best not to send !! |
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"What I'm basically saying is, it doesn't take much to send a photo back so things are on an even keel. It's just rude if you block after a decent conversation or are sent a photo and don't return yours.
Just because the ratio of men to women on here is VASTLY in womens favour, doesn't mean you have the option to be RUDE! "
In a way I am glad ratio is not 50/50. Think back to the start of a new relationship with loads of sex - it can actually get boring after a while - can't believe I'm writing this but it's true. The trill just goes out of it.
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Fair point and in normal circumstances perfectly reasonable argument but this is just not a normal place and to have expectations of what you perceive as courtesy or decent just wont cut it here. My view - you may give it all but just don't expect anything in return. Roll with the rejection and seize the moments when there is a chink of light |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The reason why you're probably not getting a pic back is because the lady doesn't want to meet you? ( I don't mean this in an offensive way) I don't think any woman or man for that matter should feel obliged to send a face pic just because one was sent to them...just my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ah not point in being sensitive on here... I agree with OP to a degree on the frustrations of not even getting a reply to say no thanks considering time was more than likely taken to open the mail and look at his pics. Some decency is lost but this isn't just with females OP this is also couples.
We all have our preferences and just brush it off and don't be as sensitive. |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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"Does anybody else think it's common courtesy that if you send a photo, you should at LEAST get one back in return?
Even if the person isn't your taste, I think there's too many women on this with over-inflated egos that REALLY need to re-evaluate themselves and be realistic.
Come on guys, let's be honest, how many of the women on this would you set your sights on if you were on a night out? There's not many!
You seem fussy man, girls on here are just playing it safe because off all the fucked up pervs that join sites like this"
'Fucked up pervs'!! I bags that for if I decide to change my profile name!!! I said it first!!    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anybody else think it's common courtesy that if you send a photo, you should at LEAST get one back in return?
Even if the person isn't your taste, I think there's too many women on this with over-inflated egos that REALLY need to re-evaluate themselves and be realistic.
Come on guys, let's be honest, how many of the women on this would you set your sights on if you were on a night out? There's not many!
You seem fussy man, girls on here are just playing it safe because off all the fucked up pervs that join sites like this
'Fucked up pervs'!! I bags that for if I decide to change my profile name!!! I said it first!! "
work away bud |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's by no means sour grapes. When you have a good wee conversation with someone and talk about the possibility of meeting up for a coffee and things are going well, it's not nice or acceptable, in my mind, to be blocked straight after you send a photo. That's just rude. The decent thing would have been to send a photo back and say "thanks for your photo, here's mine, but you're not for me". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sending face pics via fab is suicide. ...why do you feel the need anyway? ... we have lots of pics...all bits....and body shots....next stop social. .What's left to see...if you don't like the face. ...walk away. ..we do.......ffs..it will be bank details next.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Common courtesy wouldn't go amiss though Grace. It's not hard.... Pardon the pun. "
If a pic was requested sure it's totally understandable that you'd like one back, however it is at the discretion of the person surely? Like I said before I don't mean any offensive but I know if I didn't want to meet someone I wouldn't particularly want them having a face pic of me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anybody else think it's common courtesy that if you send a photo, you should at LEAST get one back in return?
Even if the person isn't your taste, I think there's too many women on this with over-inflated egos that REALLY need to re-evaluate themselves and be realistic.
Come on guys, let's be honest, how many of the women on this would you set your sights on if you were on a night out? There's not many!
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This place inflates the ego of the unattractive lady because of the sheer numbers of men, hence they prob dont feel they have to reply in kind. Thats just the way it is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So basically your saying if on a night out half of us or more you would not look at twice.
But we ok if you need a quick shag fecking charming. "
Youre only learning this now??? |
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"So basically your saying if on a night out half of us or more you would not look at twice.
But we ok if you need a quick shag fecking charming.
Youre only learning this now???"
and what you mean
I'm well aware of the nature of the site. But connection has to be there I'm not a slot machine just to relieve men oh can't pull in the real world |
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"So basically your saying if on a night out half of us or more you would not look at twice.
But we ok if you need a quick shag fecking charming.
Youre only learning this now???"
and what you mean
I'm well aware of the nature of the site. But connection has to be there I'm not a slot machine just to relieve men oh can't pull in the real world |
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You can tell absolutely nothing from a pic. For me it's the coffee meet You find out what the lady is really like if you have something in common if there is a click. If there is you move to the next stage. If you don't you have a new friend God knows you can't have enough friends |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So basically your saying if on a night out half of us or more you would not look at twice.
But we ok if you need a quick shag fecking charming.
Youre only learning this now???and what you mean
I'm well aware of the nature of the site. But connection has to be there I'm not a slot machine just to relieve men oh can't pull in the real world "
Well im sorry to break it to you, but in this site, yes you are just a slot machine, as you put it. Most men dont need this connection that women do. Thats just the way it is |
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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago
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I'm well aware of the nature of the site. But connection has to be there I'm not a slot machine just to relieve men oh can't pull in the real world
Well im sorry to break it to you, but in this site, yes you are just a slot machine, as you put it. Most men dont need this connection that women do. Thats just the way it is"
Most but not all, thankfully!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So basically your saying if on a night out half of us or more you would not look at twice.
But we ok if you need a quick shag fecking charming.
Youre only learning this now???and what you mean
I'm well aware of the nature of the site. But connection has to be there I'm not a slot machine just to relieve men oh can't pull in the real world
Well im sorry to break it to you, but in this site, yes you are just a slot machine, as you put it. Most men dont need this connection that women do. Thats just the way it is"
Thank god the majority of the men I've met on this site have been nothing like you, you seem to have a major chip on your shoulder regarding this site and the ladies on here, It makes me wonder why you're here at all but hey-ho each to their own....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm well aware of the nature of the site. But connection has to be there I'm not a slot machine just to relieve men oh can't pull in the real world
Well im sorry to break it to you, but in this site, yes you are just a slot machine, as you put it. Most men dont need this connection that women do. Thats just the way it is
Most but not all, thankfully!!"
Many Women use men as just a cock as well, and go through them at a rate of knots...and thats fine, thats what this site facilitates and encourages. Im not quite sure why people get so offended when this is revealed to them, as if some kind of horrific hidden truth |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So basically your saying if on a night out half of us or more you would not look at twice.
But we ok if you need a quick shag fecking charming.
Youre only learning this now???and what you mean
I'm well aware of the nature of the site. But connection has to be there I'm not a slot machine just to relieve men oh can't pull in the real world
Well im sorry to break it to you, but in this site, yes you are just a slot machine, as you put it. Most men dont need this connection that women do. Thats just the way it is
Thank god the majority of the men I've met on this site have been nothing like you, you seem to have a major chip on your shoulder regarding this site and the ladies on here, It makes me wonder why you're here at all but hey-ho each to their own.... "
Im on here to have sex with women, which i do. Does that clear it up for you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So basically your saying if on a night out half of us or more you would not look at twice.
But we ok if you need a quick shag fecking charming.
Youre only learning this now???and what you mean
I'm well aware of the nature of the site. But connection has to be there I'm not a slot machine just to relieve men oh can't pull in the real world
Well im sorry to break it to you, but in this site, yes you are just a slot machine, as you put it. Most men dont need this connection that women do. Thats just the way it is"
you know where you can stick your slot machine |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So basically your saying if on a night out half of us or more you would not look at twice.
But we ok if you need a quick shag fecking charming.
Youre only learning this now???and what you mean
I'm well aware of the nature of the site. But connection has to be there I'm not a slot machine just to relieve men oh can't pull in the real world
Well im sorry to break it to you, but in this site, yes you are just a slot machine, as you put it. Most men dont need this connection that women do. Thats just the way it is
Thank god the majority of the men I've met on this site have been nothing like you, you seem to have a major chip on your shoulder regarding this site and the ladies on here, It makes me wonder why you're here at all but hey-ho each to their own....
Im on here to have sex with women, which i do. Does that clear it up for you?"
Oh so you can't get any outside of this site? The pretty ones tell you to go take a hike lol
what an idiot?????? |
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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago
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I'm well aware of the nature of the site. But connection has to be there I'm not a slot machine just to relieve men oh can't pull in the real world
Well im sorry to break it to you, but in this site, yes you are just a slot machine, as you put it. Most men dont need this connection that women do. Thats just the way it is
Most but not all, thankfully!!
Many Women use men as just a cock as well, and go through them at a rate of knots...and thats fine, thats what this site facilitates and encourages. Im not quite sure why people get so offended when this is revealed to them, as if some kind of horrific hidden truth"
Not offended in the least here. Your entitled to your opinion however I wouldn't put myself or most of the women on here in that category. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So basically your saying if on a night out half of us or more you would not look at twice.
But we ok if you need a quick shag fecking charming.
Youre only learning this now???and what you mean
I'm well aware of the nature of the site. But connection has to be there I'm not a slot machine just to relieve men oh can't pull in the real world
Well im sorry to break it to you, but in this site, yes you are just a slot machine, as you put it. Most men dont need this connection that women do. Thats just the way it is
Thank god the majority of the men I've met on this site have been nothing like you, you seem to have a major chip on your shoulder regarding this site and the ladies on here, It makes me wonder why you're here at all but hey-ho each to their own....
Im on here to have sex with women, which i do. Does that clear it up for you?
Oh so you can't get any outside of this site? The pretty ones tell you to go take a hike lol
what an idiot??????"
You really are a dignified lady arent you... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Aye letme, but being asked to send a photo and not even getting a reply or the decency to say, "I'm sorry, you're not for me BUT since you were good enough to send me yours, here's my photo". It's not asking much, know what I mean? I think that if someone asks for a photo, it's only fair they send one back. But if you just send yours and expect one in return, you're not being fair. Mind you, why would you ever want a photo off anyone on here, when you wouldn't look twice at them on a night out "
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